Polyol:
My present girlfriend once came to my office in my absence to pick her charger in my bag. I came back looking for my airpod too, coincidence right .

I was scared, my instincts about thieves are always wrong, I once accused my childhood friend who came to pass the night at my place of taking my Rolex wristwatch and it turns out I left it at the office a day before. I was just apologizing and apologizing to him anytime I call him, I'm happy he understood and he's still my very close friend.

Back to my airpod, I had to call my sis at home immediately to help me check for it. Till tomorrow I'm happy I didn't ask my girl if she by chance saw my airpod in my bag while carrying her charger.

I'll advice you be discrete about it, mature. Don't rule out your brother just yet, don't even rule out yourself too soon too, it just might be that you innocently misplaced it. Please don't ask her but rather test her with some other thing.

You can lost airpod yourself, you could be robbed off it so take it as a sacrifice and give your new girl a benefit of doubt since this is the first time but don't fail to set her up with something else more valuable than your airpod. Shalom

EkehPraise:
Good evening dear Nairalanders,

There's this youthful and beautiful young lady I have been seeing close to a month now, we met in church, she appear s to be decent and homely and we started off as friends so we could get to know each other better, though I'm planning to settle down real soon but I don't want to be in a hurry so as not to repeat past mistakes.

Today I invited her over to my place so we could spend some time together and she could meet my elder brother since he's in town, she agreed and came around.
We spent quality time having different conversations, she even cooked for our lunch and I dropped her off at her place this evening.

Now ever since I got back home, I've been looking for my Samsung Earbuds and my Bro has not seen his wallet which we usually leave on the dining table.

I have called her twice and she didn't pick up the calls.
No one else came to the house except for this my new girl.

I feel confused. How do I approach this issue?

Orgasmgiver123:



My rain boot is like a two edged sword, if I kick a fellow with it, they'll kick bucket

Demn.. nasty.. I'm out of here

computersoft:
Bros some one who moved ur bathroom slippers might use it for diabolic things if u don't know,know it now. This world is so deep and wide. if u don't know it,know it now ok.

Nat404:
Hope you're easy to get along with?

frozen70:


Pretend as if nothing happened, keep in touch with her and truck her home

Invite your brother but don't let her know that your brother is hanging around some where waiting for her arrival

Once your brother comes, both of you must confront her in an aggressive manner and seize her phone, ask her to leave until she returns all she picked

Meanwhile, don't allow her to be around your visinty till she do the needful

If you feel it's going to be an embarrassing thing to do

Block her from communicating with you and if she gets access to you, simply tell her that you loves her so much, but her first visit left you and your brother in Shame because she stole your ear pud and your brother wallet

After that just walk away from her and end it there, don't even give her room for any explanations

EkehPraise:
Good evening dear Nairalanders,

I feel confused. How do I approach this issue?

AoifeNightfall:
Don't you know where she lives?

Now ever since I got back home, I've been looking for my Samsung Earbuds and my Bro has not seen his wallet which we usually leave on the dining table.

Ryda:
Have you given your house a thorough search?

For now she's a suspect until proven otherwise.

Hashabiah:
Bros ,it's too early to be doing such. Kindly search properly before laying accusations and spoiling the relationship you have over 1k earbuds

Stephen0mozzy:


Thank you jare..wait o..this is the second time I'm quoting your comment o lol.

Meanwhile, it's situations like this that makes me wary about visiting people o.. And when I do there's nothing more embarrassing if while I'm there and you misplace something in your negligence and then you start asking stupid questions about the whereabouts

GetMeRight:






1k? What about the wallet? May be that one is part of your "1k"? Nairalanders are funny and frustrating

franciskaine:
what if after the drama she's innocent and d said items all misplaced within the op's House? Wetin go happen? You can't be too certain without hearing from the other party and ascertaining the truth. A bait to getting her pick something else wud be better.

Hashabiah:
Oga, there's no proof she stole the wallet , and suspicion isn't a yardstick to determining if she did or did not steal . The Op here should first do the needful before throwing accusations

GetMeRight:


Like he should turn his home upside down looking for wallet and earbud that were placed on the dinning table? If your instinct tells you that someone stole your item, you are most likely correct given the circumstances surrounding its disappearance

Hashabiah:
...what if your instincts are wrong? My problem with you people on this forum is that you're too careless in your approach to investigating whether or not someone is guilty. Most of the things we do here in Nigeria can't be tolerated outside because of the legal repercussions. I advise that you all start being more conscious in what you do before you end up in serious legal problems that involve false accusations and defamation of character

EkehPraise:
Good evening dear Nairalanders,

There's this youthful and beautiful young lady I have been seeing close to a month now, we met in church, she appear s to be decent and homely and we started off as friends so we could get to know each other better, though I'm planning to settle down real soon but I don't want to be in a hurry so as not to repeat past mistakes.

Today I invited her over to my place so we could spend some time together and she could meet my elder brother since he's in town, she agreed and came around.
We spent quality time having different conversations, she even cooked for our lunch and I dropped her off at her place this evening.

Now ever since I got back home, I've been looking for my Samsung Earbuds and my Bro has not seen his wallet which we usually leave on the dining table.

I have called her twice and she didn't pick up the calls.
No one else came to the house except for this my new girl.

I feel confused. How do I approach this issue?

GetMeRight:


What if she's actually a thief? You can't really be defending someone you don't know. Wallet and earbud!

GetMeRight:


What do you really know about this girl in question? Nothing! She's a prime suspect. And what do you even know about legal repercussions to begin with? If he and his brother go to police station, one of the questions they will be asked is who do they suspect and why? So, don't talk about "this forum, you people and false accusations and defamation".

EkehPraise:
Good evening dear Nairalanders,

There's this youthful and beautiful young lady I have been seeing close to a month now, we met in church, she appear s to be decent and homely and we started off as friends so we could get to know each other better, though I'm planning to settle down real soon but I don't want to be in a hurry so as not to repeat past mistakes.

Today I invited her over to my place so we could spend some time together and she could meet my elder brother since he's in town, she agreed and came around.
We spent quality time having different conversations, she even cooked for our lunch and I dropped her off at her place this evening.

Now ever since I got back home, I've been looking for my Samsung Earbuds and my Bro has not seen his wallet which we usually leave on the dining table.

I have called her twice and she didn't pick up the calls.
No one else came to the house except for this my new girl.

I feel confused. How do I approach this issue?

Hashabiah:
Oga, let's assume they take her to the police , how would they prove that she stole? What grounds can that make to prove their claim? I just pity you lot sha. By the time you jam court case , nobody go to tell you

Stephen0mozzy:


Nor can you be passing judgement on someone you don't know.

Btw, my statement wasn't in defense of the situation.. I just stated my own distaste for such scenarios

GetMeRight:


She's just a suspect, the rest is for the police to do their job. Pointing someone as a suspect given the circumstances is never a crime, that's where investigations usually start. Stop arguing

GetMeRight:


That's not a judgement but she's a suspect, a prime one for that matter.

ImaIma1:


Only with people that have sense.

Hashabiah:
Bros ,it's too early to be doing such. Search properly before laying accusations and using your hands to spoil the relationship because of 1k earbuds