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The Ordeal Of A Headmaster / “This Lady Inside The Bus Was Rubbing My Leg” – Man Narrates His Ordeal / Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship (2) (3) (4)
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Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by GUNITGuy: 7:49pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
pansophist:I had said this before the way it would hit most black women of this generation with time would be a crisis.....Very soon they would call for marital emergency and moral catastrophe that have pervaded the women of this generation would be worst that world war 2 |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by marttol: 7:53pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Tajbol4splend:SHUT UP |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by GeneralPula: 7:54pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
PreciousBro: Talk full for here oo Boss.. |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Alvinonetus(m): 8:26pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Well, for me I think social media is 80% the cause of it... Because before d era of social media, d level of relationship abuse was seen... Before u go into relationship then, u must have a second thought about it... But now, reverse is d case.... 1 Like |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by pansophist(m): 8:27pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
GUNITGuy: Will you blame them? Honestly, I sympathize with women sometimes. I'll explain. When a female child is born, she started being valuable instantly. From the age of 13, she is desired by guys generally, music worships her, and every business targets her because she will rope in men to spend (eg, cinema). She is a child and all this attention are coming to her, not from her own hard work but just because she has the "f" gender. Same age frame young boys are facing suicidal rejections, for her, it's general acceptance and worship. At that age, the sad reality is teaching boys valuable life skills such as dealing with rejections, being invincible, having to initiate, self-development, juggling the demands from yourself, others and God forbid, materialistic girlfriend. But in that painful experiences, he finds himself. This existential hardship though painful, fortifies him and makes him a tough nut, and this crucial skills will lead him to live a good life. But for the women, many have gone through life on easy-mode, and have spoilt beyond repair without knowing. She has adopted all kinds of disgraceful attitudes such as entitlement, selfishness, high body count, being materialistic, emotional baggage, that mere mentioning of concept such as responsibility and accountability sounds like ancient Arabic. She has grown from childhood to maturity by others being responsible for her, while she can't be to herself, talk more to a man. And you know what's ironic? She believe she is matured now. Now she knows what she wants, and any man that can't commit is a manchild who is afraid of responsibility. She has spiritually grown, and ready to settle down. And of course, men should ignore her past and "man-up". She can be broke, no problem, it's the heart that matters and it's a man duty to provide. She now has all the skills in her ammo to spin conversations in her favours. But this is a result of disconnecting the female child from the broader culture, where she is free, and can do what she wants. This is the consequence of what is known as "sexual liberation". Sadly, she suffers more, and this had become so normal in society, how much our culture have fallen. Sadly. 18 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by martinmiller: 8:28pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
DoctorOlasDesk: Yeah, in the midst of love famine that line got me .. |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by bepositive11: 8:54pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Mrlouis: Exactly! A lot of people here don't realise this If you keep attracting toxic people, the person you need to look at is yourself. You are part of the problem A lot of people here want true love, but how many of them can even offer true love in the first place? You attract what you are, not what you want, indeed |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Offpoint1: 9:01pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
omooluorun:Una no like to dey face reality, that's my problem with religious people. God gave Eve to Adam directly himself, yet she was responsible for his downfall. Let's face reality, wether God gives you a wife or you picked it yourself... A marriage that Will fail will fail 2 Likes |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Offpoint1: 9:05pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Tajbol4splend:Dey shit dey vex me, Dem no wan dey face reality. Na God give Adam Eve himself, we know sey Eve was responsible for Adam's downfall |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Nobody: 9:22pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
debbydams: . |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Nobody: 9:24pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Legendoo: what exactly is your meaning of the term " wokeness". |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by learnedJAMES(m): 10:11pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Ideal relationship is seriously in short supply |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Horlhamhi(f): 10:22pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Oh wow! We have matured responses on this thread... from what I've read so far. |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Moz22: 10:33pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
musicwriter:thanks bruh, I made that comment last year and I can tell u that from that moment till now, the kind of peace that has enveloped my life can't be overemphasized.. 2 Likes |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by The5DME(m): 10:44pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
