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Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by femi4: 1:20am On Apr 03, 2021
Zzor:
Men are very good at saying a particular thing but act the exact opposite, you will see men all over social media saying they will go for brains over beauty but in reality you will see these same men ignoring the brain and going extra length to attract a beautiful lady and eventually marry them.

I have a friend (a first class product) who is bitterly complaining of not attracting men and that if she had options she will choose beauty first and a moderate brain.

Men why do you guys act this way but in reality you do the opposite?
Which one you get sef....beauty? Let's forget about the brain part cos most of your comments here will be the judge
Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by Blessedchild24(m): 1:20am On Apr 03, 2021
Beauty without brain na her toto go suffer pass
Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by kolade560: 1:23am On Apr 03, 2021
Zzor:
Men do overlook bad character of a very beautiful lady,bitter truth
..
na lie...
Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by Debra911(f): 1:30am On Apr 03, 2021
DemonInvoker:

What is bitter about it?!
If you no fine,you no go find your blood group join body?!Shey Liketraits Attract?!
Ok
Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by BENEAMATA: 1:40am On Apr 03, 2021
Op , let me bookend the seven pages of this topic by saying this ,
Men , get as much seix as you like with pretty ladies with great shapes before you seek for a life partner .your money , looks and communication skills can always get you this . But never ever ever and i repeat never marry for p#$$¥ .oh , we all desire a beautiful woman , but should a man's brain be so wired around such in choosing the builder of a home ? The one who'll train your children ?

Anyway , las las " God give me my own wife , give me my own wife " na im dey make armed robber marry pr.. itute .some can lie for africa but then want honest christian woman , lol .
Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by nick50(m): 2:25am On Apr 03, 2021
90% of Nigerian women depends on men for survival so there is no point going for thier brain cos most of them dont use it..so allow men to choose thier liability in peace....Did u know that 60% of married women in Nigeria are housewives?

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Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by Bahamas95(m): 2:49am On Apr 03, 2021
God knows I won't get close to an ugly girl no matter how intelligent she is, I don't want my future children to go through severe pain for the rest of their lives.

There are many women in the world so there is no way I won't get a lady that possess both beauty and brain.....The first thing that attracts me to a lady is her physical appearance, if I later discover she ain't got brain I "collect my share" and back off.....I can manage a beautiful and submissive woman that's willing to learn. Not the intelligent ugly one whose sight alone could give me nightmare.

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Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by sleemomymy: 2:54am On Apr 03, 2021
BEAUTY BRING ME OVER AND BRAIN MAKE ME STAY.
THE TWO WORK HAND IN HAND FOR ME.
WETIN I SABI SEF.. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by jamesbonded: 2:54am On Apr 03, 2021
Zzor:
Men are very good at saying a particular thing but act the exact opposite, you will see men all over social media saying they will go for brains over beauty but in reality you will see these same men ignoring the brain and going extra length to attract a beautiful lady and eventually marry them.

I have a friend (a first class product) who is bitterly complaining of not attracting men and that if she had options she will choose beauty first and a moderate brain.

Men why do you guys act this way but in reality you do the opposite?

beauty over brains.... but submissive beauty though.

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Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by Tsolutionifede(m): 3:06am On Apr 03, 2021
Zzor:
Men are very good at saying a particular thing but act the exact opposite, you will see men all over social media saying they will go for brains over beauty but in reality you will see these same men ignoring the brain and going extra length to attract a beautiful lady and eventually marry them.

I have a friend (a first class product) who is bitterly complaining of not attracting men and that if she had options she will choose beauty first and a moderate brain.

Men why do you guys act this way but in reality you do the opposite?
I can help her out, hope d ugliness is not beyond redemption
Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by MrJibana: 3:17am On Apr 03, 2021
To some extent this is true but not in all cases with that said I don't being a friend to your friend if you won't mind.
Zzor:
Men are very good at saying a particular thing but act the exact opposite, you will see men all over social media saying they will go for brains over beauty but in reality you will see these same men ignoring the brain and going extra length to attract a beautiful lady and eventually marry them.

