Gang90:

You don't know what happiness is, have you read the complete works of Shakespeare, or taken a look at some of Tesla's models, have you read the republic by pluto, or seen anything about pearl harbour attack that changed the direction of the world war two, do you know about the Manhattan project, how much do you know about marry Slessor, oh I I shouldn't tell you where lord Lugard was born, for some of us the beauties of life does not always lie in sex, sex is great no doubt but it was not designed for some random kids.

I definitely know more about sex than you will ever know even if you sleep with a thousand woman, do you know why you or most people moan during sex, your sex experience brings you closer to goats and dogs, be human why not study and understand sex

When you don't enjoy some peaceful mental time but glorifies sex, tell me how you are different from donkeys, even 2 months old rats have sex tell me how are you different from them, perhaps your brother or you is not disciplined if he sees your room worthy of being a sex brothel, he should have washed the sheet becuase he wont have had sex there if it were hanging outside when he came.

GerogeI:


Jeez Bro.
I understand you, you are a nerd.
The problem is you do not understand what people are telling you.

Let's do this your way. What most people are telling you is that you have a build up of testosterone. The effect of that sex hormone is that your body will unconsciously push you to fight for a chance to mate.

You will pick a fight for no good reason just as you are doing right now. But in your heard it is perfectly logical. But to the average person, your reason are nonsensical.

You have sexual tension you do not acknowledge, that's the stuff I was telling you that after a while you will no longer be able to avoid sex as you are doing. You body clock is even way ahead of me. And there is nothing wrong with you, that's just the way we are made.

Talking about goats, what do you think makes a he goat or lion or bear leave its comfortable home, head over to someone else's and start a fight that can lead to death just to mate. So yes, you are not humping around with a female like a common animal, but you are still breathing under sexual tension like a common animal. This leads to masturbation, this is why a lot of smart nerdy people masturbate. Those one who are not educated and with good income start visiting brothels.

You are not by any means the first person to think that sex is too animalistic. But our designer tied the ropes too strong, you cannot escape it. If you continue as you are doing, one day you will enter a public space and take offence that a man there is holding his woman. Why will he hold her in public. It's an eyesore to your eyes. Oh, they should get a room! It's not logic talking, but your dick doing the thinking by flooding your system with testosterone.


In fact, this hormone is what makes men more aggressive than female. If you where living in Bush men era, you would have way laid any woman by now.
Go get laid and leave off spiritual bullshit before it ruins you. If you are an igbanje, let the women enjoy your ogbanjeness. If you have a child, what's the big deal. Better still get married. But being an Igbo boy, I know you are far from ready. Get a girl and stop avoiding women. They are wonderful, beautiful creatures. Half of what you are told about women is crap. When you find a good one, she will add to your life spiritually and physically. Your brain will be smarter.

If I was in Lagos, I would have invited you to hangout. Any professional matured Igbo man whose got the time, should connect with this young man, mentor him and pull him out of his shell before he loses him self to Prophets.

rooftops:
This is my second reply, you are becoming self absorbed. There is a thin line between enlightenment and insanity. You being treated like a king by your mum does not mean others will treat you like that. I also can't sleep on a bed where sex just occurred but that doesn't mean I will be getting worked up.
The spiritualist telling you to be careful with women is funny, which adult male shouldn't be?why is yours so special

Lucrativress:

Your problem is that you expect people to behave in a certain way which is right
Stop expecting much from people
Expect the worst and work on how you'll handle situations when people act disgusting cause the truth is,expect your disgust to be ignited again later in the future.
And the only reason is cause we're humans and not gods and we're not the same.
Sorry okay,don't feel bad again
Just be happy you have options to choose from that's all,don't get worked up over this issue

zexy2030:


Omoh, u got time to xplain shit to this kid. He just wants sympathizers.. Oya let's tell him.. Eyahhh.

