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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by MrCuteAndLoaded: 4:05pm On Jul 08
Call her and start using endearments like babes honey sweetheart etc

Make your conversation with her short aince you are scared at the moment. I know how you feel. This used to be your crush

Arrange a getaway or dinner where you prove your romantic side

Smile a lot when youbare with her

Always remember not to overindulge her. This will come later since you are in honeymoon phase for now

Once again congrats bro
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by MrCuteAndLoaded: 4:06pm On Jul 08
Call her and start using endearments like babes honey sweetheart etc

Make your conversation with her short since you are scared at the moment. I know how you feel. This used to be your crush

Arrange a getaway or dinner where you prove your romantic side

Smile a lot when you are with her

Always remember not to overindulge her. This will come later since you are in honeymoon phase for now

Always demonstrate maturity and responsibility. Take charge and always be confident. You always want to turn her on

Dress neat, improve your higyene and aim higheŕ while letting her kñow. Yoi will score extra points

Once again congrats bro
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Sunnyobums(m): 4:24pm On Jul 08
EASYGURU:
bro goto google and read all books By Joe Clef on Scribd for free and change your life.

Bro help me out with this scribd stuff, I went to the website and even downloaded the scribd app but couldn't read any of the free 30 days free versions, was telling me to sign up and after I did, was showing payment options, is it necessary, I thought it was free? help out
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by iLegendd: 4:25pm On Jul 08
cPapaAjascO:
I heard joe clef's ideas can set a relationship ablaze... I want to be careful so I dont get misguided

You heard, but you haven't tried or read them. It's your choice.

Just know that as a man is trying to help the world with the knowledge he has, there is another man or group of men tarnishing his image, works, and reputation.

I read posts of some group of people saying unfounded things about Robert Kiyosaki, the author of Rich Dad Poor Dad.

If I had read these negative people's post before, I wouldn't have read the main book. I'm glad I read the main book first and it made me realize these people were just haters or other authors trying to bring him down.
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by meobizy(f): 4:27pm On Jul 08
Lol. Most men don’t reach this stage and the ones who do hide their knowledge. I would say take things as you see them, but that’s vague advice for a newbie. Since this is a first relationship take note of little things because they’ll help out in your other ones. You learn as you grow.
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Morris101686(m): 4:52pm On Jul 08
Be a toxic man. Cancel the date and give her a hooked up story.

Next time replanned the date. Never intend taking her to a restaurant it kills the attraction go for site seeing at the park or resorts.
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by iLegendd: 4:55pm On Jul 08
cPapaAjascO:
1. Well it didnt take up to an hour asking her out and she gave me a yes. But I am lost and confused as to what to do next.

2. This would be my very first real relationship and I dont want to screw it up. This babe is special and well versed in almost every topic of discussion. She tickles my brain with her intelligence and I want to quit old odd escapades with desperate girls and start a real relationship.

Thing is, I dont know how to go about it.

Day 1 she said YES

Day 2 I dont have an idea of how to get it started.



Do I call her or text her or send her money or gifts or take her out shopping or swimming


3. I m already scared that my relationship with her may end even before it starts. I need ideas guys.

Help me!!! grin

Wahala no dey finish !!!

Look at the bold lines.

1. The mistake you made here is by asking her out. It worked out, but there is a price for it. You're not supposed to ask her out, but just act as her boyfriend and do the things boyfriends do with their girlfriends.

2. The second mistake is "fear of loss" and "excess adoration." Seeing her as "special" will activate your insecurities and you're going to start monitoring her, over-protecting her, and she's going to get bored soon and call it a quit. Women hate to be caged by protective boyfriends. They love to be loved, but they don't like to be over-loved, over-adored, and over-protected. They love some freedom of association with other people — not just you.

3. Your insecurity has already been activated and this will be a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Download and read this book called Mr. Friend zone and thank me later. Read the free version. https://shop.wetclef.com/blog/2019/05/30/download-mr-friendzone/

My final observation. Your second to the last line reads: help me!!! grin

With 3 exclamation marks and a laughter emoji, I have concluded you're just catching fun — you already know what you'll do.

Enjoy!

