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Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by Pussywar(f): 10:40am On Oct 25, 2021 |
DeepSight:I see. |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by Irekpitah(m): 10:41am On Oct 25, 2021 |
You said: “What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good”. A decent person is not sexually promiscuous. A decent person is not sexually indecent. A decent person doesn't have several sexual partners. Having different sexual partners at a time, besides a man in polygyny, is supposed to be counted as a disorder. But the people who are supposed to do so are the ones promoting it. How do you handle it when your mum of close to 50, widowed, having different men to have affairs with her and you know it? See, let's tell ourselves the truth. You can't be sexually irresponsible and want others to accept you like that. In the past, sex was something considered divine. You pay rarely for marriage before having access. But because we copy everything that modernization has brought, we decided to behave like dogs. God will have mercy on those who are merciful to themselves only. |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by yusluvad(m): 10:41am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Sonnobax15:AMEN. Boss the OP is so on point, what he did preach against have damaged and destroyed and still doing to so many relationships/marriages today... |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by SmartyPants(m): 10:42am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Pussywar: You are quite correct of course in that he used a faulty analogy (a logical fallacy), because humans are not cars, therefore human parts do not wear out by virtue of having intercourse. That argument is as asinine as suggesting that the human stomach wears out the more we eat. Not to talk about the misapplication of the principle of diminishing returns, which actually suggests that the more you increase certain inputs the more utility you derive up to a certain point. The diminishing returns then set in only after the optimal point. By applying this principle to this situation, he has therefore suggested that you should indeed increase your body count but only up to a certain point. 1 Like |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by emmnprince(m): 10:45am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Savedday: "Law of diminishing returns" is evergreen. But this your statement: "9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it" shows the level our society has degenerated into. But the problem is not actually the girls sef! Na the men. Most victims are randy men. They are easy preys to this 9ja girls. |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by DeepSight(m): 10:47am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Irekpitah: Why make an exception for the polygamous man? |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by Bluewitch(f): 10:48am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Timekeeper: Lmaooo Una wey no fit last 2 minutes |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by thinkmoney(m): 10:50am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Pussywar:Now call somebody to ur side and listen. See ur ignorance. Because if u are really sane and u can study and comprehend, u will notice the unfathomable matters around and unimaginable energy in the universe. The orderlines in all these things and the complexities of human nature. How intricate everything is even stones. Then maybe the person that is beside u will be in a better state of mind to appreciate that these thing couldn't have happen by chance. That the chance is just not there. That there must be an intelligent mind behind this things. That is what logic will tell any sensible person. Abi, can u go inside a forest and see an immense but dilapidated building and say it just happen there by chance because no literature said people went that far into the forest in time past? Europeans before thought Columbus was the first in the America but new discoveries of items and settlements that look like Vikings is now making them have a rethink. Would u go to a cliff that is constantly being battered by the ocean, see an intricate and colourful drawing and say it's as a result of the weathering from the ocean? No order or intricate beauty with perfect patterns has ever ever anywhere come about by accident. There are always intelligent mind behind it. The problem with ur type is that u might have even stopped reading this out of laziness. U don't just have the capacity to think that if something was this huge like our universe then the mind behind it must be powerful and really huge. It takes alarming ignorance to look at just water with all its makeup and said it just happen by accident. Yet there are trillions and gazillion more other matter and energy with differing complexities and power. 2 Likes |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by folks4luv(f): 10:50am On Oct 25, 2021 |
I want to applaud this post cause I believe in the things you said but you completely misunderstand the thread you are reacting to. Actions have consequences but that's not the point here. When you decide to be with someone, don't focus on their past. I'm with a man that has been with other women, I chose to be with him. For my own peace of mind, I try as much as possible not to think or talk about the women he has been with. It's not healthy, not good for the mind. That's the crux of the post. You have a choice to accept or reject someone, but once you accept someone, dont DWELL who or how many people they ve been with |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by Ijaya123: 10:52am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Pussywar: This gender never disappoints. By their fruits... |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by Valuc: 10:55am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Anyone that sleeps around will definitely fade more than their age... |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by onlyinJESUS: 10:56am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Pussywar:. Factual? By what standards. Where do we get this "fact". Where is it written? And how am I obligated to keep it But then, how do you apply this to having multiple sexual partners? And if I may ask, what’s the “limit”? Because that too would be subjective. All of you agreeing with the post would disagree on that. What’s the amount of sexual partners one person is allowed to have? Riddle me. If I understand your point clearly, you are saying that having multiple sexual partner isn't a problem of morality. But my argument with you isn't even from a religious point of view but from natural laws. Would you dare have unprotected sex indiscriminately? Let's see where that lands you. Mankind, so as to keep themselves in the unnatural act of indiscriminate sex has produced many devices to protect themselves from the retribution of nature. For example use of condom. A protective that isn't even 100% guaranteed as there can be wear and tear of this device while in the act, keeping those in the act vulnerable to disease. Even if you don't respect religion, give regards to nature there are too many things we can learn from it. And as to the limit, I think it's also the law of nature that too much of everything isn't good. If we won't practice restraints in many things we'd have to bear whatever it's misuse brings on us. |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by Pussywar(f): 10:59am On Oct 25, 2021 |
