siofra:
All these broke boys on here. Maybe sēun should make nairaland a paid site so that you people will reduce.

Toks2008:


Me I spend big time for a lady but I do it without expecting any form of loyalty.

What I don't do is spend on a lady who feels she is entitled.

Reinaldo:


Then you won't be a member obviously.

goshikid:
From now on i told myself never to give a bitchhh my hard earned money, she must work for it. That was how my ex gf called me a stingy guy all because i stopped being foolish all in the name of one motherfuccking love, no love bro, work hard and provide for your family, leave bittches alone, if not they are going to bring you down with their stupiid behaviours and blame you later for been foolish
On point Man

My 2cent
Shikena

goshikid:
From now on i told myself never to give a bitchhh my hard earned money, she must work for it. That was how my ex gf called me a stingy guy all because i stopped being foolish all in the name of one motherfuccking love, no love bro, work hard and provide for your family, leave bittches alone, if not they are going to bring you down with their stupiid behaviours and blame you later for been foolish

My 2cent
Shikena

MisterKennedy:


Good afternoon dear. I understand how you feel. I'm a man too and from my studies I've found out that males are more sexually driven and lustful than females and the majority of males find it hard to control their sexual urges.

I've seen your picture I was really blown away. Truth is, you're very beautiful and I can understand why the man is going nuts for you despite being married.

But for him to agree to pay you N50k or N100k for the weekend definitely means he wants to sleep with you for the weekend. Because I know he's not giving out that money just like that.

MJBOLT:

no,the person behind the siofra account is the one behind the hintona account.

UyaiIncomparabl:
I pity men who will ingest this. Well, this is social media where every man can claim he doesn't give a woman money.

But, I can tell you for free how I have one notorious asslicking womanizer begging me offline to just accept 50K to manage for the weekend. I have told him 100K or nothing. He said he will send it tomorrow unfailingly. I will wait.

That's one of your gender. A married one for that matter. I do not pity them. I will suck their nectar dry till they have nothing else to offer to the outside world.

MisterKennedy:

Lol. Babe you don burst her bubble!

Youngpo413:
How many are staying married?

KiNg0G:


your a simp my nigga.

am off This thread.

LIVINGICON:
This is so beautiful. This is called TKO in boxing.

Richywiz:
the act of giving is something you men should learn.

You should give to your women if you have, you could ignore the giving if she felt its her right to collect from you.
It may necessarily not be money, you could also give gifts like bracelet.

Currently, my man gives to me, I always give him gifts too, though he gives more due to his financial muscle.

You shouldn't be a miser cos she is a lady.

Modified
To those of u shouting boxers and singlets, nope its not boxers.
I do buy shirts, sneakers, cologne and wristwatch,
And no, he hasn't bought me an IPhone, I buy my phones myself.

goshikid:
leave leeches alone, if not they are going to bring you down with their stupiid behaviours and blame you later for been foolish

Carchoice:
To be honest, giving ladies money, especially Nigerian ladies. Is a big waste. What you gave yesterday no longer counts today.


If you want to see their true nature, decline their request 2 to 3 times in a row, don’t make promises but decline outright, tell them you don’t have. The communication will reduce drastically. They will shift the focus to another SIMPson that will fall for their trick. This is no different from what fraudsters do.

donPhill:
The response I got from one...

Carchoice:
To be honest, giving ladies money, especially Nigerian ladies. Is a big waste. What you gave yesterday no longer counts today.


If you want to see their true nature, decline their request 2 to 3 times in a row, don’t make promises but decline outright, tell them you don’t have. The communication will reduce drastically. They will shift the focus to another SIMPson that will fall for their trick. This is no different from what fraudsters do.

Toks2008:


First pray to GOD to be financially blessed.

Now understand this... A broke or struggling guy can give a lady 100k and cry a river if the lady misbehaves, a millionaire will give double of that and smile if the lady misbehaves.

So when I created the thread I was referring to ladies with the Entitlement mindset so be smart enough to know the difference.

You can't claim to have a lady if you can't spend on her, give her gifts or even invest on her of you can but if the lady is the type who feels she is entitled because she is with you then that changes the whole narrative.

I know about two ladies on Nairaland that if I'm dating I will spend millions on to boost their business cos these ladies have never shown any sign of entitlement to men instead they do their best to have their own businesses...

All these boys on this thread saying they can't give a lady their money are not mature enough to grasp the concept of giving to a lady who is worth it and ignoring those who think they are entitled to it.

Carchoice:


She’s mad. Block her. The most annoying thing is, if you have her that money, she’ll always come back for more.

Jaycee07:


Aunty,

You can do better than this. Can I shock you? Even Nigerian girls/Women here in the U S who are well off financially are no different from the one back in Nigeria. It’s in you people It’s a culture misnomer

UyaiIncomparabl:
I pity men who will ingest this. Well, this is social media where every man can claim he doesn't give a woman money.

But, I can tell you for free how I have one notorious asslicking womanizer begging me offline to just accept 50K to manage for the weekend. I have told him 100K or nothing. He said he will send it tomorrow unfailingly. I will wait.

That's one of your gender. A married one for that matter. I do not pity them. I will suck their nectar dry till they have nothing else to offer to the outside world.

B055:
that's why I have deep respect for oloshos......they work for their money

Youngjohnosas:
I was chatting with a girl and she said a guy sent her 3k that she was broke at that time and I was saying the guy loves u oo, maybe u should give him a chance and the next thing she said on top ordinary 3k.i was just teasing the babe.

I was stunned, I told her it's not about the amount he sent but since he has the heart of giving u the small 3k like u insinuated just try and check out the guy if his attitude suits u and give him a chance.she still insisted that the money is nothing to her but you are always broke and begging for urgent 2k from me.

If 3k is nothing to u then my 2k is a waste of time and ever since I stopped giving her a dime.i hate entitled and ungrateful people.

goshikid:
From now on i told myself never to give a bitchhh my hard earned money, she must work for it. That was how my ex gf called me a stingy guy all because i stopped being foolish all in the name of one motherfuccking love, no love bro, work hard and provide for your family, leave bittches alone, if not they are going to bring you down with their stupiid behaviours and blame you later for been foolish

My 2cent
Shikena

poweredcom:


Exactly that how they behave ..very useless set of creatures

Ingrates that is why they end up in wrong hands

Carchoice:
To be honest, giving ladies money, especially Nigerian ladies. Is a big waste. What you gave yesterday no longer counts today.


If you want to see their true nature, decline their request 2 to 3 times in a row, don’t make promises but decline outright, tell them you don’t have. The communication will reduce drastically. They will shift the focus to another SIMPson that will fall for their trick. This is no different from what fraudsters do.

PUSSYHOE:
Vagina gender!

Thanks to social media men are getting wiser!!!!

Fiscus105:
95% if not 98% has entitlement mentality!


Immediately guy stops giving , many will not remember good old days again, the relationship bcome toxic instantanta'

What I'm I even saying! Even if the main guy still spending and another one enters with bigger money, the main guy get automatic relegation.