I have a friend (a first class product) who is bitterly complaining of not attracting men and that if she had options she will choose beauty first and a moderate brain.

Men why do you guys act this way but in reality you do the opposite?
Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by franchasng: 3:40am On Apr 03, 2021
pocohantas:


Franchasng, this is for you.

Zzor is a case sha! Kai!
Lol of course the OP is right na.


I like being realistic and practical, not sounding theoretical and celestial to make people like me lol. So she is 100% correct; guys or men all over the world go for physical beauty first before considering brain of a lady, forget social Media rants lol.


If you check all over the world, we have more number of happily married beautiful ladies with empty and average brain than brainy ugly ladies.


Brainy ugly ladies usually marry late, and most often end up with younger guy who is most likely not financially buoyant and most often chose her out of need to have a financial saver/backup in the form of a wife.


If a guy is successful early in life, he doesn't usually consider brainy ugly ladies at all, unless it's destiny.


How many born rich guys are married to brainy ugly ladies Obviously you can't count any or maybe few. How many guys who became financially buoyant before 30yrs are married to brainy ugly ladies Probably few guys.


But check how many born rich guys married to hot sexy ladies with dumb or average IQ, almost all.


Guys tend to consider a lady's brains or academic records when choosing a partner if they are struggling financially and looking for a financial help mate. But when a guy is balling financially, he doesn't care about a lady's brains at all.


Let me use myself as example. When I started admiring ladies; a bit late, I admired ladies with obviously protruding buttocks, flat tummy and nice legs, I don't usually consider her face or skin complexion at all lol to talk of her intelligence. In fact, intelligent girls or girls that appeared too smart turned me off most times then.


This was so bad that I remember meeting one girl at Shell aptitude test in VI Lagos during my job hunting days as a fresh graduate that just passed out of NYSC. This babe liked me from the first sight. We formed a group kind of cos I came early. So we were exchanging knowledge as preparation. The girl was a graduate of Electrical Electronics or so, she was sound to be honest, averagely beautiful but didn't have nice buttocks lol. Later when I discovered she was a first class graduate, I just developed dislike for her. We exchanged numbers after the aptitude test but trust me, I didn't bother to call her at all and she maintained her lane and never called, and that was the last we met.



All through my dating period before I got married, I cannot remember considering a lady's brains or career. The first thing I consider is her shape, later on it progressed to shape (buttocks, tummy, legs) and skin complexion.


And even my wife, from the day I met her, what kept discouraging me was her career; I just didn't like people of her field for no reason even though people consider them brainy. Her only saving grace was the fact that she got some hot shape lol, my desired complexion and she was too loyal to a fault which I cherish so much in a lady, which again most brainy or super intelligent career ladies lack. They are always disloyal, pompous, prideful and arrogant to my annoyance.



So yes, a woman's brains doesn't matter to me honestly cos I don't need it for anything and I know I have a dominant gene; my kids will be super intelligent no doubt so I never considered brainy as a quality in a girl I admire.


Just have that hot shape with dangling buttocks and sizeable firm boobs (not too big or flat lol), and your face or brains don't matter to me grin

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Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by franchasng: 3:59am On Apr 03, 2021
Toks2008:


A man will always go for a lady that is sexually appealing to his eyes but he may run latter if her behaviour sticks.

Nevertheless, we are visual beings and whatever is pleasing to our eyes in most cases will inadvertently be pleasing to our mind.

It is a mystery.
many guys are lying or don't know what they go for in a lady lol.

You just said the obvious truth.


How many guys here talking nonsense will see a physically attractive girl and an ugly or average looking girl and go for the ugly girl just because she smashed A1 in all subjects cheesy


What most men go for is physical attraction otherwise known as beauty, later they may consider her character or loyalty to them most often when they want to park.



During dating period, guys consider physical beauty first.


