| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Nyenatetan(m): 2:08pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
Oh! Man Your room no get flaws that much that that someone will say it's a sithole nan, 
Meeen ! See the painting
The curtains and even
The carpet ,
Bro, you'rerocking good to go.
As you said earlier, Ladies are the least on the list of expectations now,
You can get that room decorated when you've secured your desired Job
Babe wey no go gree for you now ,make she no show face when you don the cash out big ooo.
Small , small, life na journey.  1 Like |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Nwachi22(f): 2:08pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
Supreme145:
I was on my own chilling jejely when my next door neighbor knocked on my door, he said I wanted movies so I let him into my room reluctantly. I hardly relate with my co tenant's beyond hi hi greeting so I was kinda uncomfortable letting him into my room.
He sat down and had this bewildered look on his face, the next thing I heard was, Bros omo you get mind dey stay inside this kind empty room o, so na ontop this kind flat bed you dey run all these your babes wey dey come see you ehhn....nawao you be badt guy oo. So na ontop this bed that one wey get big nyash dey even lie down with all slay queen shakara. He kept blabbing while I kept silent, I asked him so even if I want to buy a better it should be because of ladies baa, and he said ehhhn now, how you go dey run matters on top this mat. This someone that I gave transport fare to go and meet someone he said was owning him.
He kept quizzing me on how I'm able to attract ladies despite the vaguely furnished room, I went on to tell him that girls are not my problem now. Moreover I'm not dating most of them, I run projects for people so some of them are people I'm working for.
Even though I've developed a tough skin to this kind of negative comments, I was upset though I masked my embarrassment. But why do some guys feel everything must be to impress ladies, I for one don't have time for them and I'm fully focused of sharpening my programming skills in order to get a job before the year runs out so I can renew my rent by January. For someone that was once homeless and slept in lecture halls, this my current place is like a duplex to me, and how I got this place is still a miracle to me.
Hence my question is the room really that bad? I've visited some friends and my room is nothing to write home about. Is it so bad that the guy feels I am not worthy to have a girlfriend just because of it?
Ladies can you date or marry a guy living in this kind of apartment? Your room is perfectly okay, so long as it gives you peace of mind when you’re inside it. 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Egein(m): 2:11pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
This is a poor ga'y ashawo room. |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by ThickSharon123(f): 2:12pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
Supreme145:
I was on my own chilling jejely when my next door neighbor knocked on my door, he said I wanted movies so I let him into my room reluctantly. I hardly relate with my co tenant's beyond hi hi greeting so I was kinda uncomfortable letting him into my room.
He sat down and had this bewildered look on his face, the next thing I heard was, Bros omo you get mind dey stay inside this kind empty room o, so na ontop this kind flat bed you dey run all these your babes wey dey come see you ehhn....nawao you be badt guy oo. So na ontop this bed that one wey get big nyash dey even lie down with all slay queen shakara. He kept blabbing while I kept silent, I asked him so even if I want to buy a better it should be because of ladies baa, and he said ehhhn now, how you go dey run matters on top this mat. This someone that I gave transport fare to go and meet someone he said was owning him.
He kept quizzing me on how I'm able to attract ladies despite the vaguely furnished room, I went on to tell him that girls are not my problem now. Moreover I'm not dating most of them, I run projects for people so some of them are people I'm working for.
Even though I've developed a tough skin to this kind of negative comments, I was upset though I masked my embarrassment. But why do some guys feel everything must be to impress ladies, I for one don't have time for them and I'm fully focused of sharpening my programming skills in order to get a job before the year runs out so I can renew my rent by January. For someone that was once homeless and slept in lecture halls, this my current place is like a duplex to me, and how I got this place is still a miracle to me.
Hence my question is the room really that bad? I've visited some friends and my room is nothing to write home about. Is it so bad that the guy feels I am not worthy to have a girlfriend just because of it?
Ladies can you date or marry a guy living in this kind of apartment? At least change the bed. |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:12pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
God1000:
That's outrageous, I guess you're from a privileged home, maybe you should ask your parents how they started. I wasn't born in a very privileged home but affliction shall never rise again the second time. 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Thazard(m): 2:12pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
Agricmoney:
Nothing dey there na. Na just to buy wall paper wey fine put for the house come buy 32" TV hang am for wall come put coloured bulb.e sure me say no babe go enter there wey no go like am.EVERYTHING NA PACKAGING
, Agriculture is life
Please explain the bolded. |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by bigcee(m): 2:13pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
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| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by joyandfaith: 2:13pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
Datboredberry:
The guy living in this sort of apartment shouldn't even think of getting married.
Financial stability is as relevant as love... If not more...
As for dating, ofcourse! Somehow, it's fun...
I remember, I dated guy who invited me to his friend's home... Just like this!
There was a colourful mat on the floor... A bulb... It gave off a dim red light... I still think it was insanely romantic...
