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Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by InvertedHammer: 5:04pm On Dec 02, 2021
SSpeter:
Dear Guys

I am writing to formally inform you to ensure you painstakingly and meticulously examine the type of guys your girlfriend has dated in the past. Please and please don't fall for the scam of " my past stays in the past". Dig the past, scrutinize all you have unearthed before you finally propose.

I saw a former colleague recently and he was almost a shadow of himself. He narrated how he is just recuperating from all his loses. He said his Church revealed to him that his wife is a pipe that keeps sucking his wealth and remitting his resources to the yahoo guy that performed the ritual on her. He explained how his logistics company crumbled and I almost cried. He said the court officially dissolved their marriage on a Friday, on Wednesday (the following week), a small reputable company gave him an offer to head their supply chain unit.

Please and please do not touch any lady that a Yahoo boy/man has touched. Fortunately they no longer hide their rituals. Please as an ambitious young man, dig into your potential wife's past. Know her dating history and the type of people she has dated.

Approximately 5 years ago there was this guy that invited us to a treat after his wedding while we were chilling someone asked him how did you meet your spouse he said "we met on a plane". To cut to the chase, the guy met a lady that a sugar Daddy was sponsoring to Dubai and "wifed" her. How can you meet a lady in business class who has no real job and the parents can not afford a 1999 Toyota and you say na she you wan marry? Although him body tell am and he advised himself.

As an ambitious young man the final trap ahead is your partner. Guide your steps towards marriage jealousy. The signs are always there. Your downfall begins when you marry an unfortunate person. I have seen someone who earns 650k monthly dismissed because of cheque issued on an unfunded account (No be juju be that?) He said the pressure from his wife was becoming unbearable. This was same wife that was catered for by a Sugar Daddy before the mumuni "wifed" her.

Finally, I will advise you to take this piece of advice: start digging. Never date a yahoo or sugar Daddy by-product. Your college girlfriend is using a premium iPhone and you know quite well that the parents are poor and she often calls you for bailout funds and you think one magical uncle gave her the phone?

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So finance is your only concern? What about the ones that had multiple abortions in their previous relationships resulting in scarred womb? The couple will end up in Shiloh and many ubiquitous prayer houses without the husband knowing that
he procured a damaged product.

Inside life!

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Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by Ikpunekenwa(m): 5:07pm On Dec 02, 2021
SmartPolician:


You didn't answer Dangrace01's question.
On the other hand, Wealthinwealth1 is telling some tales by moonlight. undecided

Dangrace01, one truth nobody tells us is that nobody questions or tells God what to do (Romans 9:20). He does whatever He wants and your emotions don't move Him one bit.

To make matters worse, PSalm 90:4 says that a thousand years to us is like a day before God. This means that you can pray for something for years, but God will not answer because it appears to Him like you are praying about it the same day.

Wealth creation has principles, so you must do your bit first before getting God involved. Work hard, stay creative, ensure you have good skills, persevere, etc. When you have done your part, ask God to come in and perfect it. He may or may not, because He does whatever He likes. The truth is that there are certain prayers God will never answer because He knows that you will abuse the positive result. Know that and know peace. That's partly why God will never answer some prayers and you may be forced to try babalawo or ara nwanyi Asaba. grin

As for what the OP talked about, I have nothing to contribute to it.

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Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by Ikpunekenwa(m): 5:07pm On Dec 02, 2021
CandyOps:
Another thread for superstitious folks. A thread for people wey there brain no dey function well because spiritual matter done take up memory space

Imagine this unfortunate spineless man blaming his wife for his misfortunes in business and life in general without even pointing fingers to the main cause- himself.

Nothing dey vex me like when adult go blame spirit for him misfortunes and bad luck because him no say spirit no fit talk or defend themselves. So instead of taking responsibility and handling his finances like a man him go rather blame juju.

Religion is wrecking havoc on us.
No where in this long post did the OP ask the man how he spends his money and how much he makes... No financial responsibility whatsoever recorded.

I've gone from earning 2m monthly to zero.
I was suicidal. Started doing weed and ashawos just to take my mind off things.

