Chochovini:
. True, but its easier said than done for the girls. Thats why a guy can go out of his way to do anything just to impress a lady he intend to woo, even if it would require borrowing.

But for me, I don‘t do that. I can‘t live a pretentious lifestyle just to impress any lady.

I believe that, whoever you are, somebody out there must like you the way you are. So if you don‘t measure up to a certain standard, don‘t fake it. Be real you.
Have a splendid Sunday evening.

Gracias. Have a great week ahead

oldienavie:
I clocked 36 years 2 months ago, I look fit for my age compared to many Nigerians(I realised most Nigerians don't pay attention to their physical fitness).
I have been outside of the country and just got back intending to try to get a wife.
Am I too old to expect to find a decent woman?
What suggestions do you have with regards to getting a good woman in the shortest possible time?
Thanks all.

In my opinion, I'd suggest you don't set out to look for marriage in desperation to avoid making the wrong choice. You know what you want in a wife yeah? If you ask me, I'll say, seek genuine friendship(s), then, tick your boxes as you go. Within a short time, you'd be shocked at some people you get to befriend. Truth is, there are so many damaged men and women out there who also seek a "good person/marriage" as such, they'd go to any length pretending just to capture one. But with friendship without early disclosure of your intention for quick marriage, the chances of landing a wrong choice is minimal. Nonetheless, we can't rule out the place of you being what you want as well. And pray too. All the best!

PDJT:


-Sure, it is. Don’t ever shy away from it. I used to be in the lifestyle (swinging) before I settled for it - the best decision I ever made.

Great

No time is late your happiness in marriage is the ultimate.

AutoChick4U:
ok

-So about your personality, you admitted to be “quiet”. Right? Are you also “reserved”, “rigid”, “unsociable” and “pessimistic”?

-Meanwhile, I would like you to open a thread about “Married women, who elope after being sponsored by their hubby to travel abroad”. I’m quite keen to know what they do with themselves in the foreign countries after the separation. It must be quite difficult for them especially if they also have children. I understand husband is scarce abroad too, especially for African women.

aim14:


In my opinion, I'd suggest you don't set out to look for marriage in desperation to avoid making the wrong choice. You know what you want in a wife yeah? If you ask me, I'll say, seek genuine friendship(s), then, tick your boxes as you go. Within a short time, you'd be shocked at some people you get to befriend. Truth is, there are so many damaged men and women out there who also seek a "good person/marriage" as such, they'd go to any length pretending just to capture one. But with friendship without early disclosure of your intention for quick marriage, the chances of landing a wrong choice is minimal. Nonetheless, we can't rule out the place of you being what you want as well. And pray too. All the best!

-You seem genuine too. Why don’t you ask him out?

PDJT:


-So about your personality, you admitted to be “quiet”. Right? Are you also “reserved”, “rigid”, “unsociable” and “pessimistic”?

-Meanwhile, I would like you to open a thread about “Married women, who elope after being sponsored by their hubby to travel abroad”. I’m quite keen to know what they do with themselves in the foreign countries after the separation. It must be quite difficult for them especially if they also have children. I understand husband is scarce abroad too, especially for African women.

You going all psychologist on me huh?
You won't get any data from such topic on NL.

AutoChick4U:
Great

-I guess you’re in your 30s and live with your parents or family member?

PDJT:


-I guess you’re in your 30s and live with your parents or family member?

.

AutoChick4U:
You going all psychologist on me huh?
You won't get any data from such topic on NL.

-What’s your educational major? Don’t tell me you only have your NEPA Bill.

-Open the thread first and mention me.

AutoChick4U:
Yes!!! Still dialing God's phone

-Ok. All work and no play makes AutoChick a dull girl. So how old are you again?

My advice; don't let age pressurise you to rush. That might be your worst mistake. Many people who rush because of age, most times carry igi eleera!

PDJT:


-What’s your educational major? Don’t tell me you only have your NEPA Bill.

-Open the thread first and mention me.

How about you open d thread? You'll get more views and responses.

PDJT:


-Ok. All work and no play makes AutoChick a dull girl. So how old are you again?

And he wants me to lay bare all on Nairaland. A forum filled with unscrupulous disrespectful beings. Have a good day pls

Iyaebe:
I consider 36 as a very young age for a man to get married considering the fact that most men in their 20's are nothing to write home about.You are good to go.

Well, men in their 20's are as useless as single women at age 30 and above.

