stillwater:

Koffi as my boyfriend? Naa wouldn't even breed such thoughts, try someone that looks like my profile pic

Why Do British Girls Love To Date Black Guys,

Hannibal:

Adam Levine??
Bloody racist.

The Sly:

Don't mind Mr & Mrs HanniWater. . . . . .
And as for your preference. . . . . . .Iz u talking about moi?

because we can do what it do.

stillwater:

Hehehe, Should I be bothered? I go about my ways with pride

CodeRED:

Sly don't kill me oo. yes the stooges na, Well, great, so when can we hook up? , Make sure you bring your Black card, because I like the finer things in life o.

Why Do British Girls Love To Date Black Guys,

topup:

Because it's in fashion.

bigboyslim:

Don't tell me you really believe that

topup:

You know what, I do. Black men are currently the hot stuff of todays! I mean a few years back with Beyonce's - Crazy in love single, Black women climbed up a bit too, but then you know she went and bleached so 'em we've sunken back down. Much like even before then J-LO was making Latinos the in-thing,

Don't you agree, sex appeal of races comes in seasons. Though it doesn't affect me!

RichyBlacK:

Could Obama's rise in politics be contributing to making black men the in thing?

RichyBlacK:

Could Obama's rise in politics be contributing to making black men the in thing?

tpia:

No.

Jungle fever/The X factor preceded Obama.

bigboyslim:

This may be me going a bit overboard and probably also off point but please do not compare Obama with those celebrities ever.

RichyBlacK:

But what I'm asking is that, could Obama's political rise affect the world-wide perception of black men as suitable mates?

bigboyslim:

Possibly yes. but then again Obama is not your average black man. at least not here in America.

RichyBlacK:

All I did was ask a question, and did not make any suggestions - observe the difference. Thanks.

bigboyslim:

No hard feelings. I must have unconsciously and possibly erroneously placed you in the category of people portraying Him as a celebrity.

RichyBlacK:

How about Usain "Lightning" Bolt?

topup:

You know what, I do. Black men are currently the hot stuff of todays! I mean a few years back with Beyonce's - Crazy in love single, Black women climbed up a bit too, but then you know she went and bleached so 'em we've sunken back down. Much like even before then J-LO was making Latinos the in-thing,

Don't you agree, sex appeal of races comes in seasons. Though it doesn't affect me!

bigboyslim:

Well, Bolt is not the first black person to put up an outstanding performance on the track fields. In recent years, the track events have been largely dominated by black athletes both male and female. I don't see that resulting in a new found sex appeal in the black race, otherwise you should also mention Michael Phelps.

RichyBlacK:

True, but bolt is unique in two ways:

1. His achievement in this Olympic Games (WR in 100m and 200m) is a first.
2. Came to popularity in the first post You tube Olympics.

bigboyslim:

True he made history with the double feat. but I doubt if people would consider that a breakthrough achievement. Its just Gold in one more event. As far as youtube goes, you can't even watch those races on youtube because of restricted broadcast rights. Secondly, I believe people also had means of catching similar events live on TV before the advent of youtube.

RichyBlacK:

But what I'm asking is that, could Obama's political rise affect the world-wide perception of black men as suitable mates?

topup:

Quote from Swiftycool

"Generally i realise Black guys are more romantic and attentive to white chicks than black ones
Most of my guys dating white chicks tolerate a lot of shit and really treat em like ladies with respect and all
They are mostly dedicated to pleasing the chicks in bed and other ways rather than themselves, thats why these girls die hard 4 them
u can immagine!All these things they take 4 granted with the African queens,
u might see it as inferiority complex and slavery mentality, methinks its real romance, they bring out the romeo in u!"

I have seen this and it is slavery mentality, I do not believe it is real romance because how does being a 'white woman' bring out the romeo in you. The truth is there is an underlying feeling on being with 'someone better than you' for the black man, built from years and years of being told your own skin colour is disgusting, so when you've found what you think is a gem, you will cherish it, but when you consider you're black women as something to look down to or below yourself, of course you're not going to be 'dying hard for them'. The 'white' woman is seen as someone gentle, fragile to be protected and romanced, whilst the 'black' woman is seen as someone to be kept in line, someone to bare kids and stay at home and cook and wait on their husbands. We are seen as emotionless and tough *sighs*.

This issue really upsets me. A guy I know dumped his nice girlfriend for a 'white' girl who happened to have slept around, here there and with every other black guy, who was not serious in her faith, despite telling him she wanted to be. He looked SO inlove, like he had found a gem, though she flirted with other guys infront of him, though she had backup guys and she couldn't care less about faithfulness let alone his feelings, despite this she brought out the romantic in him, but it confused everybody because she treated him like crap, she didn't appreciate what he had to offer, and not long after him, she brought some other black guy into her life and crushed this guy. Now, I wonder if any black guy would tolerate, a cheating, disloyal, promiscuous black girlfriend?!?! I don't think so, white women have always been valued more, and this upsets me, you don't realise how hard I try not to hate myself and not to question God, why I was GIVEN the short straw.

It really does upset me, when I feel like a piece of coal in comparison to all these 'white' women. It really does, I hate to hear men saying that these women they go to extents for, just because of their skin colours? Man, I'm tired of it all, the fascination with the 'paler' species is getting me down. As a black woman, always feeling like I've got a longer way to travel than everybody else. Black men have it a lot easier in this sense.

What does make me smile though, is finding those white men who cannot resist. It shows me that sometimes you can't hide a gem no matter what packaging you put over it. I truly believe I am a gem, and if my skin colour means that you'll treat me as an inferior them I feel sorry for you.

Peace and Love x

vivaladiva:

because white girls know that black boys especially naija boys will lick their yansh for paper
if it happens to come with a big privates tis all good
do u really want to know what white girls think of black boys especially naija boys?