But it only gave me temporal relief till I took the bull by the horns and tackled my demons head-on. The more Africans and Nigerians keep relying on spirits for something as simple as a financial growth the more we sink into backwardness and rot.

Religion done kill our willpower and thought process. Na why one old hag of man or woman go tie red cloth or hold Bible do small acting for una tell una say una wahala na spiritual una go believe because we are too weak to hold ourselves responsible.

Weak spineless men wey no sabi their roots everywhere. I just feel complete utter disgust for this fellow not because he is lost but because he doesn't even know how far lost he is.

Money/income does not have a spiritual connection. If it does Nigeria would be the richest country on Earth. Right diagnosis is half the cure.

Why on earth will a man in his right senses consult a witch doctor or a priest for financial advice when we have people who's actual job is Financial Accounting??

It's like having the manager of a football club consult a DJ for technical advice on how to win the football league.. its all shades of wrong and makes no sense...

Yet we do this every single day and expect some kind of magic to happen. Sometimes I'm forced to think we aren't ready for any real change in Nigeria and Africa but then I understand the bigger picture -- keep them illiterates, uneducated, religious and divided. So the looting and syphoning of our nations wealth will keep on.

No wonder Boko Haram agenda na to kill education in it's totality. This country is already boiling over. Those kids born without proper education in the North years back are all doing big business as Kidnappers and bandits today

Na them de influence the elections and political decisions of this country. Yet una still dey fuel superstition and backward religious beliefs over free-thinking, understanding the importance and capabilities of the human brain when fully empowered.
.

.this continent (not just the country) is completely exhausting. Nothing is structured to help you evolve and grow.

Beautifulest

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Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by hopefulLandlord: 5:08pm On Dec 02, 2021
driand:
since it's all fallacy and superstition let's do a quick test, inbox me your full name, (real name) let me show you something... Till the day u die you will never forget this day... I'll use u for litmus test and others like you will learn...

I'd inbox you mine BUT on one condition. you'd tell me what would happen to me and the specific time it would happen. Deal?

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Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by tydi(m): 5:09pm On Dec 02, 2021
Pataricatering:
yes nah - Evans too marry nah .. shekau sef get wife .. mumu like you

You have a prob with me
Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by Grupo(m): 5:09pm On Dec 02, 2021
hopefulLandlord:


I'd inbox you mine BUT on one condition. you'd tell me what would happen to me and the specific time it would happen. Deal?

It's about to get interesting. cheesy
Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by MrColdsweat: 5:10pm On Dec 02, 2021
Wahala for who no marry virgin.

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Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by Mom007(f): 5:11pm On Dec 02, 2021
Dangrace01:
You'll pray from morning to night no result you'll go to church no result

But one yahoo boy would use juju on someone it would be as effective till eternity.

Why is juju powerful
Because juju worshippers know the juju they are serving and give it exactly what it wants In addition to your their own soul. When it wants blood, they give it blood. when it wants the destiny of young and misguided ladies, that's what it gets. When it wants the manhood or the head of the doer's parents, that's what it gets but most so called Christians don't even know what it means to be a Christian ( follower of Christ or disciple) much less knowing what God really wants from each of them. They don't know anything about God's will for their lives yet they want to use Him as a kind of meal ticket. That's not Gods way. God has standards, the devil does not. That's the difference.

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Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by hopefulLandlord: 5:12pm On Dec 02, 2021
Grupo:


It's about to get interesting. cheesy

Hopefully, he takes up the challenge and not run away cuz what I observed over the years from people like them is they just want you to be intimidated and scared when they make such statements.

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Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by Grupo(m): 5:12pm On Dec 02, 2021
hopefulLandlord:


I'd inbox you mine BUT on one condition. you'd tell me what would happen to me and the specific time it would happen. Deal?
driand:
since it's all fallacy and superstition let's do a quick test, inbox me your full name, (real name) let me show you something... Till the day u die you will never forget this day... I'll use u for litmus test and others like you will learn...

