Mine has no handwork apart from handjob but she never asks me for shi shi

ufotty2001:
but to be very sincere maybe am wrong. Most Nigerians girls are not productive.. ??

You're wrong. Its the same girl everywhere. There's no quality woman/woman prepared for you. You make ur choice woman, you control the narrative. That's why you need to expand your options

DavidHarry:


You're wrong. Its the same girl everywhere. There's no quality woman/woman prepared for you. You make ur choice woman, you control the narrative. That's why you need to expand your options

am saying this out of experience and I feel ashamed of some of them.. I have 3 girls here that are doing nothing. No job I mean nothing and they are very beautiful.. I introduced them to a business.. known of them had interest but they are very demanding.

Truthenunciator:
Mine has no handwork apart from handjob but she never asks me for shi shi

by handjob what do mean.. if she is not demanding take her serious..

ufotty2001:
am saying this out of experience and I feel ashamed of some of them.. I have 3 girls here that are doing nothing. No job I mean nothing and they are very beautiful.. I introduced them to a business.. known of them had interest but they are very demanding.

Leave them and approach more girls. It's not your duty to help them. Women utilize what they call hypergamy when selecting their mates, do the same thing

Bryankentwood11:
Okay guys, I will make it short and simple, I have done everything possible for her, like I spoilt her with food and possibly money too, now she just feels comfortable at home , sleeping all day, then wakes up and demand money, I have been paying for one thing or the other every week of this relationship, I give her money for food and all, and she has parent, I feel like I’m suffocating, I can’t even save anymore, and she has a handwork but just too lazy or relentless to even work, guys advice me on this please

uncle, just miraculously 'lose' your income and see how things go.

Bryankentwood11:
Okay guys, I will make it short and simple, I have done everything possible for her, like I spoilt her with food and possibly money too, now she just feels comfortable at home , sleeping all day, then wakes up and demand money, I have been paying for one thing or the other every week of this relationship, I give her money for food and all, and she has parent, I feel like I’m suffocating, I can’t even save anymore, and she has a handwork but just too lazy or relentless to even work, guys advice me on this please

How some of you end up with these LEECHES marvels me.
DUMP her on her Birthday.

Bryankentwood11:
Okay guys, I will make it short and simple, I have done everything possible for her, like I spoilt her with food and possibly money too, now she just feels comfortable at home , sleeping all day, then wakes up and demand money, I have been paying for one thing or the other every week of this relationship, I give her money for food and all, and she has parent, I feel like I’m suffocating, I can’t even save anymore, and she has a handwork but just too lazy or relentless to even work, guys advice me on this please

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When did she start being a liability?

It seems to me that she has been a liability from day one.

Good luck!

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ufotty2001:
am saying this out of experience and I feel ashamed of some of them.. I have 3 girls here that are doing nothing. No job I mean nothing and they are very beautiful.. I introduced them to a business.. known of them had interest but they are very demanding.

Again learn to say 'no' to a woman that's demanding be more selfish and see if she'll stick around. If she don't then NEXT

ufotty2001:
by handjob what do mean.. if she is not demanding take her serious..

handjob is my code for sex.

Did she give you sex three time a day,if yes accommodate her if not disaccommodate her GBAM

Bryankentwood11:
Okay guys, I will make it short and simple, I have done everything possible for her, like I spoilt her with food and possibly money too, now she just feels comfortable at home , sleeping all day, then wakes up and demand money, I have been paying for one thing or the other every week of this relationship, I give her money for food and all, and she has parent, I feel like I’m suffocating, I can’t even save anymore, and she has a handwork but just too lazy or relentless to even work, guys advice me on this please

Are you with the same girl you wrote about in May below

Bryankentwood11:
Guys advice me, actually my brother had sexual relationship with her before I knew her, but we started dating, and she promised to change her past lifestyle (hotel, fu*k for money, she’s you g though, so we’ve been dating for months now(7), recently she fu**k my friend other friend which we both know, I got pissed off, cos I thought I changed her for good, cos she always swear and promise she can’t cheat, I found out from a friend of her act, she denied at first , when I showed her proof she started begging, pls guys I don’t know if I should continue this relationship, tbh—- when I heard about this I disgraced her on WhatsApp by letting everyone know cos I was very angry, now I’m calm, should I continue this relationship

Bros, sometimes you have to advise your self.

Why is it hard for you to talk to her about her laziness?

