poweredcom:


Yes na as long as there is no solid source of income and if the guy is not from a wealthy home omo na Yahoo

Na gals own worst pass any lady you see that have a posh ride omo forget her na one sugar daddy buy am for am

That is why our actresses in Nollywood especially bthe newer ones de quick build house and buy car and their male counterpart nno de even see the light like that

Power of obo

Jaqenhghar:
My experience with (two) chics with cars back then wasnt palatable. I didnt have a car then. By the time I dated a third I had to make some rules like not accepting lifts except you have to, dont drive her car.. ever. I noticed however that when you have your own car , their gra graa is reduced

AntiWailer:
Marry from your class.

You can't marry a girl that is driving a car and u expect her to think the way u think when u sit inside commercial Bus.

So when the car has issues and the two of you need to go out, u will still claim u cnt afford Uber or Bolt that she should be understanding.

See Bro, Marry from your class to avoid stories that touch. It should not even be up for debates.

When you marry from your class all the nonsense you need to feed your Ego is readily available. Cont come and stress another person's daughter.

It is that simple.

Gerrard59:


It's hypergamy, no harm feelings. I'm amused when Nigerian males don't factor that aspect of women in discussions about relationships and marriage.

pocohantas:


Thank you my sister. My car is a sedan, but I swapped with my mum’s SUV, since she prefers a sedan. I had people approach me, with or without cars. The stares in traffic on my way home from work were even embarrassing. Driving was just easier for me- a necessity, it wasn’t a status symbol. I took a break from driving for health reasons and now I just want someone’s son to drive me, while I press my phone and massage his laps.

Jaqenhghar:

Mtcheeew hypergamy( had to look it up). Is that what you think? LOL. So having a car automatically means you are above someone socially. Thats the shithole reasoning you people propagate in that dump of a country. Actually its the person who has been marinated in poverty that feels that owning a car automatically gives him status. Money cant buy classmy friend

Gerrard59:


Nigeria has the highest number of poor people in the world so driving a car no matter how old is social symbol. So it shouldn't be surprising, the citizens are poor.

marvelck:
Back in the day, single ladies that own cars were usually advised not to flaunt their cars or let guys know they own a car, in order not to chase men away from marrying them.

Unmarried ladies that own cars then were tagged all sort of names. But a lot has changed since then. Most guys even prefer going after ladies that own cars and houses these days. And e get why �

marvelck:
Back in the day, single ladies that own cars were usually advised not to flaunt their cars or let guys know they own a car, in order not to chase men away from marrying them.

Unmarried ladies that own cars then were tagged all sort of names. But a lot has changed since then. Most guys even prefer going after ladies that own cars and houses these days. And e get why �

Gerrard59:


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Gerrard59:


So there are no ladies who work in reputable organisations and manage thriving businesses that can comfortably afford posh cars as spinsters?

The kind of reasoning from some males is appalling and maybe that's one of the reasons behind the toxic brand of feminism in the country.

poweredcom:


That is why I said unknown source of income. Ant you understand

You think say man na small pikin or wat

We know how these Nollywood actress do na ..na today abeg relax
Even if a lady works in a reputable organization if she don't sleep with the boss . That is of she got what Everyman want omo ladies will do that to get what they want abeg we Don see Dem plenty

The ones wey de go Dubai nkor come back launch ride

Yes there are ladies who work for theirs but their cars ain't as flashy ..abi you think say e easy to buy new car

Gerrard59:


So there are no ladies who work in reputable organisations and manage thriving businesses that can comfortably afford posh cars as spinsters?

The kind of reasoning from some males is appalling and maybe that's one of the reasons behind the toxic brand of feminism in the country.

SweetCunt97:
And that one is bad?

ZINIBANKS:

How much is it

careytommy37:

It's obvious you will never meet a well to do babe

UniqueQueen12:
Lol. Okay make I go sell my car

SweetCunt97:
many sir. Move out of ur street and see them in banks, parastatals, markets, govt agencies. You simply just sounded like a recluse

sonnie10:


You can't control nothing without money. See let me tell you, marriage is different, you are both permanent residence in the same house, so no games, dodging of responsibility or attitude would give you any form of break.
There is nothing like acting matured when you are broke.
You just have to work harder and make money to avoid unnecessary embarrassment. Think about it, in the morning you wait outside for bus to go to work while your wife zooms off in a private car. Assuming you live in a one bedroom apartment, is that where she would be parking her benz?
There are things that would even happen and you question the rational of having a car in your household.
Say for a guy that earns #150k a month, and the wife spends 10k of her own money to fuel her car every month. That might even translate to the guys monthly saving. Is it not irrational spending for the household collectively from the guys perspective?
How does it even sound for someone who spends 10k on fuel for her car every week, to come and ask you for 5k for soup or stew money for the week?

abbiboy:

U knw nothing.

SweetCunt97:
21 but you actually have sense.

simplepee:
Men who are scared of those kind of ladies are usually the ones that wants women to worship them. Run from them, they'll be very jealous of their wife's achievements.

They always want to take control, marriage go come turn competition, tufia.

comshots:
Where she get money take buy car as a secretary who earns #30k per month?.
Besides,a lady who owns a car tend to be arrogant and disrespectful to elders.
Even the beautiful ones without a ride possess entitlement and ego mentality.The can manipulate you with their borehole that you will think they have not seen prickk since they were born.

bukkysam:
Gone are the days when men still have shame. We are in shameless society now

sonnie10:
Man way never buy car want to go and marry a woman that already owns a car? That means her salary is probably higher than the supposed husbands.
How or what are you even going to use to trip such a woman ?

uuzba:

My sister was doing a simple job and managed to buy one small Toyota.
At that time, her fiance (Now husband), was roaming the street looking for work with 3rd Class degree.
Guy no dey even near our house. Sister was just quiet and prayerful about everything.
Later, the guy threw away all his degree and used SSCE to join Helicopter pilot (Caverten). God save am. They took him. Small money enter him hand, he ran to buy V-Boot 2nd hand Benz.
Immediately he bought that one, he now proposed marriage. Na that time we come dey see him face for our house.
He's still a pilot anyway and has bought 2 other cars. As for my sister she too has bought 2 other cars.
They dashed and sold off the old ones. So they both each have 1 car now

bukatyne:


Interesting.

I hope the husband doesn't see everything as a competition?

bukatyne:


What happens if the woman's salary tripled in the cause of the marriage? The husband divorces her?

marvelck:
Back in the day, single ladies that own cars were usually advised not to flaunt their cars or let guys know they own a car, in order not to chase men away from marrying them.

Unmarried ladies that own cars then were tagged all sort of names. But a lot has changed since then. Most guys even prefer going after ladies that own cars and houses these days. And e get why