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Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by ImaIma1(f): 5:48pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
frisky2good: He cannot imagine his mum betraying his dad and re-marrying. He is rather comfortable with the fact that his mum will live with the loneliness just so that he is comforted that his mum remains faithful to his dad even in death. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by folks4luv(f): 5:49pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
I wanted to blame your gf from the title but after reading your post, I've got to say, you are very childish and you need a lot of growing up to do Mvici: 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Baffupdrizz(m): 6:19pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
Times have changed. Your mom is from a different generation from your babe. Your babe is trying to tell you that she thinks you are a mummy's boy and you should find someone else to do that full time because very soon (emphasis on VERY), She will no longer be able to share your time between herself and your mum. |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by franugo(m): 6:26pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
DexterousOne: Well....I really tried not to be condescending in my reply to the op so he'd try to at least see reason. You're right tho, there's plenty like the op out there |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by oshorstan(m): 6:55pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
Ginomel: Yes companionship is a life giver. but she has a choice |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by saintvc(m): 7:26pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
Mvici: When you both finally get married, the main loneliness will come in.your mum will over intrude in your marriage life something no wife loves. Your gf understand women more than you do. it has nothing to do with sex. every woman loves attention. If her husband is not there to give her, she gets it from her children. if children are not there, wahala go dey |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by frisky2good(m): 7:38pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
ImaIma1: Ridiculous! |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Foodqueen(f): 7:40pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
makydebbie: You are very stupid. You are definitely one of those girls that have no brain. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Temhellen(f): 7:42pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
Kriss216:Am sure u will one day get married to one of those senseless Nigerian girls who knows nothing aside Ufck or u rather remain single |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by omobeey(f): 8:00pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
Seconded! The guy is really stupid. It was a mere suggestion it's either you take it or leave it. bluefilm: |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Sixfeetbelle: 9:39pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
Kenstufez: Did you miss the part where I said they deal better with people their age group? This @ bold defeats the idea. Besides, in the same Igbo land, a widow of that age can remarry to keep. Usually pushed into effect by the in-laws. Ikuchi nwanyi, I believe. |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Kenstufez: 10:07pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
Ikuchi nwanyi is for ladies there husband died so early and they have little kids. The relatives suggests she take one of the kingsmen so he can assist in bringing up the kids and also stay for the family( most important reason is for the man to continue impregnating her so as to produce more kids for the family). Ikuchi nwanyi sometimes are even forced on widows against their will. It doesn't work for ladies with adult children of over 30years, never!. Any woman that has married for 30years and lost her husband doesn't need to mess around in the community. Its a family disgrace, period! Sixfeetbelle: 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by streetzdreamz(m): 10:08pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
so many babies on this forum parading as men,she gave an advice, you told your mum who didn't buy the idea,then you automatically lost confidence in her, do you even have confidence in yourself to start with?I know how lonely my mum is whenever I'm not home, we've all told her to remarry a couple years after dad's death but she wouldn't, so if my girlfriend gives me such a suggestion,I'll never ever use it against her,and to think some people here are spewing rubbish about it all is appalling, a saying goes "lucky is the spouse that dies first, who never gets to know what their partner endures" your choice,your mum,your girl but it's foolish bringing it up here as though the lady did or said anything wrong,when a man loses his wife it only takes a lil while before he remarries,but when it's a woman reverse is the case,Lord knows if I end up marrying,and go early I wouldn't want my wife to go through half of what my mum went through..... traditions or cultures me ass! 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Kenstufez: 10:12pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
What would you say about a 70years old that lost their over 50 years companion? Would you also suggest they get married to another man bc they need a companion? Most times we don't always get what we want, life happens and we take things as we see them. Kids and pets are not there to replace the absence of a man but its a way of stopping them busy and avoiding unnecessary thinking to some extent. Sixfeetbelle: 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Chris2863(m): 10:39pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
Look at this OP, Hahaha, how are you sure she is even planning or will agree to marry you. You are obviously a child |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Kriss216: 11:10pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
Temhellen:I like your gown |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Candoit: 11:28pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
Did no one notice the ,"if I wife her" part? Where did that come from, OP? |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by AuroraB(f): 11:44pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
Mvici:Now I know you are a punk. Why is this post not in joke section |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by makydebbie(f): 11:59pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
Foodqueen:Get the fvck out of my mentions dumb thing. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by GreenDee(f): 12:43am On Jul 06, 2020 |
So these has become an issue mtchww, relationship and it's wahala sha |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by wjxavier(m): 4:34am On Jul 06, 2020 |
Na this one off me. 1992 “pikin”. You were 20 years old 8 years ago, and you still consider yourself a child. My dear, face your book. You have no business with a mature girl. When (hopefully) you get wise, you will realize she was telling you because she was planning for her marital home. No wife wants a mother in law who will be squatting 24/7 with her husband. If you miss this, you could miss heaven. Because wisdom is the true heaven. Mvici: |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by wjxavier(m): 4:36am On Jul 06, 2020 |
I wish I could like this a million times. streetzdreamz: 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by DECENCY3: 8:28am On Jul 06, 2020 |
She gave a good advise though that shouldn't be her concern but your mom entering another relationship is not just for the sex but companionship. Very soon you will start your own family, reality will set in because certainly she will be left alone. Bringing her into your home will depend on the kind of wife you will marry but for how long will she continue to live with you. It's an honest advise. No need to pick offence. Final decision depends on her to make, not yours or your girlfriend |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Larcardii(f): 8:32am On Jul 06, 2020 |
Grow up and stop reasoning like a child Mvici: |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Mvici: 1:19pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Chris2863:why would she marry me when Christopher is here to snatch her old man. |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by phabulous88(m): 1:41pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Kenstufez: Who said anything about sex or sleeping around? I wasn't even thinking about sex when I sent my response. As you grow older and get wiser, you will realize that people get married for so many reasons other than sex. Companionship, Security, Love and sense of feeling complete are some reasons why people get married. |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by girl002: 1:43pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
There is absolutely nothing wrong in what your girlfriend said. You have spoken to your mum about it and she has told you her stand on the matter. The vow says, till death do us part. They are not bound together anymore. If she decides not to marry agian, its her choice and if she also decides to marry again, there's absolutely nothing wrong too |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by girl002: 1:48pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Shut up. Someone will marry her. What do you know? phabulous88: |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by phabulous88(m): 2:07pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
girl002: If you have taken time to read my previous post (quoted below), you would have seen that I am in support of his mum getting married. Be careful with your words, take time to read, understand and don't be too quick to abuse people. If not, you will have serious problem in life, family and business. phabulous88: |
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