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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by dammyBoxes: 8:07am On Dec 05, 2020
Jesslove:
Succeeding in life got me over my biggest heartbreak.
what is success to you?
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by AmazonTopaz(f): 8:07am On Dec 05, 2020
surebona:


How can I mean nothing to her after those years
You cheated on her and broke her trust

It is good she left you.You can go continue your cheating spree elsewhere
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by AmazonTopaz(f): 8:09am On Dec 05, 2020
Elxandre:

Sounds like a girl Tbh. Lmao.

Yes, cheating is bad but a guy cheating and running off to confess? undecided
They actually do sometimes it is better they even confess it than the lady/guy finding out elsewhere it is even uglier when they find out outside people react differently.
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Nobody: 8:10am On Dec 05, 2020
millionboi2:
why wouldn't we

When you ppl keep taskin us as if

Why will she be tasking you? Are you his mother or father? It's not compulsory to give money to any lady please
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Nobody: 8:11am On Dec 05, 2020
everything that has a begining must come to an end someday. thats the mindset i activate when such unpleasant event like heartbreak occur to me. it helps me accept what has happened in good faith and begin the healing process immediately. u have mourned the loss of tha precious relationship which is good but right now u need to accept that its history now. life goes on regardless

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by AmazonTopaz(f): 8:12am On Dec 05, 2020
chinchonglee:

As in ehn..
I ve cheated 700 times and no sign of remorse
I wanna believe you are joking if you are not joking you need help seek it because you will end up regretting it especially when done to you by whom you cheerish.Karma is a bittch better allow your head control you and stop thinking with your dick
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Teibaba(m): 8:12am On Dec 05, 2020
BBL3691:
With time you will definitely get over her unless you willingly commit suicide.
These following points can help you get over her.
1. Morning exercise. Do exercise every morning and the result will surprise you. You will be lifted from worry, anxiety, boredom and unnecessary depression.
2. Try as much as possible to think about her negative lifestyles. Never focus your mind on her positive attitude. Consider the money and time you spent on her as unplanned sacrifice. That way she appears totally replaceable.
3. Socialise. Mingle with new friends, watch game (football), soccer hall can be your second home for the maintime but I don't encourage you to bet ooo except at your discretion.
4. You can survive the world without her. In fact you can survive the world without majority of the so called irreplaceable ones around you. So give yourself time and don't rush to have new girlfriend yet but just be friendly with people that way your social life will improve.
5. Dress handsomely. Good appearance Cannot be over emphasised. Ladies and people generally can't resist good looking guys except your character
6. Hope you have source of income. That way you are independent. Then be sure your heartbreak is just for a moment


Good one bro.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by AmazonTopaz(f): 8:13am On Dec 05, 2020
surebona:


Really are we perfect?
If she cheated on you and told you how will you feel? undecided
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Maya4eva: 8:13am On Dec 05, 2020
surebona:


6yrs includes while still in school, nysc... Her parents know me and mine knows her too.. had plan to set things right next year.... Because of all that happened this year


I suggest you give her some time. You said she broke up with you because you cheated on her, right? You should know that she most likely spoke from a place of deep hurt, disappointment and resentment...especially if such a thing is not the norm in your relationship. If you love her, keep bugging her. Don't give her space because it will be easy for her to let go of you. Remain in her face. Call her...she'll likely not pick up. Text her constantly. Let her know how sorry you are about what happened. It's hardwork, but with time, you may both recover. Just understand that she's hurting. If she stuck with you for six years, best believe she loves you and cares for you deeply because, there's no way she couldn't have been meeting other people. Yet, she stuck with you. Don't give up without a fight. Good luck.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by od501: 8:13am On Dec 05, 2020
Hassanmaye:

Lol just swim and japa bad boys gang grin sad

My broda, that's the anthem oo...these gals no get joy. But in everything shaa...always remember to fin them something, make em no look like say you chop free kpekus.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by AmazonTopaz(f): 8:16am On Dec 05, 2020
JovialJune:



He is not to be pitied, the lady he cheated on is who I have pity for.
Same here
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by tiswell(m): 8:17am On Dec 05, 2020
All these for just ordinary girlfriend?