Why not let God lead you?

oldienavie:
I clocked 36 years 2 months ago, I look fit for my age compared to many Nigerians(I realised most Nigerians dont pay attention to their physical fitness).
I have been outside of the country and just got back with the aim of trying to get a wife.
Am I too old to expect to find a decent woman ?
What suggestions do you have with regards to getting a good woman in the shortest possible time ?
Thanks all.

You Said you came back outside The country to look for a wife, go ahead as I don't see anything late here

PDJT:


-You seem genuine too. Why don’t you ask him out?

Hahaha�. Just giving an opinion on the topic like everyone else.

NOT TOO LATE IF YOU HAVE ALL THE REQUIREMENTS . FOR BETTER FOR WORSE IS A SCAM . MY WISE WORDS FOR YOU BRO "NO FINANCE NO ROMANCE " NO SHEY I NO TELL YOU OO . NO FUGACCII

oldienavie:
I clocked 36 years 2 months ago, I look fit for my age compared to many Nigerians(I realised most Nigerians dont pay attention to their physical fitness).
I have been outside of the country and just got back with the aim of trying to get a wife.
Am I too old to expect to find a decent woman ?
What suggestions do you have with regards to getting a good woman in the shortest possible time ?
Thanks all.

AutoChick4U:
And he wants me to lay bare all on Nairaland. A forum filled with unscrupulous disrespectful beings. Have a good day pls

-You could drop me a private message with your mobile phone number in it.

-I think most people here just like their banter, that’s all. Don’t take things here too personal- it’s all bants!

U are at ur prime notting like too late..pray for God to give u a good wife

Unless you wabt referrals if not why give yourself a time frame for the search? You might just settle for anything. Pray about it which is the most important thing, go out-could be church or other social places, relax and who knows love might come find you. I agree on being decent and not showing off, but don't over do it such as wearing bathroom slippers like someone suggested. You might just mess it up. Good luck to you in your search

oldienavie:

I am actually avoiding the referral option, but how is church a bad place to get a wife, I understand there are pretenders even in church sha ?
By the way, I am not exposing my abroad status I am just laying low like a regular guy.

Bro if you are looking for a decent human being who can be a wife to you in a traditional sense, I'd recommend you try outside of Lagos. Personally, I think you should move base to Akwa Ibom. There are good ladies in Lagos of course, but given as your time horizon is short for the purpose of your objective, please consider babes outside Lagos too.

Date 5 girls .
Hack all their WhatsApp accounts.
That way you be left with like two options.
Even that two sef, comma go. Still dey

aim14:


Hahaha�. Just giving an opinion on the topic like everyone else.

-So you want him to go and chose someone else, when genuine personality like you is still single as well? C’mon! be real- this is 21st century! Ask him out.

oldienavie:
I clocked 36 years 2 months ago, I look fit for my age compared to many Nigerians(I realised most Nigerians dont pay attention to their physical fitness).
I have been outside of the country and just got back with the aim of trying to get a wife.
Am I too old to expect to find a decent woman ?
What suggestions do you have with regards to getting a good woman in the shortest possible time ?
Thanks all.

This is actually d best time for you to pick a wife or better put, a life partner. At least u don get small experience of wetin life de about. The downside is, you are growing old. By d time you'll be 70, your first born would be 33 or there about and that's on d assumption that God blesses you people fast with kids. I wish you the best.

AutoChick4U:
How about you open d thread? You'll get more views and responses.

-Because such thread by a woman will be like a safe-space for the women to have a decent honest conversation. I will just be supporting you in order to learn new things. Thanks for doing the needful.

As a man, your prime starts at 45. You are just 36 and still have ~ 9 years before you reach your prime. Relax, take your time, and you will soon find a feminine, fit, cooperative, attractive, inspirational, and submissive wife.

oldienavie:
I clocked 36 years 2 months ago, I look fit for my age compared to many Nigerians(I realised most Nigerians dont pay attention to their physical fitness).
I have been outside of the country and just got back with the aim of trying to get a wife.
Am I too old to expect to find a decent woman ?
What suggestions do you have with regards to getting a good woman in the shortest possible time ?
Thanks all.

-If you managed to find a virgin for a wife, please come back to this thread and mention me for a gift of £1,000.00.

-Good luck!

Se as this guy has generated enough traffic for this people.
I hope they paid you.

Now you are looking for a wife after being pregnant last 3 months.

Only u.
Mbok

PDJT:


-So you want him to go and chose someone else, when genuine personality like you is still single as well? C’mon! be real- this is 21st century! Ask him out.

You must be very sure of my status��