smallsmall:


You said it all, with the bolded part of your post!
See ehn, l can cook more than my wife sef because l was raised cooking, by my Mum, right from when l was taller than the Stove!
And l just dont dump and mix ingredients, l have delved into the "Science of why some food taste better than others" and believe me, as good as my wife can cook, she admits that eating what l cook occassionally, makes her day!

But God forbid she says to me "If you can cook yourself, then you are not eating in this house" or l wake up and say to her "You have to add your own half to Children's Tuition".

We both have our roles in that house but th eother person can assist in your role, strictly by Choice.
I cook anytime l want to or have the time and l enjoy doing it during those times. As a DIY person, l like doing house chores (I can practically repair anything in the house, though l spoiled a few in the process, during my learning curve ) but it will really, really break the relationship if my wife ever insists l do something in the house! The operative word here is "INSISTS".

What l have come to understand is that the Women that enjoy marriage, are not necessarily th eones that have chains of degrees or earn $500,000 or have very long nails with tatoos all over their body, they are the women who know how to allow their husband take care of them, without insisting or pushing it as A DUTY.
If you love a woman/wife, you will do anything for her but how can you love a woman who has turned herself into a COMPETITOR in the family home? E nor dey work o.

punisha:



Ibeto?

Heavensent01:



that's your choice now, will you allow me make mine? we aren't family member in case you forget

oyewale0001:



Why are u attacking every comment against not marrying Nigeria-America girls. Is it by force to marry them.

pacespot:
Some people put a hardwork behind their efforts to make the country they are proud to call home great, let them come back to make Nigeria great too. Being a Nigerian from America is very easy

osazuwa23:
There personality are to americkana for me but also to nigerianish which can have it bad and good side I am nigerian american myself born in the us to a black american mom but i never really liked nigerian women regardless if there born in yankee or naija. I have a thing for east african women ethiopian eritrean uganda rwanda and south african and central. The yabkee accent that majority carry in there voices annoy me . most nigerian american born in the sates are snobish and stuck up. i take an ethiopian ugandian and rwanda over a nigerian lady any time any day

Crispels:


Well, when you are in the diaspora, people care less about your ethnic group. They see you as someone of Nigerian descent. Most countries in the world have shady histories. Even some founders of America were slave owners, murderers and imperialists. So, no be only Naija get K-leg.

1Sharon:


That's not the issue, it's that word "submissive"


Y'all sound so primitive I swear

1Sharon:


Were you shipped back home or something?

Arent you used to the american accent?

oyewale0001:



My dear "submissive" can be subjective or objective, it is base on individual tribe, culture and region believe.

I wish you the best in your own understanding on "submissive " and I pray it will continue to work in your favor.

osazuwa23:
I go to nigeria almost every holiday and i went to bording school as well for for a year when i was young. I am used to the accent but hearing almost everyday singke day is annoying especially from nigerian americans and the nigerian who come abroad and try to force it instead of being themselves. The accent sounds to posh and oyiboish

Palema007:
what's ibeto?

1Sharon:


OK so your issue is ppl faking the accent?

If they were born in America how else should they speak

And you don't sound like you have an American mom

ogbonti:


An American girl is not swayed by you attending Harvard or having a 6 figure job - or you looking a certain way or what their parents think about you. IF you guys click - and you act right in the relationship (which is not really much) you can have a happy home even if you ride a 2002 Toyota Camry or 2021 Mercedez Benz 4matic =

konkonbilo:
So short guys no get hope be that

ogbonti:
want to live long ? - avoid Nigerian females in AMERICA - they are the most repulsive and recalcitrant sets of humans on the face of the earth!!!

All those who were born here to Nigerian parents and most who came here as adults ARE ALMOST the same in their character

REASON - they will always put you on edge and you will never have peace of mind - because of their unrealistic standards they set for themselves

someone is always gonna be ahead of you in your career and education - so when that person indicates interest in them - you are toast!

I did not leave Nigeria to come to America to continue the senseless pressure society placed on us back home in Africa.

That is why I am married to an American and I am successful and I am not living my life - competing with anyone or trying to live up to anyone


I REPEAT - IF YOU WANT TO BE ON HYPERTENSION MEDICATION FOREVER - DATE AND MARRY A NIGERIAN WOMAN IN AMERICA - AND YOUR ROOM WILL BE RESERVED IN THE FUTURE CLOSE TO HUSHPUPPI'S ROOM IN THE AMERICAN CRIMINAL JUSTICE SYSTEM

It is this desire to measure up to some crazy standards of the OP that has made some Nigerian men delve into the world of crime!



Be guided, be wise!!!!

martowskin1:


Cooks or slave indeed. How this generation now term cooking to slavery baffles me

Profkenny1:
Nigerian women in the US are WORSE than akatas! I now avoid them like the plague. Guys, if you want a peaceful life, please even don't touch them with a ten-foot pole.

BeeBeeOoh:
This your comment made me laugh out real loud honestly.




But, wetin cum konsan short guys and this thread nah

Tobsam237:
Cons:
* Most have manners issues
* Most prefer a white guy over you and will gladly drop their standards
* Most see marrying a 9ja immigrant has helping him and expect you to be a simp
* Most will gladly send you to jail if you dare them in marraige
* Most take advantage of the system

But some are wonderful creatures

Profkenny1:


100% with the bolded! These creatures would expect a black guy to be at least 6'2" tall but you will see them date a 5'6" fat white man.

salford1:

The Girl in white top is British though.

osazuwa23:
IN all honestly having lived in nigeria and seen nigeria women it is really a hit or miss with nigerian women regrdless if there born in america or naija. You can find a good looking ones with the stoneage mentality that they carried from naija you can find an ugly one physical wise who just as backward as how she left naija or you can find one that beautiful and and has a beautiful personality. There ugly nigerian girls that physically ugly but beautiful personality wise. Nigerian women are beautiful but ther not theb type pf african women that will blow you away when you see them from afar compared to uganda rwanda eritrean and ethiopian and south african and liberia

1Sharon:


Cos they're easier to control right?

konkonbilo:
You no see where the op say dem like tall guys.. I need to ask for short people nao.