When it's time to get married, guys consider physical beauty and the lady's loyalty towards them, not even good character or brains per se.


Character is subjective; to some guys a lady that greets everybody well means she has good character, while some it means a good cook and good home keeper. To some other guys, a lady that listens to them, obeys them and do what they want her to do has a wonderful character even though she might be awful towards others.



No serious mature man doing well financially for himself goes about looking for a girl with high IQ and top academic grades to marry, any guy that says that is lying.


Physical beauty first, loyalty (character) second

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Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by Nobody: 4:01am On Apr 03, 2021
Zzor:
I have forgotten the Monika of these Nairaland guy who outrightly put it that a woman's brain is not important to him but her beauty and shape and he got seriously bashed by some pretenders.Mosdii if you are not a coward come and say something
Zzor my babe, that laps is a killer. Can u just shift the skirt up for me?
Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by franchasng: 4:07am On Apr 03, 2021
LINTUNE:
if she's got good body, then it's no big deal...most gals have even dated are averagely fine, with great body , who fine face epp..
of course the beauty of a woman is in her body shape not her face.


Fine face doesn't qualify a girl as beautiful or hot na.


It is a woman's shape that defines her beauty.


Fine face only move teenage boys

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Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by Toks2008(m): 4:34am On Apr 03, 2021
Zzor:
simple question you are having erection over it.E go shock you say I'm an introvert in reality


I believe you. Just like me, I'm very very introverted offline.. That is why I'm very extroverted online.
Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by samwillyco1(m): 4:41am On Apr 03, 2021
Men chooses good character and peace of mind first before any other thing
Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by Tundex911: 4:52am On Apr 03, 2021
Beauty or brain....


Iwalewa omo eniyan


Smh
Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 5:00am On Apr 03, 2021
Zzor:
[s]Men are very good at saying a particular thing but act the exact opposite, you will see men all over social media saying they will go for brains over beauty but in reality you will see these same men ignoring the brain and going extra length to attract a beautiful lady and eventually marry them.

I have a friend (a first class product) who is bitterly complaining of not attracting men and that if she had options she will choose beauty first and a moderate brain.

Men why do you guys act this way but in reality you do the opposite?[/s]
Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by newmoney133: 5:08am On Apr 03, 2021
Interesting topic.Men are wired to be attracted by sight.Although sight attraction at times might not be sufficient to take the relationship or friendship to the next level.But to be sincere beautiful girls are highly favoured compared to brainy girls.Beautiful girls are like trophy to guys.
Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by Jaqenhghar: 5:16am On Apr 03, 2021
Zzor:
Men are very good at saying a particular thing but act the exact opposite, you will see men all over social media saying they will go for brains over beauty but in reality you will see these same men ignoring the brain and going extra length to attract a beautiful lady and eventually marry them.

I have a friend (a first class product) who is bitterly complaining of not attracting men and that if she had options she will choose beauty first and a moderate brain.

Men why do you guys act this way but in reality you do the opposite?
They say men are visual creatures. Don't blame us. Same way a woman will first choose a man who can provide

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Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by 9jaRealist: 5:30am On Apr 03, 2021
Zzor:
Men are very good at saying a particular thing but act the exact opposite, you will see men all over social media saying they will go for brains over beauty but in reality you will see these same men ignoring the brain and going extra length to attract a beautiful lady and eventually marry them.

I have a friend (a first class product) who is bitterly complaining of not attracting men and that if she had options she will choose beauty first and a moderate brain.

Men why do you guys act this way but in reality you do the opposite?

I can’t stand this sort of whining...

If your only or primary goal in life is to attract a man...
Then if you think they’re only interested in beauty, beautify yourself.

Otherwise, quit wailing and concentrate on your goals...
A man deserving of you (and sharing your VALUES) will likely come along.
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Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by mrde(m): 6:04am On Apr 03, 2021
Zzor:
Men are very good at saying a particular thing but act the exact opposite, you will see men all over social media saying they will go for brains over beauty but in reality you will see these same men ignoring the brain and going extra length to attract a beautiful lady and eventually marry them.

