Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by heckymaicon(m): 2:12pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
How old are you?
That babe is clearly cheating on you. 1 Like |
Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by Canih28: 2:12pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
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Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by amolak: 2:12pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Some relationship motivate me to be single 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by 2shaw: 2:14pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Why are u guys always talking about naija girls girls girls. Abeg . Wetin na. Haba. How can you share secrets of yourself to a stranger,she even dey check your hone steady. Get the fuc k outta here fool. You don't deserve to be amongst men dem. Fool simp. Idiot 5 Likes |
Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by wunmi590(m): 2:15pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Do guys still check their girlfriends WhatsApp?
Even me that I'm married, I don't even know the last time I picked her phone, may be when I want to help her charge it or give her phone to recieve her call.
Stop checking your girlfriend phone so that you won't develop heart attack 1 Like |
Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by Nobody: 2:15pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
You come turn checking each other's phone to regular assignment . Relationships & trust issues be like 5&6. I don't think I am mentally ready for any r/shp palavers 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by Nobody: 2:15pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
danietohbadt: The babe is playing you, you too play her.
It's as simple as that.
Haven't you heard?
NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE USELESS. Hope you will marry someday |
Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by writeprof(m): 2:15pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Robertgreene1: deep down u know that girl is hiding something from u...so what exactly is ur problem young man? You harsh oo 1 Like |
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Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by Olobofife(m): 2:16pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
elisha820: Happy new week everyone. I decided to bring this up on this platform cos I want candid and lucid advice. I be brief on this.
I am a Pharmacist working with one of the government owned health care centre. There's this girl I've been with for more than 2years now. She is a law student in her penultimate year in university. Like most Nigerian relationships, we started with lot of distractions and lacked commitment but over time it remained just the two of us.
At the beginning of this year 2021 we made relationship goals and decided to be transparent to each other. We shared every secrets, went through each others phone and asked questions where necessary. All went well until last month when I went to check on her in the university, asked for her phone as usual wanted checking her whatsapp. She didn't let me, said till she comes for weekend when we'll have good time for that. I was surprised, had my doubts but let it slide. She later came for the weekend, I acted as if I don't care anymore and that was it.
Similar event happened last night after she went through my phone (whatsapp, facebook, twitter etc) cos she has my password but I don't have hers. I unexpectedly asked for her phone too, she said it's late and we should leave it till am back from weekend call later in the evening. I kept my cool last night but was bent on seeing her chat this morning not until she bursted into tears. I ain't perfect, have my flaws but I am free spirited whenever I am around her. It normal for a lady to have lots of guys in her dm, but I think it's a problem when it becomes secretive to your partner.
Should I play along, start having secrets too or what's your thought guys.
NB: I skipped so many things, decided being straight to the point.
Lalasticla...I remain loyal, hoping you'll do the needful you are so stupid and unintelligent, highly unscrupulous. Well, good luck to her real boyfriend. You are just a mumu. 11 Likes |
Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by bazzyblings: 2:17pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
elisha820: Happy new week everyone. I decided to bring this up on this platform cos I want candid and lucid advice. I be brief on this.
I am a Pharmacist working with one of the government owned health care centre. There's this girl I've been with for more than 2years now. She is a law student in her penultimate year in university. Like most Nigerian relationships, we started with lot of distractions and lacked commitment but over time it remained just the two of us.
At the beginning of this year 2021 we made relationship goals and decided to be transparent to each other. We shared every secrets, went through each others phone and asked questions where necessary. All went well until last month when I went to check on her in the university, asked for her phone as usual wanted checking her whatsapp. She didn't let me, said till she comes for weekend when we'll have good time for that. I was surprised, had my doubts but let it slide. She later came for the weekend, I acted as if I don't care anymore and that was it.
Similar event happened last night after she went through my phone (whatsapp, facebook, twitter etc) cos she has my password but I don't have hers. I unexpectedly asked for her phone too, she said it's late and we should leave it till am back from weekend call later in the evening. I kept my cool last night but was bent on seeing her chat this morning not until she bursted into tears. I ain't perfect, have my flaws but I am free spirited whenever I am around her. It normal for a lady to have lots of guys in her dm, but I think it's a problem when it becomes secretive to your partner.
Should I play along, start having secrets too or what's your thought guys.
NB: I skipped so many things, decided being straight to the point.
Lalasticla...I remain loyal, hoping you'll do the needful Smh seriously for you .. you’re not even married to her . Yet she checks your social media like you’re a baby ?? Who’s the man in the relationship? You or her ,,? She don see u finish .. u bleeped up..seriously... secondly , my opinion.. any girl who’s in a relationship and still gives out her number is a potential fucker ... what else is she looking for ? Why give out your number when you have a boo who gives you everything?? She’s a cheat bro ... change your password... he who do he ,,, do he 4 Likes 2 Shares |
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Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by Emu4u2c: 2:18pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Havesomesense: If you are not fvcking her well, I mean making her cvm. She's gonna cheat on you.