onlyinJESUS: It’s not factual that when you shoot people, they get hurt and die? Who said that having a high body count means you’re having unprotected sex? What are “natural laws”? Who said that a virgin cannot have diseases on their first try? 1 Like |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by PAPAFEELERS: 10:59am On Oct 25, 2021 |
[quote author=SILENTandSMART2 post=107028924]Omo whala for who go marry evening news paper....[/quote She no get egg again ooo for bodi. Naa from one prayer house to another prayer house not knowing that its her fault for nor marrying on time when she still has enough eggs. |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by Pussywar(f): 11:00am On Oct 25, 2021 |
thinkmoney:I’m not reading all that shit. I’m happy for you...or sorry that happened. |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by rajiedreez: 11:02am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Pussywar:human aren't cars we know, no one has a right to shame another person for his or her past, accepted. But don't you think not knowing your partners sexual past will have an effect on the relationship, don't get me wrong o. Knowing the past that I said isn't on the basis of judgement but on the basis of preparation for either parties in the relationship. Not everyone has the mind to process a sudden information that he or she thought should have been shared earlier. At least na people dey marry confirmed brothel ladies and they know about their pasts and are prepare to wither the storm with them if there's a consequence of the act in the future he or she would have prepared their mind before going into the relationship. HIV negative person marry HIV positive person, it all comes down to knowledge of the partners ailments(I know HIV isn't only sexually transmitted, its just an example on knowing things before hand). What if a lady isn't capable of coping with her partners sexual needs due to his many sexual adventures he's had and gotten accustomed to. It might lead to the end of such relationship. Mine is that in every relationship, communication is key. If you intend to spend the rest if your life with anyone its better to be at least 80% sincere with such person be it male or females. Mind you when I talk about sexual adventures ( I prefer this word to body counts) its not gender neutral |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by thinkmoney(m): 11:02am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Pussywar:Just why u are who u are. Best of luck. I BET U READ EVERY BIT THOUGH HYPOCRITE! |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by tctrills: 11:02am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Pussywar:the Ops is not shaming anyone here. He is only encouraging people is stay chaste. Infidelity is the major contributor to divorce. So encouraging people to be chaste is only right and proper. infidelity is the leading cause of broken homes. Forget religion, a society where people have poor moral values is a decaying society. 1 Like |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by Solofresh2: 11:06am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Anuoluwa12345:I don't get You mean she started lifting your legs up and checking through your undies What type of rubbish is that 1 Like |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by elantraceey(f): 11:07am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Why does this only matter to ladies? What about men? Body count matters to me in the choice of a life partner because I won't marry a man that digs everything on skirt. Speaks of a man who lacks self control and is going to be a serial cheat. 1 Like |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by Watinhapen(m): 11:07am On Oct 25, 2021 |
As a girl, if you have more than 5 body counts and you’re not up to 30 years, you should be ashamed of yourself. Whether we like it or not, there is no dignity in immortality, especially from the part of females. Even the bible places emphases on females than males when it comes to sexuality and morality. A woman should respect her body and guide it with all jealousy but it is the reverse we see these days. Girls no longer regard their bodies as anything. Apart from giving their bodies out to the highest bidder like a plate of meat, they show their private parts to the public with ease. Now, if as a man you marries a woman with more than 5 bodies counts, you should be ashamed of yourself. It is your duty as a man to ensure that your children gets the best mother. Your children should be very proud of their mother just as you should. Men who married virgins are proud to say it anywhere they’re but I have never seen a man that married a woman with multiple body counts proud to say it out in public. I already decided never to marry a woman with more than 2 body counts but thank God that I met my wife a virgin and I’m very proud of her. We all may deceive ourselves that it doesn’t matter but we know the truth in our hearts. Marrying a woman who is virgin and with good character is the best thing you can ever do for yourself and your children. Note: If you want to marry a woman with 40 body counts or a retired prostitute, be ready to take whatever comes out of it. No complain later. 1 Like |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by Jacku: 11:11am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Pussywar:like.. People no get work at all. |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by Oisamoje24(m): 11:11am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Pussywar:go try am body go tell you |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by lekkie073(m): 11:12am On Oct 25, 2021 |
This pussy.war na real warrior sha. A slut will try endlessly to package slutiness |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by bukatyne(f): 11:16am On Oct 25, 2021 |
chukwunweikeemi: I 100% agree with what you have said. I just want to ride on your post to correct a foolish idea that would flood this thread: 'Why should women have a low body count when men are sleeping about' and its variations.... I will say this: Everyone has the right to state what they want. The onus is on you to decide if the man is worthy of you or not. If a virgin girl settles for the ajeku of the street, she is only telling us that the man deserves her. Instead of women to whine about the 'double standards' (enabled by them), they should decide the type of man that deserves them and stick to it. 1 Like |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by Pussywar(f): 11:18am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Oisamoje24:Very logical argument. A dunce. |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by Timekeeper: 11:23am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Bluewitch: I know but I fit give u Belle... |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by Oyiboman69: 11:24am On Oct 25, 2021 |
[s][/s] Pussywar: |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by abeylevels(m): 11:25am On Oct 25, 2021 |
That user is a guy but register on nairaland as a girl. They are many here. Kingcalls: |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by Oyiboman69: 11:25am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Pussywar: 1 Like |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by oneguy7: 11:27am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Pussywar: |
Re: Body Count Means Everything Don't Be Deceived by Panda7: 11:31am On Oct 25, 2021 |
this is very right religiously and politically. we can't be grooming sluts in our society |
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