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Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by Reex12(m): 3:30pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
na younmarry her daughter na invariable the whole family so you cant dodge it |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by Ghostmode2two(m): 3:31pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Tell your wife your mind. Your wife could be aware of her gestapo coming but she is feigning not knowing. You are the boss so draw the line fast |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by Nobody: 3:31pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
In all these op, its your moniker that is of great concern here. What is the idea behind your moniker? A newly wedded man for that matter. To your mother inlaws case, I'll say, tell your wife to tell her mother to reduce her visits for now that you guys are still on honeymoon. 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by Emzenoz(m): 3:31pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
RMoneyInTheBank:all i see here is that OP is a broke guy or a stingy gut from his comments. and you might he correct about the hostile environment. 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by Aparche(f): 3:32pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
This forum is so biased! If it was a lady complaining that her MIL visits without notice, majority of the people here will call her an evil DIL that doesn't want to tolerate her MIL. If I hear! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by freshvine(f): 3:34pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Razzle the woman. She'll disappear forever but if not enjoy the free cuchie |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by SimplePlan34: 3:34pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
MufasaLion: Speak for ur self |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by ultimatekint(m): 3:35pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Please , be careful with the way you handle this situation. From my past experience , some mother inlaw are bad , some will fall in love with you ; but yet some of them are extremely good. |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by Notatribalist(m): 3:35pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Deathisfree:You're saying this because we now have telephone. What about when there was no telephone 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by Nato008(m): 3:35pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Colonelswitz101:just read what u wrote again....ur wife's mom oh, so she can't come to see her daughter...nawa oh 2 Likes |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by perryy(m): 3:35pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Deathisfree: Poverty na wicnch. Oga, na poverty dey worry u 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by 2elliot: 3:36pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Deathisfree:Westernisation don finish our lives finish! We didn't copy the technology, we didn't copy the development. But we copied the most trivial of things from them, that aspects that breaks us as africans. That aspects that set us up for disunity, lack of empathy, for underdevelopment, and sundry. 2 Likes |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by lkillbrokehoes: 3:38pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
It's better you tell your wife to warn her before it's too late, me that I love my privacy with my woman more than anything, I don't like disturbance at all. |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by vexing(m): 3:39pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
The OP is just an annoying grown-up baby. Marriage is for adults and not children. Your mother-in-law is like your mother and she did not need to notify you before coming unless she plan to sleep over. Non of your family members need to inform before coming to your house provided they will not sleep over. May God don't allow our daughters to fall into hands of people like the OP. Infact see waiting poverty dey cause. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by Sunday2021: 3:39pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
RMoneyInTheBank:did you read at all? This is her first visit! Why would she pay me a first visit without informing me? Even if the distance is one minute drive she ought to have informed him before embarking on the journey. BTW, if the drive is 140 kilometers par hour then you should know that she stays around 80 kilometers apart. So if traveling to a journey of 80 km, won't you call the person first? |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by Solatium(m): 3:40pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
RMoneyInTheBank: You sure say you well so? wetin the mother in law dey find up and down? She get luck,if na me i go just waka pass her like say nothing,she will deduce from my body language that she isn't welcome 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by Kriss216: 3:40pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Mariangeles:Mariah love, you're a different person when posting with this moniker. |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by NoToPile: 3:41pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Loool, my mother just came knocking too after church this morning, I was surprised to see her because I stopped by her place yesterday. She said she wanted to see the grandkids, that was around 10 after early morning service. I can't imagine my husband opening this kind of thread, the guy just greet mumsie, all of us chop Sunday rice been watching TV and gisting. Mum even helped me fold some clothes, pluck vegetable, feed the kids, bathed them. As I am typing this they are all in the parlor with the kids disturbing them while I am locked up in a toilet trying to get some few minutes 'me time' Latest in one hour she will have gone to her house as she no dey waka for night. Her presence helped me and hubby greatly . So OP since its a visit not a sleep over I honestly don't see the problem. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by bigjj: 3:41pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Tread softly, I was once like you when I newly got married : I later discovered that behaving as such appeared so childish. You are yet to know that you are no longer single, many things have been joined to you which you must bear with wisdom. |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by Juliearth(f): 3:43pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Ammishaddai: He should relocate over what words of mouth can fix? @ Deathisfree, you can't blame your mother in-law. Its possible she doesn't know that she is crossing the line. Act normal and after she leaves, draw your wife's attention to this trend and convey your message through your wife... But its important that you leave that room and entertain your mother in-law. If you don't and she later gets your memoir, she would read meanings into it and that might just be the beginning of an avoidable brouhaha. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by ayandee: 3:43pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
You will need that woman when you guys start having kids. You better get used to her coming around. She will really be of help 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by cococandy(f): 3:45pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
CHoccolaTE: Absolutely 4 Likes |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by Juliearth(f): 3:47pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Deathisfree: You self! Biko, courtesy demands that you offer her gifts, be it in cash or kind, so find something for mama. 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by erumena(m): 3:48pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Deathisfree: My brother, marriage is a beautiful thing if you let it. You sound bitter to your inlaw, do you have an issue with them? True, curtesy demands you give prior notice before visiting but there is something called family, they are the only ones that can break protocol once in a while. Let me as you, would you do the same that you mentioned above if she is your mother? I don't know the kind of relationship you had with your spouse before marriage but if it was a healthy one, her mum coming to visit unannounced even though seems odd shouldnt bring about activating a defensive mode as you are doing. It's either you are not too ok financially and you dont want them knowing or you dislike your inlaws. Whichever one it is, be a man, a wise and smart one. Dont forget, there is no problem without solution. Always communicate what you want to your wife, be matured about it, both of you should agree on things. I have been married for 13 years, and I can boldly say it is not always rosy, but mostly it is, if you know how to handle situations with wisdom. |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by AfriNotesNEWS: 3:48pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
This is Africa She believes she is doing the right thing What you should do is to ignore her.. is normal as long as you guys are staying close You can talk to your wife to talk to her mum, don't make that mistake If there is anything you should do is to move out to a far or possible relocate with ur newly wife to another state.. Best of luck Deathisfree: |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by Samrah: 3:49pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
I hardly comment on nairaland... But sorry, you are not mature. You need trainings on marriage. Did they beg you to marry their daughter. See your life, 2 weeks marriage, you are discussing your family affair on social media and claiming one stupid privacy. Learn (Privacy) by keeping your family affair from Social media. Since she is not coming to stay, ordinary visit you are shouting. You need help!. I feel like using voice note to talk senses to your brain. Next time, think before writing nonsense. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by Ladycewhy(f): 3:49pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Chanchit:Lol, this op nor go last one day as Raymond o. This op will be a difficult person to live with ,I hope his new bride is prepared for the long turbulent ride.smh 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by gawu1: 3:51pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
RMoneyInTheBank:You have said it rightly. There is every chance for one to say that he was brought up in a hostile environment. Me, I can't imagine him saying even his own parents dare not do that. 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by Galaxydon1(m): 3:52pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
You are not mature enough to settle down. So she can't visit her daughter again. 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by edoairways: 3:52pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
densiks:Even rich mother in-laws aren't foolish not to inform their in-laws of their visit 1 Like |
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