To make a girl loyal you need to be great in sex and also great in mind games. You can never fill up an insatiable hole that can never Be filled up You think say One man dey satisfy woman were Dey bent on being a hoe Keep deceiving yourself till you open topic dey ask us Nairaland experts “but I gave her everything including great Sex so why did she decide to cheat ? 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by Haarii54: 2:19pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
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Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by lolipopandy(f): 2:19pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Men are always insecure when it comes to trusting but they do the most elisha820: Happy new week everyone. I decided to bring this up on this platform cos I want candid and lucid advice. I be brief on this.
I am a Pharmacist working with one of the government owned health care centre. There's this girl I've been with for more than 2years now. She is a law student in her penultimate year in university. Like most Nigerian relationships, we started with lot of distractions and lacked commitment but over time it remained just the two of us.
At the beginning of this year 2021 we made relationship goals and decided to be transparent to each other. We shared every secrets, went through each others phone and asked questions where necessary. All went well until last month when I went to check on her in the university, asked for her phone as usual wanted checking her whatsapp. She didn't let me, said till she comes for weekend when we'll have good time for that. I was surprised, had my doubts but let it slide. She later came for the weekend, I acted as if I don't care anymore and that was it.
Similar event happened last night after she went through my phone (whatsapp, facebook, twitter etc) cos she has my password but I don't have hers. I unexpectedly asked for her phone too, she said it's late and we should leave it till am back from weekend call later in the evening. I kept my cool last night but was bent on seeing her chat this morning not until she bursted into tears. I ain't perfect, have my flaws but I am free spirited whenever I am around her. It normal for a lady to have lots of guys in her dm, but I think it's a problem when it becomes secretive to your partner.
Should I play along, start having secrets too or what's your thought guys.
NB: I skipped so many things, decided being straight to the point.
Lalasticla...I remain loyal, hoping you'll do the needful |
Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by LagbajaTheBEREAN: 2:19pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
NwaAmaikpe:
Verily, verily I say unto you, only the sight of a happily derailed brother graciously strolling into the Simp's Legion of Gloom will make NwaAmaikpe toss an overload of global assignments and run to their aid.
It is so sad that in your lineage, neighborhood, work environment and amongst your everyday acquaintances; you'be been unfortunate not to have anyone train you up in the ways of men.
For men only two rules exist; Rule #1 and the Golden rule. Rule #1: "Trust no one till you've verified".
And
Golden Rule: "No matter the amount of your verifications, never trust a female".
There's an even a peculiar one for Nigerian ladies.
"NEVER EVER TRUST A WOMAN IN A NIGERIAN TERTIARY INSTITUTION" (Triple emphasis on Never Ever')
You my brother have broken the 1st rule, the golden rule and the peculiar rule with a huge smile on your face. Of all the girls in the world to choose to commit your heart to, why go for an undergraduate? Those fickle minded broads aren't ready for commitment but just attention thrills, infatuation whims and a race on the fast lane.
Take it or leave it, half the time you've kissed that girl, you've been licking the remnant of one diseased lecturer's semen she has been gulping to scale through in school or that of a lodgemate whose room she goes to charge her phone to chat with you.
To answer your questions.
Yes, it is normal for an attention-deficient, undecided whorre to have so many men in their DM, because that is what they do for a living, get high off flatters and spread their legs for the man with the best tongue. Sad still, these type of girls get fvcked for free while their pharmacist boyfriend recommends cocktail of drugs to treat infections she claims to have gotten from the hostel toilet.
No committed girlfriend/wife encourages needless Social media communications with men because they know that inspite of all the detours, any man who chats up a woman is ulitmately headed to one direction.
Should you play along? No! Stop playing because you've been playing yourself all along. You need urgent help but my fear is that you are utterly unhelpable and have been condemned by the devil to be a SIMP on earth If a grown ass worker like yourself will let a teen in on your secrets, your passwords and worse even; be swayed by her manipulative tears, then I have no words for you and I take back my rants. GBAM.. As e dey hot, no chill, no sweet words... 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by GeneralPula: 2:20pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Yes, continue..
So we can learn from your experience in the future.. 2 Likes |
Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by Wilespo: 2:20pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
elisha820: Happy new week everyone. I decided to bring this up on this platform cos I want candid and lucid advice. I be brief on this.
I am a Pharmacist working with one of the government owned health care centre. There's this girl I've been with for more than 2years now. She is a law student in her penultimate year in university. Like most Nigerian relationships, we started with lot of distractions and lacked commitment but over time it remained just the two of us.
