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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Kokaine(m): 12:23pm On Jul 08
SunTzu123:


And i thought i was a wise old man. Please teach me some wisdom!!!!
grin grin grin grin
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Millichamp(m): 12:24pm On Jul 08
Take her to your room and Bleep. That's all

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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by estheI(f): 12:26pm On Jul 08
Kokaine:
Apart from relationship with this girl, do you have a dream? Do you have something you are passionate about and desperately wish to achieve before death meets you? Are you satisfied with just living? Eating, going to toilet, and maybe having sex in the future? Are there things you also want to be or do in this life? Like employ people, create jobs, have an NGO that supports albinos, or sponsor a research that can change a life? Is there an invention you are working on? Are you a gym cat? Building your muscles and intellect? Do you want to learn programming and teach it for free to kids who are less privileged and have challenging backgrounds in life. What about your love for God and paradise. Do you want to live a life that is approved by God and be saved from hellfire?

You see all these questions I asked you? If you are living your life taking steps to achievement of any of these things, your mind will be filled up, your self esteem will be high at its peak, you will see everyone that cones your way as a possible tool to achieving this dream. So meeting with this woman of yours, will take its natural course. It wouldn't need any one on nairaland to tell you what to do next, your dreams, your starved ambition, your inner energies, will lead you. And you will not see yourself any less in esteem than her. She is not doing you a favour by accepting your proposal, its only an opportunity to see how and where she meets you on your way to the top.

If you meet her and she has no dreams, or will be a harbinger to your own ambition or standards, you may have to help her to the way up, or break up with her to find your own kind. So don't be too excited. You are also a big catch. Do you see how djcuppy is all over Anthony Joshua? He is filled with fulfilment. There is a man out there who would scream if cuppy likes his comment on her page, or likes his picture, or follows him. But Anthony Joshua wouldn't need all that excitement. His fulfilment in life overshadows all of that. Be the Anthony Joshua in your life. Your dreams can take you there. Your dreams you are working on, can influence your behavior and perception, your gratitude to God and your self esteem.

With this mindset or personality, you can date Obamas daughter and still live by your standards. You can tell otedolas daughter that you don't take alcohol or you won't attend a particular party, the relationship should favour your dreams. If not, it should not exist. So you can turn down a proposal from the most beautiful girl in the block. You matter too. In fact, you matter most! You are the catch!
oh my God please where did you get this from?
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Oyin2212(m): 12:29pm On Jul 08
cPapaAjascO:
Well it didnt take up to an hour asking her out and she gave me a yes. But I am lost and confused as to what to do next.

This would be my very first real relationship and I dont want to screw it up. This babe is special and well versed in almost every topic of discussion. She tickles my brain with her intelligence and I want to quit old odd escapades with desperate girls and start a real relationship.

Thing is, I dont know how to go about it.

Day 1 she said YES

Day 2 I dont have an idea of how to get it started.



Do I call her or text her or send her money or gifts or take her out shopping or swimming


I m already scared that my relationship with her may end even before it starts. I need ideas guys.

Help me!!! grin

Wahala no dey finish !!!
Nack am
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by kelvinrhs(m): 12:32pm On Jul 08
cPapaAjascO:
Well it didnt take up to an hour asking her out and she gave me a yes. a real relationship.

Thing is, I dont know how to go about it.

Day 1 she said YES

Day 2 I dont have an idea of how to get it started.



This made me remember the first time I asked a girl out back in 2017. Babe said Yes and gave me her number that very day; although we've been seeing and a bit close at our jamb coaching center (It was on the last day that I told her my mind)


I got home and I never called her till date because;

1. At the time I felt I was not ready for a relationship because I was 18 or thereabout

2. I don't know what I want in a woman

3. I wanted to prove to myself that I was not shy to talk to a girl

4. It was too easy that she gave me her number that day and said Yes

So if I'm to apply this to this context, I think you should think deep and ask yourself what you want in the relationship? Why you like her

But if I'm to advise you, you can Kickstart it by calling her every morning and night

Na so relationship dey start


Never been in a real relationship though but you know they say it's people that are single that gives the best relationship advise


Peace be unto thee
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Kokaine(m): 12:35pm On Jul 08
estheI:
oh my God please where did you get this from?
Lool.

This is 2021 kings. We shouldn't date anyhow. Our first dates should be a secret interview.
We want those partners who can help us write business proposals when we are busy, the ones that can design a nice flier for our products, the ones that can handle pur finances or even take the initiative of advertising our products on Facebook ads, Instagram ads or google ads. Romance should now be on a basis of mutual success.

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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Dahunsipaul(m): 12:35pm On Jul 08
cPapaAjascO:
I still dont understand why guys usually think having sex quickly or later adds something good into their lives?

