Boogyman557:
Holly Gram real matters. WTF MAN

nenyewrites:


Yes na. Almost a decade of hardship. Someone that was 8 years when Buhari came into power is now almost 16, someone that was 20 is now almost 28. It's all Buhari's fault. Bringing a generation of poverty, hate and instability.

Kobojunkie:
Are you yourself a maiden worthy of this knight you speak of? Or are you simply looking here for a knight to bear what is your wait and burdens without demanding the same from you?

Tajbol4splend:



These holy holy people actually think they know who God is, they know absolutely nothing about him

pansophist:


Exactly, hence I hammered on the concept of "deregulation of the sexual marketplace". What we have is purely romantic capitalism that is brutal, with no democratic elements to it. Its basically sexual oligarchy, survival of the richest, where you have to be rich first, and she wish you'll be a good person, and to be beautiful and hot first, then he wish she will make a good wife.

We never see anything yet. To guess what is yet to come, take a look at relationships in the African American communities, they are the first in this journey of decadence. To predict the future, the past is a good place go start.

Victerica:


WTF man

Where the weed?

Moz22:
my entire text wrong or which part of my statement?

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram LoLz


OGA u want make I RUN MAD!


Na Everytime PESIN I go de BLA WEED!


I de ASHAWOO house..


Na CIGARETTE we de BLA 4 here...


LITE UP my CIGARETTE in peace


WTF MAN!

Angelfrost:


Okay... But, wealthy guys still have these same relationship ordeals.

Victerica:

LoL....
Abeg ooo, no run mad...
Enjoy your Ashawo and your cigarette
WTF man

Alexis11:


You are deep.

DoctorOlasDesk:



I'm very careful with long term consequences of relationships too. If i will marry, i think of the belief systems and ideologies of the lady's society i'm marrying from. Trust me bro, I won't marry a lady from some countries even if an angel appeared and tells me she's my wife, i'd rather marry a pig. There are some annoying tendencies in the German, Russian society. No disrespect, the society can be rich and industrious, but if i go marry o, it comes with Nigerian ladies first, after that West. Anything asides the main west, I nor do. In fact, i'm tired.

Make all of us dey careful dey go

nenyewrites:


In Nigeria or outside Nigeria?

dhiqson:

Story
Thanking God for my last relationship
The person that I thought I was gan spend the rest of my life with, taught me how to let toxicity go
I mean, she's the reason I'm redpilled
Rn I no even too dey send
If it ain't about me, you're just playing yourself
And maybe I have a problem, I dunno don't care I'm all to myself
Got great friends I could kill for
I go hard for them, they go harder for me
Life's Good
God's good



You date a mature lady
She feels she's always right
Younger one, just plain st*****
Omo abeg

bepositive11:


So you allowed her to make you toxic - a redpiller

You people need to learn how to heal and let go

Don't let toxic people have as much power over you to the point of making you a toxic person too

Moz22:
it took me a while contemplating whether I should comment on this or not.. however I'm gonna drop my token..

Ever since I saw a post saying "you've been unlucky with relationships, why not channel your energy into taking you and your family out of poverty and leave love alone" I had a mind shift... I maybe wrong but the truth of the matter is that true love doesn't exist no more.. the love u see people exhibit these days comes with expectations and when those expectations aren't met, that's when they'll say they fell out of love etc.. True love is a beautiful thing and I sincerely hope that I get to experience it before I exit this world, However I'm not looking for it.. this world is just too bleeped up, unbalanced and full of fuckery, but apparently there isn't much u can do about it. I have a thing that works for me anytime I feel some sorta affection for any girl which I don't wanna entertain.. I'm gonna be very single for a long time to come. Selah

dhiqson:



I wanted to reply you
But you think being a red piller equals toxicity
Aii bro
God keep us all alive

NOwazobia:
I really enjoyed this topic and the conversations that follow.

martinmiller:


Lol, marrying a lady from some countries is loving especially if you find love in them. These species are one of a kind, kill the tendencies and the annoying part with love and understanding. I would prefer them to Nigeria ladies 5 times in a week.

The good news is that love is so sweet if you find one, I experienced true love many times over but due to some factors I can't open here I would remain in the pool of knowing it to myself.

However, we all need to be careful of everything called women, and besides I won't support your position of staying single forever, love will surely find you and suprise you someday. Cheers.

Angelfrost:


Everywhere, even here in Nigeria!

pansophist:
Two words here, hypergamy and polygamy, the two vices of that have captivate most people, and they don't want to heal themselves from of it. Our selfishness and "whats in for me?", instead of "what can I give?", is what has brough us to this mess.

