jikins:


Sperm donor isn't something only older women do, even young women who have the means not wanting to be tied to any man do it and have done it in the past and more will do it in the future. See why I said you are showing certain levels of insecurity? Did those women also screwed up their youth when they literally did it in their youth?

My dude, I knew we won't agree that's why I told you, that your statement of saying anything to justify your stance also applies to you.

Wo ma go yab Ronaldo fans jare.

There you go again. I said something to you earlier... once you make a choice in parenting, you hand the consequences down to your future generations....good or bad! Statistically,daughters from single mothers are themselves likely to be single mothers etc etc, It is extremely unlikely for a young woman from a stable 2 parent home to to use a sperm donor as an adult talk less of her youth, people who do that at that age you will find come from a broken home and are damaged The "I didnt have a father so my child does not need one" mindset.

pocohantas:
1: Use juju and hook one man.

Don’t waste your time going to Shiloh or all these scam pentecostal churches. They will end up hooking you up with one boring evangelist that suffers premature ejaculatiôn.

It is better you use your hand and hook the one you like. But treat him well.

Nothing wrong in hooking husband. Even the bible says the kingdom of God suffereth violence.

2. If you are open to polygamy, give it a shot.
As you get older in Nigeria, it gets harder to see a never-been-married man with noble intentions. So if you don’t mind polygamy, if you just want to have your kids by one man, find one polygamous man and have all your kids with him.

Why are guys getting triggered at the mention of juju? I thought we are all here to advise advanced spinsters on how to get husband. All angles must be covered abeg.

Poca! My sweet no-shit-no-nonsense babe.

Hoe u dey?!

Petyprincess:
The truth is not everyone will get married, I have the utmost respect for women living their best life without depending on a man.
A woman's happiness should not be defined by having a man because of two hairy balls!!

Shut up!!! Some of you still cry inside!!!

nuelldido:
Well, I'll say all your advice are sensual and human knowledge.
My dear sisters God has never failed anyone who serve and call him with perfect heart.

Any solution you have outside God will cause you problem in the future. The suggestions above to me is not the way.
Find your way to Christ, He will help you and settle you maritally.

Tell me one solution I wrote that is outside GOD... Just one.

perambulator:


There you go again. I said something to you earlier... once you make a choice in parenting, you hand the consequences down to your future generations....good or bad! Statistically,daughters from single mothers are themselves likely to be single mothers etc etc, It is extremely unlikely for a young woman from a stable 2 parent home to to use a sperm donor as an adult talk less of her youth, people who do that at that age you will find come from a broken home and are damaged The "I didnt have a father so my child does not need one" mindset.

Don't cut my comment just to feed your narrative, quote it all as is. Where is your evidence of these statistics or is it as always all in your head? Many women from so called stable home have had broken homes and damaged marriages. I thought you said having a father solves everything. How come these people still end up with broken homes. While others from single parents have stable marriages?

Your prejudice is deefening, it's just too loud and you overestimate facts too much.

Where did you get the bolded mindset from. Did any of those girls told you that's the reason or as always you assumed it again. Same way you assumed every child of a single mom automatically grows up to hate men .

Lol I thought you were ending there though, seems you had a change of mind.

Sonnobax15:

Nice write up


But getting a sperm donor Instead of going after the real source, don't you think it's kind of cheating on nature? . Must science deny man of all his rights? As a man,I'm supposed to be the one to plant a seed inside of my woman,and not the other way round.......

Las las,tho meno-stop is something that no woman should joke about,but I think the best advice I'll give to any young lady is that she shouldn't be too over selective on her choices of men......I

but what is your business with how a woman you don't know decides to get pregnant

jikins:


Don't cut my comment just to feed your narrative, quote it all as is. .

I respond to the bits that I feel is worthy of a response, responding for the sake of responding serves no purpose as we clearly do not see eye to eye. there fore no point quoting the entire long post just the part i feel i want to address. We have established we dont see eye to eye. no need for more evidence of that. I have made my point. You feel otherwise...thats life. Life = Freedoms to make choices leading to consequences...endoff!!!

Jman06:
What are you people even implying here That Victorian is no more I don't get it

Yes she's dead

Kriss216:
Evil people keep creating thread upon thread just to give evening newspapers false hope.

why isn't paining you? Ur so invested in the life of an evening newspaper" spoiling, lol - have you sorted out your own life first?.Oloshi

perambulator:


I respond to the bits that I feel is worthy of a response, responding for the sake of responding serves no purpose as we clearly do not see eye to eye. there fore no point quoting the entire long post just the part i feel i want to address. We have established we dont see eye to eye. no need for more evidence of that. I have made my point. You feel otherwise...thats life. Freedoms and choices!!!

Nope that's not it you quote the parts that you want to address and left the part that you can't address because you have been schooled. Quote it all and address what you want with your full chest. I nor dey kill person.

Iyaebe:
Yes she's dead

Chai! That's too bad!

May God rest her soul in perfect peace... Amen

Jman06:
Chai! That's too bad!
May God rest her soul in perfect peace... Amen

Amen,it came as a shock sha.

Mikester:


Wrong. Terming men irresponsible or immature for having standards is wrong. Turning down single moms doesn't make a man irresponsible. There is a huge difference between responsibility and burden. A man who turns down a single mom does so to not place a burden that isn't his upon him. Does that make him irresponsible or a child?

Women ruthlessly place high standards on men who intend to marry them but weak-minded men misguided by information such as yours lower their standards for damaged women, commit to them and eventually regret.

Don't tell or teach men who to commit to, as adults they are in charge of their own decisions. You are right in some areas but get your mentality straight and stop guilt-tripping others for making their own choices.

your parents did a very poor job raising you

Not single by choice but I guess I realize when all is said and done you want to marry your best friend look out for your in-laws without shame or guilt

I know he’s out there and live is here

Iyaebe:
Amen,it came as a shock sha.