Lo your level of reasoning is appalling, very shallow bruh, where did I insinuate that it adds good or bad, did I even point out it adds anything, you just want to counter, amukun meko.
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by BarrElChapo(m): 12:37pm On Jul 08
Keep doing what you were doing that made her say yes. And don't try to overdo things like sending money upandan buying gifts etc. Stick to what you were doing right and more communication. Happy you found the right one for you.

cPapaAjascO:
Well it didnt take up to an hour asking her out and she gave me a yes. But I am lost and confused as to what to do next.

This would be my very first real relationship and I dont want to screw it up. This babe is special and well versed in almost every topic of discussion. She tickles my brain with her intelligence and I want to quit old odd escapades with desperate girls and start a real relationship.

Thing is, I dont know how to go about it.

Day 1 she said YES

Day 2 I dont have an idea of how to get it started.



Do I call her or text her or send her money or gifts or take her out shopping or swimming


I m already scared that my relationship with her may end even before it starts. I need ideas guys.

Help me!!! grin

Wahala no dey finish !!!
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by illitracy: 12:41pm On Jul 08
See bro, take her swimming first, there you will be able to gather more intelligence that may or may not ginger. No man is only sapiosexual. Men are rather without the sapio.
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by KazikageSama: 12:49pm On Jul 08
cPapaAjascO:
Well it didnt take up to an hour asking her out and she gave me a yes. But I am lost and confused as to what to do next.

This would be my very first real relationship and I dont want to screw it up. This babe is special and well versed in almost every topic of discussion. She tickles my brain with her intelligence and I want to quit old odd escapades with desperate girls and start a real relationship.

Thing is, I dont know how to go about it.

Day 1 she said YES

Day 2 I dont have an idea of how to get it started.



Do I call her or text her or send her money or gifts or take her out shopping or swimming


I m already scared that my relationship with her may end even before it starts. I need ideas guys.

Help me!!! grin

Wahala no dey finish !!!

Please don't take this the wrong way. How old are you?
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by OgideAgu: 12:56pm On Jul 08
Next thing should be payment of acceptance fees
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Tochj(m): 12:57pm On Jul 08
cPapaAjascO:
time is running out against me... the relationship is already some hours old and I have done nothing and said nothing... she will soon start growing cold feet


Help me nah... I heard u are Ubunja and this is your alternate moniker. Help me nahgrin
Nothing much
Just be yourself
Don't overhype yourself
Be real
Simple
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by greggng: 12:57pm On Jul 08
cPapaAjascO:
Well it didnt take up to an hour asking her out and she gave me a yes. But I am lost and confused as to what to do next.

This would be my very first real relationship and I dont want to screw it up. This babe is special and well versed in almost every topic of discussion. She tickles my brain with her intelligence and I want to quit old odd escapades with desperate girls and start a real relationship.

Thing is, I dont know how to go about it.

Day 1 she said YES

Day 2 I dont have an idea of how to get it started.



Do I call her or text her or send her money or gifts or take her out shopping or swimming


I m already scared that my relationship with her may end even before it starts. I need ideas guys.

Help me!!! grin

Wahala no dey finish !!!


The first step is for you to grow up ...

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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Michelbare(m): 1:00pm On Jul 08
look for Okra
Prepare fresh soup,
Look for Yam
Pound it

The 2 of you should sit down under one mango tree

flex it and relax
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by sync: 1:00pm On Jul 08
Just go with the flow man
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Naustine(m): 1:01pm On Jul 08
Take it easy, slow n steady, get to know each other well. Know her likes and dislikes, and what interests her...it helps both of u to bond. And hey!! Make sure u have a good sense of humor. If u don't have, start learning.
Coming from an OG

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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by kilokeys(m): 1:04pm On Jul 08
cPapaAjascO:
Well it didnt take up to an hour asking her out and she gave me a yes. But I am lost and confused as to what to do next.

This would be my very first real relationship and I dont want to screw it up. This babe is special and well versed in almost every topic of discussion. She tickles my brain with her intelligence and I want to quit old odd escapades with desperate girls and start a real relationship.

Thing is, I dont know how to go about it.

Day 1 she said YES

Day 2 I dont have an idea of how to get it started.



Do I call her or text her or send her money or gifts or take her out shopping or swimming


I m already scared that my relationship with her may end even before it starts. I need ideas guys.

Help me!!! grin

Wahala no dey finish !!!

Be nice, be her friend, Be kind
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by IDERAWOLE(m): 1:04pm On Jul 08
cPapaAjascO:
help me na... can u guide me through.

What am I suppose to be doing at this point?

How old are you?

Even if you are 12, all you need start a relationship with is just being friends so that you can both know each other better.

From there, you can take it up to the level of dating without the tension of how to sleep with her.

Boys! Become a man my friend!
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by opeobe: 1:07pm On Jul 08
cPapaAjascO:
Well it didnt take up to an hour asking her out and she gave me a yes. But I am lost and confused as to what to do next.

This would be my very first real relationship and I dont want to screw it up. This babe is special and well versed in almost every topic of discussion. She tickles my brain with her intelligence and I want to quit old odd escapades with desperate girls and start a real relationship.


Thing is, I dont know how to go about it.

