Blessedassuranc:



Yes they 'seem' nice. But when you get closer you ll know better.I speak from experience. PLS.DONT BE DECEIVED

I don't even understand the Obu in their slogan. Obu in Yoruba means saltless or devoid of sweetness.

empire02:
Is she not a human being like other girls??
What if shix the girl God has destined you to marry ? Or are you trying to say that no white garment member will make heaven'

My advice, go ahead.

This your advice wan resemble righousness own.

emkz:
There is nothing wrong in dating her. Let me share a story with you that totally changed my worldview about them.

We had a member who used to live in our house. He didn't eat meat. And when food is shared to him during Christmas, he'd reject the stew (principles). Once in a while, he used to host his church members and they used to sing and dance and eat. We used to stay away scared of ten, but they always seemed happy. He always had family members around living with him, and even trained an outsider who was rejected by his extended family. He trained another cousin of his. As kids, he always allowed us to come to his apartment to watch movies and would leave us there when he was going out. We knew where he kept his key incase someone came and needed a place to sleep.

Something happened and he started losing weight. There was rumour that he had HIV because he had a weakness for women. He spent sometime in the hospital until the hospital could not do anything for him again. He returned home emaciated and unable to care for himself. Everyone, including his family, abandoned him. His girlfriend whose siblings he catered for abandoned him. No one wanted to go near him, including those who he had helped. My younger sister was very angry when the people he had helped were no where to be found, and said she'd chase any family member that comes to his house to eat once he gets well. She was barely 12 when she said this.

Then his church stepped in. Everyday, different members would come to look after him and clean him, bathe him, cook for him and spend time with him. They later took him to the church. Our neighbours visited him there and narrated to us how much he was cared for. Parents did not prevent their children from going around him.

He died in the church under the care of his fellow church members, who became his family when he needed one. He was a dedicated member of the church and despite his weakness for women, he was a genuinely nice man. When I used to walk around without slippers, he gave me money to buy and told me not to tell my parents (my parents refused to buy me slippers after I had cut more than six pairs). He was not a rich man, but he was a nice man. I will never forget him.

Such people likely make heaven than others.

So forget about the Brotherhood of the Cross and Star (I still don't know anything about their belief system) and assess your partner on the basis of her persona. Then find out about the beliefs, convictions and doctrines of the Brotherhood of Cross and Star. Then you'd realize many of us criticize in ignorance.

Don't lose a beautiful thing for something as flimsy as religion. There is more I can share about another white garment church, but it is irrelevant to this discussion.

1ce Edited.

Good works can't take you to heaven. Only ticket is wearing the righteousness of Jesus Christ. I am not condemning good works either

Quality20:
D ones I know kind of like sex extremely, so I avoid talking with those girls cos they also talk in decently. I don't know if those olumba girls are taught to be sex freaks

I was going to say this... I have had the blessed opportunity of being friends with 2.

Real tigresses they were and both from Ondo. Don't know if it is the tribe, church or just their makeup but then such coincidences are often too much to overlook.

RealSolution001:
Please your advice is very important.

There's this girl I have been seeing on friendship level but presently there's urge to push it into relationship. From the look of things, I know she's already falling for me so the question whether she'll agree for me or not shouldn't even come in. However, I recently happened to know she's a member of brotherhood of the cross and star (the white garment and shoeless church) likewise her parents and other members of the family. Since I discovered this, I have been very sceptical about the whole thing.

Is it advisable to date such girl? What of in the event of breakup? Any physical or spiritual harm done to someone for being with such a person? Would I be coerced to convert to the beliefs (that is the last thing that will ever happen). Have you dated one before? How did it go?

Brotherhood of the cross and star is 99% better than the winners chapel or Christ embassy, even salvation ministries...

Bro get it straight, they do not practice diabolism in brotherhood, they teach and practice love everyday in brotherhood....

Open up to her,I can swear with my life, you will not regret your moves..
Peace and love is all that matters

The brotherhood of the cross and star wishes you "PEACE"

Once you have doubts about a relationship it's better to keep off. When you meet the one there will be no questions asked.

frankson1:




I met one a few months ago but when I got to see the white on her, nobody told me to run. Really, I don't understand them or know how they operate.

Many of them are good but not all. You can't tell unless you're a spiritual person yourself and have a spirit of discernment

Zivaharry:
if you are that tall.....make we do boyfriend and girlfrien ;Dd

From this story self, it seems the church used him in disguise, I have so many attending the church, one died in my final yr in a similar event

emkz:
There is nothing wrong in dating her. Let me share a story with you that totally changed my worldview about them.