But I didn't love the guy tho... We spent minutes, he tried to get me to take off my clothes... With I was wriggling, trying to escape his tight grip on my waist... 
Your neighbour is an idiot... For shaming your condition... Funny enough, it's men who set such high standards for themselves...
There are millions of ladies who wouldn't care what your home looks like... Damn! If your personality is great... I wouldn't mind if it's a mud house... Just enjoy the company...
If I date men in your condition... And I sincerely love him... them we would work together to build a better home...
But I definitely would not make you feel small... My own parents have been in situations where this would have been a castle... 
And, bad times don't last... Just do your sh**... Avoid entitled hoes and don't let all the negative energy from your dumbass male friends get to you... Okay?
There are decent women.. Good point apart from bolded. |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by ComeToJesus: 2:13pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
Datboredberry:
The guy living in this sort of apartment shouldn't even think of getting married.
Financial stability is as relevant as love... If not more...
As for dating, ofcourse! Somehow, it's fun...
I remember, I dated guy who invited me to his friend's home... Just like this!
There was a colourful mat on the floor... A bulb... It gave off a dim red light... I still think it was insanely romantic...
But I didn't love the guy tho... We spent minutes, he tried to get me to take off my clothes... With I was wriggling, trying to escape his tight grip on my waist...
Your neighbour is an idiot... For shaming your condition... Funny enough, it's men who set such high standards for themselves...
There are millions of ladies who wouldn't care what your home looks like... Damn! If your personality is great... I wouldn't mind if it's a mud house... Just enjoy the company...
If I date men in your condition... And I sincerely love him... them we would work together to build a better home...
But I definitely would not make you feel small... My own parents have been in situations where this would have been a castle...
And, bad times don't last... Just do your sh**... Avoid entitled hoes and don't let all the negative energy from your dumbass male friends get to you... Okay?
There are decent women.. So much virtue dripping from this post. You must be endowed with a beautiful persona. |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by ComeToJesus: 2:15pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
Just try and get carpet to cover the bed area |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by KingMilan(m): 2:15pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
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| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by slimjohn2k5: 2:18pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
This question must be coming from a lady. If you build his dream with him, u both will live in a mansion. |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by davidque: 2:18pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
I admire your outlook and focus in life..........but bros that room no get shindine inside nau. At least save up to get a decent mattress for health reasons and better comfort not for showoff, every other thing is manageable |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by God1000(m): 2:19pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
UyaiIncomparabl:
I wasn't born in a very privileged home but affliction shall never rise again the second time. You don't sound like someone that went through the mill, your comment is insensitive. 4 Likes |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Joe4real1988(m): 2:21pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
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| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by seyz91(m): 2:22pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
You no lie Erection nowadays dey very very expensive Supreme145:
About knacking kee?? lol......na person wey get joy dey get erection. |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by 77up(m): 2:23pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
There is time for improvement, don't be discouraged.
I remember after my nysc, I left to Abuja to manage with a friend. When I got my first job, the pay was 35k, my friend started changing it for me base on say his girlfriend is coming around from their as State, I see hell, locking me out unnecessary!
The day I was able to raised from my peanut salary to get a room , the condition at which I stayed in that room for some months before I could be able to get some other stuff, your room is luxurious compare to mine and upon that , the peace I have is out of this world.
.....and going forward,glory be to God! 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Femeto: 2:23pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
Supreme145:
I was on my own chilling jejely when my next door neighbor knocked on my door, he said I wanted movies so I let him into my room reluctantly. I hardly relate with my co tenant's beyond hi hi greeting so I was kinda uncomfortable letting him into my room.
He sat down and had this bewildered look on his face, the next thing I heard was, Bros omo you get mind dey stay inside this kind empty room o, so na ontop this kind flat bed you dey run all these your babes wey dey come see you ehhn....nawao you be badt guy oo. So na ontop this bed that one wey get big nyash dey even lie down with all slay queen shakara. He kept blabbing while I kept silent, I asked him so even if I want to buy a better it should be because of ladies baa, and he said ehhhn now, how you go dey run matters on top this mat. This someone that I gave transport fare to go and meet someone he said was owning him.
He kept quizzing me on how I'm able to attract ladies despite the vaguely furnished room, I went on to tell him that girls are not my problem now. Moreover I'm not dating most of them, I run projects for people so some of them are people I'm working for.
Even though I've developed a tough skin to this kind of negative comments, I was upset though I masked my embarrassment. But why do some guys feel everything must be to impress ladies, I for one don't have time for them and I'm fully focused of sharpening my programming skills in order to get a job before the year runs out so I can renew my rent by January. For someone that was once homeless and slept in lecture halls, this my current place is like a duplex to me, and how I got this place is still a miracle to me.
Hence my question is the room really that bad? I've visited some friends and my room is nothing to write home about. Is it so bad that the guy feels I am not worthy to have a girlfriend just because of it?
