THUNDAR:
Seriously guys! things are not Really what they seems on the first date, just because she asked "can you take care of me" on the first date does not mean Jack, there are smart and intelligent ladies Who would purposely say annoying things on first date to see How you react, and may turn up to be independent women. just the way you keep checklists and tick Which she fails and passes so some of them do too. But some of them (a lot actually) na Akamu they say it as they feel!

Are you minding the crybabies? She probably doesn't want a liability herself. Someone that will be giving her "I don't have airtime, data bullcrap".

walezy85:
Lack of understanding causes it,if only they realized that God made them to be helpmate not to be solely depend on the Man but to support

So Mr such question mean they cannot be help meet? Unfortunately some certain social media ideologies have eaten deep into you men brain and d break down of relationships and marriages is the after effect. Soon that institutions won't mean jack.

blinkz4real:
"Can u take care of me" is not always what ur small mind is telling u she is thinking. She could mean can u be my support system, can I really share my thots n feelings 2 u n u won't tk me 4granted or tk advantage of me, can I confide in u, can u be a person who can advise her on d right path 2 success. How abt that?

Don't always think its ur money she is after bros, have respect 4 women pls n if others do it don't assume all of dem re like that.

Moreover u re the man are u not suppose 2 take care of ur woman? Anyway sha its for matured n responsible men 2 undstnd but pls try 2 reason things positively n u ll c women respect n adore u.

Read what you wrote up there yourself...does it make sense to even you

SweetCunt97:
So Mr such question mean they cannot be help meet? Unfortunately some certain social media ideologies have eaten deep into you men brain and d break down of relationships and marriages is the after effect. Soon that institutions won't mean jack.

can you be the help mate and support you're bf or husband financially when you don't have even if it means taking a loan

Tabasco23:
can you be the help mate and support you're bf or husband financially when you don't have even if it means taking a loan

See look it solely depends on the man. If he has a good head on his shoulder, yes I'll give him such financial support he needs knowing things will b fine. But if na dem money miss road type, omo definitely will keep my personal money personal before he throws both of us into penury.

jawalis:

I knew that before coming to woo her. So I must bl££p that pvssy

some pussy will devalue u if u bleep it, learn to say no and walk away

SweetCunt97:
See look it solely depends on the man. If he has a good head on his shoulder, yes I'll give him such financial support he needs knowing things will b fine. But if na dem money miss road type, omo definitely will keep my personal money personal before he throws both of us into penury.

alright I don't see any Problems there

SweetCunt97:
You crybabies should go listen to Bill Withers song "Lean On Me" and be wise. Generation on mature responsible men is fast eroding unfortunately.

I can easily take care of you but I'd be your lord. It is very easy. I'm a traditional man

It's only gold digger or immature that will ask that stupid question....
It happened to me some months back she said "Can you settle all my bills....

one girl asked me this question last week....me wey i just dey whine her

Just for asking her out and she ask me that one kwa lol? No wahala as far u r a Virgin at 25,graduate of medicine, never had alcohol, never saw porn, gainfully employed, never had an ex , u just relass n I'll take Kia of u

RealEzee:
Just for asking her out and she ask me that one kwa lol? No wahala as far u r a Virgin at 25,graduate of medicine, never had alcohol, never saw porn, gainfully employed, never had an ex , u just relass n I'll take Kia of u

Hahaha. I also need a graduate of medicine to take care of.

But I doubt if I could find one on Nairaland.

Nuel4:
I can easily take care of you but I'd be your lord. It is very easy. I'm a traditional man

If he wants to be my lord, fine. I'll be his Empress. Taking care of me doesn't in anyway mean I'm destitute or incapacitated.

DaddyRochie1642:
I Hate Selfish Self Centered Women With Passion.

Most of them are just mentally broke girls

Spysees:
I just asked one my homies; yo nigga, what you gon'do? He replied, yo Spysees!... *smiles* I'mma say YES! Then proceed to hit her sweetcunt97 times, suck/f0ndle her succulent sweetbuns senselessly like a crazyman, thereafter dump her mothafuckin' a$$ and move on like Willy Rozz.... *grin* I won't try that shiit, got no time to waste, not even a sec!

why did you mention me

U will know a woman that likes u from d very day u meet her. We are only decieve by our infactuations not to accept she dosent like us. A real man knows when to back off. All those questions guys ask in nairaland about women is just to find a purpose not to feel shameless of themselves.

