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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by manhaley5: 7:42am On Jun 25, 2021
Catfishing:
The guy wife get strong face...she no dey smile at all shocked

And the one way get soft face come kill am.
Wahala for flyover.

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Nobody: 7:42am On Jun 25, 2021
Instead of learning lessons be there benefiting from click bait.
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by kay29000(m): 7:43am On Jun 25, 2021
Romanoff:


Just cause you surround yourself with immoral men doesn't mean all off us grew up that way.

The reason I am not team "all men are the same" is because I grew up around better men.

Ciao.

I know you're not a young girl, but I guess you're just naive. With time, you will understand that most (not all) men will cheat at some time in their life time...a lot of them are just good at covering their tracks. I'm not an immoral person, but It is what it is.

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Romanoff(f): 7:43am On Jun 25, 2021
Theunbothered:


Is it the same man or imaginary men you made up for the sake of argument?

Look through my comments, maybe you'd understand how I was brought up.
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Superboss: 7:44am On Jun 25, 2021
helpee:
You will know when you marry one. A pretty wife in Abuja while you spend all your life alone in Lagos. We don't face reality. Na maid you go Bleep self.

Lol! how you young chaps make assumption here is quite funny to me.
O boy! I am married. Married to the one I love.
I how difficult it can be for for husband and wife to live in different locations.
Can't they be seeing each atleast once in a month?
They had the means to even be meeting every fortnight.
The dead has been done, the man is no more. It is for the living to learn from this.
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Nobody: 7:44am On Jun 25, 2021
murphyibiam15:

Cc lalasticlala Mynd44 OAM4J rule 2
The rude, conceited, self-absorbed man with a 20 inches shoulder padded ego suit seems to be taking things personal.


Calm your horses bro.When it's a women bashing thread ,you can come back and spit your venom all over the thread. For now let us have this one.
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Romanoff(f): 7:44am On Jun 25, 2021
kay29000:


I know you're not a young girl, but I guess you're just naive. With time, you will understand that most (not all) men will cheat at some time in their life time.. I'm not an immoral person, but It is what it is.

Well, I didn't surround myself with this "most men" you speak of.

Thank God.

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Odidigboigbo(m): 7:45am On Jun 25, 2021
Romanoff:


Search for her on linked in and apply pressure.

But I hope you have sense and won't tow he path her foolish husband did?
No, I'll be a good romantic faithfully husband
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by kay29000(m): 7:46am On Jun 25, 2021
Romanoff:


Well, I didn't surround myself with this "most men" you speak of.

Thank God.

Okay.

By the way, where did you take that picture in your profile? That's a beautiful view behind you.
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by CapitalBank: 7:46am On Jun 25, 2021
Authoreety:
Many things, but most especially, no fear of God.

Anyways, in this instance, I see a career woman who ddnt have time for her family, hence the husband decided to find solace elsewhere..
You just quickly concluded on seeing her picture. Imagine some looked at your own sister and said this same thing. Most times, before you talk, always put yourself in people's shoes...

What proof do you have to back your claims up? Now, it is the fault of the woman abi?
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by carboblanko(m): 7:46am On Jun 25, 2021
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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by mauchiz: 7:47am On Jun 25, 2021
These are the last days, everyone should repent. He that cheats on his wife should stop, let's be very careful now, stop fighting and quarrelling, it might lead to death.
As we can see what is happening now in Nigeria, killing everywere.
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Psoul(m): 7:47am On Jun 25, 2021
This question does not make much sense to me.
Infidelity is not borne out of how ugly or poor one's partner is.
Infidelity is a personal thing.
It is a thing of morality and discipline.
Infidelity is also not a gender issue.
Both male and female genders get involved in it.

Those that their partners are very beautiful or handsome have also gotten involved wt a less handsome or beautiful person outside relationship and vice versa.
Poor people getting involved wt a wealthy person and a wealthy person getting involved wt a poor person.

So infidelity is hinged on very bad moral standard and lack of self control.

