Yusufisraelj:


You know if you don't have something sensible to say, you can just keep shut, you should understand that when someone ask for an opinion you don't have to be sarcastic?? For fvck sake!

@elisha820

Many good suggestions abound here, my only addition is that, if you don't satisfy your curiosity to a point of satisfaction on what she's hiding, it will build mistrust, a very bad foundation for any love relationship.

The truth is, there's no sweeping under the rug this one since it's a concensus between you two to check each other's phone, sit her down and be straight with her on the lack of access to her phone and how you feel about it, no mincing words, let it out, when people know you are real, they come out to meet you at your level.

For me ooo,I don't have that time of going through a babes phone, this works for me, she can go through mine for all I care, if am with a babe am very exclusive, you know why, she either begins to let me know things that are even beyond the phone and we get really close that there's nothing to hide else you see my brother falsehood has a way of failing over time,it was never designed to last, false people have a way of falling off, if you are real this is what works for me Sha.

calcal:

to end up with High blood pressure

Nato008:

asinh...love her more jaree, because bomb dey ur head abi....oga no too carry ur mind for that girl, na there way...just cruise jhooor

AfroKnight:




Thank you for asking him.

He suspects something is fishy but he is afraid of the truth.

wpadmin:
70% of Nigerian educated men are easily manipulated by female teenagers.

Such a pity.

Tufiakwa

sureteeboy:

I wouldn't throw his words into the bin if I were you. Any girl within that age range is still in her hoeing phase. The probability of such lady staying faithful in a relationship is extremely low. I speak from experience

kushme:



Remove emotions from that relationship.

Just fvck her anytime she comes around and stop giving her money.

She will get the message and find her level with time..

No give yourself headache because one undergraduate

emerged01:

Do you think you know what woman want? Ok,you will get there. We are waiting for your own epistle on woman matter.

emerged01:

Do you think you know what woman want? Ok,you will get there. We are waiting for your own epistle on woman matter.

DominusPrime:

I am just weak for the kind of men we have nowadays

Hassanmaye:

Do you mean even if you move mountain for them its still worthlessness since bad boy go drill

luminouz:
So she bursted into tears and you let her go without checking her WhatsApp







Gentlemen, should I tell him?

Hassanmaye:

Lol the women have become the men

wunmi590:


You are the big fool,

I can see where your anger is coming from.

No be me be your problem, I'm not the cause of your cheating wife.

Channel your anger toward your cheating wife and yourself

Havesomesense:
If you are not fvcking her well, I mean making her cvm. She's gonna cheat on you.

To make a girl loyal you need to be great in sex and also great in mind games.

elisha820:


Don't wanna say this, but this is disgusting...I mean there are exception to some things. Not all university girls are thesame. Believe it or not we have family and siblings in the system... not all of them are runs girls...get that clearly.

Thank you for your advice though

fati2001:


love her more.

DominusPrime:


Lmao...first I'm not married.
2nd i realise that this is the kind of reply people like you give when you see reason with a superior position but have no sensible reply to counter such.

NwaAmaikpe:





Verily, verily I say unto you, only the sight of a happily derailing brother graciously strolling into the Simp's Legion of Gloom will make NwaAmaikpe toss an overload of global assignments and run to their aid.

It is so sad that in your lineage, neighborhood, work environment and amongst your everyday acquaintances; you'be been unfortunate not to have anyone train you up in the ways of men.

For men only two rules exist; Rule #1 and the Golden rule.
Rule #1: "Trust no one till you've verified".

And

Golden Rule: "No matter the amount of your verifications, never trust a female".

There's even a peculiar one for Nigerian ladies.

"NEVER EVER TRUST A WOMAN IN A NIGERIAN TERTIARY INSTITUTION" (Triple emphasis on Never Ever')

You my brother have broken the 1st rule, the golden rule and the peculiar rule with a huge smile on your face.
Of all the girls in the world to choose to commit your heart to, why go for an undergraduate?
Those fickle minded broads aren't ready for commitment but just attention thrills, infatuation whims and a race on the fast lane.

Take it or leave it, half the time you've kissed that girl, you've been licking the remnant of one diseased lecturer's semen she has been gulping to scale through in school or that of a lodgemate whose room she goes to charge her phone to chat with you.

To answer your questions.

Yes, it is normal for an attention-deficient, undecided whorre to have so many men in their DM, because that is what they do for a living, get high off flatters and spread their legs for the man with the best tongue.
Sad still, these type of girls get fvcked for free while their pharmacist boyfriend recommends cocktail of drugs to treat infections she claims to have gotten from the hostel toilet.

No committed girlfriend/wife encourages needless Social media communications with men because they know that inspite of all the detours, any man who chats up a woman is ultimately headed to one direction.

Should you play along?
No! Stop playing because you've been playing yourself all along. You need urgent help but my fear is that you are utterly unhelpable and have been condemned by the devil to be a SIMP on earth.
If a grown ass worker like yourself will let a teen in on your secrets, your passwords and worse even; be swayed by her manipulative tears, then I have no words for you and I take back my rants.

BBBells:
AMERICAN DOLLAR: in GOD we trust

not in man we trust

the moment you trust someone, you are digging your grave be that

game of thrones: mothet of dragon trusted jon snow, he betrayed her

trust is overrsted
some people dont even trust themsrlves

elisha820:
Happy new week everyone.
I decided to bring this up on this platform cos I want candid and lucid advice. I be brief on this.

I am a Pharmacist working with one of the government owned health care centre. There's this girl I've been with for more than 2years now. She is a law student in her penultimate year in university. Like most Nigerian relationships, we started with lot of distractions and lacked commitment but over time it remained just the two of us.

At the beginning of this year 2021 we made relationship goals and decided to be transparent to each other. We shared every secrets, went through each others phone and asked questions where necessary. All went well until last month when I went to check on her in the university, asked for her phone as usual wanted checking her whatsapp. She didn't let me, said till she comes for weekend when we'll have good time for that. I was surprised, had my doubts but let it slide. She later came for the weekend, I acted as if I don't care anymore and that was it.

Similar event happened last night after she went through my phone (whatsapp, facebook, twitter etc) cos she has my password but I don't have hers. I unexpectedly asked for her phone too, she said it's late and we should leave it till am back from weekend call later in the evening. I kept my cool last night but was bent on seeing her chat this morning not until she bursted into tears. I ain't perfect, have my flaws but I am free spirited whenever I am around her. It normal for a lady to have lots of guys in her dm, but I think it's a problem when it becomes secretive to your partner.

Should I play along, start having secrets too or what's your thought guys.

NB: I skipped so many things, decided being straight to the point.

Lalasticla...I remain loyal, hoping you'll do the needful

oke2018:
Hope you will marry someday