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Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by sisisioge: 5:50pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
dfrost: ....may God help you fa. |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by michael1508: 5:51pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Mikester: Don't mind the Sisi guy,trying to shuffle shit down our throats. If he is so concerned about the unmarried ladies around,he should wife them all instead of telling us what choice we should make as a guy. The truth is the marriage union is loosing its value in our society today,the male folks have stated to realise that no woman truly loves you in the real sense,they are looking for who to carry their burden for them which is the ideology society has imposed on them,they never own up to responsibilities,not their fault to an extent as they have this princess syndrome from childhood,like they are always meant to be taken care of forgetting they are also a grown up adult with two hands and a hairy lines between their legs . On a serious note,they are really emasculating we guys day by day by shuffling different societal shits down our throats and expects us to accept it because we are /should always be ok with any nonsense. 3 Likes |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by siofra(f): 5:51pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
nurain150:I'm not going to pledge celibacy. |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by nurain150(m): 5:51pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
sisisioge:Yes, I do I know one of my relatives who didn't marry until 40, My advice to them don't do adultery. Take your time, and earn you can marry a fresh lady even at 50. |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by djon78(m): 5:53pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
nuelldido: Most of the advice here are sensual and human knowledge Matured women in there 40s are still getting married to original husband's not tokunbo or divorced ones Many people talk on generalized opinion not verified opinion A lady I know early forties is getting married in November to an early forties guy too People should stop all these generalized opinions. 3 Likes |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by sisisioge: 5:55pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
nurain150: How bias....the female should take any man she sees but the man should take his time. May God help us fa 3 Likes |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by kazyhm(m): 5:55pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Toks2008: And you did not factored in the probability of having a deform child at such an old age... Wahal no dey finish oo 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by nurain150(m): 5:57pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
sisisioge:You can see your biasness here, you asked what is my advice to 30 + single men, you didn't say women. Wo If my post hit you, it's because you feel guilty. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by TheWolfen(m): 6:01pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by nurain150(m): 6:01pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
siofra:Why you change your sex to male now |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by siofra(f): 6:02pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
nurain150: None of your business. |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by flexyrule(m): 6:03pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
pocohantas:13 Hours. The Secret Soilders of Benghazi. |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by dfrost: 6:05pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
sisisioge: Amen to that |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by nurain150(m): 6:05pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by 1Sharon(f): 6:06pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
WHITELIGHTER: Are men and women the same? |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by nurain150(m): 6:08pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
1Sharon: Lol see ehen. I no fit marry a woman wey no earn pass me or equal to me. |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by 1Sharon(f): 6:10pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
nurain150: Lol but then most women won't want a man that they out earn. |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by Nobody: 6:10pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
jikins: There is no shaming here, it is a fact, there will always be women who will never find husbands, there will always be baby mamas but if a woman has the right attitude , outlook and makes the right choices, Good men will beat their way to her feet with a ring long before she is 40 irrespective of her physical appearance. Calling it shaming women is a refusal to accept that bad choices were made and that is why a woman is 40 and single, there is no ifs or buts about it. Bad choices does not mean she was a slut, it could have been she felt her career was more important, it could be bad attitude, it could be bad influences but it is still her choices that has brought her to 40 and single. Life is a consequence of choices, you make good choices and life tends to work for you. In life when you make bad choices at critical moments often you find yourself with another set of choices that are worse that the options you had before and those options are now gone and are faced with a lesser of 2 evils and so on and so on and eventually you get to a point where your choices are single mother by deception, single mother by adoption, single mother by donor or polygamy...they are all a consequence of a bad choice made earlier in life. The irony is people who never accept they made bad choices (i.e how did I get here) tend to keep making bad choices and justifying the bad choces just like they did the bad ones that brought them here. The choice to bring a child to the world deliberately without a father is ALWAYS a bad one!!! It also guarantees more bad choice options and precludes good ones from your future!! When sperm donor becomes one of your choices, youve screwed up, you can tell yourself anything you want but thats a fact!!! i dont know if you are female or age but if you are young and and you continue with your mindset, you have a high probability of facing the options the OP listed in future. We wont agree so lets end it there. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by UncleJudax(m): 6:13pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Lollittaa:you couldn't refute my point. |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by zexy2030(m): 6:14pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:The juju nearly hook me, thanks to my mum. Checkout The food you eat alone without ur partner Her waist bead Leg chain Your under wear with her Your picture She must not know ur maiden name. |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by Nobody: 6:14pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
UncleJudax:when you can afford to pay my bill, I'll spare some seconds bantering with you here. |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by WHITELIGHTER: 6:15pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
1Sharon: Now u agree they ain't the same....well, thank God, we are no longer settling for less |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by Jman06(m): 6:16pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
TheWolfen:Oh my God! That's really heartbreaking She was one of the ladies I respect in this forum. And no one mentioned it here before now! May her soul rest in perfect peace... Amen 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by nurain150(m): 6:19pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
1Sharon: Likewise most men that re alpha don't date broke ladies, if you can't earn up to me atleast earn 70 percentage of my income, else OYo. |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by 1Sharon(f): 6:26pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
nurain150: Not broke, but a rich man can still date a poor woman..but a rich woman won't want to do the same..its just a turn off for a woman. |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by jikins(m): 6:27pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
perambulator: Lol bad choices or not that's not what we are discussing, you have clearly missed the point of my jab. Which is you are all over the place. Bringing a child into the world without a means to take care of them, is always a bad one not what you are saying. As long as they have the means, the heart and are ready to make the sacrifices parenthood brings there's nothing bad about it. Having a dad doesn't automatically make the child the best human in the world. Heck Hitler had a dad, look what he did. See why I said your rule is just that, "your rule" and not reality. Sperm donor isn't something only older women do, even young women who have the means not wanting to be tied to any man do it and have done it in the past and more will do it in the future. See why I said you are showing certain levels of insecurity? Did those women also screwed up their youth when they literally did it in their youth? My dude, I knew we won't agree that's why I told you, that your statement of saying anything to justify your stance also applies to you. Wo ma go yab Ronaldo fans jare. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by 1Sharon(f): 6:27pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
DissTroy: Just small juju. You will be alright. |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by 1Sharon(f): 6:32pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Yampotatocarrot: Lol, why are Nigerian scared of juju like that this? None of that shit works. and I'm pretty Poco was being sarcastic, she isn't even religious. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by 1Sharon(f): 6:35pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
CUMIN: Lol imagine if he remained in Syria. |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by Toks2008(m): 6:36pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Oyinlomobambam: You are free. Just reference the source before you get sued lol! 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by sisisioge: 6:38pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
nurain150: Well, if you followed the discuss with the other guy, you would have read his advise for women hence the reason I asked if he had any for men. You clearly offered your answer without knowing the background of the question Good evening. |
Re: If You Are A Lady In Your Late 30s And Still Single, Please read This - Opinion by Acidbath: 6:42pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Even small small girls kpa kpa already know this. Soon, negroes will be seen as nothing but sperm donors. We are getting there. 1 Like |
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