Gang90:

You are busy thinking it about sympathy, well I just unlocked a new phase in my life, I live to either celebrate or regret my decision but I'm happy it is entirely my decision

zexy2030:

Shioor, self righteous priest.

zexy2030:

Shioor, self righteous priest.

uncleck:
At 26, you're grown. Stop complaining about little things like this. Pick the sheet and wash or buy another one and fold the old one inside an abandoned case.

Gang90:

It disgusting, seriously, and I can't just head back to my family house I just came back from there, and it some hour and 30 minutes journey, these things irritates me,

Gang90:

I don't hate her, more like indifference, I had left several times but my brother wants me to stay around cause his business keeps him on the move and sometimes, I need to help with taking care of the kids

pek:
Go back and read the last sentence of your post. Read it slowly. It is your hate for her that is fueling this deep resentment over nothing. I'm sure that sheet is not stained in anyway. Even it were, it is your brother's fluid. But you have tactfully left your brother out of all these to focus on his wife.

Investorlex:
Turn the other side of the foam and sleep

Gang90:
So guys it valentine's day, I'm really disgusted, okay I stay in my brothers house, I travelled, I came back around 2:30 I wanted to enter my room but my brother told me wait a while, with my adult mind, I realised they having some couple time, I dropped my bag in the living room and head out.

But I came back to find out the room is scattered and the bedsheet there, a responsible woman should at least wash the bed sheet noting that a grown up Male stays there.

I will be 26 this year, I had not really had sex so all these things imagining a strange woman's bodily fluids in my bedsheet is disgusting. I can take it from the side of my brother but not the wife, she disgusts me honestly, she is not my girlfriend, not my sister, not my wife, not my mother why should she expect I wash her after sex sheets for her or why can't she just pick the sheet immediately and wash it, it could have dried by now. And it really feel awful for me if I try to wash it, honestly.

This is about to be the worst valentine's day for me, I'm planning to head out and rent a room in hotel but who knows most hotel rooms will be disgusting today, what do I do please advice.

I'm hating knowing already, cause if I didn't know it could all not be so dirty to me, now my bed looks so dirty to me and I can't attempt to wash it until at least 24 hours and I will wash it soaked in hot water, I hate nonses just cause my brothers accepts you does not mean everyone in the family sees you as one flesh.

Cutehector:
Why would they have sex in your room

Gang90:
So guys it valentine's day, I'm really disgusted, okay I stay in my brothers house, I travelled, I came back around 2:30 I wanted to enter my room but my brother told me wait a while, with my adult mind, I realised they having some couple time, I dropped my bag in the living room and head out.

But I came back to find out the room is scattered and the bedsheet there, a responsible woman should at least wash the bed sheet noting that a grown up Male stays there.

I will be 26 this year, I had not really had sex so all these things imagining a strange woman's bodily fluids in my bedsheet is disgusting. I can take it from the side of my brother but not the wife, she disgusts me honestly, she is not my girlfriend, not my sister, not my wife, not my mother why should she expect I wash her after sex sheets for her or why can't she just pick the sheet immediately and wash it, it could have dried by now. And it really feel awful for me if I try to wash it, honestly.

This is about to be the worst valentine's day for me, I'm planning to head out and rent a room in hotel but who knows most hotel rooms will be disgusting today, what do I do please advice.

I'm hating knowing already, cause if I didn't know it could all not be so dirty to me, now my bed looks so dirty to me and I can't attempt to wash it until at least 24 hours and I will wash it soaked in hot water, I hate nonses just cause my brothers accepts you does not mean everyone in the family sees you as one flesh.

Callmegerald2:
There are a number of options available to you. First, keep calm. You still live with your brother. Wash the sheet. Do not confront his wife. She will make life miserable for you under your brother's roof.
Secondly, at 26, maybe you should consider getting your own apartment. Maybe a room selfcon will be cool. If they could have sex in your room and not clean up, it may be a subtle sign to get your own room.
Thirdly, do not discuss this issue with your brother. Next time when going out, lock your room.