At the beginning of this year 2021 we made relationship goals and decided to be transparent to each other. We shared every secrets, went through each others phone and asked questions where necessary. All went well until last month when I went to check on her in the university, asked for her phone as usual wanted checking her whatsapp. She didn't let me, said till she comes for weekend when we'll have good time for that. I was surprised, had my doubts but let it slide. She later came for the weekend, I acted as if I don't care anymore and that was it.
Similar event happened last night after she went through my phone (whatsapp, facebook, twitter etc) cos she has my password but I don't have hers. I unexpectedly asked for her phone too, she said it's late and we should leave it till am back from weekend call later in the evening. I kept my cool last night but was bent on seeing her chat this morning not until she bursted into tears. I ain't perfect, have my flaws but I am free spirited whenever I am around her. It normal for a lady to have lots of guys in her dm, but I think it's a problem when it becomes secretive to your partner.
Should I play along, start having secrets too or what's your thought guys.
NB: I skipped so many things, decided being straight to the point.
Lalasticla...I remain loyal, hoping you'll do the needful ........funny thing is, u know that 90 percent of the opinion here will suggest she is either cheating on u already or about to and that's why she is hiding the chats from u....u know this but yet u don't want to accept it....u want us to be the one to tell u........ok bros, u want to know what she's hiding ? she is undergoing deliverance from her pastor and she don't want u to get delivered too.......hope we are ok now ? happy Easter sir 5 Likes |
Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by Jeux: 2:21pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
With your response I know you are new here. That is the legendary NwaAmaikpe elisha820:
Don't wanna say this, but this is disgusting...I mean there are exception to some things. Not all university girls are thesame. Believe it or not we have family and siblings in the system... not all of them are runs girls...get that clearly.
Thank you for your advice though
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Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by wpadmin: 2:21pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
70% of Nigerian educated men are easily manipulated by female teenagers.
Such a pity.
Tufiakwa 7 Likes |
Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by EJEHSON(m): 2:21pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
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Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by Nobody: 2:22pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
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Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by calcal: 2:22pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
fati2001:
love her more. to end up with High blood pressure 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by Neroski(f): 2:22pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Two of you have serious Trust issues. I can understand at the beginning the need to check your phones for transperancy(which I still find somehow), but was this going to be a regular ritual of anytime we see, we will check each other's phone ? You both are paranoid. If you cannot at least give a relative trust in a relationship, what is the essence of being in one?? It's just ordinary phone checking that is giving you guys headache when real serious relationship issues occur how will you do it. You both are not emotionally ready for relationship just break up already 2 Likes |
Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by sammirano: 2:23pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Just imagine the children calling themselves men these days. Its sad. Girls av took control of ur life. 5 Likes |
Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by WEALTHYMII: 2:23pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Drop the lying snake! Go look for a woman who really respects & honours you! Loyalty is key. 2 Likes |
Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by Myself2(m): 2:24pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
OP can you hear yourself ? I don't get the part of relationship goals and you are checking each others phone. Young man if both of you see the need to be checking each others phone, then you should not be in a serious relationship so don't mention relationship goals here 2 Likes |
Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by sureteeboy(m): 2:24pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
elisha820:
Don't wanna say this, but this is disgusting...I mean there are exception to some things. Not all university girls are thesame. Believe it or not we have family and siblings in the system... not all of them are runs girls...get that clearly.
Thank you for your advice though
I wouldn't throw his words into the bin if I were you. Any girl within that age range is still in her hoeing phase. The probability of such lady staying faithful in a relationship is extremely low. I speak from experience 5 Likes |
Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by Nobody: 2:24pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
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Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by Myer(m): 2:25pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Havesomesense: If you are not fvcking her well, I mean making her cvm. She's gonna cheat on you.
To make a girl loyal you need to be great in sex and also great in mind games. What if he satisfies her sexually but not financially? What if he satisfies her financially but not sexually? What of he satisfies her both sexually and financially but not emotionally and doesn't stimulate her intellectually? When you realise women are unpredictable, you'll find the one who loves you unconditionally. Only then can she be loyal to you. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by omonnakoda: 2:26pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
elisha820:
Don't wanna say this, but this is disgusting...I mean there are exception to some things. Not all university girls are thesame. Believe it or not we have family and siblings in the system... not all of them are runs girls...get that clearly.
Thank you for your advice though
Not all snakes are venomous but it is smart to assume that anyway What is my business with anybody's phone? Am I Columbo? 3 Likes |
Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by kushme: 2:26pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
elisha820:
What should I do? Remove emotions from that relationship. Just fvck her anytime she comes around and stop giving her money. She will get the message and find her level with time.. No give yourself headache because one undergraduate 1 Like 2 Shares |