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Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Nobody: 9:53am On Aug 07, 2021 |
jesmond3945: I think so too.. But it’s not her fault, I’m in my early 20s and I have nothing to lose. Told her I’m not even interested in it again. |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by jesmond3945: 9:53am On Aug 07, 2021 |
harjay1986:if your uncle turns you down he has every right to do so. He doesn't owe you. He has right to help anybody he desires. Ask yourself why did obi cubana make chiefpriest who is not his brother his bar man? You know why mutual benefit. Chief priest has something going in for him and obi cubana know investing in him would bring returns. It is only a politician that would help you when you approach as his relative without expecting any benefit. You talk as if you don't know this. I remember when I went to my uncle's house, I just went to visit and go home. I converted myself to errand boy, even fell sick in the process. When I was leaving, he gave me a fat envelope. Why, because I was of benefit to him. If I just came to his house for a favour, he might not honor my visitation next time. Summary don't impose your request on anyone, every body has right to do as he pleases with his money. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by nini007(m): 10:12am On Aug 07, 2021 |
twind111:These are all Yoruba symptoms and YES I'm Yoruba. Igbos help each others wella. |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Isaacmacdon(m): 12:26pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
pansophist: Sent |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by TempUser: 12:47pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
leofab:Pele my dear |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Files: 1:23pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Hmm |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Joydan95: 2:17pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
twind111:A lot of them are ingrates, like in my mum’s family. God has used my mum to help and support a lot of her siblings, even to their children. Helped to start business, pay house rents, helped their children in school and even distant relations but what does she keep getting in return? INSULT and INGRATITUDE even when e choke, she keeps rendering assistance to the extent that she may stay all night worried. I have learnt a lesson, I can help any and everyone (family or not) but I will never do it to inconvenience myself cos at the end they will always be ungrateful. |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by armyofone(m): 2:56pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
She asked already, - why are you guys like this ? Tell us Tomesocial: |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by DonroxyII: 3:54pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
heniford2:if you fvck the son up .... The son may breakthrough somehow and anyhow and also fvck your son up .... the cycle of hatred continue in that gene .... End it .... Move da fvck on and excommunicate them !! |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by kherlly(m): 4:06pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Olodo24: Na wa o |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by kherlly(m): 4:06pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
yemi1504: It's well 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by DonroxyII: 4:21pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
yemmit90:A non egalitarian brain can not create egalitarian anything .... Imagine you help someone infact you sacrificed like 50% of your energy just to get the person to the top and they added their own and established at the top only to use the Potentials to witch hunt you ..... If help has never given you mental health issues before , just stop talking .... from families to friends to colleagues ...... Here in Africa, be selective of those you help ! 1 Like |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by DonroxyII: 4:25pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
jesmond3945:God bless you! Amen !! |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by yemmit90: 4:38pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
DonroxyII: Calm down, we are still saying the same thing. Those you helped to the top that used their positions to witch hunt you are the group of selfish Nigerians we are talking about. No one live in isolation, and everyone needs help at one point in life (be it government or individual), it is the behaviour of these wicked fellows that makes our society what it is today including our leaders who would rather watch you die or live in abject poverty than to do the right thing. 1 Like |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by DonroxyII: 4:59pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
yemmit90:Ehn ehn, na now I understand you ..... Too many wicked and devil consumed souls here in Africa ...... In fact, you will deplete 50% of your values for some only to look at you in the eye and tell you " what have you done for me" or because of your shikinni assistance you think .... Now, if they fall down, they will still come crying to you to bounce them up again, Telling you how devil is a liar or ultimately forgetting how they run their mouth against you and your interest ... ... if I hear .... Africans are genetically saboteurs and no comradeship here .... if you do anyhow and front anyhow, you will be killed and those you are trying to safe will be the one to give you up . 2 Likes |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by vickydevoka(m): 6:23pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Drizzy5001:I'm not derailing. People keep saying money side like de uncle from de mother side no get brother |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by udorazzi(m): 8:29pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Always have dis at d back of your mind, NOBODY OWES YOU ANYTHING |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by cococandy(f): 9:06pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Tomesocial:shut up scammer. That’s how you people ruin Nigeria’s name abroad and end up in jail. Thief 1 Like |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by LutanFyah: 2:29pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
udorazzi:We owe each other love,kindness, protection etc. If not for Bill Gates, you might be dead cos of polio or malaria, but he is spending his hard earned money everyday just to keep African kids alive. If not for Donor agencies, we wouldn't have gotten any Corona vaccines. If not for the Red cross and the Catholic church's help,most Igbos alive today would have been dead during the war. If not for Twitter that provided their platform to rally support against police brutality, SARS might have shot you and I for owning laptops and phones. The aforementioned are just a few scenarios which I believe you can relate with very well. Before lapping up every quote you see online,THINK IT THROUGH FIRST, don't join the bandwagon just to sound woke. We owe each other the best we can offer! |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Orente21(f): 2:51pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
grossintel:Pls can you adopt me in your family? And wat business r u guys doing? |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Nobody: 2:59pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Orente21:Lol, if it was that simple. It's not a business I would love to share, it's 100% legit and it works. That's all I can say. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Orente21(f): 3:02pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
grossintel:Thanks. If ur mumsy later need another child in the future,I am still available. Money can make u born plenty pikin. 1 Like |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Lordhades21(m): 9:53am On Aug 10, 2021 |
punisha: The one wei u Bleep give me.... Shut up and be educated. Empty skull. |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by punisha: 10:00am On Aug 10, 2021 |
Lordhades21: Fixed... U don't have to bring your sick family issues here. Kpele o. |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Nobody: 2:31pm On Aug 10, 2021 |
Macadamemmy: A frog stood at the edge of a rushing stream about to hop across when a scorpion came across his side and asked for help getting across. The frog looked at him and said - I cannot carry you across because I know you will sting me causing me to drown the Scorpion looked at the frog sheepishly and said - wow! that is not nice, if I sting you then I too will sink and drown - the frog thought about it for a few seconds and said: "Why not? hop on my back let us get going". All was well until they got to the middle of the stream and the frog felt one sharp and painful sting on his neck.. he looked up at the scorpion with venom dripping from his tail and asked in a shockingly surprised voice "Why!!! but now we are both going to die" - the scorpion looked at him with both claws dangling and said "It is just my nature bruv" as they were dragged down to their deaths in the raging stream Extended Families are just like the Scorpion - Yes you should lift others up so they can reach their goals and do likewise.. but because their very nature is one of ENTITLEMENT, They believe that your duty is to assist them and they never realize the sacrifice you are performing for their benefit and how their laziness is causing you so much agony. they will feed on your grace until you die.. that is just how it is for many families (especially in Nigeria) |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Lordhades21(m): 4:28am On Aug 11, 2021 |
punisha: The effort to edit ...u would be surprise the efforts fools put in to give a word ..lol...more painment and replies please...I dey feel ur wretched comment . |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by punisha: 4:49am On Aug 11, 2021 |
Lordhades21: English hard I know. No fear. Write some more okay? I got u. |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Lordhades21(m): 6:17pm On Aug 12, 2021 |
punisha: LOL... Painment... You never tire my guy |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by punisha: 6:57pm On Aug 12, 2021 |
Lordhades21: |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by 77star: 2:53am On Aug 16, 2021 |
ok |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Samlo88(m): 9:22pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
mydivinely:This is deep. the Lord is your strength bro. |
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