Romanoff:


But do you guys want to hear the explanations?

Many of you aren't willing to listen, you just focus on the "No". There is always a reason for a No.

CoolAmbience:



You made some good sense.

But for me, it is senseless to come in public to propose. I mean, what is the true intent of doing it in public?

This is something that is supposed to be private.

Or have I being left out of the newest civilization?

Wetin concern me sef, e be like say some people just dey destined for public disgrace.

Cholls:
My brother if na my Wife even if she says no hundred times I will keep asking until she says YES!...

emapeteum:

A woman who said no to you in public doesn't worth dying for.

RolexOfGeneva:

Are you ok?

Cholls:
My brother if na my Wife even if she says no hundred times I will keep asking until she says YES!...

RolexOfGeneva:

Are you ok?

Nazgul:

I am too...cos it comes with a lot of unnecessary tensions, suspicions, emotions and unnecessary responsibility.


True...you won't easily ignore glaring red flags when sex isn't involved. Good sex makes girls (and even guys) go crazy, thereby ignoring vital caution signs of the partner in question, which if the relationship is upgraded to marriage can ruin the marriage.


I disagree.

When you're with someone, your goals and visions must be properly ironed out.

If a guy isn't only interested in when next you'll visit him, and whether or not you'll sleep over whenever you visit, what's there to talk about, such person clearly doesn't see you in his future. So what's there to talk about. Even if you bring up marriage issue to such guy, he'll carefully avoid it by either getting angry or claiming he's not financially ready, cos you're not in his future blueprint, you're just a person he uses to relieve his sexual urges.

Likewise a girl...if she's only interested in how much her man will be sending here as monthly upkeep, and how you'll spend your weekends in exotic places...etc. without adding any value to his life, then the guy doesn't need to have any kind of discussion with here cos such girl is out for herself and clearly doesn't picture a future with him.

A purposeful relationship is one which both parties work together towards a collective goal. Even God called the woman a helpmeet, meaning that there are some goals a man cannot accomplish without the help of a supportive woman besides him to encourage and motivate him.

thomasjoe:


What's there to listen to? The comprehension after the Summary ?
You've been in a relationship and the lady has been hoping you propse and now you do then she says no ...
Pls thank God secretly in your heart and calmly walk away ...don't even say word to the girl...she is most likely in a relationship dating someone she thinks is far better than you and has been managing the situation ...
Painful as it is , you should be grateful she helped end the relationship

Cholls:
my brother yes! Are you?

donbenie:
And how do you know she's your wife?
If she kept on refusing you?
Are you Clairvoyant?
Or you are Nostradamus,that can see into the future?

Doja2000:
Yes no yes no yes yes no
Yes no yes no yes yes no
Yes no yes no yes yes no

Romanoff:


So it's okay for a woman you know to say yes to a guy she just met if he proposed to her.

Or it's okay for a girl to say yes to a guy who has said he'd change some of his bad behaviours but she's yet to see the changes?

There's always a reason for every answer, Yes or No.

That yes she's giving you could also be because you're her only option or cause you're her meal ticket out of poverty.

A No is not always bad, just get the reason for the No and be open to discussions.

Romanoff:


So it's okay for a woman you know to say yes to a guy she just met if he proposed to her.

Or it's okay for a girl to say yes to a guy who has said he'd change some of his bad behaviours but she's yet to see the changes?

There's always a reason for every answer, Yes or No.

That yes she's giving you could also be because you're her only option or cause you're her meal ticket out of poverty.

A No is not always bad, just get the reason for the No and be open to discussions.

MYHUBBY:




let me help you to add that, a lady saying yes to you doesn't mean she won't say no later or why are people going into church for wedding and going back to court for dissolution of marriage



no one should force feelings if they don't want heartbreak, both guys and ladies should love someone that feel for them

Romanoff:


The lady has been hoping you'd propose?

How sure are you about this? What if she's not ready for this your proposal?

CharisEleos:
Yes now

Hey babe girl.....
Whats up with today??

Romanoff:


I know someone that proposed to three different ladies at different points in his life. All three said yes but broke up with him later.

He's still single and he's not a child.

Isn't it obvious there's something wrong with him that's making these ladies say no after they've said yes to him?

Stephen2324:
If a man proposes to a lady and she says No, is the relationship over?

Romanoff:


I know someone that proposed to three different ladies at different points in his life. All three said yes but broke up with him later.

He's still single and he's not a child.

Isn't it obvious there's something wrong with him that's making these ladies say no after they've said yes to him?

Ishilove:

Na spirit wife, aka Aya Orun dey worry am