ollins:
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ollins:
Let me cut the story short. Had a fling with this girl, along the line she got pregnant. You know all that talk of "if you could sleep with her, then you must marry her" "if you got her pregnant then you must marry her", Iooking back now, I wished I hadn't listened to all those voices.

I knew in my heart that I didn't love her, even she knew but the pressure from the family was too much, I had to marry her. On my marriage day I was practically crying within me.

Her character is just opposite of all I wanted in a woman, she's barely educated, loud and loquacious.

That's my cross I am carrying today, stuck in a loveless marriage.

The warmth and Romance is absent from our home, we have not had intimacy since beginning of the year till now, we just have no interest anymore in each other. We are just living together for the sake of our child.

My question now is how does one cope�? Is this how I am going to live the rest of my life?

Toks2008:


I'm not talking about beauty and the beast. I'm talking about normal humans but nevertheless, your mum still coped. There is no perfect marriage so let's not deceive ourselves.

bukatyne:


Brother Ollins,

If this lady is as terrible as this, how were you able to get an erection to stick it into her?

How did you start the toasting to get her into your bed and arms?

The same magic you worked to get her pregnant, use it again.

It is in you like peak!

ImaIma1:
I guess sex happened or she just fell pregnant.

If not, why get intimate with someone you can't seem to stand.

katyamizotta:


From experience I can tell that you will ask this question every year until you release that girl from this loveless marriage.

From your story you do not have a seed to use to repair this marriage: you were in despair on your wedding day! Where do you start to repair that from?

Go read my story. I have lived this for 8 or 9 years. It doesn't get better

But if you decide to quit try this first. Find a grandma to dump the kid with for a few hours at the weekend and go to fun places. Try not to think of yourselves in a couple situation. Just go out as acquaintances who knows....perhaps there is a seed somewhere afterall

ollins:
Let me cut the story short. Had a fling with this girl, along the line she got pregnant. You know all that talk of "if you could sleep with her, then you must marry her" "if you got her pregnant then you must marry her", Iooking back now, I wished I hadn't listened to all those voices.

I knew in my heart that I didn't love her, even she knew but the pressure from the family was too much, I had to marry her. On my marriage day I was practically crying within me.

Her character is just opposite of all I wanted in a woman, she's barely educated, loud and loquacious.

That's my cross I am carrying today, stuck in a loveless marriage.

The warmth and Romance is absent from our home, we have not had intimacy since beginning of the year till now, we just have no interest anymore in each other. We are just living together for the sake of our child.

My question now is how does one cope�? Is this how I am going to live the rest of my life?

ollins:
Let me cut the story short. Had a fling with this girl, along the line she got pregnant. You know all that talk of "if you could sleep with her, then you must marry her" "if you got her pregnant then you must marry her", Iooking back now, I wished I hadn't listened to all those voices.

I knew in my heart that I didn't love her, even she knew but the pressure from the family was too much, I had to marry her. On my marriage day I was practically crying within me.

Her character is just opposite of all I wanted in a woman, she's barely educated, loud and loquacious.

That's my cross I am carrying today, stuck in a loveless marriage.

The warmth and Romance is absent from our home, we have not had intimacy since beginning of the year till now, we just have no interest anymore in each other. We are just living together for the sake of our child.

My question now is how does one cope�? Is this how I am going to live the rest of my life?

bukatyne:


Brother Ollins,

If this lady is as terrible as this, how were you able to get an erection to stick it into her?

How did you start the toasting to get her into your bed and arms?

The same magic you worked to get her pregnant, use it again.

It is in you like peak!

rigarmortis:


an erect dikc has no conscience.

secondly, do you know what the head of the dikc is very soft?,,,,,simple. its because inside the head of the dikc, there is no brain, not a single brain cell.

ollins:
Let me cut the story short. Had a fling with this girl, along the line she got pregnant. You know all that talk of "if you could sleep with her, then you must marry her" "if you got her pregnant then you must marry her", Iooking back now, I wished I hadn't listened to all those voices.

I knew in my heart that I didn't love her, even she knew but the pressure from the family was too much, I had to marry her. On my marriage day I was practically crying within me.

Her character is just opposite of all I wanted in a woman, she's barely educated, loud and loquacious.

That's my cross I am carrying today, stuck in a loveless marriage.

The warmth and Romance is absent from our home, we have not had intimacy since beginning of the year till now, we just have no interest anymore in each other. We are just living together for the sake of our child.

My question now is how does one cope�? Is this how I am going to live the rest of my life?

Candoit:
So, now you want us to give you a license for divorce?

No.

Marriage is for better for worse and till death do you part.

I don't pity people like you one bit. When you were with her, she was all wonderful and the perfect one. Now, it's marriage, you're suddenly finding faults.

