Let me make this as brief as possible.

I have been using this online loan app called Ncash to get urgent Cash to sort some life expenses and tried as much as possible to pay back always in 7days though sometimes difficult. I do this because i find it hard to ask friends because when you ask seem everyone has his/her problem and refuses to lend so the last loan i took from them i couldn't meet up the 7th day and you know how those loan app acts...They immediately sent messages to my contacts tagging me a thief,criminal and fraudster on the run this and that.

So to the reason I'm posting this...A friend of mine received the message and guess what this guy did. He went to screenshot it and post it on our alumni group where i hold myself in high esteem. Is this ok for the guy to do such or am i the one thinking wrong? Imagine a group of many people i went to school with and most i don't have their contact on my phone so likely they won't get the message but this my close friend didn't even call me or anything just went ahead to the group to post the screenshot and write anybody seen me, they should contact me to do the needful

Ok

You were his friend, the guy was never your friend.

EmekaBlue:
Let me make this as brief as possible.

I have been using this online loan app called Ncash to get urgent Cash to sort some life expenses and tried as much as possible to pay back always in 7days though sometimes difficult. I do this because i find it hard to ask friends because when you ask seem everyone has his/her problem and refuses to lend so the last loan i took from them i couldn't meet up the 7th day and you know how those loan app acts...They immediately sent messages to my contacts tagging me a thief,criminal and fraudster on the run this and that.

So to the reason I'm posting this...A friend of mine received the message and guess what this guy did. He went to screenshot it and post it on our alumni group where i hold myself in high esteem. Is this ok for the guy to do such or am i the one thinking wrong? Imagine a group of many people i went to school with and most i don't have their contact on my phone so likely they won't get the message but this my close friend didn't even call me or anything just went ahead to the group to post the screenshot and write anybody seen me, they should contact me to do the needful

My brother unfriend such person that's not a friend but ur enemy which kind person be that now nitori olorun
God no go shame Us

Why did you add a rat among contacts listed with the loan sharks?

What he did is bad, but i honestly think if I can't get help from a person, I wouldn't put them nose in mah business as you've done putting his number on the app...most like without his consent o

No one is above borrowing, if that's enough to hurt your pride in the alumni then pleaaase.. That's nothing.. Most of them already do it.


Meanwhile, as Erigga said.... Person wey naked no dey put hands for pockets

nellyelitz:
You were his friend, the guy was never your friend.

Gbam

Unfriendly friend

My brother some human being are not that patient and your friend is one. He may be a good person in some areas of your life and bad in some... Now that you've learned from this... What do you intend to do with him, bcuz this incident has given you an opportunity to examine the kind of friends you should keep.

Its bad of him to do that let him know how you feel cos he might not see it as bad

EmekaBlue:
Let me make this as brief as possible.

I have been using this online loan app called Ncash to get urgent Cash to sort some life expenses and tried as much as possible to pay back always in 7days though sometimes difficult. I do this because i find it hard to ask friends because when you ask seem everyone has his/her problem and refuses to lend so the last loan i took from them i couldn't meet up the 7th day and you know how those loan app acts...They immediately sent messages to my contacts tagging me a thief,criminal and fraudster on the run this and that.

So to the reason I'm posting this...A friend of mine received the message and guess what this guy did. He went to screenshot it and post it on our alumni group where i hold myself in high esteem. Is this ok for the guy to do such or am i the one thinking wrong? Imagine a group of many people i went to school with and most i don't have their contact on my phone so likely they won't get the message but this my close friend didn't even call me or anything just went ahead to the group to post the screenshot and write anybody seen me, they should contact me to do the needful

and you call him your friend? You sure say you get sense so? Anyway just try and explain yourself to the group to clear things it's not a big deal nah people dey owe debt .

He might be a good friend tho but lacks in some areas. He probably thought u ran with their loan without intentions of paying back.

That's why as a guy,u need a real coordinated OG,a smart one

This is really bad.

Honestly you need to call him out on that same WhatsApp group that his actions is a betrayal from someone u consider as friend.

And as well explain the reason behind the msg.
Almost everyone takes loan from this apps as many Nigerians are still struggling to survive and they would really understand so fast.

nellyelitz:
You were his friend, the guy was never your friend.

aptly and succinctly put

The sending of nasty messages to contact is the reason why I discourage people from using the loan app even though Nigerians don't usually hear word until they hit them hard and below the belt.

It has happened, it has happened. Op just go to the group and inform them that you just defaulted for some days because of some challenges and you'd sort it out soon.

Cut off from your so-called friend though

He was never your friend...

SmellySperm:
He might be a good friend tho but lacks in some areas. He probably thought u ran with their loan without intentions of paying back.

