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Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by gbemishile: 10:18pm On Aug 13, 2020
Oga Ade,what are u waiting for?
It's better for me to lose the patient than for me to keep quiet
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Kemimarch16(f): 10:19pm On Aug 13, 2020
I beg tell him
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by justifyme(m): 10:19pm On Aug 13, 2020
You no go mind your business??

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Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Nobody: 10:19pm On Aug 13, 2020
chukwuibuipob:
undecided undecided fake Tori.U can only deceive the dumb pipu with diz Ur Arabian tales..Show us Ur chat/convo.


The story sounds real

Besides he has been a member since 2008 and this is his first thread.
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Nobody: 10:20pm On Aug 13, 2020
DICKstractor:
Tell him o... I'm already feeling pity for tje guy...




That his Nigeria girlfriend fit be Slawomir, dammn nigga guy

Lol!

Slawomir, Mr Damn niggar! Haha

Why you dey reason say "damn nigga" fit follow scam now?
Haha!
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Nobody: 10:20pm On Aug 13, 2020
P.L.E.A.S.E TELL HIM
Atleast a Nigerian saved him from a Nigerian
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Temitopeadiamo: 10:21pm On Aug 13, 2020
Pls tell him, who knows who the scammers next victim would be or be from, collect the account details and paste it so that he can be tracked. Some people are just so heartless and kept collecting money from the dude
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by majamajic(m): 10:21pm On Aug 13, 2020
chukwuibuipob:
undecided undecided fake Tori.U can only deceive the dumb pipu with diz Ur Arabian tales..Show us Ur chat/convo.

Illiterate Thomas ,
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by onoja12: 10:22pm On Aug 13, 2020
If you are regratably a Nigerian,then you are not Nigerian but rather a slave minded individual,a white ass licker,now let me ask you questions,while there mulitilatral and big companies are here scaming Nigeria do you show same petty for the Nigerians,the answer is ovious,the sickness of a black mind is deep they help everybody but themselves,save everybody but themselves,worship everybody but themselves believe in everybody but themselves my advice to you tell him if you want to but to come here to speak nagative of the Nigerian ideninty because of your slave mindedness is stupidity.



ALEX182:
So I have this American patient who I recently came across. He's a fat dude who is like in his late 40s but has a very jolly and likeable character. I introduced myself and we got talking afterwards.

After a while of chitchat, he asked me where I was from. I told him to take a guess and he said said, you sound like you're Nigerian. I told him (regrettably) that I was Nigerian. He started smiling and told me that he had a Nigerian girlfriend and that we both had similar accents.

He then started telling me recent occurrences that had befallen his girlfriend in Nigeria. He said the lastest story was that she was in Abuja and as she was on her way to the airport in a taxi, the taxi had an accident and she was seriously injured and had to be rushed to the hospital. He said that the hospital demanded money before treatment started and he had to hustle about $4000 and send to her in order for treatment to start.

He said that after a week of her being in the hospital, they wanted to discharge her despite her still being in pain. Because she had exhausted all the $4000 on treatment, he said the hospital had threatened to discharge her on the streets and he was trying to borrow more money to see if he could send it to her so they could continue with her treatments.

He furthermore told me that the girlfriend said that she was a Nigerian American citizen who was currently stuck in Nigeria due to her passport having expired and also due to Covid lockdown at airports in Nigeria. He said she had asked him for $300 to renew her US passport from American embassy in Nigeria.

Another thing that he told me was that just before covid struck, there was a similar pandemic which happened in Nigeria early this year and that his girlfriend had contracted the disease and he had to send her $2000 for treatment. Right now he said he's broke but is waiting for like $2000 disability check from the US government next week which he will send to her as soon as the money clears.

As he was telling me this tale, I was so angry with Nigerians and how they take advantage of people in love to scam them. I wanted to swear for the scammers angry


I'm at a dilemma here. Do I tell him that he's being scammed by Nigerians or do I continue to be professional and just ignore it. Because I don't want him to think I'm involved with it because these oyinbo people can turn everything on your head and accuse you that is your people in conjunction with you that are scamming him. They are that crazy.

The good part of me wants to help him but I'm hesitant that it may turn out bad for me. Please matured responses.