Omo go hustle so you won't cry like a little girl over relationships
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by chinchonglee(m): 8:23am On Dec 05, 2020
AmazonTopaz:

I wanna believe you are joking if you are not joking you need help seek it because you will end up regretting it especially when done to you by whom you cheerish.Karma is a bittch better allow your head control you and stop thinking with your dick
Not 700 per se.
But I'm hardly faithful
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 8:24am On Dec 05, 2020
Youngzedd:



Women don't like the TRUTH. If that your truth won't make her happy, just STFU. Don't lie, but be silent.


No matter how religious you're, don't tell a woman the truth that won't make her happy.


This people are not logical like men.


Go through this thread >> https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know it's filled with wisdom.

Bro I just went through that thread and damn I learnt alot. Wish we could be friends, so I learn more bro.
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by AmazonTopaz(f): 8:29am On Dec 05, 2020
chinchonglee:

Not 700 per se.
But I'm hardly faithful
Very disgusting habit better stop it.Hope you are single and not in a committed relationship I pity the poor girl if you are in one.Continue your cheating spree as a single dude nor go give innocent girl STD's it is obvious you think with your dick and not your brain when you are tired of what you do go and seek help maybe get a psychologist because chronic cheating/cheating is not normal.Hopefully you are still single and don't have any woman to give STD's to and give your gabbage or problems to.Men like you are what I pray against for good girls seeking reliable and committed/faithful partners no good girl/woman deserves a man like you God forbid.When you later get tired of all these and meet a woman you will complain that she is bad or like you forgetting that it was the company you keep around yourself and that it is such company you found her in.Fear God and be discipline sexually you will not die if you stay faithful.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Maya4eva: 8:30am On Dec 05, 2020
chinchonglee:

Not 700 per se.
But I'm hardly faithful



But you expect fidelity, right?
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by AmazonTopaz(f): 8:32am On Dec 05, 2020
Maya4eva:




But you expect fidelity, right?
I even want to believe he is not in a relationship and patronises prostitutes because I pity the poor girl unless she is cheating too then no wahala
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Abikeade11(f): 8:34am On Dec 05, 2020
surebona:


Sincerely speaking I caused it all... Please don't criticize me, I am human, I cheated on her, and could not hold myself but to tell her...
wink[color=#000099][/color]. Why wouldn't I criticizes you? How dare you cheat on a relationship of 6 good years? It only means she means nothing to you anymore or you're tired of her, she only gave you what you wanted by cheating on her. My candid advice is, if truly you know you love her and that cheat was just a mistake, try every possible way of reconciling with her, for you to have peace but if you know is otherwise then let her move on.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by asha01: 8:35am On Dec 05, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

You may not know. God has a plan for you. That girl may not be yours else she wont leave. Live your life like nothing has happened believing the best is coming thats why she made way. Evaluate the past 6 years if what you like about her or what you really want in a woman is Not up to 5 things then she is not meant to be with you.
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Donspicey: 8:37am On Dec 05, 2020
surebona:


Sincerely speaking I caused it all... Please don't criticize me, I am human, I cheated on her, and could not hold myself but to tell her...


You loved her and you still cheated on her......


Well you tried sha....



TBH with you,even if she forgives u,d relationship will never remain the same......


Better move on Bro.........


You ve played ur part in her life likewise She.....

