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Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by teemy(m): 6:00pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
heniford2: You will probably end up hurting yourself should you attempt any vendetta. Your dad was nice to your aunt, she misbehaved towards you. Your aunt hurt your feelings, you want to jail the son. In the end, it will be a circle of hatred and you need to be the one to cut it off. Let them be and be free yourself. Wishing you well - Teemy 4 Likes |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by heniford2: 6:02pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Lexusgs430:she has forgotten her action towards me and my family this particular lady made me watch my mom shed tears mom sold all her clothes everything she was wearing turn to rag, my fat mom slim down to "i" the started saying she has AIDs blah blah the make mockery of my mom in front of me i watch her talk trash of my mom all of them will test it from to zee 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by ArcSEMPECJ(m): 6:06pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
OfeAchi: Pls this is a wrong narrative, if you are genetically wicked or have a mind to be because of the few black men you have associated with, then you should limit it to your experience and not to all Blacks , we still have good men even better than Caucasians as Black men...... If you are not good ,pls I am and most people here are....what kind of mindset is this,so poor for a civilised person |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by BabbanBura(m): 6:07pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
OpinionCounts: Very true, and these issues have torn families apart! |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Komu1048(m): 6:11pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
twosquare: I know what I’m saying, I School in the east 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by ebenezer880(m): 6:13pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
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Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Issues40(m): 6:18pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Our people have an adage. They say "When dead body begin dey smell for your room, na then we go know who be your brother" What I am trying to say is this: There are certain difficult; very difficult situations that even that your very best friend won't be able to handle. Only your family will stand for you in such situations. They might be stingy with their wealth and all but you still need them one way or the other and cannot do without them. Now I can say this confidently because I know that being poor is not the worst situation one can find him or herself in. My people, pray you don't encounter certain problems and challenges oo |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Kirkman: 6:23pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
oliverano:May God continue or bless, reward and replenish you in wisdom according to all your needs as you reach out a helping hand to uplift others. |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by yemmit90: 6:23pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
MrOwonikoko: This is most reasonable comment on this thread so far. People are just ranting up and down, jumping from one excuse to another. A typical black man dont want the next man to be like him or richer than him. He want to dominate, use and oppress the next man, hence his refusal to help. Seeing his relative or friends suffering is what give him much desire ago and respect. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by leofab(f): 6:24pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
[quote author=nowhere post=104495771][/quote]you were more interested In the typographical error than the message… it’s typical of your kind.. pettiness. |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by leofab(f): 6:25pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
TempUser:it’s only the black man that want to be more English than the English.. continue 1 Like |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Lexusgs430: 6:29pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
heniford2: Hence, you need to refresh her memory......... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by lawrenzooo: 6:30pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
That's because women tend to be kind hearted towards their relatives. That's explains why in some homes you find most of the relatives living with the couple's coming from the woman's side, years later some of these relatives remember the favor slawormiir: 2 Likes |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by elonmuskbaby: 6:31pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
bilulu:you're lucky you have reasonable brothers.not the one waiting and loafing around for you to send money to him because he has "elder brothers in the abroad" |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Gracire: 6:32pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
May God bless our hustle �If everyone is fine no need to look for help from anyone. Some family members can be so mean despite being rich while some family members also have sense of entitlement |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by NacoAba: 6:33pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Brother please don't do so, the best you can do is ignore them and not slow them come close to you . Stop picking their calls and let them find another country. But setting the guy up this one will automatically result to physical family war , it's better you change phone number, anytime you come home they ask you, you tell them you lost the phone, give them new number, return back and change it again, this is better than setting him up ok. heniford2: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by CELEBRITIZ(m): 6:34pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
ignis: If you are super rich you want say this . The post above is right bro |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by 24brains(m): 6:39pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Who family members epp? Alaye hustle your money and be in control of your life and stop hoping on members of a family. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by tunize(m): 6:40pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
heniford2:That would be evil mehn God has blessed you shock the mom and let her feel the guilt all by herself. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by heniford2: 6:41pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Lexusgs430:never, it will hit her in a way she will be forced to sell her house which i will be the one to buy her house on trying to save his son, anyway i already said alot let me keep mute |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by akigbemaru: 6:52pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
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Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Enibanks(f): 6:52pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
the only family you have is your father,mother, your husband/wife and children, if you even come from a polygamous family your case is sorry, because there will be competitions here and there and there will be enviness all over so you gats think about yourself first before thinking about anyone else is it not in this small world whereby brothers and sisters are eviling their self |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Enibanks(f): 6:53pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
the only family you have is your father,mother, your husband/wife and children, if you even come from a polygamous family your case is sorry, because there will be competitions here and there and there will be enviness all over so you gats think about yourself first before thinking about anyone else is it not in this small world whereby brothers and sisters are eviling their self |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by descarado: 7:00pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
heniford2:Your aunt is right. She don't owe you anything. The sooner we get this in our head, the better our country will be It's the reason people steal and do all dubious things. Cos they are looked up as saviour. |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by descarado: 7:01pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Enibanks:Your dad will tell you to pay house rent as soon as you come of age and is working. You don't I've rent free. Entitlement mentality has killed us |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Jaqenhghar: 7:02pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
ignis:Even if it will kill you in the process abi? |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by frog12: 7:49pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
what if your family member build house before you even though na you dey help them all the time ? wetin you go do ? |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by oliverano: 7:51pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Kirkman: God bless you too abundantly, for you to quote me means you have empathy as well as willingness to help. Blessed!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Amopeekun(f): 8:08pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Please, don't do that! If you are still pained, don't help at all. You became successful because God wants to teach your aunt a lesson. Do not tell your Creator that He didn't do well by placing you above her. Just leave her and her children. However when you decide to help, God will double your blessings. Just be careful how you help and who you let in. Simple! heniford2: 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by TheMostComplex1: 8:11pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
You better not help him to come over than setting him up afterwards. Please forgive & let go. Let God judge them 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by MightyHand(m): 8:22pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
slawormiir: You're right, funny enough it's not peculiar to Africa alone.. it happens World Wide I am very close to my uncles From mama side like hunch back 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Darreytinho10(m): 8:25pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Take it down.....I disagree with you....there should be no room for excuses, help your family members if you are capable 2 Likes 1 Share |
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