Gang90:


My brother is a nice guy, but It not easy to be the only one they talk about, I'm like this kind of person that does not talk much but really loud, I don't want to bring issues to the family cause to my brother a wife is already a part of him, but to me the wife remains a stranger, my brother after that went out coming back this night, it a merry go round day and currently sleeping.

So how would I say or so, don't you know your wife or you should wash the sheets after doing like, lol that's the most ridiculous thing ever, I got pretend like honestly I don't even know you guys did something like this, I don't have to know that why a mature woman should make the bed and wash the sheets.

I don't tell her to wash my sheets, in fact most times I cook my food I love cooking, at home my mum do help me with washing and my mum is about the only woman I allow to wash my bedsheet, if it were at home my mum could have washed it, like once I quarrel with my mum sef I stop her from washing my football kits which she love doing, to me I don't naturally like just anybody washing my personal effects.

I don't ask her to wash the bedsheet on a good day, I wash my stuff myself I enjoy doing it and watch my fingers look clean but this is different, even in my room in my personal house, they can have sex there they are married, but after that, restore my room to earlier state. That's all I'm asking. And I don't have to tell them becuase somethings are not what you say, we can all send a silent message.

Gang90:

Who is talking about grown here, I'm talking about tonight, where I'm I going to sleep, washing it is not the problem, I can get a new one tomorrow or get the dry cleaner to come pick it up and wash, I'm talking about today, where should I sleep, i had told you that sex from strange people disgusts me, so it not about pick it up and wash, that bedsheet currently looks like puke to me, or even worse

Gang90:
So guys it valentine's day, I'm really disgusted, okay I stay in my brothers house, I travelled, I came back around 2:30 I wanted to enter my room but my brother told me wait a while, with my adult mind, I realised they having some couple time, I dropped my bag in the living room and head out.

But I came back to find out the room is scattered and the bedsheet there, a responsible woman should at least wash the bed sheet noting that a grown up Male stays there.

I will be 26 this year, I had not really had sex so all these things imagining a strange woman's bodily fluids in my bedsheet is disgusting. I can take it from the side of my brother but not the wife, she disgusts me honestly, she is not my girlfriend, not my sister, not my wife, not my mother why should she expect I wash her after sex sheets for her or why can't she just pick the sheet immediately and wash it, it could have dried by now. And it really feel awful for me if I try to wash it, honestly.

This is about to be the worst valentine's day for me, I'm planning to head out and rent a room in hotel but who knows most hotel rooms will be disgusting today, what do I do please advice.

I'm hating knowing already, cause if I didn't know it could all not be so dirty to me, now my bed looks so dirty to me and I can't attempt to wash it until at least 24 hours and I will wash it soaked in hot water, I hate nonses just cause my brothers accepts you does not mean everyone in the family sees you as one flesh.

Gang90:

I won't judge much on that one, it is their house and no one knew I will be coming back today, but why in heavens name won't she at least wash the bedsheet, I'm disgusted honestly,

Gang90:


Let me tell you a little story, 4 years back a jambite about 19 years back then was staying over in my house as she came from Lagos within two days of her stay she was in love with me, I don't seem to notice much, next day I saw her wearing my track suite, that was the end of it, I wanted to tell to have it but while leaving she dropped it, I threw it into the waste bin right away, you need to understand the challenge, I'm facing right now, is not on telling her to wash it, if I do that I'm disrespecting my brother, if my brother was did not take her to my room is she stupid, wife or not, I'm only calm becuase she's not the only culprit, if she was the only culprit, I will not mention a word before she picks it wash it and dry it is she stupid, does being her husband place give her any right to contaminate my room.

Bro I'm a strict person, If my brother is not around or let's say she can't try it on her own, lol if I move out of my brothers house it won't end there and I don't have issue with him, if I move out of there many more cases will arise