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[quote author=doggedfighter post=101738135]Trusting women in your life or the ones you have met may have been a risk. Trusting

humans is a risk. Not gender restricted. Don't generalize.

Learn to understand that when you are starting out in your walk of life , not everyone believes enough in you to stick it out with you.

Not because they hate you or are untrustworthy but mostly it's out of survival.


We're all fighting to survive and may do some desperate things.



Even YOU !

Life's hard ,baby.

Don't let Nairaland boys mess with your head.












Well said

Mugu

ednut1:
Mugu

Better one ooooh

Queenslander:
I guess, she wasn't for you. she could have at least told you to your face or communicated to you that it's over.. rather than blacking you out! 7 years is not 7 months.. after all the sacrifices and commitment you both have made in the relationship.. she's rather stone hearted and insensitive.. I'm sorry, buh it has to be said!!

I don't think their level.of communication was as developed as that level.
What sacrifice was in this relationship in the first place

I am.certain.of past commitment but not sacrifice because I don't think.they have future commitment plans

Offpoint1:
Imagine me suffering for 7 years and I see someone who wants to help me out and you want me not to take such an offer?

Imagine me being offering visa to leave this current Nigeria to a better country and you want me to reject the offer because I once "pledge to Nigeria my country, to be faithful, loyal and honest''

Imagine me working for a company for 7 years with 100k salary and I got an offer from another company with salary of 500k and you want not to take such an offer because of the years I've spent with the company?

Who no like better thing...?
Move on with your life, nobody like to suffer.
You'll meet someone else, I don't like hypocrisy in any form

Scenarios differ,temperaments differ,looses to be incurred differ

Wow you are brilliant..

Am surprised this kind of bright analysis is coming from a Nigerian Woman.

doggedfighter:
Trusting women in your life or the ones you have met may have been a risk. Trusting

humans is a risk. Not gender restricted. Don't generalize.

Learn to understand that when you are starting out in your walk of life , not everyone believes enough in you to stick it out with you.

Not because they hate you or are untrustworthy but mostly it's out of survival.


We're all fighting to survive and may do some desperate things.



Even YOU !

Life's hard ,baby.

Don't let Nairaland boys mess with your head.

Murjem:
Wow you are brilliant..

Am surprised this kind of bright analysis is coming from a Nigerian Woman.

Murjem, Nigerian women are very bright just look in the right places

How's your day going,dear

ChiefSosa:
Joro olumofin should come and sign up for NL, plenty customers dey for am

doggedfighter:
Trusting women in your life or the ones you have met may have been a risk. Trusting

humans is a risk. Not gender restricted. Don't generalize.

Learn to understand that when you are starting out in your walk of life , not everyone believes enough in you to stick it out with you.

Not because they hate you or are untrustworthy but mostly it's out of survival.


We're all fighting to survive and may do some desperate things.



Even YOU !

Life's hard ,baby.

Don't let Nairaland boys mess with your head.

Survival? I think this a more of a case of betrayal and insensitivity.
Are you saying it's okay for one to do anything to a supposed soulmate, because they're desperate to survive?

princeiceberg:
We dated for good seven years, i have never seen her with anyone around, we both graduated school i was posted to serve my NYSC in kaltungo of Gombe state and she was sent to Ogun , since then we've not been making calls, we just chat on whatsapp and telegram, but nowadays she has not been online and her number has not been reachable, i decided to contact one of her friend, she told me that she has been with one Alhaji and he's gotten her a bank job. . . . i felt sick for that. . .and now i have moved on hustling hard, [s]and i now realized that trusting women was a bad idea.[/s] . .

Rubbish,

Trusting humans not trusting women dont be sexist..

Probably you didnt even propose but you want her to magically wait for you....

You think a ladys life is thesame with a man's life.....
Use this one take get sense when you din get money to marry you can start dating

And stop expecting a romeo and Juliet love fantasy in real world

Who you dey want make he wat for you 7yrs pikin you nor know how d pikin be

Tickles001:


Survival? I think this a more of a case of betrayal and insensitivity.
Are you saying it's okay for one to do anything to a supposed soulmate, because they're desperate to survive?

I can understand been insensitive but betrayal is not in this case.
There is nothing connecting the two of them.
Even the claim of 7 years is disputable.
What if the table was that the op at his place of service he was offered a job for relationship.he would say no to the offer because he has a 7 year relationship with someone


And we have not looked into a critical line of thought wether the op is hallucinating!

gregyboy:



Rubbish,

Trusting humans not trusting women..

Probably you didnt even propose but you want her to magically wait for you....

You think a ladys life is thesame with a man's life.....
Use this one take get sense when you din get money to marry you can start dating

And stop expecting a romeo and Juliet love fantasy in real world

Romeo and Juliet romance exist in real time in this real world!

The problem is when you are Macbeth and Julius Caesar and it is expected that you play the role of romeo

baralatie:

Romeo and Juliet romance exist in real time in this real world!

