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|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 9:44am On Feb 02|
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Saviolamemphix(m): 10:37am On Feb 02|
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 11:12am On Feb 02|
ah!! as my papa and mama like me reach!! e go hard o..u want mk she blackmail me as dey use to..
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by manychallenges: 11:49am On Feb 02|
Kudos to all bosses and everyone here. You guys are doing excellently remarkable job here and I've learned a lot, I didn't start from page one though, I started where I found this thread.
Since this thread is mainly about one's development, I would like the bosses and anyone here that has solution to what I've been facing all my life.
Am 27. And do you know that at this age I can't face crowd, don't let us talk of crowd, I can't confidently stand in front of just five people and express myself. Yeah, its as bad as that. Whenever I found myself in such position, I will just start sweating, shaking and loosing balance to the extent people around would notice am scared.
Sometimes, believe me, I do cry that am facing this thing, I've lost numerous opportunities because of this.
At this age am still in University and I always avoid anything presentation just to avoid embarrassment. Am just trying hard to hide this flaw of mine because you know people would definitely use one's weakness against one.
Anyone with solution here. Don't wanna use drugs and all that. And it seems to me is hereditary because I see some traits of it in my father as well
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 12:14pm On Feb 02|
All others here might recommend books to read for you but I won't.
The best way to deal with stage fright is to go to the stage and talk. There are no two ways about it. I had some measure of stage fright and here was what helped me. Being an introvert, to talk seems hard but I knew I had to present or defend myself or I'd be a dead man. I used the mirror technique to gain some measure of speech control(for presentations and seminars) and FUQ-IT technique for the real life issues.
The mirror technique allows you to Pace yourself with the time allotted while still addressing the topic. The more you practice, the better you'd be. After gaining some confidence with that, then call in your AUDIENCE, either friends or family. Let them sit in a room and watch you. There is no truer test than that. Tell them to criticize you and correct you. With time, you'd get used to talking in front of people. Then, if you wanna progress further using this technique, tell those guys to be merciless with you. Let them abuse you, call you names, tell at you and threaten you. Why? Because stage fright is our subconscious protecting us from what people will say to us and our weakness of maintaining eye contact. So burst that mudafucker right now by letting people say shiit to you. That way,you build up your resistance and focus your energies on delivering your points. This may seem cruel but it worked for me, till I started laughing at the audience insults, and even threw some of my own back.
The FUQ-IT technique is shorter route to mastery of stage fright but a hardier one, for emotionally soft people. What I did was very simple. I went to gatherings(churches,mosques,parks) and addressed groups of people. Topics of interest differ from preaching to fashion to trying to sell some shiit. The first day was hell. I sweated so much I reeked of it. A few people were amused, the others were like WTF is wrong with this mudafucker. But I didn't care, because it was a FUQ-IT challenge. I wasn't interested in what they thought or wanted but focused on delivering my own shiit. That same week, I learned that I could be a very big comedian if I wanted to, because from the 3rd day onward, I started dropping some wisecrack replies and quotes that made people laugh,while l looked deadpanned. I discovered people actually appreciate when I talk, especially when I don't think too much about what to say or worry about how people would receive my speeches. Once I was myself, I was flowing like a mudafucking poet. It got easier from there. Don't think too much about the people or what you are going to say, just start and try to immerse yourself in the topic. Find examples people can relate to and attach it to everyday naija lives. Watch the crowd but don't base your flow on their emotions. If they scowl, don't mind. If they laugh, take that as a good sign and continue. With this technique, you know the worst but still go ahead anywhere because what's there to lose again?
That road is hard bro,let me tell you but I realised once you are yourself, the FUQ-IT technique works.
N.B: I don't subscribe to drinking before facing people. It's a Dutch courage you get from such things and you won't ever develop good presentation skills. Once in a while, stage fright may still come back, especially when suddenly called upon to talk BUT THE KEY IS NEVER TO THINK TOO MUCH ABOUT IT. THINKING ON IT ELEVATES YOUR HEARTBEAT AND CAUSE YOUR TONGUE TO SEIZE UP MOST TIMES. JUST OPEN YA MOUTH AND DO YOUR BEST.
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|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by manychallenges: 12:44pm On Feb 02|
Huh, just wow. Thank You luminous. I used to preached in church but when the embarrassment was getting too much, I actually stopped going to church and my condition worsen.
Would take another step concerning this issue. Thanks brother
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 12:48pm On Feb 02|
You are welcome. Keep practicing. And try to enjoy what you talk on. That passion will override the fear.