That's why as a guy,u need a real coordinated OG,a smart one

he should have called to confirm his thoughts though before going ahead.

EmekaBlue:
Let me make this as brief as possible.

I have been using this online loan app called Ncash to get urgent Cash to sort some life expenses and tried as much as possible to pay back always in 7days though sometimes difficult. I do this because i find it hard to ask friends because when you ask seem everyone has his/her problem and refuses to lend so the last loan i took from them i couldn't meet up the 7th day and you know how those loan app acts...They immediately sent messages to my contacts tagging me a thief,criminal and fraudster on the run this and that.

So to the reason I'm posting this...A friend of mine received the message and guess what this guy did. He went to screenshot it and post it on our alumni group where i hold myself in high esteem. Is this ok for the guy to do such or am i the one thinking wrong? Imagine a group of many people i went to school with and most i don't have their contact on my phone so likely they won't get the message but this my close friend didn't even call me or anything just went ahead to the group to post the screenshot and write anybody seen me, they should contact me to do the needful

Take it as a challenge to double up your effort and work smart, look inwards for what can generate extra income for you. Run away from that your enemy, soon the heavens will open for you.

Stephenomozzy:
Why did you add a rat among contacts listed with the loan sharks?

What he did is bad, but i honestly think if I can't get help from a person, I wouldn't put them nose in mah business as you've done putting his number on the app...most like without his consent o

No one is above borrowing, if that's enough to hurt your pride in the alumni then pleaaase.. That's nothing.. Most of them already do it.


Meanwhile, as Erigga said.... Person wey naked no dey put hands for pockets

Is not as if he included the guy's contact.

In registering for the loan, you grant the app access to all your contacts and they take your contacts and send those messages when you default.

nellyelitz:
You were his friend, the guy was never your friend.

Abi o this is a super mean way of cutting someone down to size.Op,are you sure you've not humiliated him in the past or showing off in your group.if not, he never sees you as a friend

How about the loan money. Are you paying back or not?

Na today dey born you? No be everybody u dey call friend be ur friend.

Stephenomozzy:
Why did you add a rat among contacts listed with the loan sharks?

What he did is bad, but i honestly think if I can't get help from a person, I wouldn't put them nose in mah business as you've done putting his number on the app...most like without his consent o

No one is above borrowing, if that's enough to hurt your pride in the alumni then pleaaase.. That's nothing.. Most of them already do it.


Meanwhile, as Erigga said.... Person wey naked no dey put hands for pockets

The loan app access your whole contact list on your phone. I didn't specify his number

kingphilip:
aptly and succinctly put

The sending of nasty messages to contact is the reason why I discourage people from using the loan app even though Nigerians don't usually hear word until they hit them hard and below the belt.

It has happened, it has happened. Op just go to the group and inform them that you just defaulted for some days because of some challenges and you'd sort it out soon.

Cut off from your so-called friend though

a clear solution.

The deed has been done already I think your priority to go the group clear yourself and don't lie.someone in the group would come to rescue you

Arrest that your friend, just small money you will give police so that deh will keep him in detention for a week or soldiers to reset his brain

He's a hater. He has always been a fake friend to you, As broke as you think you are,that guys must have had a great resentment for you in his heart, reasons well known to him. He did that to prove to himself and others that he's doing better than you.
He's immature,run away from him

Purely immaturity from him
BTW, did the load app asked him to pay on your behalf?
That's how some of these nonsense block kids behaves
Same wouldn't have done that if you were a female
Rather he'll be stealing money to assist her
Sorry for the letdown.

kingphilip:
he should have called to confirm his thoughts though before going ahead.

Yeah that's why I said you need a soji real OG wey smart

The question is whether or not you committed the accused. You borrowed a loan and refused to pay back yet are angry that the guy exposed you. Hmm. Nigerian. Nairalander.

Terrible people everywhere you look at. It is well bro.

SmellySperm:
He might be a good friend tho but lacks in some areas. He probably thought u ran with their loan without intentions of paying back.

That's why as a guy,u need a real coordinated OG,a smart one

So, you get a message that suggests your close friend ran out on a loan company and instead of calling your friend to ascertain what exactly the meaning of the message is or what is going on with him, the thing you do is broadcast the message to others who know of your friend? What is "good" about that kind of response or any who responds in such a conceited way to any issue, even this?

suffering:
The question is whether or not you committed the accused. You borrowed a loan and refused to pay back yet are angry that the guy exposed you. Hmm. Nigerian. Nairalander.

If that was a real question, don't you think the logical response would have been for this friend to have called him up first to learn whether he indeed committed the act?