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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer: 1:44pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
cococandy: You have chosen violence.lol |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by Rutherford2019: 1:52pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
I have never dated any girl before, in fact I have not hugged or kiss a girl before and now I'm 33.. I lost feeling for girls but the problem is that there is pressure for me to get married but I'm comfortable alone.. What should I do 2 Likes |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer: 1:55pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
Rutherford2019: Create a new thread, I'm sure you will get valuable answers |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by trilobite: 1:59pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
Yeah it is when you want to settle down you realize wives are scarce. The issue for me is double dating. Once any girl does that, I walk away. Have tried and tried but can't seem to find a girl ready to stick to one guy. My friends tell me it's a waste of time. That I should just close my eyes, get married and hope for the best. Also annoying is the pastor/reverend sister act Nigerian girls come up with because they think that is what all men are looking for. News flash, character matters more than faith. Speak in tongues from now till eternity, if you don't know how to be loyal you're not worth it. It is all seriously exhausting!!!. I have decided to throw in the towel if my next attempt goes the same route (double dating). Will just close my eyes and get a girl pregnant like many of my guys. 1 Like |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by valentineuwakwe(m): 1:59pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
e no easy o..even Tony tetula once sang it: am in love with two women I know no which one to choose! |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by Emyogalanya: 2:10pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
needanswer:guy go buy seminary School form, fill it and submit. oh sorry I forget u are easily bored. and could just mistake a nun for a boredom relief pill. it seems while growing up you were cultured to see women as stress relief pill that's why, once the stress is gone, boredom sets in the pill u need now which I'll recommend to u is getmaturedmycine 1 Like |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by begoniaa: 2:15pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
I like the reality check of threads like these. No redpill nonsense and theories. The usual shamings/projections are still there, but still y'all are in want of marriages and lacking befitting partners unlike you'll want to have us believe. 1 Like |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by Liposure: 2:21pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle:behind every changed man, there's a good woman |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by begoniaa: 2:24pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: Just give them a few hours also, dear. They'll come and tell you women are the ones who do the 'picking of mates' now and weed out strong males from weak ones. 'Anywhere belle face...' 'Bad boys get the good women.' Na why dem still never marry? 1 Like |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by begoniaa: 2:25pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
Liposure: |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by BlackNostra(f): 2:54pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
needanswer:Go back and manage your ex like that, take her to therapy or something needanswer:Go back and manage your ex like that, take her to therapy or something |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by Rebelsquad: 3:10pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
Omo.. this thread.. very few people actually offered advise. most came to fight and insult we'll be alright in this country. I don't know what's always annoying us 1 Like |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by Neobulletzz(m): 3:16pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
Lucrativress:Wow Followed the thread because of you Love the way you switch up the conversation Do you run tutorials |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by DissTroy(m): 3:17pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
trilobite: I avoid overly-religious people, especially young females. Worse even, the ones who inundate social media with their "Holy spirit" cliches. Most often than not, these folks are the worst out there - screwing just about any male (single and even married), simultaneous multiple sexual partners, countless abortions, even subtle prostitution. Get comfortable with a girl and I notice her social media timeline tilts towards religiosity, I'd drift away slowly and be gone soon. Hypocrites! 2 Likes |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by pozehnani(f): 3:17pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
vickydevoka: Lol @ pick your wahala and go. Men too have wahala these days. |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by meobizy(f): 3:17pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
Since the desirable is not available... |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by Growcrypto: 3:19pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
why |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by divineappo(m): 3:24pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
needanswer:am in same shoe right now My babe, I love her so much and she loves me, but she is a last born, she is 28yrs old, and she has this lazy last born attitude, she even told me whenever she falls sick, her sickness is always tough, yet she hates using drugs. Am conservative with spending but she isn't, she is the type that won't rest until she use iPhone despite not working. Am patiently working on her, and hoping she would change. She has to change, grow up, begin to think and act matured, stop her last born attitude, before I marry her Truth is, I really love her |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer: 3:25pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
BlackNostra: Is it that simple? |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer: 3:26pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
divineappo: I'm happy you really love but like you said she needs to change before you can marry her. |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer: 3:27pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
Rebelsquad: Lol .very true |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by pozehnani(f): 3:45pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
TheVictim01: Lol... What ever that means though.@ symbols. |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by ogbonti: 4:03pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
needanswer: My apologies if I came up as being rude, maybe I was trying to make you realize you are making a big mistake. Most girls who are very humble out there may be very broke and a huge liability if you marry them. This very girl is not broke as you said she has her own money. That’s a big one in today’s Nigeria. And she is pretty and every other thing is complete for her EXCEPT anger issues. If that’s the only issue, there are anger management programs you can get her into and try to fix the issue. No human being is 100% complete - no man is perfect, and once you fix that part of her life then you would have found your missing ribs. To find a woman lacking just one attribute out of a host of attributes is very rare, you will remember me in future, once again I apologize if I came up as rude, no vex - God bless you and hope someone else won’t take her before you realize your mistake - and you start regretting all your life why you let her go when you end up with an angry, broke and ugly woman! take care |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer: 4:30pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
ogbonti: Lol, why angry, broke and ugly woman? Three very bad combinations. Well thanks for your heart felt apology. Maybe I will look into her, maybe. The communication lines are still open between us although we rarely use it. So I'll see how it goes. |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by IamPlato(m): 5:44pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
needanswer:thanks bro |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer: 5:55pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
IamPlato: You are welcome. |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by ogbonti: 6:04pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
needanswer: Wise move and have a blessed day Sir! |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by Happy2020: 6:21pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
YOU WILL KNOW when you find that different one that pulls your heart in a way like you’ve never felt before. That one you can’t live without. You will know. Up till now, you obviously haven’t found her but that is ok, you have time. Love and a deep connection are beautiful things, wait for the one that you can share this with and it will be worth the wait. Most Nigerian women are not capable of such a deep relationship because they only see money and status but good luck to you. |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by Hatima: 6:25pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
needanswer:I share your pain to be honest. Like you, I like to talk about everything and anything, try out new things etc. I can't say you should overlook the anger issue or not. You wear the shoe, you know how it fits and ultimately you know what you want. I believe you'd make the best choice.. don't rush it. Marriage scares me because I honestly think I'd get bored as well. I remember telling a guy to come with me to an amusement park, he asked if I was a kid, I love watching and talking about animes, history etc.. asking questions that lead to deeper conversations..I've been told I'm boring... if not because I'm the first and only girl, I honestly would not bother about marriage..my mom would lose her mind if she heard me say this.. |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer: 6:28pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
Hatima: Now if I met you in real life it would be interesting. I like your energy. 2 Likes |
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer: 6:29pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
ogbonti: Thank you. Wish you the same! 1 Like |
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