lol

southniyikaye:
I prefer knowing those things and I prefer hearing it from my partner.
Though it will hurt me but I will likely forgive her but it will pain me more and become unforgivable if I hear it from an outsider, maybe a scorned ex who is trying to get back at her.
This time if the allegations are true, I no go even need to hear her explanations beof4 throwing her out

This is me literarily. Just tell me everything.

Hmmm

Best thing to do!




Try to live right

If you are a female, that 2, 4 and 5, don't ever mention it

doubitoo19:


What's the essence of knowing all the shit?. As for me I don't give a shit about your past coz we are all full of shit one way or another. Let's just start from where we met.

Nice comment to me so far.
Of what use is me knowing about ur past?? Some things are better left unsaid. If d ears don't hears it, d mind would not be saddened,. The past should be left in d past & we should start afresh from where we met.

iammolise:


I particularly need an answer to this... How would one know?, what are the signs?

I wonder o. Some people & over sabi. As in, how can u know if a lady already had an abortion or abortions in d past, is it Engraved on
their forehead or something??

Also, how can someone know d exact body counts of a lady except d lady tells u herself?? Too many oversabi people here on nairaland..

GolDRoger:

how much is the land??

50k only

Hmmm....
It funny isn't it?

We make mistakes yet don't want to take responsibility for them or face the consequences. Then delude ourselves by blaming our partners for not being mature enough to handle our past misdeeds (but somehow they're mature enough to get married to)

Such Deception masked with self delusion.


There is God oooo

ReluctantAdult:


It's easy to know if a woman had an abortion, so strike that point out.

pls tell me how to know this

Tell your partner things that you know if later found out will break your marriage.

You can decide what it is

I don't want to hear any of those things even .The only thing you should not withhold is if you did an abortion and it affected your womb

Dozis:
Abortion is a big no for me. I wish there are ways to test wether a lady did abortion before marriage. Why would you have unprotected sex with someone you can't keep his pregnancy?
There are condoms, contraceptive pills and even pull out method, yet people keep having unwanted pregnancy.

what if it's unintentional, like rape resulting to pregnancy or rob and rape, or bandits?!

Robertgreene1:
interesting....guys forget all this "forget her past" nonsense...since girls look 4 a guy that has a bright future ahead of him..then why shouldn't a guy look into a girl's past as well...a girl wit over 20 body counts will fvck all d fvckable dicks in town..both diabolic dicks nd d likes..nd den come nd dump herself on me cus she already sees my bright future...nd then tell me "baby js forget my past" ...over my dead body...I must know everything abt ur past o...cus a girl's past defines her...d higher her body count esp wit what those rich diabolical men use them
to do...d higher her uselessness...
argue wit ur village people...

I wish I can buy you one full crate of Heineken!


A girl once told me that she has dated 5 guys and has slept with married Men and also sent nude to random guys! But that’s her past now bla bla!

That was the day I lost interest in her!

Friend zone her ass, and she’s been asking why am I not turning up!

Sorry I don’t date hoes

Mescana22:




I wish I can buy you one full crate of Heineken!


A girl once told me that she has dated 5 guys and has slept with married Men and also sent nude to random guys! But that’s her past now bla bla!

That was the day I lost interest in her!

Friend zone her ass, and she’s been asking why am I not turning up!

Sorry I don’t date hoes

my man u re a real gee...niggas like u that never allow those useless hoes to use Dem will surely go far in life....

It's always good to come out straight anytime anyway, but wisdom is profit to direct though. Some people ain't just matured to handle this kind of revelation.

ReluctantAdult:


It's easy to know if a woman had an abortion, so strike that point out.

How will u know?

ReluctantAdult:


It's a bit of a medical procedure but trust me, it is reliable and totally on spot.

So you know how a you can tell if a woman isn't a virgin by the lax and penetrable vagina? This is exactly the same but more effective , though in this one it isn't the vagina that's looked at but rather the cervix.

So the cervix is like the opening of the uterus or womb and it is shaped like a perfect circle, originally. By originally I mean in a woman who hasn't given birth or done an abortion. Basically, a cervix that hasn't been tampered with before.

So in a woman who's had a baby or who's had an abortion, the opening of the cervix, or external isn't the perfect circle, rather it is oval in shape or kind of distorted. But you can only look at the opening of a cervix with the use of special tools called speculum.

Okay I'm gonna stop here because I'm high as fvck and I have to sleep it off. Okay you guys that's it. That's how you know....

Okay so all of this sounds like abrakadabra, and then when I'm no surgeon how am I supposed to be cutting girlfriend open to see the cervix ehh! When am not a ritualist... No external signs meaning u can never know period!!!

iammolise:


Okay so all of this sounds like abrakadabra, and then when I'm no surgeon how am I supposed to be cutting girlfriend open to see the cervix ehh! When am not a ritualist... No external signs meaning u can never know period!!!

Okay man

My take is tell the person if it settles well with he/she fine if they walk away better still.

Believe me u won't want to start a relationship based on pretence.

If u follow the above advice person like me nah ultimate heart break awaits and i have my ways of finding out.