I have a friend (a first class product) who is bitterly complaining of not attracting men and that if she had options she will choose beauty first and a moderate brain.

Men why do you guys act this way but in reality you do the opposite?

Men are visual beings dear. We are attracted by what we see and will prefer beauty and brains at the same time. If your friend is not very attractive, then maybe she's focused on a particular type of guys. Am sure there's someone who is dying for her affection but she's busy looking for handsomeness too. Las Las life no balance
Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by Doncyn(f): 6:19am On Apr 03, 2021
This brain we are talking abt,is it brain academically without attitude or academically with attitude? Because there some women dt has brain but behave like mumu

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Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by anochuko01(m): 6:24am On Apr 03, 2021
I get irritated by empty brains, there's no way I can choose beauty over brain.
Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by anochuko01(m): 6:29am On Apr 03, 2021
newmoney133:
Interesting topic.Men are wired to be attracted by sight.Although sight attraction at times might not be sufficient to take the relationship or friendship to the next level.But to be sincere beautiful girls are highly favoured compared to brainy girls.Beautiful girls are like trophy to guys.

This wiring thing is nonsense. We all grow in different circumstances that could have rewired us and change our way of thinking. Therefore not all men Chase after so called beautiful girls. Beauty for me is the presence of sound mental capacity.

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Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by Moneyboyz: 6:32am On Apr 03, 2021
What's the use of brains without beauty, I can't be selfish enough to make decisions for myself alone when I know I will have kids in future, so you won't my kids to be like monkey.
My wife is yellow and beautiful, not that brainy but she gives me joy.
Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by MightySparrow: 6:35am On Apr 03, 2021
Zzor:
Men are very good at saying a particular thing but act the exact opposite, you will see men all over social media saying they will go for brains over beauty but in reality you will see these same men ignoring the brain and going extra length to attract a beautiful lady and eventually marry them.

I have a friend (a first class product) who is bitterly complaining of not attracting men and that if she had options she will choose beauty first and a moderate brain.

Men why do you guys act this way but in reality you do the opposite?
Is she a gagool? if not, she should put value on herself.
Real men look for values. A woman that can make him succeed out a fashion parade woman. I would prefer marrying your friend for her values to beautiful girls with empty brains who turn play mama and later turn to yeyebrity.
She should give her pearl to swime for self pity. Please tell her, there are millions of us that are looking for her. Except she has other problems.
Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by Depressed101: 6:36am On Apr 03, 2021
Zzor:
lefulefu,crackhaus,gtguru abi qtguru,Descortes,Lintune ,come and lie your lie let me see
your observation is incorrect... goto weddings and see more ugly or average looking women tieing the knot .... men don't pretend or lie not like women who live their life on pretence, we only want the hole between the legs of a beautiful woman ... but when we are ready to settle,we can go an extra length to make sure she's of good character undermining her beauty
Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by Jedalord: 6:46am On Apr 03, 2021
Zzor:
Men are very good at saying a particular thing but act the exact opposite, you will see men all over social media saying they will go for brains over beauty but in reality you will see these same men ignoring the brain and going extra length to attract a beautiful lady and eventually marry them.

I have a friend (a first class product) who is bitterly complaining of not attracting men and that if she had options she will choose beauty first and a moderate brain.

Men why do you guys act this way but in reality you do the opposite?
I have forgotten the scripture which says about beauty being vain and a woman who fears God being praised...
Now if you want me to put it in street terms,if you depend on beauty you'd become a Bleep-material,and you have better qualities that outlasts beauty,you're a wife-material.
Men desire a balance of the two for sweet spot.
Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by BigDickhead1: 6:53am On Apr 03, 2021
I don't know why this case is caseless anyways buh come to think of it, all this fine slay gals dem non really get brain oh
Chai Disaster

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