Oga, someone has volunteered. Don't chicken out.

It's easy to run mouth like a coward on the internet.

Come and demonstrate the so called spiritual powers you have or shut up forever.

Well, we know you don't have any spiritual powers. Olodo.

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Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by Grupo(m): 5:14pm On Dec 02, 2021
hopefulLandlord:


Hopefully, he takes up the challenge and not run away cuz what I observed over the years from people like them is they just want you to be intimidated and scared when they make such statements.

Of course, he'll chicken out.

I remember when one told me to send him my full name and my mother's maiden name. He said he would kill me in 24 hours.

I sent him all the information.

Well, I'm still here.

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Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by MufasaLion: 5:17pm On Dec 02, 2021
[quote author=Depressed101 post=108149040][/quote]

You canceled out a reasonable post. Well, you actions are justified, you're just a depressed fellow.

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Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by MufasaLion: 5:18pm On Dec 02, 2021
kurlz:



But you guys don't like good decent girls na. You like happening and trendy babes that you meet today and is ready to crawl in your beds that very day or next.
It's well!!!

grin grin grin

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Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by MufasaLion: 5:19pm On Dec 02, 2021
Grupo:


Of course, he'll chicken out.

I remember when one told me to send him my full name and my mother's maiden name. He said he would kill me in 24 hours.

I sent him all the information.

Well, I'm still here.

grin grin grin

They are just noisemakers, bro. They think they can scare off anybody. Bunch of clowns!

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Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by Loreettaa: 5:19pm On Dec 02, 2021
Na flashy things go kill una. As you say you no like decent girls, because we no open leg, enjoy!

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Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by Md4great(m): 5:20pm On Dec 02, 2021
Power of Alignment. do u follow the biblical principle?

....
Dangrace01:
You'll pray from morning to night no result you'll go to church no result

But one yahoo boy would use juju on someone it would be as effective till eternity.

Why is juju powerful
Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by MufasaLion: 5:21pm On Dec 02, 2021
Mom007:

Because juju worshippers know the juju they are serving and give it exactly what it wants In addition to your their own soul. When it wants blood, they give it blood. when it wants the destiny of young and misguided ladies, that's what it gets. When it wants the manhood or the head of the doer's parents, that's what it gets but most so called Christians don't even know what it means to be a Christian ( follower of Christ or disciple) much less knowing what God really wants from each of them. They don't know anything about God's will for their lives yet they want to use Him as a kind of meal ticket. That's not Gods way. God has standards, the devil does not. That's the difference.

Y'all should stop this superstition! Nobody can take anybody's destiny!

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Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by MufasaLion: 5:22pm On Dec 02, 2021
Loreettaa:
Na flashy things go kill una. As you say you no like decent girls, because we no open leg, enjoy!

Will you open legs for a decent boy? grin
Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by Grupo(m): 5:23pm On Dec 02, 2021
MufasaLion:


Will you open legs for a decent boy? grin

Bros, Bros. grin
Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by MufasaLion: 5:24pm On Dec 02, 2021
Grupo:


Bros, Bros. grin

wink
Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by INCREDIBLE007(m): 5:27pm On Dec 02, 2021
stillseth:
Okay so there are no misfortuned people in prayer city? Or those that made bussoness didnt work out as planned


Any misfortune individual that lands in prayer city
Will not leave the same way

Don't get me wrong

God can fix anyone anywhere

Prayer city is just my choice
Based on personal experience
Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by 2tpick: 5:27pm On Dec 02, 2021
Hideki:
I am always an advocate of scrutiny. I did my background checks dotted my Is and crossed my Ts. I will tell you that of all institutions, marriage is the sweetest. To the young ones, shine your eyes, look well, and ask questions.
Please what type of questions baba
Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by Nobody: 5:31pm On Dec 02, 2021
Some way nv see anything or walker go de mk noise say, nothing like jazz or spirituality...pray u nv encounter one shaa...so all dis 419 way de hypnotize some one fr ur hood and made aware with there money nd belongings giv am,so na hrt touching story ur fellow man go tell you,u go Carry ur belongings...okay mk I off u small,my guy way de press,run some science last two month, client e de bomb fr long way no reply come reply my gee,my guy don chop dis woman more than 4k dolls still de chop,de woman still loyal de deliver..de don block de woman wellsfargo,chase,all bank still de woman still de open new azza...na woman e bomb fr months way no reply as my gee run em doings,dis client bomb my guy de pay reach now,de don chop dis woman credit card tire...so one idiot go tell me say na luck..na guy way don press fr months no pick but com de pick after doings