Ladies can you date or marry a guy living in this kind of apartment? American prison fine pass this house. |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by seyz91(m): 2:24pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
 Jeremani:
Omo nothing do ur crip na small small Toto dey wide |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by seyz91(m): 2:24pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
Good question thesicilian:
You should ask the ladies how many of them can afford such an apartment in the first place. 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Stargurl20(f): 2:24pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
Why not. He's even organized. 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by seyz91(m): 2:25pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
Facts only MrBrownJay1:
it seems the person dowgraded their bed to a smaller mattress... but as many out there are homeless etc, this is a castle compare to others. |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by hansomb: 2:25pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
As a bachelor I think that's okay. Simplicity, neat, tidy and not materialism. 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by onyenatruchi: 2:25pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
Yoruba people dey sleep for bed  Na floor dem dey sleep na and their ladies like it Wella  it's not new in Yoruba Land they are used to it their Ladies ain't complaining |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by angelfallz(m): 2:25pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
Why you dey knack babe for floor? temitope27:
Even me wey I get better bed sef, I still dey knack babe for floor |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by neonly: 2:27pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
Datboredberry:
The guy living in this sort of apartment shouldn't even think of getting married.
Financial stability is as relevant as love... If not more...
As for dating, ofcourse! Somehow, it's fun...
I remember, I dated guy who invited me to his friend's home... Just like this!
There was a colourful mat on the floor... A bulb... It gave off a dim red light... I still think it was insanely romantic...
But I didn't love the guy tho... We spent minutes, he tried to get me to take off my clothes... With I was wriggling, trying to escape his tight grip on my waist...
Your neighbour is an idiot... For shaming your condition... Funny enough, it's men who set such high standards for themselves...
There are millions of ladies who wouldn't care what your home looks like... Damn! If your personality is great... I wouldn't mind if it's a mud house... Just enjoy the company...
If I date men in your condition... And I sincerely love him... them we would work together to build a better home...
But I definitely would not make you feel small... My own parents have been in situations where this would have been a castle...
And, bad times don't last... Just do your sh**... Avoid entitled hoes and don't let all the negative energy from your dumbass male friends get to you... Okay?
There are decent women.. U are definitely a good woman make Jehovah bless yur hustle Keep it up |
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| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by my5andtom2: 2:28pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
O boy people are really going through a lot. I can’t believe someone is living inside this room. Me wey Dey big 4 bedroom duplex alone self still need somewhere with big parking space and big pool. My advice to you bro. Enter street and leave all this education shit. Education can’t take you far in Nigeria. My ten cent 4 Likes |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by onyenatruchi: 2:28pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
temitope27:
Even me wey I get better bed sef, I still dey knack babe for floor You have said it all that's Yoruba for you 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by seguno2: 2:28pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
Datboredberry:
The guy living in this sort of apartment shouldn't even think of getting married.
Financial stability is as relevant as love... If not more...
As for dating, ofcourse! Somehow, it's fun...
I remember, I dated guy who invited me to his friend's home... Just like this!
There was a colourful mat on the floor... A bulb... It gave off a dim red light... I still think it was insanely romantic...
But I didn't love the guy tho... We spent minutes, he tried to get me to take off my clothes... With I was wriggling, trying to escape his tight grip on my waist...
Your neighbour is an idiot... For shaming your condition... Funny enough, it's men who set such high standards for themselves...
There are millions of ladies who wouldn't care what your home looks like... Damn! If your personality is great... I wouldn't mind if it's a mud house... Just enjoy the company...
If I date men in your condition... And I sincerely love him... them we would work together to build a better home...
But I definitely would not make you feel small... My own parents have been in situations where this would have been a castle...
And, bad times don't last... Just do your sh**... Avoid entitled hoes and don't let all the negative energy from your dumbass male friends get to you... Okay?
There are decent women.. There should be more wise women like you on this nairaland. Nice one. A thousand likes. |
| Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Orgym(m): 2:28pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
Datboredberry:
The guy living in this sort of apartment shouldn't even think of getting married.
Financial stability is as relevant as love... If not more...
As for dating, ofcourse! Somehow, it's fun...
I remember, I dated guy who invited me to his friend's home... Just like this!
There was a colourful mat on the floor... A bulb... It gave off a dim red light... I still think it was insanely romantic...
But I didn't love the guy tho... We spent minutes, he tried to get me to take off my clothes... With I was wriggling, trying to escape his tight grip on my waist...
Your neighbour is an idiot... For shaming your condition... Funny enough, it's men who set such high standards for themselves...
There are millions of ladies who wouldn't care what your home looks like... Damn! If your personality is great... I wouldn't mind if it's a mud house... Just enjoy the company...
If I date men in your condition... And I sincerely love him... them we would work together to build a better home...
But I definitely would not make you feel small... My own parents have been in situations where this would have been a castle...
And, bad times don't last... Just do your sh**... Avoid entitled hoes and don't let all the negative energy from your dumbass male friends get to you... Okay?
There are decent women.. Best comments ever from a Lady on Nairaland. 1 Like |
