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Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Nobody: 8:23pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Mofun: Yes, A Woman will snitch on Her Beloved Husband if she has to do it for their Son. And the same Woman may want her Husband to pick her over his Mother. Life is hard for Man 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Nobody: 8:26pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Munzy14:Shebi you guys always warn yourselves about women pretending to love you and that no one truly loves you except your mother.So go and meet your mother to continue showing you that true love and care while she shows her kids same,don't be selfish abi you don't want your children to enjoy what you enjoyed from your mom? 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by ahnie: 8:26pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Yeecar:My civic rights. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by irunoko(m): 8:26pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
jeff1607:the same reasons older mothers are obsessed with THEIR adult sons almost to the point of intruding into his marriage |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by SweetDipBenny(m): 8:28pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
This is when side chick come in Side chick will give u all d attention |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Remman(m): 8:28pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:a psychological phenomenon that is part of nature... In fact, that happens within nature! There's nothing to argue with you because you have no point. There's a popular adage that says "you will never understand until it happens to you". Love is nature and it naturally happens. In some cases, it grows beyond control. It can build and destroy as well. It's a powerful weapon for both good and evil. Again, pray that you never fall in love if you wish not to suffer or die for anyone. |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Kobojunkie: 8:31pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Remman:A psychological problem is no part of nature. Stop projecting these issues at nature. |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by ahnie: 8:31pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
ufotty2001:Unfortunately I don't go-to church |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by ossyla(m): 8:33pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
[[s]quote author=Mercychen post=107497170]They are little children. So it's natural for her to care for them more than an adult whos already old enough to take care of himself. So it's not a matter of preference. Shiting attention to the kids most time is not always a deliberate act by the woman because if you view this from a neutral angle, you'll agree with me that, a child can not be crying either because it's feeling irritated or hungry, while the mother is there caressing the fathers head just to show she cares about him .that would be unreasonable of her. In fact, it's you the husband that will shout at her to go and tend to the baby. The only thing I think the mothers can do to strike a balance, is by making it up to daddy (at night) when everyone has gone to bed as that is when they can have time alone together. And daddy too should learn to exercise patience till that time. [/quote][/s] Nice resolve |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Remman(m): 8:33pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:mtcheew! |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by LadyExcellency: 8:36pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
ahnie: You are a contractor not in a relationship. |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Nobody: 8:37pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
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Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by MrNipplesLover(m): 8:39pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
This is very much applicable to SINGLE MOTHERS wey get luck find husbands. |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Blackdisciple(m): 8:41pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Make I dey learn so that when I marry e no go surprise me |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by AfroKnight: 8:42pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: I didn’t know. Sorry for offering you beer. What of pami? Chilled pami with bush meat? |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Nobody: 8:45pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Mofun:LOVE not VALUE. Women will always Love their children more than their husbands, it's natural. You can't compare the love a mother has for her child to that she has for her husband, right from when a woman becomes pregnant, there's a Special bond/energy that begins to form between the mother and child. The nurturing in her womb from being a foetus to a fully formed human in her womb for Nine months. The LOVE of a Mother for her child is INCOMPARABLE 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Nobody: 8:45pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
irunoko: Apt and all noted..... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Akalia(m): 8:45pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
TheOnlyUyai:I rest my case. Your opinion though. |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by DeLaRue: 8:46pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Personally, I have not found that to be the case. My wife sometimes says she's the only woman she knows who loves her husband more than her children. She says her love for me increases everyday. I ask, why,...she says she can't explain, that I should just accept it. My in-laws call her 'Ruth.' Everybody around us knows nothing comes before her husband. By the way, my wife absolutely loves our kids. 1000%. She'll go any distance for them. The children her the same. They absolutely love mummy and daddy. May be I am just lucky. Saying that, I live for my wife and children. We do a lot together. I am happiest when I am at home, so you won't find me at a party, joint, or with friends. I am proud of my wife. There is openness in everything we do. My wife is a star. A gem. An independent, progressive, yet supremely homely lady. Her joy, happiness and emotional wellbeing are my priorities. She knows it and it is perhaps unsurprising that she envelops me with such intense love , affection, and friendship. A woman can love her children and husband equally. But don't expect her to give what she doesn't receive. Many men forget that children in their innocence requite unconditional love, and the person most likely to be the recipient of such love is the one that takes the most care of them...usually the mother. What happens when the mother receives such unconditional love from the kids, and her husband is a frumpy, uncaring, unfriendly partner. Well, it is inevitable that her love will flow towards the children. The good news for all men is that this state of affairs is not inevitable. It doesn't have to happen if you do the right things. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Kobojunkie: 8:50pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Blackdisciple:instead make sure you marry someone who will not take offense to going for professional marriage counseling in the case that such a problem should come up. A child is not meant to get between a man and his wife in a marriage. |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Origin(f): 8:51pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Because husbands have fallen short of the glory of God. |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Kobojunkie: 8:51pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Simran94:Again, it is not natural for a woman to love her children more than her husband. |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Solofresh2: 8:51pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Mofun:I have said it before and I will say it again The only unconditional love women has is for their kids. Women mistake love for likes when it comes to men because they feel attracted to the man for a reason best known to them.It can be money, character, behavior, security, sex, physical looks or comfort.Remove that thing she loves in that man and see her lose interest in him gradually. |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Nobody: 8:53pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:Continue deceiving yourself ooo 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Hawkler: 8:53pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
The mother's heart is the child's schoolroom." |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Yeecar(m): 8:53pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
ahnie:He doesn't have rights too, because he is a non living thing?Women are naturally selfish...that brings up the question; WHAT IS A MAN'S GAIN AFTER ALL THE YEARS OF LABOUR AND FAMILY RESPONSIBILITIES? LESSON; Just do your best and leave the rest , no one is worth dying for. |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Nobody: 8:54pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Solofresh2:APT!! Cc Kobojunkie, this is the answer |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by frozen70(f): 8:54pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Mofun: By nature, women are already bonded with children by birth that nine months bonding is just enough to glue mum with children Secondly, when some married men starts acting funny, like neglecting their wives, hurting them emotionally and at times putting them through depression Such women find solace in their children and before you know it, attention has shifted No matter the situation or circumstances on earth, no child wants to see his or her mum tears or sad mood Before you know it, she will tell her children what she is passing through and that's how the children will love their mum more and it ends up affecting her husband Once she gets the heart of her children, that's the end |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Saintmary(f): 8:55pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Mofun: Purely physical. As obtainable from the way men treat women. |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Munzy14(m): 8:56pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Iyaebe:Then ladies should go back to their fathers abii Nothing like selfish here, it is wife doing her part for her husband..As well as hubby reciprocating... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Kobojunkie: 8:58pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Simran94:I disagree with that poster. That same woman will turn against that child should the child openly prefer the father or another to her despite all the attention she pours on him. There is no such thing as unconditional love between mothers and their children and a mother acting as a leech on her children is not in anyway healthy at all for the kids. |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by petitejolie(f): 8:58pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Children won't cheat on you but husbands will, children are guaranteed to be yours forever but u see husbands dey can disgrace you. |
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