Forzeenab:


I don't even like talking to people. I rarely talk. I just want to be left alone and be in my own space. I clearly have a lot of work to do on myself. I don't have siblings.

See, you are so knowledgeable about this thing and all your words are true. Thank you

You actually don't have much work to do,trust me
Start by not getting worked up about it at all and say mehnn this is just me jare,embrace the fact that you don't like talking and all,be comfortable with it like totally,cause you would have to admire your present self for a change to happen
Send a general message to all your WhatsApp contacts with "I hope your day is going great"
Watch what happens next,when next you go out wear a smirk and a bright smile and get ready to verbally admire things,go to the swimming pool and say yeh and I don't like water o,let the person next to you say "why did you now come here" continue from there
Also get ready to be relevant in people's lives,friendship is sustained by two sided value adding
You don't just want to be a "contact" to someone else,you want to be thoughtful enough for someone else to call you "his or her friend"
Be interested in making someone else happy

anthonyuncle:


u need to wise up. the world have progressed beyond hiding da truth. marriage is not just an event. learn to appreciate da guys around u, and stop trying to diminish their personality like u attempted.

be right

1. Treat women around you better even when you think they are due for marriage.

2. Marriage is not for everyone

3. Live and let live.

Sheina:

You actually don't have much work to do,trust me
Start by not getting worked up about it at all and say mehnn this is just me jare,embrace the fact that you don't like talking and all,be comfortable with it like totally,cause you would have to admire your present self for a change to happen
Send a general message to all your WhatsApp contacts with "I hope your day is going great"
Watch what happens next,when next you go out wear a smirk and a bright smile and get ready to verbally admire things,go to the swimming pool and say yeh and I don't like water o,let the person next to you say "why did you now come here" continue from there
Also get ready to be relevant in people's lives,friendship is sustained by two sided value adding
You don't just want to be a "contact" to someone else,you want to be thoughtful enough for someone else to call you "his or her friend"
Be interested in making someone else happy

Please just follow me back

Forzeenab:


LOL I will just faint doing all these

Start with the WhatsApp message,at times we think we don't have friends when we actually have a list of contacts we can turn to friends.
Take it one by one,you have time Dear,trust me the crazy stuff s would make you giggle,like you've just been a villain

Forzeenab:


1. Treat women around you better even when you think they are due for marriage.

2. Marriage is not for everyone

3. Live and let live.

1.i don't disrespect women (u just have a wrong perception)

2. I never tried to persuade u into marriage (I only encouraged u to see it beyond da ceremony of food, drinks and dance)

3. I ain't selfish and everyone around me is grateful to God for my existence (u wouldn't make da original post if u really do live and let live )

Sheina:

Start with the WhatsApp message,at times we think we don't have friends when we actually have a list of contacts we can turn to friends.
Take it one by one,you have time Dear,trust me the crazy stuff s would make you giggle,like you've just been a villain

I run away from WhatsApp. People actually try to chat with me but I prefer reading or writing stuff to chatting. I will try and start chatting with people. My god!

anthonyuncle:


1.i don't disrespect women (u just have a wrong perception)

2. I never tried to persuade u into marriage (I only encouraged u to see it beyond da ceremony of food, drinks and dance)

3. I ain't selfish and everyone around me is grateful to God for my existence (u wouldn't make da original post if u really do live and let live )

Ok thanks

pcguru1:


Asocial not anti social. Find a cause and support it, you will find like minds and eventually socialize with people with common interest. It makes sense to be friendly, networking is very key and profitable

The last line got to me real bad. I get sidelined at work cos people are tired of including me in stuff that I don't show up to. All end of year events, weddings, parties. I was given a query for shunning the dept's team bonding party.

I just totally abhor rowdy places, crowd, noise and even plenty food. I fear that my career growth might be stunted if I don't leave my shell soon but I can't seem to help myself

Forzeenab:

Ok thanks

u are welcome

Forzeenab:


I run away from WhatsApp. People actually try to chat with me but I prefer reading or writing stuff to chatting. I will try and start chatting with people. My god!

I read a foreign blog somewhere about the term "Textrovert" let me paraphrase concisely
"Living your social live in texts"
At times you feel comfortable texting strangers,to me I feel it stems from a little bit of low self esteem issues,we think we're one way but search within yourself deeply,you might realize one incident or situation caused that way to happen,so we get soo comfortable in this sort of life,we lock up and even build our confidence right back but only on the surrounding of this comfort zone we've made happen.
You would be surprised you love other things when you start giving them a trial

Forzeenab:


Why the insult lol, and who puts Maggi in Akara

So na sugar u dey put inside your own akara? Dis is d type of gals my grandmama great grandmother warned me about before she go Heaven. Na ur type dey give Nigerian man quesadilla and Italian Lasagna as breakfast in bed instead of Eba + egusi + goat meat pepper soup. No wonder u want to b going to cinema so u can b eating food instead of cooking @ home. Mtchwwwww!!!