Receive grace to enjoy your marriage.

sylve11:
You're in for a long thing.
In the hay days when you're telling her you loved her just to spread her like bedsheet on top a sheet, so you're telling lies, isn't it?

I will not say much because If you nor know how song take start make you no go hurry dance put, before you go dance GARALA inside ASONTO....

veave:
You mustn't stay married to anyone you're not in love with. It is still early to set her free, set yourself free as well for your sound mind. If you stay there, both of you will live in frustration and I bet you don't want to build a home in disarray.
Initially she would cry and lament but trust me she'd get someone else to love her properly and so would you.
No one is coming to this world twice, this one you're sure of, yank off any and everything that would cause you discomfort. You don't want to wake up one day in your 50s or 70s full of regrets and what ifs.

Please make sure to maintain civility while at it.
Thanks.

ollins:
Let me cut the story short. Had a fling with this girl, along the line she got pregnant. You know all that talk of "if you could sleep with her, then you must marry her" "if you got her pregnant then you must marry her", Iooking back now, I wished I hadn't listened to all those voices.

I knew in my heart that I didn't love her, even she knew but the pressure from the family was too much, I had to marry her. On my marriage day I was practically crying within me.

Her character is just opposite of all I wanted in a woman, she's barely educated, loud and loquacious.

That's my cross I am carrying today, stuck in a loveless marriage.

The warmth and Romance is absent from our home, we have not had intimacy since beginning of the year till now, we just have no interest anymore in each other. We are just living together for the sake of our child.

My question now is how does one cope�? Is this how I am going to live the rest of my life?

baby124:

Did he tell you he met his wife on the side of the road? If she’s an Ashewo then so is he and they should stay together and make their marriage work. Who understands and Ashawo better than her customer and Vice versa?

veave:
You mustn't stay married to anyone you're not in love with. It is still early to set her free, set yourself free as well for your sound mind. If you stay there, both of you will live in frustration and I bet you don't want to build a home in disarray.
Initially she would cry and lament but trust me she'd get someone else to love her properly and so would you.
No one is coming to this world twice, this one you're sure of, yank off any and everything that would cause you discomfort. You don't want to wake up one day in your 50s or 70s full of regrets and what ifs.

Please make sure to maintain civility while at it.
Thanks.

ELKHALIFAISIS:
I nearly made same mistake, had a flinch with this loudy troublesome fellow , she got preg and hided it for me for 7mnths so I won't tell her to abort it, ask me how she managed to hide it, she stop showing up uninvited to my place as before, immediately the preg reach 7mnths she started disturbing, we went for scan it's a month ahead of my own calculation, I decided to keep cool , I kept her in my rented flat to stay there instead of living with me, her mother forced me into doing some rites against my wish or informing family members, well I do so peace will reign, even in her preg she tried to fought me twice because she said she need sex and am not giving her as she wanted it, fast forward to labour day, all the 10k I gave her every week for check , my heaven she managed to go twice the rest she pocketed the money, 4 days hard labour, to make the matter worst I gave her money to register at good hospital but she ate the money and registered at local maternity, now e don red , the person in charge of the maternity don't knw what to do next , after trying unsuccessfully in the labour room, the baby refused to come out , she then said oga carry her find another place oooo nah operation straight, we went to couple of hospitals the refuses to take her in, because the baby's head is already out but the body can't pass through because the baby died days ago in the stomach, but the 4th hospital took her in but the bill is crazy, anyway wetin local man go do nah my prick cause am , all I want is for her to live even if it's going to cost me the last Kobo in my account, if u dey do with ngwa girl omo u are in for it, before u knw it her brothers has cycled around the hospital with dangerous weapon waiting for their sister to die, I had to transfer money to the hospital acc so the emergency c&s will commence, i even donate my blood oo, the doc insist I must be in the operation room so I won't run away if anything happens, I dey there dey follow bring things , thank God the operation was successful, I had to call my Army friend to come with his troops too move me because if I dare step outside my name nah sorry, I dropped some cash with her mom to take care of her , 2 months after the incidents she start coming again , she needed sex , my prick nah E-diot I do small but I pull it out and put condom after small sense enter me, this is 3yrs the thing happened, she chatted me up few weeks ago that she will kill herself that nobody is looking her way , any man that come to her and want to marry always ran after they find out she don born before, but I guess nah her troublesome wayward lifestyle they drove them away,


Moral lesson

if u don't love her please use condoms Maka uta

bukatyne:


Brother Ollins,

If this lady is as terrible as this, how were you able to get an erection to stick it into her?

How did you start the toasting to get her into your bed and arms?

The same magic you worked to get her pregnant, use it again.

It is in you like peak!

HembaqMbk:
Bible says "Love your wife". It is a commandment. So just love her. It is the only way to cope.

AnanseK:


What’s the difference with Ashewo? This was not rape. It was a consensual sex outside marriage and perhaps some money has changed hands before or after. Same as Ashewo. No difference.