Why would she work? Why are we all working? Is it not to pay our bills? In her case, she has seen an idi*t and a mugu that is paying her bills, why should she bother and stress herself to work again? You go get sense las las

What else do you expect from a public property expecially of a Nigerian origin. I'm sure your immediate family members don't even feed well [color=#990000][/color] werey somebori

Truthenunciator:
handjob is my code for sex.

lol..

Pls don't stop what u are doing!

Why are u calling her a liability? U are doing a good job. Pls don't stop.

Continue serving her. Give her everything she want: cook for her, serve her (the food) on bed. Feed her with ur hands. When she is done eating, give her water and soft drinks. Take the plates to kitchen and wash them. U are doing a good job. Pls don't stop.

When the nature calls, carry ur girlfriend on ur back to the rest room. When she pooed, wipe her anus. If she want bath, do it for her. U are doing a good job. Pls don't stop.

Buy her food and new clothes. When her clothes get dirty, wash 'em urself or take them to a laundryman. U are doing a good job. Pls don't stop.

Whenever she wants to buy something, run and get it for her. If she want to go by herself, give her the money and drive her urself, if u don't hv a car, get a taxi for her and pay the transport fare. U are doing a good job. Pls don't stop.

If she is sick, take her to hospital and pay all the expenses. Do the caregiver job for her. U are doing a good job. Pls don't stop.

U are doing a great job. Keep it up, Mr. Simp! Pls don't stop what u are doing!

She’s living her dream bro. Broke but enjoying free food and free accommodation plus a standby ATM

being a liability is another, let's just hope you're the only one banging her. there is no big deal in taking care of gf but it comes a big deal with you normalize it or make it a priority



now she's used to it, you're complaining, the moment you cease to continue doing that baba kule omo kaabo, then the love started diminishing and another man started sharing her with you


before you stop the rubbish, get her busy with her handiwork then reduce the spending little by little

DavidHarry:


Again learn to say 'no' to a woman that's demanding be more selfish and see if she'll stick around. If she don't then NEXT

.. I really need to take note of all these things reason because I want settle down soon

Bryankentwood11:
Okay guys, I will make it short and simple, I have done everything possible for her, like I spoilt her with food and possibly money too, now she just feels comfortable at home , sleeping all day, then wakes up and demand money, I have been paying for one thing or the other every week of this relationship, I give her money for food and all, and she has parent, I feel like I’m suffocating, I can’t even save anymore, and she has a handwork but just too lazy or relentless to even work, guys advice me on this please

Get out, that's my advice

Bryankentwood11:
Okay guys, I will make it short and simple, I have done everything possible for her, like I spoilt her with food and possibly money too, now she just feels comfortable at home , sleeping all day, then wakes up and demand money, I have been paying for one thing or the other every week of this relationship, I give her money for food and all, and she has parent, I feel like I’m suffocating, I can’t even save anymore, and she has a handwork but just too lazy or relentless to even work, guys advice me on this please

If you are really tired you won't need our advice.

I will tell you to continue until you are really tired, then your brain will reset to default setting to advise yourself by then I hope you don't get her pregnant and complicate matters.

tuboi:
Defund her and watch d relationship die a natural death…
If I were in ur shoes, I will get home on a good day and start with crocodile tears, telling her I got duped and lost every penny…(Game changer )……Don’t ever break up with a lady…let the relationship die a natural death

Wise one. All my relationships, I have never broken any girl heart. They all die natural death. I no Sabi that kind impromptu break up like: "We are done".

With this, I can still crawl back any time I want them.

No hard feelings.

Bola146:
God bless Seun for creating this platform, if you are not happy just log in to nairaland and read stories, you must laugh ni sha

The seun that doesn't believe in God?

zedegit:


The seun that doesn't believe in God?

That is his business and wahala. Only God knows who believe in Him. I'm not a seer sir

bigcee:
Say make we tell am

That he is p**sy whipped

Sebi na you tell her say you love her. Abi you no lover her again?

ufotty2001:
.. I really need to take note of all these things reason because I want settle down soon

Groom yourself bro. Just like girls apply makeup and shit to look hot, do the same, go to the gym eat healthy but most of all embrace your inner asshole not arranging yourself for her to like you instead create a sense of competition for her. Women like imagination. Approach more girls like a man. She'll either arrange herself to fit in to your world or she'll leave you. Worst case scenerio, you were self developing and being a jerk(not someone's slave or begger).

Damn , I give up on this

thank God you said girlfriend so the problem is already half solved while the remaining problem is Left to you to decide which I know will be very easy for everyone here even small pikin know waiting to do....