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The Ordeal Of A Headmaster / “This Lady Inside The Bus Was Rubbing My Leg” – Man Narrates His Ordeal / Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship (2) (3) (4)
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Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Victerica(m): 5:34pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
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Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Angelfrost(m): 5:37pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
nenyewrites: Okay... But, wealthy guys still have these same relationship ordeals. |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by mirexxx(f): 5:38pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:lol I am worthy maiden o |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by NamelessOGBENI(m): 5:50pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Dear Muse, You never asked about my hustle, your daily meal was the attention you thirst for and as a young soldier up north fighting for his life daily it was difficult for me. Now you had the perfect excuse to serve the already weak relationship 'breakfast' because you and the family are at loggerheads. Right now, the battle and the busyness is over but I don't have the loads of attention to give again. Regards, A wounded soldier. Something tells me that I'm a bit umemotional when it comes to matters that touch the heart. 2 Likes |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by yinkbell: 5:55pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Tajbol4splend: They know Him through the Bible pages. He's a spirit being; you can Know Him by His words. He exalt His Words even more than His name! 1 Like |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Alexis11: 6:00pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
pansophist: You are deep. |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Boogyman557: 6:03pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Victerica:Holly Gram LoLz OGA u want make I RUN MAD! Na Everytime PESIN go de BLA WEED! I de ASHAWOO house.. Na CIGARETTE we de BLA 4 here... LITE UP my CIGARETTE in peace WTF MAN! |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by musicwriter(m): 6:04pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Moz22: Don't let anyone misdirect you. You're perfectly right choosing what works for you and leaving what doesn't. What works for me may not work for you. And what works for you may not work for me. Your approach is actually one of the best philosophy of life anyone should adopt if they want to find peace of mind in this chaotic world. 1 Like |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Victerica(m): 6:06pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Boogyman557: LoL.... Abeg ooo, no run mad... Enjoy your Ashawo and your cigarette WTF man 1 Like |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Nobody: 6:08pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Angelfrost: In Nigeria or outside Nigeria? |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Boogyman557: 6:09pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Victerica:Holly Gram thanks my Gee.. OYA COME carry ur own ASHAWOO.. Dem plenty 4 here.. WTF MAN! |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by pansophist(m): 6:17pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Alexis11: I'm pansophist |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by martinmiller: 6:21pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
DoctorOlasDesk: Lol, marrying a lady from some countries is loving especially if you find love in them. These species are one of a kind, kill the tendencies and the annoying part with love and understanding. I would prefer them to Nigeria ladies 5 times in a week. The good news is that love is so sweet if you find one, I experienced true love many times over but due to some factors I can't open here I would remain in the pool of knowing it to myself. However, we all need to be careful of everything called women, and besides I won't support your position of staying single forever, love will surely find you and suprise you someday. Cheers. |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Angelfrost(m): 6:22pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
nenyewrites: Everywhere, even here in Nigeria! |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by bepositive11: 6:23pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
dhiqson: So you allowed her to make you toxic - a redpiller You people need to learn how to heal and let go Don't let toxic people have as much power over you to the point of making you a toxic person too 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by dhiqson(m): 6:29pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
bepositive11: I wanted to reply you But you think being a red piller equals toxicity Aii bro God keep us all alive 1 Like |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Mrlouis: 6:38pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
YOU ATTRACT WHAT YOU ARE, NOT WHAT YOU WANT. 1 Like |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Loveknitting: 6:40pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Moz22: Whoa! 1 Like |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by bepositive11: 6:42pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
dhiqson: I don't think. I know Go and see how so called red pillers talk about women on this forum. So damn disgusting Those guys will never attract healthy women. Only toxic women will be attracted to them like flies |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by georgemarcus(m): 6:43pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Its so unfortunate your generation has used English; Social media and envy to kill what is known as ''True Love". My dear no one and i mean no in this country would tell you the truth that they are experiencing Love in True Love in their Relationship cum marriage. Why because; a lot ladies nowadays would tell you ''Love'' is Money and upon that some social media influenceers who are not even married or has tasted anything called Marriage would turn to be a Relationship Coach and Marriage Councillors and be talking rubbish. It could be he or she has had heart brake or even failed marriage would come online and be preaching rubbish about if you as a man don't have money you don't have to talk to a woman. As if when their fathers married their mothers they even have penny back then in their pocket. What has happened to ''True Love among Africans? Why did we allow the Westerners blind us with this alienated lifestyle. If you try to even emulate the medieval way of life you will be ridiculed and thrown muds at for not acting the trendy lifestyle