We had a member who used to live in our house. He didn't eat meat. And when food is shared to him during Christmas, he'd reject the stew (principles). Once in a while, he used to host his church members and they used to sing and dance and eat. We used to stay away scared of ten, but they always seemed happy. He always had family members around living with him, and even trained an outsider who was rejected by his extended family. He trained another cousin of his. As kids, he always allowed us to come to his apartment to watch movies and would leave us there when he was going out. We knew where he kept his key incase someone came and needed a place to sleep.

Something happened and he started losing weight. There was rumour that he had HIV because he had a weakness for women. He spent sometime in the hospital until the hospital could not do anything for him again. He returned home emaciated and unable to care for himself. Everyone, including his family, abandoned him. His girlfriend whose siblings he catered for abandoned him. No one wanted to go near him, including those who he had helped. My younger sister was very angry when the people he had helped were no where to be found, and said she'd chase any family member that comes to his house to eat once he gets well. She was barely 12 when she said this.

Then his church stepped in. Everyday, different members would come to look after him and clean him, bathe him, cook for him and spend time with him. They later took him to the church. Our neighbours visited him there and narrated to us how much he was cared for. Parents did not prevent their children from going around him.

He died in the church under the care of his fellow church members, who became his family when he needed one. He was a dedicated member of the church and despite his weakness for women, he was a genuinely nice man. When I used to walk around without slippers, he gave me money to buy and told me not to tell my parents (my parents refused to buy me slippers after I had cut more than six pairs). He was not a rich man, but he was a nice man. I will never forget him.

Such people likely make heaven than others.

So forget about the Brotherhood of the Cross and Star (I still don't know anything about their belief system) and assess your partner on the basis of her persona. Then find out about the beliefs, convictions and doctrines of the Brotherhood of Cross and Star. Then you'd realize many of us criticize in ignorance.

Don't lose a beautiful thing for something as flimsy as religion. There is more I can share about another white garment church, but it is irrelevant to this discussion.

1ce Edited.

Ifork4money:
those bastards are powerless, i wll Bleep and refuck and dump her and nothing go happen. that is how them make noise till them carry a whole oba staff and them no fit knack the person thunder

apt

Blessedassuranc:


YOU REALLY KNOW OOO (OLUMBA OLUMBA OBU)

hope you don't mind sharing with us

yvonncute:
Abeg forget that guy, I attended that church for more than 4 years so I can confidently tell you that their is nothing wrong in dating her.

then why you con commot?

dave4rella:

Dated one, the girl was a vibe and a jolly good fellow!
If you behold her in that their church wear, you will know that she's truly beautiful.

Was with her one night, and she boldly told me that any man that tries to rape her will die under 24hrs, I fear..
Also promised to bring me good fortune..

But my mum saw her with me one day and warned me to stay away from her.. That was how the relationship gradually ended

So you go ahead if you have good intentions towards her, but if you toy with her heart, she will turn you into a tortoise or snake and lala will move your story to front page of nairaland

chai

Young man!

Na situation (which is spiritual) dey carry people go this church for solutions.

While they are worshiping here, they feel relief and a little bit of rest of mind or better still, they found solution there.

If they stop coming, the wahala go come back, so they have no options than to stay put.

If this family na you choice, prepare to join prayer warriors in case you would want to stop her and your unborn children from worshiping there.

Kindly note.

This is just my opinion.

Good luck.

Ask your father how he married your mum!!!

I have dated one. Actually, I don't believe in those shenanigans they do. Their belief system is too odd but who cares. I hated she attends that church anyway.

She's nice, sexually free, and you will hardly deduce she's a member. However, she's committed in the church as she holds one little leadership position in their youth wing.

She recently got married (last week). I missed her though. She was everything I wanted. And no, we didn't break up because of her religion because I don't care. And I know if we had continued till marriage, she will quit.

Op, their beliefs are odd. They see Obu as god. They pray in his name. Like ending prayers with..."In the name of Olumba Olumba Obu"

They go to Calabar every December. There's a river their women swim/bath inside stack naked. A whole lot of shits they do in the church. Sometimes it could be scary. But for me, if you like belong to Ogboni, it's your business. Nothing you do will ever affect me.

Modified

I forgot to add, the dad is a Bishop there, you can imagine. I'm sure she got married to one of their members. It's even good for her so they can continue that odd way of life.

She eats meat and every other thing other people do. Take alcohol, go to club, name it. On Sunday, she'd wear their white (a cloth which she had never taken pictures on). One day, she was in church and we made a video call. Seeing her in that cloth was really something else. I took screenshots and laughed at her after the service. They don't wear any makeup when going to church. Alot of memories anyway. But she was one lady I wanted to marry. But life happens to us all.

RealSolution001:
Please your advice is very important.

There's this girl I have been seeing on friendship level but presently there's urge to push it into relationship. From the look of things, I know she's already falling for me so the question whether she'll agree for me or not shouldn't even come in. However, I recently happened to know she's a member of brotherhood of the cross and star (the white garment and shoeless church) likewise her parents and other members of the family. Since I discovered this, I have been very sceptical about the whole thing.