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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Gfskw: 4:56pm On Jul 08
Start fuvvvvkking offcourse
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by McOluOmo: 5:01pm On Jul 08
Kokaine:
Apart from relationship with this girl, do you have a dream? Do you have something you are passionate about and desperately wish to achieve before death meets you? Are you satisfied with just living? Eating, going to toilet, and maybe having sex in the future? Are there things you also want to be or do in this life? Like employ people, create jobs, have an NGO that supports albinos, or sponsor a research that can change a life? Is there an invention you are working on? Are you a gym cat? Building your muscles and intellect? Do you want to learn programming and teach it for free to kids who are less privileged and have challenging backgrounds in life. What about your love for God and paradise. Do you want to live a life that is approved by God and be saved from hellfire?

You see all these questions I asked you? If you are living your life taking steps to achievement of any of these things, your mind will be filled up, your self esteem will be high at its peak, you will see everyone that cones your way as a possible tool to achieving this dream. So meeting with this woman of yours, will take its natural course. It wouldn't need any one on nairaland to tell you what to do next, your dreams, your starved ambition, your inner energies, will lead you. And you will not see yourself any less in esteem than her. She is not doing you a favour by accepting your proposal, its only an opportunity to see how and where she meets you on your way to the top.

If you meet her and she has no dreams, or will be a harbinger to your own ambition or standards, you may have to help her to the way up, or break up with her to find your own kind. So don't be too excited. You are also a big catch. Do you see how djcuppy is all over Anthony Joshua? He is filled with fulfilment. There is a man out there who would scream if cuppy likes his comment on her page, or likes his picture, or follows him. But Anthony Joshua wouldn't need all that excitement. His fulfilment in life overshadows all of that. Be the Anthony Joshua in your life. Your dreams can take you there. Your dreams you are working on, can influence your behavior and perception, your gratitude to God and your self esteem.

With this mindset or personality, you can date Obamas daughter and still live by your standards. You can tell otedolas daughter that you don't take alcohol or you won't attend a particular party, the relationship should favour your dreams. If not, it should not exist. So you can turn down a proposal from the most beautiful girl in the block. You matter too. In fact, you matter most! You are the catch!
How can i LIKE this ur comment 100times?

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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Sweeetheart(m): 5:09pm On Jul 08
in all advise you will get here, I don't want you to exchange your Ctrl for emotions. ladies cherish guys that are always up to their game




ma lo se bi ase
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by razible5384(m): 7:17pm On Jul 08
richmond500:
I think taking her out and relaxing is a good thing, if the relationship is new, she may be uncomfortable coming to his house, let them meet in a neutral ground where she will be comfortable and he also will be, what he needs right now is confidence, him go just fvck up if him try to do alpha male, he will embarrass himself, he needs confidence first before trying to pretend he is in charge so he doesn't scare her away trying to make her feel she's lucky to have him.

The only time u try to be a redpiller is when u meet a feminist, if u try to be like a lion on an obedient girl, she will be defensive, its good not to make early mistakes
God bless you..... The guy feel say everything nah by muscle an red pill sh!t
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Ugandatales: 7:20pm On Jul 08
cPapaAjascO:
Well it didnt take up to an hour asking her out and she gave me a yes. But I am lost and confused as to what to do next.

This would be my very first real relationship and I dont want to screw it up. This babe is special and well versed in almost every topic of discussion. She tickles my brain with her intelligence and I want to quit old odd escapades with desperate girls and start a real relationship.

Thing is, I dont know how to go about it.

Day 1 she said YES

Day 2 I dont have an idea of how to get it started.



Do I call her or text her or send her money or gifts or take her out shopping or swimming


I m already scared that my relationship with her may end even before it starts. I need ideas guys.

Help me!!! grin


Wahala no dey finish !!!

HAHAHAHA grin
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by nedekid: 7:36pm On Jul 08
In mc marcaronis voice, bring her for counseling. cool
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Kinobi: 8:18pm On Jul 08
Take her to your place, have sex, and she'll never leave you trust me.
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by FRANKOSKI(m): 8:38pm On Jul 08
TAKE HER TO THE PLACE AND TRY TO BE YOURSELF WHEN YOU GET THERE.
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by frozen70(f): 9:12pm On Jul 08
cPapaAjascO:
Well it didnt take up to an hour asking her out and she gave me a yes. But I am lost and confused as to what to do next.

This would be my very first real relationship and I dont want to screw it up. This babe is special and well versed in almost every topic of discussion. She tickles my brain with her intelligence and I want to quit old odd escapades with desperate girls and start a real relationship.

Thing is, I dont know how to go about it.

