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Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by shantti(m): 12:19pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
parkervero: They dress that way for guys that have the benz 1 Like |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by sammirano3: 12:19pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Who wants to |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by BluntCrazeMan: 12:20pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Lenny22:Trash.. You're just admiring. You're not really moved. .. If you really like her, you will make a move even without knowing sef 2 Likes |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by yahmohy27: 12:20pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Lenny22:Na by force? Finished your education and make money then you will see them coming for you believe me 1 Like |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by uchdavinci: 12:21pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Low self esteem. Brace up, nothing dey inside most of them. 2 Likes |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by DoctorStylish: 12:22pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
.you need to up your confidence and self esteem. Sometimes all these are caused by low self esteem. You really think little of yourself. Try practicing social skills that will boost your confidence and also maybe watch movies with High profile Confident characters Harvey Specter ,,, but believe me I think it’s not the courage you lack or maybe self esteem. It’s maybe money You feel these girls are way off your league cos of the nails and aesthetics. And also try making money . High level of self esteem and confidence will get you soo far in life . Wear good clothes they sure increase confidence, smell good. Improve your communication skills 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by Joromi1: 12:22pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Make money first. Sophisticated, posh and even ògbanje girls will be begging for your attention. Meanwhile, looks ain't all there is. All pussies look the same when the lights go off. 3 Likes |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by pickatyoubackup: 12:22pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Brother make more confidence and money too. |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by Juicy001: 12:23pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Continue like this and na your mumsy go bring her friend daughter as wife for you one day, 1 Like |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by TheRedpillguy: 12:24pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
You dont need a Woman. |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by godisshit(m): 12:25pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
I'm surprised that as a Final Year student this is what is uppermost on your mind. Lenny22: |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by alizma: 12:25pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Lenny22:It is normal, you just need to know and understand that; 1) No matter exotic a lady is, she needs a man 2) Not every lady you try to woo will accept you but whatever happens, you have air your mind and that is more important than the rejection. That is, if the outcome is no, we move. 3) Girls generally like guys who summon the courage to ask them out and "end up saying whatever the outcome is, I will always admire you" With understanding of these few lines, you can woo any girl easily and can also handle rejection without bitterness 9 Likes |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by Nobody: 12:27pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Don’t be scared the fact that you are acknowledging that you are afraid is holding you back. Just approach and lay your case if she rejects you move on someone is tired of Sleeping with her Anyway . 5 Likes |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by famouscargo4u: 12:28pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Lenny22: Forget her status, endeavour you dress nice always. It is easier when you dress well and smell nice, This will give you the first heads-up and the initial conversation should be simple compliment. |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by sabreal: 12:29pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Don't worry. You are special. They are the ones that will miss the opportunity to marry a nice guy, if you are one. Such girls are usually have their parents resident in the GRA, government rejected areas. They usually oitpriced themselves. There was a girl like, she will soon enter menopause, no marriage, no child. She spent the better if her days being sophisticated. Focus on your dreams. That make you a good selling point in the happy home space. Don't sweat the small stuff. Lenny22: 2 Likes |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by na2016: 12:29pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Lenny22: OP: I think you are doing well and you have a great future ahead of youyou, don't lose focus with those girls. They may not be of any value to you. I am talking from experience point of view |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by MeghaneMorgane(f): 12:30pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Hanibbal: Did you see that video. I busted into laughter 1 Like |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by markstone84: 12:31pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Oga focus on your studies and graduate, if talking to posh girls was the reason you were sent to school maybe your parents would always send you to lekki mall 5 Likes |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by htdot: 12:32pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
theophilusj31:My guy you too much. |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by Nobody: 12:32pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
The posh you're talking about is what scares you. Take away the artificial nails, artificial lashes, artificial hair, fake bum, push-up bra and makeup, who is she? Just another human being like you who you should not be scared of approaching for a relationship. Maybe you should just settle for ladies you can approach and when you're hooked with them fr fr, t.ush her up according to your own taste. At least you go know say na your money "kill am". 2 Likes |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by The5DME(m): 12:34pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
I don't know what to say. |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by fuckaholic25(f): 12:36pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Not men constantly discussing about girls... Y'all should find som'n to do!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by Patrotism: 12:36pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Don't worry, once you are ready, they(ladies) will definitely approach you. Build your career, make money and see what will happen. Thank me later! |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by ezechi24(m): 12:37pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Lenny22: you dont date such girls and you dont need to toast them....you ask them for their price and fork the hell out of them ...enjoy ur turn and leave them for the next man...date them at your own peril....if you like no get sense. 2 Likes |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by NSK4U(m): 12:37pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
I think it's about confidence, there's inferiority complex in you over those you consider sophisticated. I have a friend like you whose probs was approaching beautiful ladies whether rich or poor but could talk to those he classified as not so beautiful. Till now, he's still battling the challenge. But I think you should focus on building yourself financially, as we know money gives confidence. 2 Likes |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by babaalagbo1(m): 12:38pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Work on your self esteem bro |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by jaxxy(m): 12:39pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Lenny22: U can’t date what u can’t handle. Some gals can give u depression ooo. U definition of posh and sophisticated is very funny also. Average Olosho and top runs gals look like what u described and No they aren’t sophisticated in any way just well packaged so I’m wondering if u know what exactly u want. 5 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by redcliff: 12:41pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Lenny22: lol. my bros. behind the sophistication, they are just ordinary girls. when you talk to one, then you would understand. 2 Likes |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by Imustnottalk: 12:42pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
parkervero:bro that type of girls don't settle for less the best is to look for your cabal and date and I get peace of mind if those girls start their billing I bet op won't cope with that 1 Like |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by Alexaonfleek: 12:43pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Afriqan:Abeg let him meet sophisticated girls o before he will date Sister blessing and start cheating on her with one sophisticated slayqueen. |
Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by Hassanmaye(m): 12:44pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
djranking00:Hahahhahahaha are you sure |
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