Who knows, even the wife that is bn praised may also be in extra marital affairs wt other men....who knows.
It's only the person that his/hers has not bn exposed that looks like an angel

If you are comparing beauty as why the man should not be unfaithful to the wife, then I don't think that the girl is a bad choice. The girl is very beautiful, younger and probably more vibrant. Still, this should make a very poor defense for bn unfaithful
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Dchair2: 7:51am On Jun 25, 2021
Kambilly99:
Men are insatiable bastards stupid gender
Really? That includes your father,
brothers, uncles, nephews, etc infact all the males in your generations.
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Fcwilly: 7:51am On Jun 25, 2021
Some pretty women are house of trouble, the pretty face conceal the venom in them, king cobra � and black mambas are of lesser poison compare to some of them.
But then man and kpekus is something else

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by ensamy(m): 7:51am On Jun 25, 2021
Yam yam yam every day. Variety is the spice of a man. No matter how sweet the yam is. sad sad sad Atleast plantain, potatoes and fried egg.
Yam is a yam and can never become potatoes or plantain.
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by kindlyheart: 7:52am On Jun 25, 2021
alizma:

And when did beauty become a tool for good marriage. If you are a Christian, open your beautiful and show me where it was written that the virtues woman is the beautiful woman.


let's push all the blames to the wife then.
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by pekisdgee(m): 7:52am On Jun 25, 2021
The girl is a gooner!!!
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by TheSupleemLeada(m): 7:52am On Jun 25, 2021
Foolish men do foolish stuff.
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by kindlyheart: 7:53am On Jun 25, 2021
ignis:


The side chick is tighter.

tight wey de suffocate
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by biggie73(m): 7:53am On Jun 25, 2021
Why ask why?
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by helpee(m): 7:53am On Jun 25, 2021
Superboss:


Lol! how you young chaps make assumption here is quite funny to me.
O boy! I am married. Married to the one I love.
I how difficult it can be for for husband and wife to live in different locations.
Can't they be seeing each atleast once in a month?
They had the means to even be meeting every fortnight.
The dead has been done, the man is no more. It is for the living to learn from this.
There is nothing to learn here. Even wives do kill their husbands and that you are married now does not mean it will continue to be like that. From reliable information, the man and his wife are not even in good terms. Stop judging from afar...moreso, that you have not cheated does not mean you won't eventually cheat. Let your wife stay in Abuja first then you can adopt your suggestion of monthly nocturnal visit. It may not last long though before either you or even the so called love of your life will succumb. The fact that you are even imagining what it feels like to marry a career woman means you are not married to one yet...at least a very successful one for now so you you are not in this man"s shoe and you won't know how it pinches. By the way, I am equally married for over 12years in a very lovely relationship but I don't deny reality

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by afesco: 7:54am On Jun 25, 2021
SenorFax:
Anybody can be beautiful, it's takes character to keep a man.

Not judging, but with these her professional qualities, I doubt she will have time for her husband.
That is not true in is most cases because it is hard to see a wealthy man who doesn't cheat on his wife. My boss's wife is a house wife (because he doesn't want her to work) n a young n very pretty woman but my boss is worst than a dog. The woman has done everything to arrest d situation but all to avail. I am very close to d family as I visit their home often because I am a family friend to my boss and his wife.
None of d girls my boss goes out with is as pretty as his wife but yet, he often keeps late at night.
One day in 2017, my was with my boss in his car n he was talking babes n all dt but I told him dt I am a Christian and as such, I can't cheat on my wife n his reply was dt it is because I just got d job n dt I have not seen money n dt is y I am talking like this n when d office start sending me out with so much money, dt I can't but cheat on her. He actually bet with me. But up till now, I haven't cheated on my wife despite having some money. Most of my colleagues cheat on their wives even d supposedly christian do. I was away travelled on official assignment with most of my colleagues for six weeks in 2017 with a good hotel accommodation, good DTA(duty tour allowance). Many of them(married men), lodged with ladies n you can imagine to even see someone u won't espect because to do such caught in a act.
Have u asked why a man with 1,2,3,4 or 5 wives still have side chics?
In conclusion, it takes d grace of God for a man not to cheat on his wife n most especially a man who has made money.