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Rolexjerry(m): 8:38am On Dec 05, 2020
Break up with her.
No matter what you do, never go back to a cheating spouse no matter how remorseful she seem. I was in your shoe so I know what I'm saying.
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Nobody: 8:40am On Dec 05, 2020
surebona:


Thanks alot, I even sleep at work. Just to be with those working at night . Because staying at home is making me suicidal

You are very funny for contemplating society

Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by chinchonglee(m): 8:45am On Dec 05, 2020
Maya4eva:




But you expect fidelity, right?
No I dnt..
When i was not cheating my EXs were cheating. Sonsince I couldn't get a faithful girl, I decided to start cheating too.
But mine is on a whole new level now
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Edyice: 8:48am On Dec 05, 2020
Waiting happen again this early morning

Stefeni002 hope you are not responsible grin


I don't trust fati2001 TOO
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by chinchonglee(m): 8:53am On Dec 05, 2020
AmazonTopaz:

Very disgusting habit better stop it.Hope you are single and not in a committed relationship I pity the poor girl if you are in one.Continue your cheating spree as a single dude nor go give innocent girl STD's it is obvious you think with your dick and not your brain when you are tired of what you do go and seek help maybe get a psychologist because chronic cheating/cheating is not normal.Hopefully you are still single and don't have any woman to give STD's to and give your gabbage or problems to.Men like you are what I pray against for good girls seeking reliable and committed/faithful partners no good girl/woman deserves a man like you God forbid.When you later get tired of all these and meet a woman you will complain that she is bad or like you forgetting that it was the company you keep around yourself and that it is such company you found her in.Fear God and be discipline sexually you will not die if you stay faithful.
Sorry Sis!
They ve cheated on me countless times and i was faithful those years.
Am in a presently in a relationship with a chronic cheater but I nor care. She loves me but I dnt love her because she cheats alot thinking I dnt knw what's going on. E nor concern me because I dey do my own. When I find a faithful girl, I can continue being a faithful and loving boyfriend.
For now please allow me enjoy my youthful age without judging me.
Am presently typing from the hotel room I used with one of the girls I cheat with.

Girls are now grandmasters in the cheating game.
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by 116sixteen: 8:54am On Dec 05, 2020
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OZOnNengiTheory:
Hmmm..I can see how understanding she was
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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by fati2001(m): 8:55am On Dec 05, 2020
Edyice:
Waiting happen again this early morning
Stefeni002 hope you are not responsible grin

I don't trust fati2001 TOO

Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by peterinah: 8:57am On Dec 05, 2020
continue soaring in pain, just don't kill yourself or commit sucide, you will heal over time.
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by ElonMosque(m): 8:58am On Dec 05, 2020
Paromarc:
Wahala for who go fall in love

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by AmazonTopaz(f): 9:02am On Dec 05, 2020
chinchonglee:

Sorry Sis!
They ve cheated on me countless times and i was faithful those years.
Am in a presently in a relationship with a chronic cheater but I nor care. She loves me but I dnt love her because she cheats alot thinking I dnt knw what's going on. E nor concern me because I dey do my own. When I find a faithful girl, I can continue being a faithful and loving boyfriend.
For now please allow me enjoy my youthful age without judging me.
Am presently typing from the hotel room I used with one of the girls I cheat with.

Girls are now grandmasters in the cheating game.
Take my advice and you will be better for it.
Girls cheat on you is not an excuse change your environment or the company you keep and see if you will still talk like this.It is because you are a cheat and you surround yourself with one.Is sex even everything like I advised earlier use your brains to think and not your dick stop using it change your circle if you won't know better after that.There are better ways to enjoy your youthful age na your mates dey invent things and reach out positively to people there are other ways to enjoy life not by having sex with every woman you see that is a bad lifestyle.Your life your choice have a nice day you will end up regretting it.What goes around does come around.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Stefenijoan002(f): 9:02am On Dec 05, 2020
Edyice:
Waiting happen again this early morning

Stefeni002 hope you are not responsible grin


I don't trust fati2001 TOO

responsible for what plz?
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by helicoptarr: 9:03am On Dec 05, 2020
1. What's the purpose of your existence?

Find and pursue it tenaciously, the world is waiting for it - trust me!


2. Seek to help others solve their problems - there's profound liberation from self-forgetfulness through altruism


3. Move closer to your God, without Whom you can do nothing


Time heals everything!


Exercise patience, you'll be happier and more experienced after this temporary phase.

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