Munzy14:

This guy....

yahmohy27:

Na by force?
Finished your education and make money then you will see them coming for you believe me

Hanibbal:


Lols...once you see iphone you go now pick race with your iTel

Ynix:

As in BrainJotter is supposed to receive the award of most stupid guy in West Africa

McLizbae:
OP, na very small boy you be,and I concluded that from your definition of posh.

Be that as it may, only a posh guy should roll with a posh girl. Else you expose urself to unnecessary torments and embarrassments. Come, just know say na one man (lover or father) sweat and hussle you dey see, wey you dey call posh girl like that... Do you know what is even called social class in a society?

KingDash:
bros that one na ugly men mentality be that oh... me like I don broke small, all my five babes know about am, I swear them just dey pump me money. so leave that talk.

Konor:
ahhh.. Uniben student

VULCAN:
You are on the right path.

There is nothing wrong with a desire to have posh girls

But everything rises and falls on your inner game.

Right now that inner game is very weak but whatever is weak can be built up over time.

These are the best steps to take.

1. Find just one posh girl and develop a friendship. Then find another and then another. On no account must you allow them to use you. Ask them for small favours first before they asks you to do any for them and On no condition must you strain yourself financially for these friends. Never. Also don't toast any of them because you havent yet weaned yourself off seeing them as extra special. They will see through you and turn you down flat. If you are wondering HOW to make friends with them it's easier than you think. Show them that you are above them in just ONE area that matters to them and they will be the ones seeking your friendship. Start with the posh Year 1 Nd Year Two girls in your school or at least younger girls anywhere around. One thing you must never ever do is treat these girls as if they are special. If you do they will begin to look down on you so treat them as you would local girls that you are not attracted to. Be cocky, yab them often and be free with them.

The psychology behind this is because you have placed posh girls on a pedestal. You have forgotten that they shit just like local girls. Also and the biggest one which can help you is that you need to see upfront just how insecure women are regardless of age or financial status. Almost all women have esteem issues. Of course it varies but they are there if you dig enough. Some like DJ Cuppy carry their esteem issues on their forehead for all to see.

I have more to say but I have things to attend to. I will try and come back and give a part two if you feel it's needful.

madridsta007:


Final Year and your priority is women?
Chairman, you are about to lose it.

Your focus should be getting a 1st Class or 2.1.
No high class or low class girls.

Ynix:

Watch this example and you will understand. Then pay me for this tutorial


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dRaaNdhWcE8

2braithe:


1st class or 2:1 is now what?
How much are they paying for having these classes of degree??
Academic life should not preclude social life boss.

Is it when he is over 30 and being pressured for marriage that he will start to overcome the fear of approaching ladies?

Lenny22:
I am a final year student of a popular Federal University. I'm not rich, neither am I broke. Of course, my present financial strength is average. I have a nice physical appearance and I consider myself as good looking.
I don't have the courage to approach girls that look exotic or sophisticated. By this, I'm talking about ladies with nice outfits, dope nails, expensive phones and wear expensive Perfumes. I wouldn't like embarrass myself, I just admire from afar but deep down, I want to date one.

Lenny22:
I am a final year student of a popular Federal University. I'm not rich, neither am I broke. Of course, my present financial strength is average. I have a nice physical appearance and I consider myself as good looking.
I don't have the courage to approach girls that look exotic or sophisticated. By this, I'm talking about ladies with nice outfits, dope nails, expensive phones and wear expensive Perfumes. I wouldn't like embarrass myself, I just admire from afar but deep down, I want to date one.

madridsta007:



You are hilarious. And it is in his FINAL YEAR that he should be indulging in these?
Or you missed that detail in his statement?
Let me hope that you are being sarcastic.

Hanibbal:


Lols...once you see iphone you go now pick race with your iTel

Afriqan:
Lol... Just don't lose focus. Graduate well and settle down once and for all.

makewetalk2:
God bless you.

OLDESTWARRIBOY:
You are disgrace!! Who are these girls?? Are they gods, bros go and approach them and start talking. Money won't help, confidence will.

Me normally I prefer doing my wooing on WhatsApp, but no girl born of woman I can't approach even if it's Buhari daughter, I will approach. She dey chop bottle??

favy19:
make I hear word

VULCAN:
I'm back by demand
cc2braithe

I took time to read some of the responses to the OPs predicament.

Someone said he should focus on First class or 2.1 as if these are what guarantees success in life.

That was the old testament in Nigeria where getting a good degree entitled you to a job and car.

Those days are gone and unless you are looking for a scholarship to go abroad or you want to work for one of the multinational management consultancy firms, it's now rarely a ticket to anything remarkable.

Some are saying you should make money first. Lol.

The same set of people will be shouting simps when they hear a man bought car for a pretty campus babe. They are unable to correlate that most of those men spending millions on pretty girls with no pedigree are those who refused to develop inner game when they were in school and now they are rich but see themselves as still being inferior to women regardless of their money.

So they spend money on chicks as that is the only way they know to show value.

These same girls will pursue and bang WizKid for free and even tell him thank you.

The ability to use nothing but words, gestures and mannerisms to get women to fall for you is The Art Of Seduction and every man should learn it, even if he is dead broke because it gives a boost to one's self esteem in ways few can imagine. A young man that has conquered the fear of women above his social status can face any challenge that life will throw at him.

I had my first girlfriend at the age of 8, she was 13.

At the time I never noticed the age difference. All I knew was that I was the one in charge.

In my 2nd year in university I dated a beauty in year 5. I'm sure you know that it's abnormal for a solid girl to date a guy in a lower class than her in uni.

The next year I was with a beautiful foreign student in year 4

My stories are plenty. Let me get on with my earlier post.

2. After you have gotten comfortable having some posh girls as friends and you hang out with them and feel no form of inferiority, then it's time to get a posh girl or a girl from a more successful background than you.

How this happens is normally organic. Women like what other women have so when girls see you often in the company of posh girls they will begin to wonder what makes you so special especially when it becomes clear that you are not richer or even as rich as those girls. It's that curiosity that will bring them closer and then you date them without toasting.

Toasting girls is dangerous by the way because it implies that you have placed them above you and are asking for a relationship.

They usually nail guys that toast them but sleep with guys that behave as if they are already dating.

Just continue to show your value and they will find themselves thinking about you more than they should.

I have more to say but let me stop here for now.

But someone you should listen to is Coach Red Pill on Youtube

magicminister:



And this is the line of thinking that makes majority of Nigerian girls feel so comfortable and entitled to a man’s money. Because for people like you, that is all you have to offer.

To the OP:
I used to be in your predicament! Felt anxiety whenever I wanna shoot my shot and most times, I miss out on wonderful women because I was probably afraid of rejection.

To overcome this fear you feel, you need to condition yourself to be perfectly comfortable with rejection
You need to be confident with yourself and you need to be able to speak your mind and let people take it how they wanna take it.

I wish you the best. Don’t let anyone tell you that feeling goes away if you make money. If you don’t have confidence now, money wouldn’t bring it!

2braithe:


Being in his final year should not mean he can't indulge in those.Unless he is not academically sound to start with.

With clubbing and partying, school politics,a lot still finish with good grades.

shantti:


They dress that way for guys that have the benz

Lenny22:
I am a final year student of a popular Federal University. I'm not rich, neither am I broke. Of course, my present financial strength is average. I have a nice physical appearance and I consider myself as good looking.
I don't have the courage to approach girls that look exotic or sophisticated. By this, I'm talking about ladies with nice outfits, dope nails, expensive phones and wear expensive Perfumes. I wouldn't like embarrass myself, I just admire from afar but deep down, I want to date one.