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Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by Connected1: 4:02pm On Mar 10, 2021
HappyCreative:

1) why should I date a beta male if there is such a thing? 2) I'm living my best life actually. Happy and taken 3)in not Catholic, why would i join? Why would I want multiple dicks?
That man is suffering, I pity him. An average Nigerian man will only Bleep & dump you after many marriage promises.
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by Connected1: 4:03pm On Mar 10, 2021
HappyCreative:


1) why should I date a beta male if there is such a thing?
2) I'm living my best life actually. Happy and taken
3)in not Catholic, why would i join? Why would I want multiple dicks?
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by DEMZEE(m): 4:03pm On Mar 10, 2021
HappyCreative:


You won't write them because men have fragile errors and can't stand that women might be bet than then in any way. This is very boring.

Yes men are egoistic

Women are solipsistic

That is our innate survival instinct

How come women look down on okada drivers, plumbers, bricklayers etc and admire business owners, CEOs etc uhn??
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by Nobody: 4:03pm On Mar 10, 2021
HappyCreative:


You sound like you're idolising this man to be fair.


He's a Patriach who has authority in his own home, married more than 30 yrs,very successful role model who has accquired wealth for his household and is solving many life's problems

That is not idolizing that is emulating a good role model

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Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by HappyCreative(f): 4:04pm On Mar 10, 2021
DEMZEE:


So men and women also menstruate ahbi

Men and women are both physically strong

Cmon you are a joker

Ur logic is laughable

Men are the strong gender

Women are the vulnerable gender therefore that makes them the weak gender.

Obviously there are differences. Men can seen too accept when someone is trying to teach them.

Your logic is incongruous.

Not all men are strong. Not all women are weak.

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Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by DEMZEE(m): 4:06pm On Mar 10, 2021
HappyCreative:


Obviously there are differences. Men can seen too accept when someone is trying to teach them.

Your logic is incongruous.

Not all men are strong. Not all women are weak.

Exactly Men and women are fundamentally different

Not all men are strong sure, we call them beta males

The so-called not "weak women" tend to b pseudo masculine hybrid beast women
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by Nobody: 4:07pm On Mar 10, 2021
HappyCreative:


Obviously there are differences. Men can seen too accept when someone is trying to teach them.

Your logic is incongruous.

Not all men are strong. Not all women are weak.


His logic is working based on generalization and extremes of both sides

Men are more logical than women
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by HappyCreative(f): 4:07pm On Mar 10, 2021
DEMZEE:


Men are success objects

Women are sexual objects

Men are judged based on their burden of performance. Men must become.

Women just are, once a girl can menstruate any other thing after that is secondary. Her fertility is her greatest agency.

Men need two things from a woman, is she hot??And is she available??

A lot of men are failures, now what?

Men put these pressures on themselves and then try and blame women.

It's sad that you only see women as sex objects. In the bible it says husbands should live their wives as they love themselves which means you're a sex object too, right?

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Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by HappyCreative(f): 4:08pm On Mar 10, 2021
Kebbiprince:

Well all I do know is that they continually hope and pray for a male figure in their life. When u grow up u will understand

I'm grown. Thanks though.

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Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by DEMZEE(m): 4:10pm On Mar 10, 2021
HappyCreative:


A lot of men are failures, now what?

Men put these pressures on themselves and then try and blame women.

It's sad that you only see women as sex objects. In the bible it says husbands should live their wives as they love themselves which means you're a sex object too, right?

Exactly only beta males blame women for their inability to perform. Their burden of performance is very low and that makes them low valued and beta males. Men are success objects. Men are judged from Wat they can achieve and accomplish.

Women are sexual objects because they are the gatekeepers of sex. Their agency is their pussy. This is a known fact nahh
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by Nobody: 4:10pm On Mar 10, 2021
HappyCreative:


A lot of men are failures, now what?

Men put these pressures on themselves and then try and blame women.

It's sad that you only see women as sex objects. In the bible it says husbands should live their wives as they love themselves which means you're a sex object too, right?


Who the hell told you we blame women may be some do it on an individual level but you women needed to form an ideology called Feminism to blame men for your lack of success and then tag all of us ( rich or poor,old or young) as oppressive patriarchs

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Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by HappyCreative(f): 4:12pm On Mar 10, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:


We can't be equals on any level
You menstruate and ovulate we don't
You give birth we don't
You are estrogenious we are filled with testerones
Psychologically, emotionally, evolutionary, Biologically, physically we are never your equals

Equality does not mean having the exact same things. What part of that do you not understand.

So you and a man stronger than you are not equal, right?

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Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by HappyCreative(f): 4:13pm On Mar 10, 2021
Connected1:

That man is suffering, I pity him.
An average Nigerian man will only Bleep & dump you after many marriage promises.

That's why I don't go for average men.

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Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by HappyCreative(f): 4:15pm On Mar 10, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:



He's a Patriach who has authority in his own home, married more than 30 yrs,very successful role model who has accquired wealth for his household and is solving many life's problems

That is not idolizing that is emulating a good role model

Idolise: to admire, revere, or love greatly or excessively
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by Nobody: 4:15pm On Mar 10, 2021
HappyCreative:


Equality does not mean having the exact same things. What part of that do you not understand.