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Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Allsome: 10:23pm On Aug 13, 2020
NobleSeed:
me can't fathom what you mean by America patient ooh.
You telling him is also telling him that even Nigerians already know themselves to be all scammers. Because if not that you are a scammer how did you detect what he couldn't detect. Or you mean to insinuate to his reasoning that he's foolish.? That's how he'd think thereby giving us all a bad name. You don't even know if it's nemesis of something that he did on the past that is catching up with him.

Allow his "girlfriend " collect Wells Fargo abeg. We dey talk say money no dey this yeye country , you wan cut one boy deliverance. Bye bye

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Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Incandescent(m): 10:23pm On Aug 13, 2020
This is really bad.


Some of us are trying to make something out of the already destroyed image yet some idiots go about tainting our image.

Pls tell him
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by ThatFairGuy: 10:23pm On Aug 13, 2020
ALEX182 please tell him immediately, don't mind those scammers saying otherwise.
If he get to know later, you might lose a patient and other opportunities directly and indirectly from him. NEVER WILL HE BELIEVE A NIGERIAN AGAIN.
Please tell him, safe our image from these lazy youths
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Priz20: 10:23pm On Aug 13, 2020
Please tell him. Change begins with you. I don't think he will have the notion that you are in on it.
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Nobody: 10:24pm On Aug 13, 2020
Casan0va:
All those dollars will be spent in the club, clothes, drinks, fake life, weed, etc.
2 weeks later, the ambitionless eediot is broke and posting stupid,dumb and idiotic motivational quotes.

Scammers disgust me. angry angry angry angry angry


When Falz said "This is Nigeria, everybody be criminal"
Some people were foaming at the mouth and spitting vitriol saying that there are honest Nigerians who work two jobs blah blah blah
Falz was right. Over 97% of Nigerians are criminally minded.
You may not have started scamming foreigners, but you scam your country men, you ca, your blood brothers.
As a trader, you swear on your mother's life that you are selling at a loss because market is slow but in reality you're ripping the customer off.
Any small opportunity you see, you try to make a quick buck.
I'm talking to myself also. We need to change.
Nigerians are never to be trusted. If it were up to me, only Nigerians with viable money making skills would be allowed into my country and they would have "five strikes" of misdemeanour. If they trespass against the law more than five times, depending on the degree of the offence, they would be deported and visa revoked.

This sounds harsh, but is necessary.

Look at this guy trying to rationalise fraud. Are you the only one suffering?
Poverty is your mindset to be very honest.

Have a great day. cool

If everybody for ur family na criminal, I no go argue am wit u


Just leave others out, we are not all criminals
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by SeriouslySense(m): 10:24pm On Aug 13, 2020
Exactly, i stand with you 1000 percent, We will not allow the bad ones spoil our reputations, Nigerians miss a lot of opportunities, because of the negative image we have.
ERCROSS:
For the sake of everything good, please tell him. If he finds it hard to believe, ask to prank the lady/benefit boy to send her location, that he's presently in Nigeria
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Gabriel99: 10:24pm On Aug 13, 2020
Akanoaaa:
Please tell him.
Tell him via proxy, if you're scared it might hurt you professionally. Give him convincing evidence that his being scammed. Thank you ahead for standing up to truth.

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Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Philantropists: 10:25pm On Aug 13, 2020
Op are you sure u are not the Nigerian guy cheesy i'm joking.

Well if you tell him, he will think it's you so leave him to his fate.


ALEX182:


I'm in US. The guy is a white guy. I'm a Nigerian.
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by fregmath: 10:25pm On Aug 13, 2020
https://www.scamwatch.gov.au/types-of-scams/dating-romance


Give him this website let him read through....
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Kaypols(f): 10:26pm On Aug 13, 2020
he thinks she a girl, I will not be surprise if it one yeye boy that is behind is scam business using an hacked account
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Sleekfingers: 10:26pm On Aug 13, 2020
Pls kindly tell him.....

dem don use scamming swear for some nigeria.... Bunch of lazy youths...