Forzeenab:


Please just follow me back

I've done that

Sheina:

I read a foreign blog somewhere about the term "Textrovert" let me paraphrase concisely
"Living your social live in texts"
At times you feel comfortable texting strangers,to me I feel it stems from a little bit of low self esteem issues,we think we're one way but search within yourself deeply,you might realize one incident or situation caused that way to happen,so we get soo comfortable in this sort of life,we lock up and even build our confidence right back but only on the surrounding of this comfort zone we've made happen.
You would be surprised you love other things when you start giving them a trial

and here comes a real textrovert

zakkyzakes:
and here comes a real textrovert

Make yourself at Home

Forzeenab:


You did not tell me to be careful, why?
Anyway thank you.

Okay sorry my bad, becareful too and be smart...shalom

Sheina:

I read a foreign blog somewhere about the term "Textrovert" let me paraphrase concisely
"Living your social live in texts"
At times you feel comfortable texting strangers,to me I feel it stems from a little bit of low self esteem issues,we think we're one way but search within yourself deeply,you might realize one incident or situation caused that way to happen,so we get soo comfortable in this sort of life,we lock up and even build our confidence right back but only on the surrounding of this comfort zone we've made happen.
You would be surprised you love other things when you start giving them a trial

If I ask for your number, will you give me?

Openbusiness:
So na sugar u dey put inside your own akara? Dis is d type of gals my grandmama great grandmother warned me about before she go Heaven. Na ur type dey give Nigerian man quesadilla and Italian Lasagna as breakfast in bed instead of Eba + egusi + goat meat pepper soup. No wonder u want to b going to cinema so u can b eating food instead of cooking @ home. Mtchwwwww!!!

I don't even put maggi in most things I cook, too much maggi makes me want to throw up

Forzeenab:


If I ask for your number, will you give me?

Yes but privately
Any other person it is to cook for you ni o,Mon wawo

I like the fact that you are bold, everyone is entitled to what he or she wants.. You will definitely get a good man since you are not lazy yourself...

Sheina:

I read a foreign blog somewhere about the term "Textrovert" let me paraphrase concisely
"Living your social live in texts"
At times you feel comfortable texting strangers,to me I feel it stems from a little bit of low self esteem issues,we think we're one way but search within yourself deeply,you might realize one incident or situation caused that way to happen,so we get soo comfortable in this sort of life,we lock up and even build our confidence right back but only on the surrounding of this comfort zone we've made happen.
You would be surprised you love other things when you start giving them a trial

You say you cook for a fee? What else can you do?

Sheina:

Yes but privately
Any other person it is to cook for you ni o,Mon wawo

Thank you so much. Pls reply my DM.

So happy I met you on this thread and yes I can buy food from you, I rarely cook cos of work and no motivation to eat alone after I stress myself to cook.

Dasdfgnb:
I like the fact that you are bold, everyone is entitled to what he or she wants.. You will definitely get a good man since you are not lazy yourself...

Thank you

be you baby, also when you set to mingle with people, watch well. Been introverted is golden

Merciful71:
be you baby, also when you set to mingle with people, watch well. Been introverted is golden

Thank you. I actually hope I have the energy to mingle with people, I need that energy and push.

Forzeenab:


Thank you so much. Pls reply my DM.

So happy I met you on this thread and yes I can buy food from you, I rarely cook cos of work and no motivation to eat alone after I stress myself to cook.

Ope ooo
Oluwa seun oo
I'm equally happy
In fact you just aggravated my happiness with that food part,I'm sure you'd be a wonderful person to be with

:be you baby, also when you set to mingle with people, watch well. Been introverted is goldenThank you. I actually hope I have the energy to mingle with people, I need that energy and push.

Okoroawusa:

You say you cook for a fee? What else can you do?

I'm an Entrepreneur
I do other things I don't want to list here but I'm good at other legal stuffs
I can be a brainy,I'm presently majorly looking for good side hustles,I have a main field already.
I'd love to know what you have in mind you think I can do

Forzeenab:




I don't even put maggi in most things I cook, too much maggi makes me want to throw up

U see yasef? Ordinary maggi dey make u throw up cuz u dunno how to balance simple ingredients like Buhari regime dunno how to balance Nigeria budget. Lemme guess, the "Zee" in your name stands for Zee World?
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Openbusiness:
U see yasef? Ordinary maggi dey make u throw up cuz u dunno how to balance simple ingredients like Buhari regime dunno how to balance Nigeria budget. Lemme guess, the "Zee" in your name stands for Zee World?
[img]https://media1./images/30e586b2e6cf26a1e80fe34a54f13d84/tenor.gif?itemid=10217929[/img]

You need to go to bed

Forzeenab:


You need to go to bed

i'm a night owl + early bird all-in-one. Am nor a small baby like u. Oya change ur diaper and close ur eyes there........and drop dar teddy bear straight. Dunt forget to dream about #endSARS protests if u dunt want wahala 2mao mawin. Ah wee ask u who led d protests, God epp u if u fail d ansa ಠ_ಠ

I honestly feel like your requirement is justifiable. Don't let nobody tell you different. Do you girl .

But why don't you start with having an extroverted female friend? Just someone you can hang out with and chill. Must it really be a guy?

You can have that kind of friendship with a female, going out and stuff. Who knows from one of those outings, you might meet a guy.

And you need to be open minded too dear. Let it not be all talks and no actions. Not when you are called to come out, your introverted nature will come calling and start feeling like staying back inside. Just be open minded, you will be fine.