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Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by ume1000: 11:34am On Sep 28, 2020 |
PearlFid:I don't understand this your parasitic comment |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by ume1000: 11:36am On Sep 28, 2020 |
jomarq:This is what been a simp gets you into 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by King44(m): 11:38am On Sep 28, 2020 |
You gave your wife some money and you want to collect it back Only women does that na haba She is your wifey leave it for her fa... I hope women would be able to reciprocate such out of love but heck no Your money is our money and my money is my money mentality won't let them rest. If your mom asks your to loan her money would you collect it back? You can only get it back if you don't have enough, it is reasonable. |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by ume1000: 11:39am On Sep 28, 2020 |
jomarq:My dear you don't owe a woman Chi Chi The sooner you know this the better for you Whatever happens to her savings abi she no dey work |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by mkoabiola: 12:07pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Nawa oo. Ur meeting ppu will nver trust u again. But ur wife sef wicked ooo She no ready release money way she borrow. Women Sha |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by pocohantas(f): 12:11pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Let’s forget she is your wife and obviously not credit-worthy. Who loans a startup N100,000 and expects the money back in 3wks-1mth? What business did she go into? Drugs? How do you expect her to have your money back in such short duration? That is the first question you should have asked yourself. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by babyfaceafrica: 12:14pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
kurlz: Only 10% out of 100 will return money they borrowed from their husbands. How do people survive these types of no-integrity marriages?.... Lesson learnt though... Don't borrow women money, no matter how close, even at the point of death!! |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by sulasa07(m): 12:14pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
ibechris:Is Buhari not GOD sent or na Devil send him? |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by hustla(m): 12:15pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
jomarq: LOL Prejor You lack sense |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by Beninwitch: 12:15pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Oga, you are suffering the sins of all the husbands that would borrow money from wife but never return it. Sorry eh! Na so he dey pain us too. � |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by babyfaceafrica: 12:20pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
How did you come About such a wife?.. If she doesn't return it, move on and find another source!.. Next time, you will ìṣe your brain and not your emotions... Women and money are siamese twins |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by Aaaaarghmed(m): 12:28pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
u shud have not borrowed her the money because it was not your personal money.If it was your money,there wud have being no problem because you are not on a time frame.when you borrow your spouse money,you should be ready to let go at some point.Am not married but my fiancee told me to follow her to H medix in Abuja to buy some things,she noticed that she forgot her ATM at home and she told me to pay for the items with mine and swore to transfer it back to me.when we got home she asked fr my acct number and sent it,brothers and sisters do u Knw DAT she no let me rest, telling me I even had the effontry to quote my acct number fr her to transfer my money,even when I travelled back to my base,na disturb everyday to re transfer back the money.I did not rest till I sent back the money.This is someone that when I borrow money from her I pay back and she collects.Na so women life be.U bleeped up OP. |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by TheWalkingMind: 12:32pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
ibechris:You haven't met 0.001% of Nigerians. That statement of all Nigerians not honest is irresponsible |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by kkinternet: 12:44pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Are you for real Oga go relax ooooo na for better for worse. |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by kurlz(f): 12:44pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
babyfaceafrica: Ahahhaha it's not this bad o. I'm not yet married, I borrow from my male friends and I return it. In this situation we are talking about marriage is involved so it's different. Even the Bible says the two shall become one. |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by kikelomojessy(f): 12:58pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Hmmmm , op u have made a very big mistake. Dnt ever borrow anyone (wife, friend, family) money entrusted in Ur care if you can't replace it with Ur own money. When dealing with the public and money is involve ensure u are very principled, give them back their money at the right time to maintain the trust they have in u. As for your wife, u ha e made a mistake giving her the money and she isn't ready to give it back to you even when she knows it will put u in trouble or may e she does t want to give it back to you cos she knows you ain't telling her the truth about the money. Just let her know that what ever befalls u will also affect her, if your reputation is ruin outside she will be pointed at too. Also let her know you won't out a fine into her biz again cos she has showed you she is not a supportive spouse. Sit her down and talk sense into her and if she still will not give you anything from the money, pls find a way to get the money. God bless u family. |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by lereinter(m): 1:03pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Very funny husband You loaned your wife other people money without informing her Just carry your immaturity and stupid to your mentor buhari |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by lereinter(m): 1:07pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
ibechris: How do you know there's no honest nigerian alive If you and others you know of are dishonest, that doesn't mean everyone is. |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by Nobody: 1:31pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
d33types: I said this guy did it to me. In my case he only substituted some of the words i used with their synonyms. Grammar In tact. |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by Vyolet(f): 1:56pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
May God save us from poverty. 200,000naira is what you are dragging from your wife. God will hill you. Next time, you won't touch money that is kept in your care, that's a careless attitude. |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by brainhgeek(m): 1:59pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
OP, I dey shame for you. Abeg, how old are you? |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by babyfaceafrica: 2:13pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
kurlz:so because we are married, we should owe ourselves money because we are one?.. Issorite!!.. Lesson learnt |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by babyfaceafrica: 2:16pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Aaaaarghmed:and you will still marry this lady for house after this? |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by Nobody: 2:41pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
pocohantas: How do you get to read my mind |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by SpartanKing: 3:38pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
You too, imagine you went to the bank to withdraw your hard-earned money, but the bank is telling you: we lent your money to investors; therefore, there's no money! |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by kurlz(f): 3:41pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
babyfaceafrica: Ahahahhaha. That's no debt o. It's mutual money/benefits. |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by SpartanKing: 3:44pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
ibechris:One person's misbehaviour is never a reflection of the behaviour of ALL Nigerians. So far, nobody has spoken in support of the OP's misdeeds. We should mind our choice of words, period! |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by victorian(f): 3:51pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
jomarq: No. It creates bad blood later Even in stable relationship. My man does not borrow me money but invest money on me, cos he knows it will benefit him and me on the long run. His benefit : I don't need to ask for little change to buy things except big funds at times My benefit : I can save and take care of my needs from proceeds from my business without him being around all the time. It's not cool borrowing ones companion Money, no matter the amount. |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by SirMichael1: 4:09pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
The number one rule in borrowing states that 'do not borrow what you can't give without feeling the impact'. Lending money is like staking a bet - consider such money gone and if (not 'when') it come back, be happy. Just explain to your wife. If she believes and understand, fine. But if not, go borrow the money from someone else. |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by Danzakidakura(m): 4:12pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
ibechris:you will make heaven. All your sins are forgiving. |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by dasauce(m): 4:40pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
jomarq: It's not hard na... Just let her know you'll report her to the Pastor before the meeting day, and you'll let the church elders know she stole the money from you. |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife To Pay Back Money I Loaned To Her? by ledaman: 5:01pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Bros you messed up big time because you empowered you wife @ the expense of your trust as a treasurer! You need to tell both your mum and your wife the bitter Truth how the money was gotten. Let her start paying instalments, but be rest assured you can't get all the money back! |
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