Day 1 she said YES

Day 2 I dont have an idea of how to get it started.



Do I call her or text her or send her money or gifts or take her out shopping or swimming


I m already scared that my relationship with her may end even before it starts. I need ideas guys.

Help me!!! grin

Wahala no dey finish !!!

Where you asking her out unprepared or for the fun of it

If you don't hold yourself well, you will floor yourself before her

Just take her to her choice of eatery and let her order any dish if her choice and you do same then you guys can enjoy your meals there

After that see her off and that's it

I hope you won't come back here to ask us to give you ideas on how to bleep her

Pls man up
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Emmaskill(m): 9:31pm On Jul 08
Jst control her to ur bulk 2moro ad tell her say u wan kpansh ad u will be glad u did.
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by okoroemeka(m): 9:43pm On Jul 08
cPapaAjascO:
Well it didnt take up to an hour asking her out and she gave me a yes. But I am lost and confused as to what to do next.

This would be my very first real relationship and I dont want to screw it up. This babe is special and well versed in almost every topic of discussion. She tickles my brain with her intelligence and I want to quit old odd escapades with desperate girls and start a real relationship.

Thing is, I dont know how to go about it.

Day 1 she said YES

Day 2 I dont have an idea of how to get it started.



Do I call her or text her or send her money or gifts or take her out shopping or swimming


I m already scared that my relationship with her may end even before it starts. I need ideas guys.

Help me!!! grin

Wahala no dey finish !!!
well if really like the girl stop focusing on how her boobs will look like and focus on building strong communication with the girl,you can take her to a good eatery (mind your pocket) or an interesting tourist site,beach,etc,pls whatever you do don't rush to send money(but you can send airtime),don't rush to be too good,wait be a gentleman let her prove the content of her character before you say I love you,but some women are real diamonds and worth the time and effort
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by skedy1(m): 7:03am On Jul 09
Collect 3 points first!
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Nobody: 10:22am On Jul 09
cPapaAjascO:
Well it didnt take up to an hour asking her out and she gave me a yes. But I am lost and confused as to what to do next.

This would be my very first real relationship and I dont want to screw it up. This babe is special and well versed in almost every topic of discussion. She tickles my brain with her intelligence and I want to quit old odd escapades with desperate girls and start a real relationship.

Thing is, I dont know how to go about it.

Day 1 she said YES

Day 2 I dont have an idea of how to get it started.



Do I call her or text her or send her money or gifts or take her out shopping or swimming


I m already scared that my relationship with her may end even before it starts. I need ideas guys.

Help me!!! grin

Wahala no dey finish !!!
... Your abuna no dey take charge ni undecided
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Goldp5988(f): 1:17pm On Jul 09
Drella:


I understand most ladies won't understand what op is passing through.
Simply because,ladies are mostly likely being asked out by the guy.It is most likely the guy that is piloting the relationship.

So they do nothing and know nothing!



Maybe u r right, please help him out.
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Drella: 2:27pm On Jul 09
Goldp5988:




Maybe u r right, please help him out.

People have already helped him out.


A time is coming when you ladies will be the ones to be asking we the men out. grin
Shebi the future is female tongue
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by EASYGURU(m): 3:41pm On Jul 09
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Jh0wsef(m): 2:10am On Jul 10
Rastafryrice:

boss can I get your WhatsApp number??

Drop yours, I'll message you.
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Goldp5988(f): 5:07am On Jul 10
Drella:


People have already helped him out.


A time is coming when you ladies will be the ones to be asking we the men out. grin
Shebi the future is female tongue

Shio, u hash oh, Yes the future is female, not to ask men out oh
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Drella: 9:02am On Jul 10
Goldp5988:


Shio, u hash oh, Yes the future is female, not to ask men out oh

I don't think I'm harsh.

Ladies are already asking men out,they are already proposing to men now.
Why will you like a guy and be hoping he will ask you out one day?....Be courageous and go meet him.He will be wowed by your confidence.

You don see boyfriend niyen grin
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by CaroLyner(f): 7:02pm On Jul 13
SmartPolician:


CaroLyner

It seems Nairaland makes everyone harsh, including the female folks. SMH.

Advice is something everyone gives and needs. He doesn't want to ruin this opportunity that's why he needs some advice from the elders. You people should be calming down.
I'm not harsh oh, I was joking, hence the tongue out emoji

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