Ww

XshegzzyeeiX:
Good morning. Romancelanders.
Welcome to midweek.

So I'm of the opinion that in a relationship, a man and a woman ought to care for one another. But some women feel so entitled that they only expect a man to take care of them without reciprocating the gestures.

It's very wrong for a woman to bring that statement of "can you take care of me?" when I ask her out. I brandish her a red card immediately she makes such statement.

I detest selfish women, and I believe so many others do.

Only simps welcome such waywardness.

PS: I've braced up for your criticisms, insults and cuss words.

Feminists, waddaya have to say.
Alpha males, what's your take on this matter.
White Knights, let's hear you out.

Is it right or totally wrong for a woman to pop that question "can you take care of me" when you ask her out?

This your write-up is called Theory. In Life, it is not practical


Practical African culture places the man as the provider for the woman. So men grow up knowing that responsibility is theirs. infact it is almost in the subconscious. There is nothing wrong in accepting such responsibility. There is no selfishness to it anyday, a woman should be certain that her needs are secure.

and for guyman like and my kind, who lust after very beautifully crafted masterpieces of women, her need is our very command.

She won't tell u.

She will act it.

If she wants a financier disguised as relationship, you will know from the way she throws bill at you and her expectations from u

It is now left for you ti use your head and decide if u are cool or not

If u are not cool and u are a good person then free her immediately. If u are a bad person, put her on large trips and postponements till she get a clue and move on her own while screaming " broke,stingy e.t.c...". You may also be lucky that by that time she is already hooked on your oza room performance, so u just won yourself a booty call....just make sure u protect yourself cos she go still dey give financiers

Yes of course I can take care of you, I will buy suya meat

Such question shouldn't pop up immediately you're asking her out, it's actually a bad sign

Yes o.

I asked u out on monday , Tuesday i paid for ur taxify going and coming, gave u drinks and food . Acted like a gentleman , didn't touch you .

Weds , you sending text you need money for your house rent that was due since May??

WTF.

True life

Inside life .

illicit:

It's a waste of valuable time.
Just let her go Nothing special in her pussy

On point bro, your very correct

XshegzzyeeiX:
Good morning. Romancelanders.
Welcome to midweek.

So I'm of the opinion that in a relationship, a man and a woman ought to care for one another. But some women feel so entitled that they only expect a man to take care of them without reciprocating the gestures.

It's very wrong for a woman to bring that statement of "can you take care of me?" when I ask her out. I brandish her a red card immediately she makes such statement.

I detest selfish women, and I believe so many others do.

Only simps welcome such waywardness.

PS: I've braced up for your criticisms, insults and cuss words.

Feminists, waddaya have to say.
Alpha males, what's your take on this matter.
White Knights, let's hear you out.

Is it right or totally wrong for a woman to pop that question "can you take care of me" when you ask her out?

U are 100% correct on the money. I will expatiate later.

Shes basically looking for a sponsor and will definitely go out with any sponsor.

However sm gals innocently say this when u state or imply intention to marry them.

It depends on the situation...

If a 60 yr old is asking out a 26 yr old, I see nothing wrong if she asks him if he can take care of her.

SweetCunt97:
[s]You crybabies should go listen to Bill Withers song "Lean On Me" and be wise. Generation on mature responsible men is fast eroding unfortunately. [/s]

Finally like your name.....THUNDAR fire your mouth there..!!!!!!

THUNDAR:
Seriously guys! things are not Really what they seems on the first date, just because she asked "can you take care of me" on the first date does not mean Jack, there are smart and intelligent ladies Who would purposely say annoying things on first date to see How you react, and may turn up to be independent women. just the way you keep checklists and tick Which she fails and passes so some of them do too. But some of them (a lot actually) na Akamu they say it as they feel!

This is one of problem of most ladies this days. They can't hid their insatiable desires for temporary things.