Is it advisable to date such girl? What of in the event of breakup? Any physical or spiritual harm done to someone for being with such a person? Would I be coerced to convert to the beliefs (that is the last thing that will ever happen). Have you dated one before? How did it go?

You probably live in Akwa Ibom or Cross River. If not, you are in Lagos. Na there dem de

tfash96:
Yeah I've dated 1 b4 and we broke up in August.. She will want u to join her church.. All these celestial girls... I'm happy I'm no longer with her anymore sha

Bros Olumba no be cele o

They quite different,

A lot lot

Na Afonjas get(dominate) cele, cherubim and the likes

Brotherhood however, has its member base in cross river state,

I have a friend who is now one of their so called 144,000 virgins,

He maybe won't ever get married,

We still get along quite well, He sure is, one of the nicest guys out there.

Calabar is their HQ

They don't indulge in jah jehovah emmanuel, holy shit,

They are completely different from the others

(Very) Unique doctrine.


You like the girl, go for her,
she's just a girl, not a monster.

She obviously won't bite.
You can, if you very determined, drag her out of the brotherhood; well, I guess that will only happen if she really likes you.

@OP...I ain't trying2 discourage u but you have to learn to look beyond what you see.I understand love can be of the soul, unconditional.Since u want something serious with her which might probably lead to marriage,are u comfortable with a Church whose leader refer to himself as god,kings of kings and lord of lords,creator of the Universe and who perform various questionable rituals carried out at rivers? If u were a member it's a different issue cos u're both In the same boat. Spirituality and similar beliefs is the one of the most important core of any marriage.It will be difficult for her to change her church because she was brought up there.its her family church.she is a woman,she will have a very powerful influence over you and ur kids.Are u ready to take ur kids down that path?you have to be careful u don't begin ur life with this woman on a shaky foundation.you really have to pray to ur Creator and ask him for guidance,and then speak to the lady and ask if she will be willing to change church in future.For those who say BCC members are nice,there are nice people in every church,and there are also bad people in every church,and everywhere u go all over the world.if ur spirit is not comfortable with her place of worship,I suggest u find someone else.There is always another soulmate for you down the road.

The ball is in your court provided you don't mind all these situations you mentioned.

Hit and run to is alway allowed

ijo mimo kerubu ati serafu. holy Michael.chaiii...!!!

Religion shouldn't be the guideline for choosing a spouse. ..many Christian are evil from the days of judas... Choose a good person with lovely character
a patient human being and humble because God loves humble people. ...
You just saw a pastor go to jail...check the person and choose...character first.

RealSolution001:
Please your advice is very important.

There's this girl I have been seeing on friendship level but presently there's urge to push it into relationship. From the look of things, I know she's already falling for me so the question whether she'll agree for me or not shouldn't even come in. However, I recently happened to know she's a member of brotherhood of the cross and star (the white garment and shoeless church) likewise her parents and other members of the family. Since I discovered this, I have been very sceptical about the whole thing.

Is it advisable to date such girl? What of in the event of breakup? Any physical or spiritual harm done to someone for being with such a person? Would I be coerced to convert to the beliefs (that is the last thing that will ever happen). Have you dated one before? How did it go?

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KinSlayer:
Don’t let stereotypes and stories from people stop you from missing out on a potentially good thing. Live without fear. The best person I have ever met in my life was a brotherhood boy that I bullied in secondary school. He paid my wickedness with kindness in spite of all my bullying, even to the extent of giving me his own biro in exam hall,(no, not a spare, the one he was writing with). I didn’t even realize how awesome this dude was at the time, I realized how emotionally far ahead of me he was on reminiscing. That boy changed my life outlook, and his parents,(both of them are brotherhood) did a damn fine job.

There's actually a psychological state called autism. It misrepresents believes and religious inclinations.

For the very fact you having doubts about the relationship means it's not a good venture run

Chei op you better run before she donates you to satan

RealSolution001:
Who has dated one before? Give me full gist. I'm talking about first hand experience.

I have before and I was scared throughout out the 1 year and 4 months relationship. I am alive because I never cheated on her she told me.


That's the summary!

gowonmaharajah:
ijo mimo kerubu ati serafu.
holy Michael.chaiii...!!!

who is talking of cherubim and seraphim here? Olodo rabata

After going through all the comments I realized how sarcastic and brainwashed pple are. White garment church does not mean any shit.
Go on with ur love life. No allow all this fools for NL poison ur mind.
Ona wer de claim sey Ona de go clean churches. We have seen u doin worst. Why come here to display ur hypocrisy.
Brainwashed pokes

White garment churches are also good people.

Girls from that church Bleep allot and unfaithfulness is 100% guarantee... Even if she is married they still flirt.. I know many of them nd the story is the same