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by ruggedtimi(m): 7:54am On Jun 25, 2021
esthel:
Well from this I see a busy career woman who probably isn't home all the time. Still doesn't justify cheating, a man that will cheat will cheat even if the wife is available 24/7
damn I know this woman, she is f*cking busy as hell. A career woman and very powerful.

Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by iKingsley(m): 7:55am On Jun 25, 2021
Franckly62:
embarassed
Everyone will claim to be a psychologist now.
As for me, I don't know why he cheated. Even if he was still alive, I'm pretty certain that he would not have been able to say coherently why he cheated.

He might have likely said, "It's the Devil".
On a related note, sometimes I pity the Devil sha. Almost everybody lays the cause of their misfortunes at his door.... No one wants to admit they are solely at fault. Everyone is looking for who to blame.

The Current Government is the best in this one
he definitely has a reason why he cheated
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by emkz: 7:55am On Jun 25, 2021
I hypothesize as follows:

(1) Distance

(2) Bad friends. I can't be friends with someone cheating on his wife. I'd start in no time.

(3) The myth that young blood strengthens old bones.

(4) Probably was tired of his wife's body.

The issue is that if one is a cheat, better hug it with both hands and legs and let people know. It is unforgivable when you try to mask the image of who you truly are because you crave to be respected. That reeks of low self-esteem.

The woman is incredibly pretty.
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Chuka200: 7:55am On Jun 25, 2021
Romanoff:


I was waiting for this.

You people don't want a liability for a wife, if a woman now has a job or doing well in business, you people will complain she's too busy with her career and business for you people. Una no wan be sole provider so that your wives won't ask you for money, yet y'all don't want career women or wives that will be richer than you.
Wetin una dey find gan gan?

Was the man a jobless man? Wasn't he also a career person? You think as a CEO and billionaire, he sits at home to wait for his wife?

A man's true character is tested when he has money. And the devil used his money and love for women to send him to an early disgraceful end.




Speak for yourself and the men you know.

I know prosperous men who have never stepped out on their wives.



So who come gain now, the man tired of sleeping with his beautiful wife or the wife who is still alive and still doing well in life?

I hope she remarries a younger guy.

This ur last message of marrying a younger guy just shows you might want a younger guy too as the guy wants younger women na wa what goes around comes around maybe the younger guy will kill her too
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by mkoabiola: 7:56am On Jun 25, 2021
So many many questions waiting for answers

Career woman and a busy man..... With a free side chick on partime studies addicted to drugs.

She should rot in jail

Too many lies in her confession
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by blowjohn(m): 7:56am On Jun 25, 2021
Something u people have left out:
Drugs and alcohol.
If ur a man, and a drugs and alcohol addict, and u have girls involved with misunderstanding, it could be a short cut to disgrace.
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Chuka200: 7:58am On Jun 25, 2021
Kambilly99:
Men are insatiable bastards stupid gender

Like your father uncles and brothers am not insulting you o just expantiating your point..you are very correct
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Otuchi: 7:58am On Jun 25, 2021
the spirit of Lilith.
that is exactly what is disturbing that Nairalander they called Sapphire, the spirit of Lilith had taking over her life. hope she gets Married cos i don't see it happening.
spirit of Lilith is a spirit of Prostitution. A spirit that causes division(Divorce) between Husband and Wife.

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Commanderinpips: 7:59am On Jun 25, 2021
FatherCHRISTMAS:
It's not in a man's nature to hold on to a single woman... No matter how much he loves the wife, the urge to hunt younger women will always be there.

Some men fight the urge... The good news is, non has ever won grin



Shout out Born2winnx
Man is born to win

You lied so many men have and will continue to overcome their sexual urge through the grace jesus christ gave. You can also tap into thesame grace today.

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