Day 1 she said YES

Day 2 I dont have an idea of how to get it started.



Do I call her or text her or send her money or gifts or take her out shopping or swimming


I m already scared that my relationship with her may end even before it starts. I need ideas guys.

Help me!!! grin

Wahala no dey finish !!!

Take her out to her a nice chic place to talk about your feelings toward her. It seems to me that she is out of your league and it’s a shock to you she accepted. Don’t look down on yourself and RELAX!
Steps
1. Look for a nice bar (not a beer parlour) or a nice restaurant. 2. Text her you would like to take her out and suggest a time and place to meet (that’s a date) 3. When you get there, talk to her and show a genuine interest in knowing her.4. Look for common interest and plan activities you both enjoy. 5. Other things will fall into place.
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by jaykay68(m): 1:08pm On Jul 08
Go nakam apakwo
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by mbahdi(m): 1:10pm On Jul 08
No big deal man.jist know it uv registered into a full time job.dont start up d relationship with money and gift.cos u wunt be able to know if she truely love u for loving sake or becos of ur care and money.all what u owe her now is call.like call her first tin in d morning ask her how her nyt is.dis n dat.aftrernoon n nyt.some times like on sunday u just take her to any eatery.so dat she can always feel belong.make gist with her.be funny and romantic.ask her about her plans.future ambition.even to make d fun more interesting ask her how many kids will she want to give birth to sud she marries now.how many boys and girls.just try to b funny and not be over serious every time.wiah u good luck.and lastly don't center ur relationship with her on lust.like fucking d hell out of her cos wen lust sets in.d relationship is gone.cos all u will always be after wen ever u guys meet is on how to have sex.be wise.
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by kilojoDesigns: 1:11pm On Jul 08
Call her and always check up on her from now on. Ask her when she's free so you can take her out and spend some money
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by damoceile: 1:12pm On Jul 08
Go and do Thanksgiving in church.... Besides what is this doing on FP
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by SweetDipBenny(m): 1:15pm On Jul 08
Find somewhere cool and hang out get to know each other well
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Sheffdon: 1:16pm On Jul 08
cPapaAjascO:
wow. Nice. Well appreciated
follow this advice religiously and thank me later!



Don't ever try to impress her! It will turn her OFF!

Don't try to be confident, she will notice it. They can sniff pretense from a mile. And it will turn her OFF!

Just try RELAX and everything will fall into place.

And don't arrange a date yet, just invite her over to your place to cook, to watch a movie, u dig?

I need to get AZA from you o grin
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by RioCarputo(m): 1:18pm On Jul 08
Buhari is your best adviser OP....
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Daddymiracle: 1:20pm On Jul 08
cPapaAjascO:
Well it didnt take up to an hour asking her out and she gave me a yes. But I am lost and confused as to what to do next.

This would be my very first real relationship and I dont want to screw it up. This babe is special and well versed in almost every topic of discussion. She tickles my brain with her intelligence and I want to quit old odd escapades with desperate girls and start a real relationship.

Thing is, I dont know how to go about it.

Day 1 she said YES

Day 2 I dont have an idea of how to get it started.



Do I call her or text her or send her money or gifts or take her out shopping or swimming


I m already scared that my relationship with her may end even before it starts. I need ideas guys.

Help me!!! grin

Wahala no dey finish !!!


Just call her and ask if she’s free for a date to celebrate � for her saying yes, and for new friendship you guys just embark on. And start talking about life and how you guys can make things works out for good and future
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by MyOleSolksjaer: 1:21pm On Jul 08
invite her over to your crib for some hardcore sex with rock and roll music playing in the background.
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by MAYOWAAK: 1:23pm On Jul 08
EASYGURU:
bro goto google and read all books By Joe Clef on Scribd for free and change your life.


Sir/Ma, please send to akinniyiakinsola@yahoo.co.uk
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by DavidHarry(m): 1:26pm On Jul 08
Go do your stuff, what you love with her
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Agugbadin: 1:28pm On Jul 08
Be guided many Chidimas are out there
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by CapitalBank: 1:28pm On Jul 08
cPapaAjascO:
Well it didnt take up to an hour asking her out and she gave me a yes. But I am lost and confused as to what to do next.

This would be my very first real relationship and I dont want to screw it up. This babe is special and well versed in almost every topic of discussion. She tickles my brain with her intelligence and I want to quit old odd escapades with desperate girls and start a real relationship.

Thing is, I dont know how to go about it.

Day 1 she said YES

Day 2 I dont have an idea of how to get it started.



Do I call her or text her or send her money or gifts or take her out shopping or swimming


I m already scared that my relationship with her may end even before it starts. I need ideas guys.

Help me!!! grin

Wahala no dey finish !!!

You already idolizing her and you will regret it. Put your emotions in check because if you continue like this, she will most likely dump you.

Do not give her money... keep that far away from her...

women love mystery and if she knows everything about you, her interest will reduce. You have a lot of learning to do but I assure you, this very girl will break your heart cos it is very glaring from your reactions.

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