For women, it's hypergamy on steriods. They may have boyfriend, even a husband, but his validity ends when a better (understand it as richer) dude shows up, she will dump the boyfriend, or cheat if she is married. Her loyalty, commitment is conditional, for better for stay, for worse for astray. It's exactly what Naira Marley meant when he said "she is not your girlfriend, it's just your turn".

For men, its destructive polygamy. For example, traditional polygamy holds such polygamous men to husbandry responsibilities and by law, he has to fulfil legal, parental, and paternal duties to the children/wives. But now, a man may even be married to one, but have unlimited mistress and no responsibility towards them either, basically ejaculate and evacuate, the women are merely a tool.

Although no matter how we mourn about the cesspit romantic marketplace, its as a result of our own doing, and this has been well explained in the doctrines of "the deregulation of the sexual marketplace". Quote me if you want me to write about it, to explain why its a mess. The bad news is that it will only get worse, not better, worse. Its common sense. When you throw away old cultures that works (your parent's relationship is an evidence), then you'll arrive at one that doesn't work.

Relationships by its very definition should be regulated in a societal level, then the individuals participating in it will abide by ordained protocols and traditions that are passed down from past generations who have tested all models and arrived at one that works. Not now where a kid of 13 that is not just naive and naturally inexperienced, is expected to make decisions as lifelong as Relationship, navigating the sea of toxic people all in the name of freedom and liberalism. It has a price, and its called decadence.

IJEYdiamond:
Worse of all is that in this dating poll abi site as u call it more of Married men are there.. even more than single guys...

So what does that tell u about their marriages?? some self go and showcase romantic pictures, videos of them and their spouses on social media handles.. and still coming back to dating sites... Seriously Men ehee una matter no dey finish at all...!!

martinmiller:


Lol, marrying a lady from some countries is loving especially if you find love in them. These species are one of a kind, kill the tendencies and the annoying part with love and understanding. I would prefer them to Nigeria ladies 5 times in a week.

The good news is that love is so sweet if you find one, I experienced true love many times over but due to some factors I can't open here I would remain in the pool of knowing it to myself.

However, we all need to be careful of everything called women, and besides I won't support your position of staying single forever, love will surely find you and suprise you someday. Cheers.

debbydams:
hmmmm... Wish some men can be straight with their intentions,like ' babe let's be hitting ourselves' but instead some men will promise you marriage and waste your time at the end of the day, they will leave, same applies to some ladies

Xmen149:
How many times have you gone out with a lady and she opted to pay. Or dating your heart desire and she thinks of you when she walks past a men's clothing shop(my guy will look good on this).

But see them: "do you know that since I started dating this guy he has never bought...for me".

Even the loveliest of girl will change if she enter certain environment(our recent generation of girls learnt not thing from mama so men continue playing the games they never stopped inventing).

Your girl will give excuses of going out and doing love things with you but will be willing to do it with a new random guy(weda na adrenaline rush I don't know).

My First girlfriend fkd my lil causin that was still in secondary school and still they pressure me for marriage.

Another one I dated was telling me her ex paid her school fees bcs I didn't want to pay it.

I was on the way with one to my family house to introduce to my fam and her ex she reconciled with won't stop calling and she refused to pick I diverted our movement to a bar follow her Play her game till e scatter.

I have noticed that alot of guys started as good guys till they are turned to beast me for instance..girls on the other hand has a very high percentage that started straight up as bad girls the remaining ones learnt from friends and sometimes siblings and mothers that won't stop telling them how they should bring the best man home(rich) .

In all I have learnt one thing "there is no good girl,girls move to satisfy their needs at that given time" and everyone should take responsibility for what they do and stop passing blame

debbydams:
Dating pool is now a mess right now, a big mess. If you are already married, God has saved you. If you are in a serious relationship with someone who's goin to marry you, you are very luck lucky.

A lot of us are in relationships but single, you think you are dating someone but the person is not even dating you. I think we need to talk about how damaged alot of us are, how materialistic we have become, how sex obsessed most of us are, how selfish?

"I deserve the best" yes you are but while you deserve the best , is your partner getting the best as well?

Our generation is just too selfish.
It is always about 'you'

You want your partner to accept you the way you are but you are a bag of negativity and emotional liability, you are unstable, you are selfish, you don't look inside, you never tell yourself the truth and you want your partner to accept you when you are not even ready to change.

But you want people to change for you but you're not willing to change for them in return. Isn't that selfishness?

No sincerity, No commitment, No honesty, No love, just expectations without reciprocation.

We keep blaming our partners for our mistakes..

There's no day we won't hear about divorce, domestic violence, bf killing gf, gf stabbing bf ,

How long will this continue?

It's tiring

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