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by mrfizy(m): 1:13pm On Feb 02|
Gradually expose yourself to the things you fear. You see those people you're fearful of,they themselves are fearful but pull through none the less.
Start lifting weights and exercising - trust me this makes you feel like you own the world. If you don't have access to weights,do push ups, pull ups Throw in some cardio.
Start meditating,it quiets your mind and makes you calm.
Dress well and take care of yourself(eat well,rest,drink enough "water".
Be passionate about something.
The Gifts of Imperfection-Brene Brown
How to win friends and influence people-Dale Carnegie
The Power Of Now-Eckhart Tolle
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|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 1:13pm On Feb 02|
No vex Oo
But blackmail is deep
At this stage wey you dey
Na only suggestion she supposed dey bring
I've talked about this before if you check my other posts
At this stage if you make a decision
She's supposed to respect your decision
You are man enough to know what you want
My prayer for you is that you will not let anyone push you to do anything
Cos we are talking about something that will affect the rest of your life
Well you know what you want to do
I hope that whatever decision you make will bring you the best result
God bless you
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by mickelkingz(m): 1:23pm On Feb 02|
omo yesterday i got to a friend shop at kasoa ghana, i saw this babe outside d shop and this babe was giving me eyes, so base on the bitter truth here i,say lemme play my game, cuz redpill makes me hate this genders even b4 after s redpill but i have to be kind sha
so i tell my guy to call the girl that i want to talk to her, omo babe come
her : what's up
me am good wbyu?
me* what's your name she responded i,,forget d name sha
her *how old are you?
i was shock in my am like "if i carry car wear gucci show,,dis girl no go ask me this question, i was angry but fake smile
me "am 24 and you? she didn't answr oh
her "what do you do for a living? who do you stay with? where do,you work?
i answered all her questions bcuz i was angry inside and laughing at same time
me "how old are you" she like 20. i said okay
i ask for her number
her "i can't give u my number
her "blaa bla bla i didn't even hear again
me okay no p
her *can i go now, i said no,p, help me call my friend
so my point is that ur best relationship should be money not women
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by mickelkingz(m): 1:35pm On Feb 02|
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by mickelkingz(m): 1:43pm On Feb 02|
same here, if i try to play cool,with them i still see the redpill education in them, i lost mind to even date
boring chat, once u like her she starts feeling too big
cuz betas are plenty in her dm alpha too, and once babe do like that i insult u indirectly, sotey one build me yesterday and still unblock me "i told her sorry"
her reply was "sorry for urslf" i use my laughing emoji "gtfo, how are you" babe was coming online i didn't reply, i just delete her number delete my whatsapp. i need to know what's my problem, money. I love JESUS already
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 3:37pm On Feb 02|
She didn't like the answers you gave her
But I think she liked you
That's why she gave you that signal
Thank God for the red pill
Women were just better at vetting
She knows it's not just about the looks, she has to consider other things like your resources and so on
But if na guy now
She fine get nyash and big brezz
While women go dey look at how to secure their future lol
Well na you get her time time
If you check the girl well
She fit no get work
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JustJesse(m): 3:42pm On Feb 02|
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Hustle2flex(m): 3:47pm On Feb 02|
All her questions centered on assessment of your financial capabilities which if she found up to her 'requirements',she would have delude herself that she has found the man of her dreams.
This drives home the point that women enters a relationship only for what they will benefit and not what they would contribute.its a business mindset for which if she sees that it would take her time to earn profits or that she needs to invest first,she will sharply decline ur request(as she did above).
All these assessments are done within few minutes which will tell you how shortsighted women are and their incapability of working towards long term goals.The era of 'build with me' is in the trash can.
Imagine a girl of 20yrs old having this kind of mindset.i can bet my two balls that she is jobless, living with her parents or squatting with someone,yet she is sizing you up through criteria she won't even attain in 4years time.
Stay woke fellas.
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|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by mickelkingz(m): 4:52pm On Feb 02|
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by mickelkingz(m): 5:01pm On Feb 02|
i swear this financial life dey disgrace man, people go see u like shiiiit
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by RAGGA40(m): 5:05pm On Feb 02|
SOZINN:I share your pain.