of 'you must love money as a woman before you show love to a man. That is killing the decent system in choosing a wife. No young woman want to pay attention you as a young man who is struggling to meet uo with life. You will be regarded as a lazy fellow. You will be pushed to live a life you didnt bargained. You will be forced into a lifestyle your parents didnt introduced you into. You will have to start looking for a means of fast money to impress a girl or a young lady whom you dont want another man who is a bit better than you because he drives a car and you dont to take your woman from you. While the ones who are married into a home will be cajoled into seeking the attention of another man whom they think is richer or has properties than their husbands and can perform better financially not in the other room. What is wrong with Women? Why the pressure on men this days? Where is this blessings and favour that comes from ''he who findetth a good wife findeth a treasure and obtain favour from God''? Where is the Love we were once told of while growing up? There is so much decadence amongst men and women that need to be eschewed 3 Likes |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by GeneralPula: 6:48pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
NOwazobia: Nah people wey mature dey talk.. As in monikers wey I never see before.. E con dey gimme Joy.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Xmen149(m): 6:51pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
How many times have you gone out with a lady and she opted to pay. Or dating your heart desire and she thinks of you when she walks past a men's clothing shop(my guy will look good on this). But see them: "do you know that since I started dating this guy he has never bought...for me". Even the loveliest of girl will change if she enter certain environment(our recent generation of girls learnt not thing from mama so men continue playing the games they never stopped inventing). Your girl will give excuses of going out and doing love things with you but will be willing to do it with a new random guy(weda na adrenaline rush I don't know). My First girlfriend fkd my lil causin that was still in secondary school and still they pressure me for marriage. Another one I dated was telling me her ex paid her school fees bcs I didn't want to pay it. I was on the way with one to my family house to introduce to my fam and her ex she reconciled with won't stop calling and she refused to pick I diverted our movement to a bar follow her Play her game till e scatter. I have noticed that alot of guys started as good guys till they are turned to beast me for instance..girls on the other hand has a very high percentage that started straight up as bad girls the remaining ones learnt from friends and sometimes siblings and mothers that won't stop telling them how they should bring the best man home(rich) . In all I have learnt one thing "there is no good girl,girls move to satisfy their needs at that given time" and everyone should take responsibility for what they do and stop passing blame 9 Likes |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Raalsalghul: 6:52pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
martinmiller: Optimist! 2 Likes |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Nobody: 6:55pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Angelfrost: It's only in Nigeria o |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Kingosytex(m): 7:02pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
pansophist: Very apt. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by IJEYdiamond(f): 7:06pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Worse of all is that in this dating poll abi site as u call it more of Married men are there.. even more than single guys... So what does that tell u about their marriages?? some self go and showcase romantic pictures, videos of them and their spouses on social media handles.. and still go back to the dating sites... Seriously Men ehee una matter no dey finish at all...!! 1 Like |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Xmen149(m): 7:10pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
IJEYdiamond: Duh they are in high demand by the single and young ladies..Lol supply is limited though so girls rush them mostly if they provide what she needs |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by DoctorOlasDesk: 7:23pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
martinmiller: You uplifted my spirits brov. Thanks and Cheers. Cheers to true love in the midst of love famine |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Nobody: 7:26pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
debbydams:So now it is MEN and SOME ladies... Feminists like you should stay out of relationship to avoid damaging good men like us. |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Xmen149(m): 7:34pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Xmen149: The worst is the working class ladies the "what can he get me that I can't get my self" you dey earn 150k dey hope to see miracle money from time to time. Something you paid for nodey your man house you are in serious relationship. As I was typing one done send me message that I should take her to get cold stone tomorrow lol. And all this "I love my sister I will give her the best "crew dey follow up with real life talk to her too,cos the moment she get over comfortable she raise her bars and target in men and women time no dey,one day na you or your parents go frustrate am comot for house or start match making her. On Friday at clients house the wife's causin see me lose guard we talked to an extent the boyfriend was calling and she was busying the call and told me clearly it's her boyfriend.i was advising her to never get too comfortable(my client is rich) because she will always get the best to enjoy on so long she serves a purpose to that house(take care of kids,cook,clean or company).she was even telling me they want to teach her driving next week(it's clear this girl didn't even finish secondary school).And was talking on how she will marry a good rich man etc... Well since my advice wasn't yielding any fruit I joined her game and the rest is history,all this while the boyfriend calls are busied. I think I will write about my experience and sexcapad on a seperate thread.proberly when am married though..Lol. Forget true love,.we all joined hand and killed that helpless lady though the she gender should collect the highest blame biko 1 Like |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Muzikluva(m): 7:37pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
debbydams:I could give you a thousand kisses for this post! Very sensible and it’s actually the sad reality! |
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