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Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by UncleKoboko: 5:38pm On Dec 02, 2021
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CandyOps:
Another thread for superstitious folks. A thread for people wey there brain no dey function well because spiritual matter done take up memory space

Imagine this unfortunate spineless man blaming his wife for his misfortunes in business and life in general without even pointing fingers to the main cause- himself.

Nothing dey vex me like when adult go blame spirit for him misfortunes and bad luck because him no say spirit no fit talk or defend themselves. So instead of taking responsibility and handling his finances like a man him go rather blame juju.

Religion is wrecking havoc on us.
No where in this long post did the OP ask the man how he spends his money and how much he makes... No financial responsibility whatsoever recorded.

I've gone from earning 2m monthly to zero.
I was suicidal. Started doing weed and ashawos just to take my mind off things.

But it only gave me temporal relief till I took the bull by the horns and tackled my demons head-on. The more Africans and Nigerians keep relying on spirits for something as simple as a financial growth the more we sink into backwardness and rot.

Religion done kill our willpower and thought process. Na why one old hag of man or woman go tie red cloth or hold Bible do small acting for una tell una say una wahala na spiritual una go believe because we are too weak to hold ourselves responsible.

Weak spineless men wey no sabi their roots everywhere. I just feel complete utter disgust for this fellow not because he is lost but because he doesn't even know how far lost he is.

Money/income does not have a spiritual connection. If it does Nigeria would be the richest country on Earth. Right diagnosis is half the cure.

Why on earth will a man in his right senses consult a witch doctor or a priest for financial advice when we have people who's actual job is Financial Accounting??

It's like having the manager of a football club consult a DJ for technical advice on how to win the football league.. its all shades of wrong and makes no sense...

Yet we do this every single day and expect some kind of magic to happen. Sometimes I'm forced to think we aren't ready for any real change in Nigeria and Africa but then I understand the bigger picture -- keep them illiterates, uneducated, religious and divided. So the looting and syphoning of our nations wealth will keep on.

No wonder Boko Haram agenda na to kill education in it's totality. This country is already boiling over. Those kids born without proper education in the North years back are all doing big business as Kidnappers and bandits today

Na them de influence the elections and political decisions of this country. Yet una still dey fuel superstition and backward religious beliefs over free-thinking, understanding the importance and capabilities of the human brain when fully empowered.
.

.this continent (not just the country) is completely exhausting. Nothing is structured to help you evolve and grow.
[/s]
You are a CAPITAL F00L and you will definitely learn your very hard lessons soon...
Mark my words.

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Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by TomRiddle1: 5:45pm On Dec 02, 2021
9ja babes don spread toto so te no one trust them again.
We no know decent babes and street whores anymore.

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Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by Whatitis: 5:48pm On Dec 02, 2021
Life is stranger than fiction and there is more to it than meets the eye. We live to believe. Everyone eventually believes in the metaphysical continuum of existence.
Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by TomRiddle1: 5:48pm On Dec 02, 2021
Pataricatering:
I think women should also dig into.the brains of potential husbands - you sound like someone.they an tell his mother is a witch and he will believe.
I hate senseless superstitious people like you , - In this day and age when other countries have gone.into the jet age we still have uneducated slow pokes like this op trying.to drag us back to his village mentality. Mr man - if.your business crumbles- it is the economy - not.any nonsense jazz .
Your education is a waste.to be honest.
Glo don borrow this one data

Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by marttol: 5:51pm On Dec 02, 2021
iboboyswag:


Plenty words... So much gibberish.