So you and a man stronger than you are not equal, right?

Men are not even equals
We might have joysticks but mine can be longer or shorter than another man's own
Men work with burden of performance to create success and status in Societies

Weak men are spat on and no one gives a damn about them in Society

Only women and children are pitied because they are vulnerable
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by Kebbiprince: 4:16pm On Mar 10, 2021
HappyCreative:


I'm grown. Thanks though.
No you're not, you still reason like a kid
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by Nobody: 4:16pm On Mar 10, 2021
HappyCreative:


Idolise: to admire, revere, or love greatly or excessively

I emulate to copy his great deeds
Same way Elisha copied Elijah
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by HappyCreative(f): 4:16pm On Mar 10, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:




Men are more logical than women
In my opinion I disagree judging on this thread.

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Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by Nobody: 4:17pm On Mar 10, 2021
HappyCreative:

In my opinion I disagree judging on this thread.

How?
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by Connected1: 4:18pm On Mar 10, 2021
HappyCreative:


That's why I don't go for average men.
the word along "average" being used in some instances/sentences doesn't mean the middle figure, it means general.
you should be knowledgeable to a point before advocating for some imaginary equality.
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by DEMZEE(m): 4:18pm On Mar 10, 2021
HappyCreative:

In my opinion I disagree judging on this thread.

Because you are solipsistic so it's expected that u will disagree because u hate ur nature and wud rather choose to be a pseudo masculine hybrid beast woman
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by HappyCreative(f): 4:19pm On Mar 10, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:


Men are not even equals
We might have joysticks but mine can be longer or shorter than another man's own
Men work with burden of performance to create success and status in Societies

Weak men are spat on and no one gives a damn about them in Society

Only women and children are pitied because they are vulnerable

So if men are not equal among themselves, then no one is equal. Why then so you keep mentioning equality. You just played yourself bro.

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Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by HappyCreative(f): 4:20pm On Mar 10, 2021
Kebbiprince:

No you're not, you still reason like a kid

Just because I don't agree with what you say? The fact that you're saying that sounds more childish to me.

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Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by Nobody: 4:21pm On Mar 10, 2021
HappyCreative:


So if men are not equal among themselves, then no one is equal. Why then so you keep mentioning equality. You just played yourself bro.


No one is equal even twins
Feminist want gender equality that is a Biological and Evolutionary fraud as it can never happen even in changing cultures and govt policies it won't still happen
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by DEMZEE(m): 4:22pm On Mar 10, 2021
HappyCreative:


So if men are not equal among themselves, then no one is equal. Why then so you keep mentioning equality. You just played yourself bro.

This sounds very dumb tho
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by Nobody: 4:23pm On Mar 10, 2021
HappyCreative:


So if men are not equal among themselves, then no one is equal. Why then so you keep mentioning equality. You just played yourself bro.


I respond to you that is seeking equality,
I'm not and can never believe in such nonsense
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by Kebbiprince: 4:23pm On Mar 10, 2021
HappyCreative:


Just because I don't agree with what you say? The fact that you're saying that sounds more childish to me.
Is not, I'm saying it because you talk about something u don't have experience about, OK?
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by Nobody: 4:24pm On Mar 10, 2021
HappyCreative:
Why do a lot of Nigerian men expect so much from females but bring nothing to the table.

A lot of men expect women, to cook, clean, take care of the kids, be educated, have a career but in return provide nothing?

I really don't get it.

Men need to take several seats
If someone is toxic,then the person is toxic.
There's no reason.
But I don't expect you to carry all responsibilities as my wife anyway.
I actually hate it.

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Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by HappyCreative(f): 4:24pm On Mar 10, 2021
DEMZEE:


Because you are solipsistic so it's expected that u will disagree because u hate ur nature and wud rather choose to be a pseudo masculine hybrid beast woman
And you are narcissistic.

You keep calling me a pseudo masculine hybrid beast woman, like you want me to be affected by it.

What sort of reason are you expecting?

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Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by Connected1: 4:24pm On Mar 10, 2021
HappyCreative:


That's why I don't go for average men.
Growing in a Nigerian home you would wish you were a female because they are less tasked, few or no responsibilities, their earnings are usually kept untouched, numerous gifts from admirers but you wouldn't want it because naturally women are devoid of logicality, a woman cannot rule without bringing emotions into the picture.

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Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by HappyCreative(f): 4:26pm On Mar 10, 2021
DEMZEE:


This sounds very dumb tho
But you're the one who said that men aren't equal. So you agree that what you're writing sounds dumb?

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Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by DEMZEE(m): 4:26pm On Mar 10, 2021
HappyCreative:

And you are narcissistic.

You keep calling me a pseudo masculine hybrid beast woman, like you want me to be affected by it.

What sort of reason are you expecting?

Lolzz

All I m saying is that women who are feminists or have feministic tendencies are pseudo masculine hybrid beast women

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