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by BLOODYSPERM: 5:09pm On Feb 02|
Inflation and taxation kill our savings
The rich borrow money from banks, pension funds, government to accquire assets, like start up corporations, accquire real Estates, develop real estates, own shares which will yield dividends in a company,buy precious metals (gold, silver,plantinium,etc),Tony Enumelu uses debt to accquire transcorp Hilton properties and investment and has a huge stake in UBA,
For more in-depth analysis to get greater understanding read;
1) Conspiracy of the Rich- Robert Kiyosaki
2) Rich Dad Poor Dad- Robert Kiyosaki
3) Cashflow Quadrant - Robert Kiyosaki
4)unfair advantage- Robert Kiyosaki
Start with 2) first
For understanding why savers are losers we have to study monetary history and understand currency creation, for in depth coverage , watch;
Hidden secrets of money by Mike Maloney
Episode 1 to 10,for specific on currency creation watch only episode 4
Feel free to discuss with me as you undergo your redpilled financial education with regards to your personal development
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by BLOODYSPERM: 5:15pm On Feb 02|
Society pities women and children if they are poor and vulnerable, but spits on men and view them as trash if they poor and weak
The only escape route, is to accquire assets and investments but first develop the financial Alpha's frame from undergoing financial education via books ( online PDF and real hardcopy books), watching videos, listening to audio's , going for seminars, networking with like minded people, get useful business partners, have strong mentorship,enter the financial game
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by mickelkingz(m): 5:36pm On Feb 02|
i swear so pointless
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 6:21pm On Feb 02|
no o!! ah! more like the normal blackmail dey do na..like fake tears and the rest..emotional blackmail kinda thing.. not like dey mean it..u understand don't u
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 7:51pm On Feb 02|
But naturally, a ladywill always have a higher body count than her younger self. So, the man is still a bit right about his opinion.
A 30 years old lady will have a higher body count than her 25 years old self
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 7:59pm On Feb 02|
This is not always the case from what I've seen. What if she had done all the flexing in her youth and now became SU in her 28th year? Most girls start getting serious after 25/26 and they start looking for a husband. That means package rebranding and new installations. They won't give out sex freely and would always seek commitment before anything.
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 8:17pm On Feb 02|
Agreed but the number can only increase and not reduce.
A lady that has been banged can not be unbanged bro, remember that.
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 8:24pm On Feb 02|
The linear progression theory is correct. The more you have,the higher the bodycount.
But some women stay with one man all their lives. These are the exception
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 8:36pm On Feb 02|
Don't sweat it, many guys are in your shoe also.
I was once like you but over the years, have improved exponentially courtesy the nature of my job.
From my tender age, i was saddled with leadership responsibilites. Right from the age of 23, have been placed in a position where i daily control people as old as my dad, giving them instructions.
I was always shy then, not wanting to anger any of them at the detriment of my task, job or duty. I was a bad leader, not effective, very reluctant to give them intructions or orders but with time, have improved.
I can now face a lot of crowd with confidence, talk boldly because i was always doing daily, weekly and monthly safety meetings with crew, and personnels and it has increased my boldness a lot.
My advice - join a group if possible a lot of groups and make sure you are active in the group and not just a floor member.
E.g join a church group for a start like the ushering department where you will regularly be talking and directing people, if possible meeting the church organisers or excos and beg them to be the one to do announcement on podium or read the bible opening verses/sermon on altar. you can deliberately join evangelical movements that go from house to house or meet people by road side to talk and preach to them. All these are free and they need a lot of hands ad will be happy if you care to join. It will boost your human relation to a large extent bro.
Always be close to a student pastor and during the regular prayer meetings, they will tell you to lead the prayer or raise prayer point.
Join 36 lioness club or rotary club and be close to the excos.
Just be active in anywhere you are.
School - assist headboy/prefect/SU leader or group
Church - usher/choir but be active/Announcing department
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 8:39pm On Feb 02|
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 8:57pm On Feb 02|
Kasoa? A lot of prostitutes/runs girls there.
You ghanian? was in kasoa for sometime 4 years ago
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by fattprince(m): 9:29pm On Feb 02|
luminouz:You didn't get it. Even after the rebranding if she has like only 2 guys she is fucking she still has +2 body count more than her younger self. You get it now.
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ichidodo(m): 9:41pm On Feb 02|
JustJesse:You're lucky, I simped 10 years over one girl, go figure..
|Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 9:42pm On Feb 02|
Sure I do. Unless she never fuqs anyone else after rebranding. That's the exception,not the rule though.
Besides, you guys are thinking of body counts but not time stamps of a body count?
I mean, if a girl stays with a guy for 6 years and then dates two other guys in the next two years, her body count increased but the time stamp of the first tripled the other two. The damage the first bf did may never be outclassed by the next two.
So for me, BC(Bodycount) + TS(Time Stamp/duration) = TPA(True Pussy age)
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