Zzor:
You are somehow right, a man's money doesn't really move me,if you like buy me the most expensive gifts,if I don't like you,i won't still like you

Vyzz:
I give my money to mama....



Is a lie


I don't have money

NawtiKingRealer:


You mean say d guy na saddist?

Randy91:



You have not travelled out ALL your life...

Leave the shores of AFRICA to other developed continents, then you will see that WOMEN DON'T DEPEND on Men!!!!

They fuvking work for their money!!!!!

Toks2008:


You are Absolutely right but unfortunately, most of the ladies we now have will rather use the time when they ought to be productive to start looking out for a man that can cater for them rather than go out to cater for themselves.

yemi1504:


No, I meant, such guys that treat women like trash are usually monsters and beasts. But you are right, all this comes from the man being a sadist first of all. So we saying the same thing bro.

Zzor:
Who their hate help?im cool with some few matured ones

virginprincess:

vickydevoka:

Buh ur initial thread shows that u are immature

NawtiKingRealer:


Dat guy na bookworm saddist jare. The op make sense but him come dey carry him dada book head dey yarn rubbish. Who get time 4 dat encyclopedia madness? Na d op make sense abeg

GLYCOLYSISS:

The mystique statue is another femi-centric ideology promoted by the society and generally, women, to uphold women in high standard.
There's absolutely nothing mysterious about women, their dual mating strategy, hypergamous nature, innate solipsism, nature and idea of love, just to list a few are the core of women mystique promoted in the society.
Once you understand these concepts, your perception of women will change forever !
A rude awakening, and there's no going back .
Sad and depressing reality.

Iceyjayz:
They won't listen, a hoe is a hoe

I still remember back then when I used to spend on relationship from those hungry Nigerian girls, now my present girlfriend who's not a Nigerian girl is doing the opposite, she will rather spend on me than me spending on her, even when she knows that I also earn good income too

on our first date, she told me herself that she doesn't care about my money, her parents didn't train her to depend on men income besides she's independent and works in a popular firm so she earns good money, what matters is the love that we have for each other which haven't changed since we met, I just wish Naija guys can meet ladies like her not those hungry broke girls in the streets because almost 80% of Nigerian girls take relationship as poverty alleviation scheme.

I don't even blame them, I blame Nigerian men for accepting their financial request.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Dude, mind your damn business. It is called "investment". That gurl could blow unexpectedly tomorrow and change that guy's story and you will still be here wailing like a rabid ekuke mastiff.

Na man wey calm down go enjoy our money and not you these walking corpses who won't let me rest with your incessant wailings like a baby who has colic. Mehn, boy bye.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Meehn, you men are always nagging. Dude, do whatever you like with your money. We don't care. You all can roast for all I care. All these boys with twenty K account balance won't just let me rest. Dude, go to hell.

And you with the stupid threads. Roast!

DontBullshitMe:
I give my money to orphans.

Petyprincess:
Please tell them o, girls like me can't be impressed with money, if you like spend from now till tomorrow,what matters is a good heart with fat pocket of course

jimmychang:


Nigga speak for yourself

Coolcalmcollect:

those foolish boys won't listen, don't waste your advice, they will still spend half their salary on the girl and say it's their duty as a bf. their stupidity can't be cured.

Arvelo:
Bros you still try sef, if na me she go suck my dick b4 she collect am...

yemi1504:


Abi and na bookworm sadist na the worst type of sadist, they no get social life and dem dey frustrate students die SMH.

Zzor:
lol,maybe that's how you viewed it

Juliearth:





You are right about a woman's heart being intrinsic. Most times, what we desire are men who are sensitive to our emotions and not our material needs. All women in relationships are melancholics and by that, I mean, you can cross the red sea for her, climb the highest mountains...but fail to call her or tell her you love her and she is not pleased. The little things that you is all that matters.

Also, women are moved by words and not sight,so do not fail to reassure her of your feelings, but dont overdo it because that way, it would lose its value.

The narrative among the other gender is that to please a woman, one would have to read an encyclopedia... Funny enough, its far from that.


Quite often than not, I read narratives here, where the OPs and even those in the comment section are crying foul that their love interests are not taking them serious after spending so much on them. The truth of the matter is that no woman would take a man who spends carelessly on her in the early stages of a relationship serious. The early stage should be invested in knowing the other person than trying to impress her. Men need to learn that also. Impress your lady with your worth (not financial) and not your pockets..




Its nice to hear from you again, op.

NawtiKingRealer:


Na why him wan frustrate the op golden word on a marble. Me and saddist na sun and moon distance. We no dey relate

bjsany4luv:
This post made my day and it was exactly my experience...but i refuse to fall for the trap called satisfy your babe, at least not until marriage.

Impressing a woman financially, without a quality or proper assessment of that woman is a shortcut to loosing one's sanity...Men wise up.

Maven..

Juliearth:





You are right about a woman's heart being intrinsic. Most times, what we desire are men who are sensitive to our emotions and not our material needs. All women in relationships are melancholics and by that, I mean, you can cross the red sea for her, climb the highest mountains...but fail to call her or tell her you love her and she is not pleased. The little things that you is all that matters.

Also, women are moved by words and not sight,so do not fail to reassure her of your feelings, but dont overdo it because that way, it would lose its value.

The narrative among the other gender is that to please a woman, one would have to read an encyclopedia... Funny enough, its far from that.


Quite often than not, I read narratives here, where the OPs and even those in the comment section are crying foul that their love interests are not taking them serious after spending so much on them. The truth of the matter is that no woman would take a man who spends carelessly on her in the early stages of a relationship serious. The early stage should be invested in knowing the other person than trying to impress her. Men need to learn that also. Impress your lady with your worth (not financial) and not your pockets..




Its nice to hear from you again, op.

Asuito7:

You just said the truth that so many Nigerian and Nairaland men don't know ......only a few of them like those awaken by Toks know it.

Nigerian men eh, when it comes to woman matter, they behave and think it is ALL ABOUT MONEY.

I wish you could have keep this saying to yourself because many will still not learn.

MhisTahrah:
Keep it up bro, more blessings.

Blackmiserable:


Strong wine. I respect your opinion honestly.

But why do you think nature has domesticated women? Just some heads up, by nature I could also mean God.

Now, why do you think women have, in a sense, being domesticated? They are not as strong and resilient as men. I mean, the chore of providing basic necessities from antiquity had to do with strength, agility, and swiftness?

Imagine a world of women. Not a single man. Not one. Do you think they'd be better off technologically, scientifically, and even material-wise? Hell no. But why or put differently, why would they be worse off?

Now, look at it from a biological pov. Let me chip in for a moment about how reproductive anatomy favours men. Back in time and even now, the average woman is worried about quite a number of things that has to do with biology.

If you know the number of women who have stayed back at home because of painful periods, heavy period, irregular period, or even period leaks, you would be shocked.

This kills productivity for no fault of theirs.

I am not in anyway encouraging laziness but God who created women from men has made it such that most women would have to depend on a man for basic necessities. Seems like one of the curses though. It is not sexist but the truth.