Naso one idiot nearly scam one of my friend in monaco.....my friend told me that he meet a pretty nigerian lady online....i told him to send their chats to me....i told him straight say na scam.... Useless lazy youths

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Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by kolade560: 10:26pm On Aug 13, 2020
u shouldn't be hesitating......tell him
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Sniper101(m): 10:26pm On Aug 13, 2020
OP
Mind yourself and Mind your business

no go talk something wey go break the guy heart to the point wey he go vex carry a semi-automatic gun come your hospital con shoot you and other Africans there o grin
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by EncoreTrades(m): 10:27pm On Aug 13, 2020
I think you have to tell him and ask him to do his due diligence and find out that the person is real because it sounds like a scammer and you don’t want him to be a victim...
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Nobody: 10:27pm On Aug 13, 2020
I really don't know why you can't mind your business. Captain save a hoe.
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Henrydata(m): 10:28pm On Aug 13, 2020
Pls do

Meanwhile check my signature
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Gabriel99: 10:28pm On Aug 13, 2020
ERCROSS:
For the sake of everything good, please tell him. If he finds it hard to believe, ask to prank the lady/benefit boy to send her location, that he's presently in Nigeria

I'll advice you tell him via someone else, and don't get involved with the scammers. Don't ever get involved with them, remember once a contact has been initiated you can be implicated. It's not EFCC o, it's FBI. They got their internet space well covered. Be guided. Say the truth but wisely.

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Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by daprofo: 10:29pm On Aug 13, 2020
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Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Nobody: 10:29pm On Aug 13, 2020
ALEX182:
So I have this American patient who I recently came across. He's a fat dude who is like in his late 40s but has a very jolly and likeable character. I introduced myself and we got talking afterwards.

After a while of chitchat, he asked me where I was from. I told him to take a guess and he said said, you sound like you're Nigerian. I told him (regrettably) that I was Nigerian. He started smiling and told me that he had a Nigerian girlfriend and that we both had similar accents.

He then started telling me recent occurrences that had befallen his girlfriend in Nigeria. He said the lastest story was that she was in Abuja and as she was on her way to the airport in a taxi, the taxi had an accident and she was seriously injured and had to be rushed to the hospital. He said that the hospital demanded money before treatment started and he had to hustle about $4000 and send to her in order for treatment to start.

He said that after a week of her being in the hospital, they wanted to discharge her despite her still being in pain. Because she had exhausted all the $4000 on treatment, he said the hospital had threatened to discharge her on the streets and he was trying to borrow more money to see if he could send it to her so they could continue with her treatments.

He furthermore told me that the girlfriend said that she was a Nigerian American citizen who was currently stuck in Nigeria due to her passport having expired and also due to Covid lockdown at airports in Nigeria. He said she had asked him for $300 to renew her US passport from American embassy in Nigeria.

Another thing that he told me was that just before covid struck, there was a similar pandemic which happened in Nigeria early this year and that his girlfriend had contracted the disease and he had to send her $2000 for treatment. Right now he said he's broke but is waiting for like $2000 disability check from the US government next week which he will send to her as soon as the money clears.

As he was telling me this tale, I was so angry with Nigerians and how they take advantage of people in love to scam them. I wanted to swear for the scammers angry


I'm at a dilemma here. Do I tell him that he's being scammed by Nigerians or do I continue to be professional and just ignore it. Because I don't want him to think I'm involved with it because these oyinbo people can turn everything on your head and accuse you that is your people in conjunction with you that are scamming him. They are that crazy.

The good part of me wants to help him but I'm hesitant that it may turn out bad for me. Please matured responses.

Please tell him. It literally might be the difference between life and death for that man, a lot of those victims end up committing suicide...I assure you that's blood money right there
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by DaddyGngeess(m): 10:30pm On Aug 13, 2020
So you regretted telling him you are Nigerian, first that is bulshit, just follow what your hearts tells you to do, but if is me I will tell him straight no time, I will not waste time self, talking from experience, I onced saved a Nigerian coach from a Nigerian scammer long time ago in Hungary. Bring players to come for football tries in Europe. He has sent alot of money b4 I knew about it
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Harrykn: 10:30pm On Aug 13, 2020
VickyRotex:

Chitchat doesn't mean phone chat conversation.
Igbos sef
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by stagger: 10:30pm On Aug 13, 2020
Please tell him sharply. If possible, let him send the person's number make I do contact tracing for am.

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Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by chukwuibuipob: 10:31pm On Aug 13, 2020
majamajic:


My fada is a Illiterate Thomas ,
So direct face to face chat with someone u wan see it ?

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