BABE!:
I was talking to my mum last week about this same issue --- she was scared outta her mind! You know typical 9ja parents now--how they behave.  She said "America" is starting to  influence me negatively and she's planning to drag me back to 9ja asap  ----lmao--- She gat jokes---hehehehe.

Next thing you know, this gorgeous woman sarted saying "Sweetheart, you remember the Adewale family right?" " Their son is in bla bla bla---he's doing bla bla bla----"   WTF?!   ---Nollywood reenactment!

Mynd_44:

^^^Careful before she SETS you up when you eventually get back

lol--  I know right!  But She didn't really mean it that way though. I know her.   She just wants me to get the "marraige is not compulsory" mentality out of my head. She's all about the books for now. Her "get married" pressure will come later, I can see it already.

ogugua88:

I hate the bolded so much. SO much. He can be as wealthy as Bill Gates for all I care. As long as he's human, he isn't perfect lol.

mekaboy:



WOW, ALL OF YOU , WHO ARE IN SUPPORT, I THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SPEAKING OUT, WHEN I POSTED THIS, THE FIRST 3 COMMENTS, MADE ME BOOK AN APPOINTMENT WITH A THERAPIST, I THOUGHT I WAS GOING NUTS, I AM HAPPY THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT HAVE THE SAME VIEW.

LOL---pure jokes!

This marriage thing is  not only common amongst Nigerians-- Americans too are on the list, infact they beat Nigerians to it (from my view). The rate at which  I get invited to weddings here was scary, now funny! And who are the people getting married?  My school-mates--- High-school sweet-hearts--lol **smh** I'm always like where exactly are these fools running to? What do these people take marriage for? How can 7 husbands visit your v1gina before you finally "quit" all in the name of marraige and you still feel ok?

Don't get me wrong guyz, some of these marraiges are actually sucessful, but a chunk of the time--they always "kpeme".

 

mekaboy:

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IT BREAKS MY HEART , WHEN I SEE GIRLS SO DESPERATE TO GET MARRIED THESE DAYS, SOME HAVE EVEN BECOME HYPERTENSIVE THINKING ABOUT THE DANGER OF NOT GETTING MARRIED.

AND I ASK MYSELF, IS MARRIAGE ALL WOMEN CAME TO THIS WORLD TO DO ? IS IT A SIN IF A LADY DOES NOT GET MARRIED IN LIFE? DID ANY LADY COME INTO THIS WORLD WITH A MAN? SO IF U DIE, U DIE ALONE, SO LADIES PLEASE IF NO MAN IS READY TO MARRY YOU, PLEASE CONCENTRATE ON YOUR GIFTS AND ABILITIES.

YOU WERE NOT BORN TO GET MARRIED, BUT TO MAKE AN IMPACT IN THIS LIFE, MAKE A DONATION IN LIFE SO THAT THERE WILL BE SOMETHING TO REMEMBER YOU WITH. ENGAGE IN SERVICE TO HUMANITY, ENGAGE IN THINGS GREATER THAN YOU, YOUR HUSBAND AND KIDS. NOBODY HAS EVEN BEEN CELEBRATED IN THE WORLD FOR THE BEST MARRIED WOMAN OR MAN. OR AWARD FOR THE BEST MOTHER IN THE WORLD.

IT IS NOT A SIN TO BE SINGLE, AND IF YOU ARE NOT MARRIED, ITS NOT A CURSE TOO.

SAME GOES TO MEN WHO GET MARRIED BECAUSE THEY ARE GETTING OLD, AND THEY WANT TO HAVE CHILDREN. PLEASE ! PLEASE !! PLEASE!!! YOU CAME INTO THIS WORLD ALONE, AND YOU WILL DIE ALONE, YOU WONT TAKE YOUR KIDS ALONG. IF YOU DONT HAVE MONEY TO RAISE CHILDREN AND YOU WANT TO HAVE CHILDREN because YOUR GETTING OLD, ITS WICKEDNESS.

because YOUR GETTING OLD , U BRING A CHILD INTO THIS WORLD TO SUFFER HUNGER AND STARVATION, IN TERRIBLE CONDITIONS? MY ADVICE TO MEN, IF U DONT HAVE ENOUGH MONEY TO HANDLE A FAMILY OR RAISE KIDS, JUST ENJOY your LIFE ON EARTH AND GO. DONT BRING ANY CHILD INTO THIS WORLD TO SUFFER.

I KNOW THE CHRISTIANS WILL START QUOTING THE BIBBLE, "BE FRUITFUL AND MULTIPLY" PLEASE THAT WAS IN THE BEGINNING, WHEN IT WAS ONLY ADAM AND EVE IN THE EARTH, I DONT THINK GOD WOULD GIVE THAT COMMANDMENT NOW, CONSIDERING NIGERIA'S POPULATION, AND THE NUMBER OF KIDS AND YOUNG PEOPLE SUFFERING.

ALL THOSE ARMED ROBBERS AND KIDNAPPERS, NA PERSON BORN THEM.

FINALLY, U MUST NOT MARRY OR HAVE CHILDREN. ENOUGH OF THIS PRESSURE, (((JESUS HAD NO WIFE OR CHILDREN))) BUT HE GAVE THE GREATEST GIFT TO HUMANITY.
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