nerd004:







Please if you are in a serious relationship with a lady who is not working but currently learning a trade,,,,is it proper for her man to assist her monthly,hope this won't breed her into entitlement mentality...

please help a brother with mature & sensible advice

Toks2008:
Dear men,

Don't ever think you can win a lady's heart by giving her money, or buying her gifts or taking her on expensive trips cos a woman's heart is very intrinsic and she can give it to any man she desires even if she does not get a dime from the man and trust me on this, if a lady truly wants you, she will need no monetary influence to be with you. This is pure truth.

Men must also understand that except there is an established relationship between them and a lady or an agreement with a lady before they spend on her, she is not obliged to give anything in return regardless of how big you spend on her.... You made that choice.

So what is the point?

if you must give a lady money, please don't try to impress but give her only what you can afford and not the type of money that will drive you crazy if you get nothing back in return because ''MOST'' ladies are naturally wired to appreciate a monetary gift from a man not according to what a man can afford or the level of the sacrifice he makes but rather they compare what you give them with what another man can give or worse still what their friends get from their men.

Simply put... MOST ladies will see a gift of 75k from a guy who has only 150k in savings as nothing when they get 1M from a billionaire not minding the fact that the former sacrificed 50% of his life savings whilst the latter probably gave 0.00001% of his monetary worth.

This is why during a heated argument when a man tries to remind a lady of the financial sacrifices he made for her, she usually responds by saying "what have you done that another man can't do" or worse still "how much did you give me compared to what men are giving their women out there"

So guys please, no go dey do pass yourself..

Zzor:
You are somehow right, a man's money doesn't really move me,if you like buy me the most expensive gifts,if I don't like you,i won't still like you

Petyprincess:
Please tell them o, girls like me can't be impressed with money, if you like spend from now till tomorrow,what matters is a good heart with fat pocket of course

Iceyjayz:
They won't listen, a hoe is a hoe

I still remember back then when I used to spend on relationship from those hungry Nigerian girls, now my present girlfriend who's not a Nigerian girl is doing the opposite, she will rather spend on me than me spending on her, even when she knows that I also earn good income too

on our first date, she told me herself that she doesn't care about my money, her parents didn't train her to depend on men income besides she's independent and works in a popular firm so she earns good money, what matters is the love that we have for each other which haven't changed since we met, I just wish Naija guys can meet ladies like her not those hungry broke girls in the streets because almost 80% of Nigerian girls take relationship as poverty alleviation scheme.

I don't even blame them, I blame Nigerian men for accepting their financial request.

Toks2008:


You are Absolutely right but unfortunately, most of the ladies we now have will rather use the time when they ought to be productive to start looking out for a man that can cater for them rather than go out to cater for themselves.

Petyprincess:
Please tell them o, girls like me can't be impressed with money, if you like spend from now till tomorrow,what matters is a good heart with fat pocket of course

MrCuteking:


I will screenshot all of this, print out and paste it on my wall for myself, and my future kids. Thanks a lot

nnemekaemmanuel:


God Bless You for Creating this Thread Sir.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Dude, mind your damn business. It is called "investment". That gurl could blow unexpectedly tomorrow and change that guy's story and you will still be here wailing like a rabid ekuke mastiff.

Na man wey calm down go enjoy our money and not you these walking corpses who won't let me rest with your incessant wailings like a baby who has colic. Mehn, boy bye.

bjprodint:
i want to be blowing grammer like u when i grow up,respect!

GLYCOLYSISS:

The mystique statue is another femi-centric ideology promoted by the society and generally, women, to uphold women in high standard.
There's absolutely nothing mysterious about women, their dual mating strategy, hypergamous nature, innate solipsism, nature and idea of love, just to list a few are the core of women mystique promoted in the society.
Once you understand these concepts, your perception of women will change forever !
A rude awakening, and there's no going back .
Sad and depressing reality.

alphaRego01:









Mr glycolysis,how i wish i had known u all my life

Taciturn1:
quoted from?

yizastone:


True yarn bros...

2 bottles for u

Raalsalghul

UyaiIncomparabl:


Boy, your opinion doesn't matter.

pansophist:
Once upon a time.

Men and women were schooled the same way, apply for jobs and get paid similarly, but somehow, for some fcked up reason I dont understand, men somehow still have to give the other gender his money just because she is a woman.

The same way men "chop and clean mouth", is also the same way women "extort and abscond". Unless of course when there is true affection between themselves. Giving money to a woman with the hope of expecting love is like planting an orange seed and expecting mango, or going to a barber shop for brain surgery. Doesnt work.

maak400:

What about when a guy gives his fiancée money occasionally to support her. What’s your opinion on that?

Toks2008:


It is quite obvious that many stingy guys are twisting this thread.

I never said don't support your lady financially neither did I say you should not give a lady money... PLEASE GO READ AGAIN..

GIVE WHAT YOU CAN AFFORD AND THE TYPE THAT WILL NOT BOTHER YOU IF SHE TURNS HER BACK AND WALKS AWAY.

Man pass Man.. Some guys can give a lady 1M and won't even remember they did the next day whilst some guys will give 5k and remember for the rest of their lives...but try to avoid ladies with entitlement mentality cos they are bad news.

maak400:

What about when a guy gives his fiancée money occasionally to support her. What’s your opinion on that?

pansophist:


Give, but make sure it is what you can afford to let go, and also, not bit.ch about it if the relationship breaks up.

And most importantly, she has to qualify to be a recipient of your resources. Make sure in her own way, she is contributing to the relationship, and not just through sex. In short, assume husband responsibilities only if she has assumed a wife one, regardless if youre married or not.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Boy, your opinion doesn't matter.

benqo01:




I dont know why you chose to reply to this particular comment.......but i can tell you for sure that you are not far from been a foolish airhead person.

Raalsalghul:


We know your type: hard online, soft as a sponge real life.

UyaiIncomparabl:

You dunno shit.

dingbang:
you are learning well.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Hey kid. Don't quote me stupidly next time.

DontBullshitMe:
I give my money to orphans.

djon78:



Toks did very well.
Let men begin to get small sense
Because many are foolish