pansophist:Write about the topic please. |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by djon78(m): 10:48pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
pansophist: Ah panso panso my wise sage guy. What you just wrote is a summary of this whole topic The one that doesn't lack these virtues is the one that will suffer, truly But the question is how will those that have been exposed to this debacle, redeem themselves? Very many are on these Lane |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by djon78(m): 10:57pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
franchasng: This is the conclusion of the whole matter 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by pansophist(m): 10:57pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
djon78: Can you paraphrase the question? I don't get it clearly. What do you mean by ''debacle''? break it down. |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by pansophist(m): 10:58pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
The5DME: About the ''deregulation of the sexual marketplace''? Sure I will. |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Arrowss(m): 11:10pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
The following are the problems: 1. Most people don't know what love is, thats why you see them use these words; "love is not enough" 2. Most people put out everything for sale or believe everything can be bought with money. 3. Impatience 4. Pride 5. Unsatiability 6. Expects perfectness. 7. Most doesn't believe true love exists, where as, it does. If you think I don't know what am saying, continue running In a circle. 3 Likes |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by djon78(m): 11:13pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
pansophist: Debacle I meant was those ones exposed to valueless people most especially in long term relationships But franchng gave a close reply to it though I later saw his reply |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by victons(m): 11:33pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
debbydams:Okay, come let's be hitting. |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Karlovych: 2:17am On Mar 20, 2022 |
victons:On one of the rare cases a meaningful thread graced the front page you chose to display your stupidity, shame on you. |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Kobojunkie: 2:21am On Mar 20, 2022 |
Arrowss:All of these signals of social Immaturity in the Individuals in question. |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Kobojunkie: 2:28am On Mar 20, 2022 |
PreciousBro:The Bible said no such! Pulling God's name of the Bible down in to the muck that is you does not legitimize the hogwash that is the claims you make. Learn to leave God out of it all abeg! 1 Like |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Youngpo413: 3:03am On Mar 20, 2022 |
zed7:that favorite package though... |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Youngpo413: 3:14am On Mar 20, 2022 |
debbydams:People will continue to suffer in relationshipships and marriage until they learn to love the one who loves them....and not the one they love.... One of those guys that you are insulting probably might be the who can show you true love...but hey! He is not your type,funny enough,your 'type' won't keep you either,he will dump you after fùcking your pùs 1 Like |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by PreciousBro: 5:27am On Mar 20, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Don't be a crybaby full of ignorance you sentimental nitwit. The mere fact you expect the removal of God in the matter is a testament to your brainlessness. All you needed to do was ask the scripture and I'll submit it. From your pain, I can tell you lack God in your life. Why don't we also take away the air you breathe huh ? Like how dense could you be to not see the God-factor in everything ?And I need no further clarification on your misguided feministic idealism you lover of ojoro lifestyle of living. How can you be this dumb to disbelieve without any proof to refute that scripture? So you rather believe I made it up on a popular forum as Nairaland where every scarecrow as yourself, every scholar as myself could quote me for further verification on it ? Just say you wanna learn and I'll teach your uneducated ignorant self. Nonsense. As if that's the only salient point made in my post that you had to display such lacklustre in an attempt to quote me. Olodo! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by PreciousBro: 5:50am On Mar 20, 2022 |
Dear OP, Another thing you have to consider is that, most women don't know the exact way to appeal to the emotions/feelings of men. They do so in the wrongful way. Despite their so called cerebral achievements in degrees or qualifications they lack the basic knowledge of human interpersonal relationship. Reasonable men get irritated by their showoff of absolute anemia. Imagine being aloof and expecting some attention at the same time. Good men value their time, yours however, will be wasted with unserious acquaintance. 2 Likes |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Obesity(m): 6:05am On Mar 20, 2022 |
Majority of people in relationships are just aggressive and toxic. The expectations in relationships now is becoming too much. If you are calm and peaceful you might actually meet someone who's very toxic as a result of past relationships. Instead of getting heal after a broken relationship, you are using your new relationship as payback to the pains you experienced in your previous relationship. Some ladies are just too toxic and not ready to be committed in a relationship.. Some guys on the other hands are just too stupid. How can you be beating a girl you said you love? Una de misbehave for this relationship tin self o. Love wen de sweet na una go de kill una self put. If it's not working please walk away. Don't be toxic or aggressive 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Lincolnburrows(m): 6:08am On Mar 20, 2022 |
PreciousBro:Oga where the thing dey for bible? Stop prevarication. 1 Like |
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