The problem is when you are Macbeth and Julius Caesar and it is expected that you play the role of romeo

Lol ha romeo and Juliet for real life.. Lol for were

Love for real life na jack sparrow cruise...

doggedfighter:
Trusting women in your life or the ones you have met may have been a risk. Trusting

humans is a risk. Not gender restricted. Don't generalize.

Learn to understand that when you are starting out in your walk of life , not everyone believes enough in you to stick it out with you.

Not because they hate you or are untrustworthy but mostly it's out of survival.


We're all fighting to survive and may do some desperate things.



Even YOU !

Life's hard ,baby.

Don't let Nairaland boys mess with your head.

Have you finished typing..??

gregyboy:



Lol ha romeo and Juliet for real life.. Lol for were

Love for real life na jack sparrow cruise...

Love is real!

And it exists!

The problem is like people who want to use #10000 to buy IPhone 13

It is they steal,lie to get it or beg .in the end they end up with broken hearts because funny man die funny man go bury am.
Same with the experience of a lot of people in relationships.they want love but they want to steal love which means a lot of heart breaks and disappointment

Women

to your face they will pretend they love you


at your back


they will bite their fingers in spite





#MAYGODSAVEUS

baralatie:

Love is real!

And it exists!

The problem is like people who want to use #10000 to buy IPhone 13

It is they steal,lie to get it or beg .in the end they end up with broken hearts because funny man die funny man go bury am.
Same with the experience of a lot of people in relationships.they want love but they want to steal love

Keep your nareative we are humans love is dependent

And anything with dependency doesn't last


I hope you don't learn this thing the hard way

profilemessages:
Women

to your face they will pretend they love you


at your back


they will bite their fingers in spite





#MAYGODSAVEUS

Same goes for men

gregyboy:



Keep your nareative we are humans love is dependent

And anything with dependency doesn't last


I hope you don't learn this thing the hard way

What is dependency?
Does it not point out that you cannot do without been loved?
If you cannot do without love because of dependency is not better to get the love that works?
So how can you say love does not exist?

Pele

doggedfighter:
Trusting women in your life or the ones you have met may have been a risk. Trusting

humans is a risk. Not gender restricted. Don't generalize.

Learn to understand that when you are starting out in your walk of life , not everyone believes enough in you to stick it out with you.

Not because they hate you or are untrustworthy but mostly it's out of survival.


We're all fighting to survive and may do some desperate things.



Even YOU !

Life's hard ,baby.

Don't let Nairaland boys mess with your head.

I think you hit the nail on the head, even guys betray each other. Everybody is trying to survive, so be smart on who you put your trust on.

If I were toe guy, I go scope the girl make Alhaji run one or two packages for me, she's free to go.

Tickles001:


Survival? I think this a more of a case of betrayal and insensitivity.
Are you saying it's okay for one to do anything to a supposed soulmate, because they're desperate to survive?

the lady has long had the intention of moving on but got the opportunity to do so ,,,
most people we see around are hungry fellows (man or woman)
so it's best we tread careful ,,,

BiggyB242:


I think you hit the nail on the head, even guys betray each other. Everybody is trying to survive, so be smart on who you put your trust on.

If I were toe guy, I go scope the girl make Alhaji run one or two packages for me, she's free to go.

but to be realistic,8 years old relationship isn't called smartness oo ,

When we told you niggas to hustle make money before you do woman matter unah no go here.....

profilemessages:
Women

to your face they will pretend they love you


at your back


they will bite their fingers in spite





#MAYGODSAVEUS

the lady saw the relationship as a hobby not an investment worth taking

There are things young guys should know; humans are not to be trusted entirely cos they're all driven by greed
and selfishness. It's better to learn from someone mistakes than to learn from one's bitter experience... Its okay you learn from your own. Welcome to the league of the abandoned....

doggedfighter:
Trusting women in your life or the ones you have met may have been a risk. Trusting

humans is a risk. Not gender restricted. Don't generalize.

Learn to understand that when you are starting out in your walk of life , not everyone believes enough in you to stick it out with you.

Not because they hate you or are untrustworthy but mostly it's out of survival.


We're all fighting to survive and may do some desperate things.



Even YOU !

Life's hard ,baby.

Don't let Nairaland boys mess with your head.

Are you saying you don't trust me babe? After all we have been through?

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Switchman:
My guy why not focus on your hustle and make some money then you can bleep as much girls as you want and dump them when you are done.

Do you think it's love that small girl saw in Bed Nwoko that made her marry him. Girls are moved by material things.

Forget the Africa Magic love movies, no true love anywhere. Love na scam cos when better opportunity arises they will switch

Your first paragraph is flawed. A real man doesn't make money to impress any woman but his own life, family and achieve set goals for his future.
What's the essence of making money only to spend it on women cuz you are on some revenge-ish trip

doggedfighter:


Murjem, Nigerian women are very bright just look in the right places

How's your day going,dear

See as that dude don make ur head swell!!!

Yen yen yen

luminouz:

Are you saying you don't trust me babe? After all we have been through?

I know you will even sell me to Alhaji by yourself for yourself, sweetie