I tell you... Smh!!! He thinks he made sense for him mind
Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by marttol: 5:52pm On Dec 02, 2021
Don't argue with some people let them continue in ignorance
ucha1:
U better get sense everything is not grammer
There are power beyond this ur mumu reasoning

Even the white and developed countries are aware and uses voodoo



quote author=CandyOps post=108131548]Another thread for superstitious folks. A thread for people wey there brain no dey function well because spiritual matter done take up memory space

Imagine this unfortunate spineless man blaming his wife for his misfortunes in business and life in general without even pointing fingers to the main cause- himself.

Nothing dey vex me like when adult go blame spirit for him misfortunes and bad luck because him no say spirit no fit talk or defend themselves. So instead of taking responsibility and handling his finances like a man him go rather blame juju.

Religion is wrecking havoc on us.
No where in this long post did the OP ask the man how he spends his money and how much he makes... No financial responsibility whatsoever recorded.

I've gone from earning 2m monthly to zero.
I was suicidal. Started doing weed and ashawos just to take my mind off things.

But it only gave me temporal relief till I took the bull by the horns and tackled my demons head-on. The more Africans and Nigerians keep relying on spirits for something as simple as a financial growth the more we sink into backwardness and rot.

Religion done kill our willpower and thought process. Na why one old hag of man or woman go tie red cloth or hold Bible do small acting for una tell una say una wahala na spiritual una go believe because we are too weak to hold ourselves responsible.

Weak spineless men wey no sabi their roots everywhere. I just feel complete utter disgust for this fellow not because he is lost but because he doesn't even know how far lost he is.

Money/income does not have a spiritual connection. If it does Nigeria would be the richest country on Earth. Right diagnosis is half the cure.

Why on earth will a man in his right senses consult a witch doctor or a priest for financial advice when we have people who's actual job is Financial Accounting??

It's like having the manager of a football club consult a DJ for technical advice on how to win the football league.. its all shades of wrong and makes no sense...

Yet we do this every single day and expect some kind of magic to happen. Sometimes I'm forced to think we aren't ready for any real change in Nigeria and Africa but then I understand the bigger picture -- keep them illiterates, uneducated, religious and divided. So the looting and syphoning of our nations wealth will keep on.

No wonder Boko Haram agenda na to kill education in it's totality. This country is already boiling over. Those kids born without proper education in the North years back are all doing big business as Kidnappers and bandits today

Na them de influence the elections and political decisions of this country. Yet una still dey fuel superstition and backward religious beliefs over free-thinking, understanding the importance and capabilities of the human brain when fully empowered.
.

.this continent (not just the country) is completely exhausting. Nothing is structured to help you evolve and grow.

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Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by marttol: 5:54pm On Dec 02, 2021
Buliwyf:


More dumb nonsense. Even billionaires lose all and sometimes have to start over. If Steve Jobs was in the position of some of you morons, when he was kicked out of Apple he would have been blaming one Yahoo boy somewhere. Dumb nonsense.
you are actually the dumb one

What do you really know above Steve jobs apart from what you read online... you better shut up .

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Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by Whatitis: 5:55pm On Dec 02, 2021
Foutanga Babani Sissoko; pray never to such people.
Re: Always Investigate Your Girlfriend's Ex Before Marriage by phazotron(m): 5:55pm On Dec 02, 2021
Keepem:
Well spoken. I'm a Christian myself and my mom is a die-hard lover of God and an Evangelist but you see something, some of her sisters(my aunts) who don't even give a damn about church are doing well but my mom is somewhat struggling (she's not poor but not as OK as the bible promises us) As for me, I live abroad and in my first couple years, I was into church things and believe me, hand meet me die whereas my roomie who don't even know whether God exists is so favored by everyone so much so that a small young white girl took him up and polished his life beautifully meanwhile myself I'm still hustling. So my brother, the thing get as e be.

Same here. I've put in so much effort into my Christianity and yet, here I am, broke no money to afford ordinary basics to survive. Meanwhile the people Wey no send God na them he dey bless pass. Oh well, make I see white girl Wey go polish my life too

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