It's really shocking, honestly!

This life is just so meaningless

jikins:


Nope that's not it you quote the parts that you want to address and left the part that you can't address because you have been schooled. Quote it all and address what you want with your full chest. I nor dey kill person.

Schooled? are you a kid? Whatever makes you sleep well. I address what I feel is worthy of addressing. we have estanlished long ago we dont see eye to eye, further back and forth doesnt change that. so why bother?

pocohantas:
1: Use juju and hook one man.

Don’t waste your time going to Shiloh or all these scam pentecostal churches. They will end up hooking you up with one boring evangelist that suffers premature ejaculatiôn.

It is better you use your hand and hook the one you like. But treat him well.

Nothing wrong in hooking husband. Even the bible says the kingdom of God suffereth violence.

2. If you are open to polygamy, give it a shot.
As you get older in Nigeria, it gets harder to see a never-been-married man with noble intentions. So if you don’t mind polygamy, if you just want to have your kids by one man, find one polygamous man and have all your kids with him.

Why are guys getting triggered at the mention of juju? I thought we are all here to advise advanced spinsters on how to get husband. All angles must be covered abeg.

hmm omo, guys, hear, hear, juju sef na another angle SMD

Pataricatering:
why isn't paining you? Ur so invested in the life of an evening newspaper" spoiling, lol - have you sorted out your own life first?.Oloshi

I know you love me

perambulator:


Schooled? are you a kid? Whatever makes you sleep well. I address what I feel is worthy of addressing. we have estanlished long ago we dont see eye to eye, further back and forth doesnt change that. so why bother?

Pele oh, only kids who have been schooled try to hide it to save face. It's very clear who the kid here is.

We have established it yet you keep going back and forth and bothering yourself . In the name of hiding your cast you dey quote "what I feel is worthy to be address" Oshey address coordinator .

Na single we single, we no kill person

LutanFyah:
Nigga STFU with your "real men" bvllshit.

A man decides not to marry a used up woman with children and here you are foaming from every orifices in your body to insult such man.


If she is good enough, why didn't the man that impregnated her,marry her? If the man deceived her into getting pregnant, it obviously means she can't make good decisions to save her life.

The youngman you quoted calmly admonished you to stop with the stupidity but you're still here with your folly.


NOBODY REJECTS A BRAND NEW WOMB TO GO MINGLE WITH A USED ONE COS HE TRYING TO BE A " real man".

Be calming down sir

1. Make money
2. Make more money
3. Be happy with yourself.

sisisioge:



Well, if you followed the discuss with the other guy, you would have read his advise for women hence the reason I asked if he had any for men. You clearly offered your answer without knowing the background of the question Good evening.

Lol right now you think you are making a point, I no need your greetings, girls and wah wah mouth.

You clearly asked everyone what advised do you want for a 30+ guy, so since that one hit you, you are now pained.


Why should you result to this �

I do not believe you believe in juju.

pocohantas:
1: Use juju and hook one man.

Don’t waste your time going to Shiloh or all these scam pentecostal churches. They will end up hooking you up with one boring evangelist that suffers premature ejaculatiôn.

It is better you use your hand and hook the one you like. But treat him well.

Nothing wrong in hooking husband. Even the bible says the kingdom of God suffereth violence.

2. If you are open to polygamy, give it a shot.
As you get older in Nigeria, it gets harder to see a never-been-married man with noble intentions. So if you don’t mind polygamy, if you just want to have your kids by one man, find one polygamous man and have all your kids with him.

Why are guys getting triggered at the mention of juju? I thought we are all here to advise advanced spinsters on how to get husband. All angles must be covered abeg.

Lollittaa:

when you can afford to pay my bill, I'll spare some seconds bantering with you here.

How much is your bill?

1Sharon:


Not broke, but a rich man can still date a poor woman..but a rich woman won't want to do the same..its just a turn off for a woman.

That is what am saying, a rich man won't date a woman not up to his status.


So poor for poor, rich for rich.

No one wants a gold tapper and a diamond digger.

Not every issue can be solve with an idea or imagination, sperm donor may fail you, juju will surely fail you
One thing that certain is destiny can be delay but cant be deny, though opportunity comes but once, if you missed that opportunity then you need God grace. Work on your behaviour and character be humble, look responsible and decent, hang around where you can find your dream husband with pure mind, not in fake appearances

siofra:

We wey no like children now? This one everyone is saying have children if you're in your late thirties or early forties and you haven't seen a responsible man to marry.

You have gender dysphoria

Very brilliant, i love ur suggestions i hope some ladies will appreciate this, very frank

pocohantas:
1: Use juju and hook one man.

Don’t waste your time going to Shiloh or all these scam pentecostal churches. They will end up hooking you up with one boring evangelist that suffers premature ejaculatiôn.

It is better you use your hand and hook the one you like. But treat him well.

Nothing wrong in hooking husband. Even the bible says the kingdom of God suffereth violence.

2. If you are open to polygamy, give it a shot.
As you get older in Nigeria, it gets harder to see a never-been-married man with noble intentions. So if you don’t mind polygamy, if you just want to have your kids by one man, find one polygamous man and have all your kids with him.

Why are guys getting triggered at the mention of juju? I thought we are all here to advise advanced spinsters on how to get husband. All angles must be covered abeg.

Victorian has passed on.

Iyaebe:
How did you know it's not her

You may be right

Iyaebe:
Read his post again, he stated it there that she unfortunately passed on before their agreed time

I think she might be unto something. Now tgat she mentioned it, I think I reason along the line of Victorian

Toks2008:


I don modify that part to avoid erroneous conclusions. So let's focus on something else.