phranco:
I am in a relationship with a girl I'm planning to get married to. I love her and we vibe together and play most times. From my own assessment, she is good, down to earth, knows how to cook, humble, respectful, and she is also very beautiful naturally, infact she passed 70% quality of the kind of woman I want in my life.

The problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash or should I say small nyash (sorry for the offensive word). I'm not aroused if I'm with her. I can manage to have sex with her just once, even if she will stay five days with me, and I know this gives her concern.

I like ladies with backside, height and chubby. but the ones I have come across doesn't even measure up to this my girl in character.

Does sex Matter so much in marriage? Cos I'm afraid I may cheat on her or get sexual satisfaction outside our marriage. I'm just confused right now.

Am a fellow big booty lover, better marry a woman that have all you want so as not to be frustrated in marriage

niqqa said she doesn't have ass..

niqqa you fucking funny.

Give yourself time to become sexually attracted to her or do the needful. Anybody can love anybody if you condition your heart to except there are distractions. If you know sincerely there is no affection, opt out. It may be heartbreaking but better than deceit.

You will cheat whichever way..

Please don't marry her,she will find her right kind of man.

Man is insatiable.

Personally, I suggest you don't marry her. Just wait and find someone whom you are attracted to and has the same qualities. The truth is that sexual attraction is extremely important. This is not even about you, but also about her. Everyone, both Male and female want to be desired by their partner. Sooner or later, she will notice this and may begin to feel very bad,have self esteem issues and even resent you.
Think carefully before you take that step. I can assure you that some people are even looking for her spec. To each his own. We all want what we want

phranco:
I am in a relationship with a girl I'm planning to get married to. I love her and we vibe together and play most times. From my own assessment, she is good, down to earth, knows how to cook, humble, respectful, and she is also very beautiful naturally, infact she passed 70% quality of the kind of woman I want in my life.

The problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash or should I say small nyash (sorry for the offensive word). I'm not aroused if I'm with her. I can manage to have sex with her just once, even if she will stay five days with me, and I know this gives her concern.

I like ladies with backside, height and chubby. but the ones I have come across doesn't even measure up to this my girl in character.

Does sex Matter so much in marriage? Cos I'm afraid I may cheat on her or get sexual satisfaction outside our marriage. I'm just confused right now.

I have find myself in this position before... It's not only you..

What i did then .. i end the relationship..?

Now married and Happy too

That girl is your wife, even if you marry the one with big nyash, you will still cheat on her, besides her nyash will get bigger when she settles down, wise men marry for peace of mind not body attributes.

Mercychen:
Now I see why marriages of today don't last.
When all you look out for in a woman are big yansh and breast, ignoring the characters and other virtues of a good wife then I wonder how such marriage will last.

Imagine the story of a nairalander who's wife had the guts to tell him she was going to visit another man and all the rubbish he complained about her character; you are here overlooking a good character to be with a big backside. Your choice though.

Don't come back here to cry foul in future.

There's nothing bad in what he wants. He was just being impatient and unlucky enough to have met a woman that have all he wants.

There's no point in marrying a lady you're not sexually compatible with irrespective of her good character. Would you rather prefer he cheat on her after marriage?

Break up the rship.
There are a lot of girls out there
Look for ur spec.....
You'll be miserable in the marriage if you go on with it....

Go and buy yansh for her from yansh vendors. They are all over the social media advertising their products..

Bang her well and on a regular the nyash will protrude well

Later you will then open another thread to say she's too fat or has a very big bum. If her shape is the only problem she's giving you then please free her and let her marry someone who will cherish her.

ParpahSeventy:
I was thinking like you because I always felt I would cheat on her, I made peace with myself after two years with her, in those two years+, I realized she was everything I wanted even without big breast and nyash, she made for that with every other thing.. When your mindset shift, your priorities will change

Well said.
He should also understand that the urge for sex after marriage will definitely go down when other priorities and responsibilities set in. Then, he will need those >70% qualities, that will give him the peace of mind most married men desire after years of marriage.

Lalami3232:
The girl na yeye girl, why she no go Yaba market go buy yansh and big breast? She no see as dem omotola and Destiny go buy yansh from balogun market? OP, discard her jare, na stupid girl she be as she no get yansh. But just give me her number, I wan ask her something.
Na man wey never ready for marriage na dey come out with these yeye/childish excuse. You see babe wey get wetin both married men and barchelors dey pray and fast for, and you come here dey talk trash. You don take your fever medicine this week so? I pity that girl if she ever gets married to a shallow brain man like you. God why you go dey give mumu people good gifts but the sensible no dey ever see such If I mistakenly see babe wey get half of those aforementioned attributes wey your babe get, na alter you go see us in the next 3months. Anyways, I go advise say make you discard her because E clear say you go cheat on her when una don marry. That babe deserve man wey go appreciate her, not a teenage nairalander. I just dey vex for here!!! People dey find babe wey get half of wetin you get but u dey here dey complain. If na yansh be marriage, Uche Jombo, Ini Edo, Toke Makinwa, Mercy Aigbe and co suppose still dey marriage. My guy, use you head and kidney oooo.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "Man wey never ready na dey find unnecessary excuse for woman body"

One man's meat is another man's poison.
Stop discarding a source of genuine concern

...She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash...
My brother, i sorry for u in advance.

SmellySperm:
Small yansh dey shake o op. Marry her for peace of mind

Correct.

phranco emphasis on the statement PEACE OF MIND

No go marry Olosho with big yansh and big boobs and she ends up fvcking the entire lagos state resulting in you committing suicide eventually.

No woman way no fine... All the quality you want in her can manifest if you take your time to groom her to what you want. ... Dont let your village people play police and thief with your marital zaazu .. you Gerrit ?? If you don't Gerrit ...forget about it

phranco:
I am in a relationship with a girl I'm planning to get married to. I love her and we vibe together and play most times. From my own assessment, she is good, down to earth, knows how to cook, humble, respectful, and she is also very beautiful naturally, infact she passed 70% quality of the kind of woman I want in my life.

The problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash or should I say small nyash (sorry for the offensive word). I'm not aroused if I'm with her. I can manage to have sex with her just once, even if she will stay five days with me, and I know this gives her concern.

I like ladies with backside, height and chubby. but the ones I have come across doesn't even measure up to this my girl in character.

Does sex Matter so much in marriage? Cos I'm afraid I may cheat on her or get sexual satisfaction outside our marriage. I'm just confused right now.

Small baka is a no no! Cancel the wedding bro.

Some men like small yansh, let them marry her.

Do what makes you happy, life is very brief.

phranco:
I am in a relationship with a girl I'm planning to get married to. I love her and we vibe together and play most times. From my own assessment, she is good, down to earth, knows how to cook, humble, respectful, and she is also very beautiful naturally, infact she passed 70% quality of the kind of woman I want in my life.

The problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash or should I say small nyash (sorry for the offensive word). I'm not aroused if I'm with her. I can manage to have sex with her just once, even if she will stay five days with me, and I know this gives her concern.

I like ladies with backside, height and chubby. but the ones I have come across doesn't even measure up to this my girl in character.

Does sex Matter so much in marriage? Cos I'm afraid I may cheat on her or get sexual satisfaction outside our marriage. I'm just confused right now.

Op you dont know what you want

Lalami3232:
The girl na yeye girl, why she no go Yaba market go buy yansh and big breast? She no see as dem omotola and Destiny go buy yansh from balogun market? OP, discard her jare, na stupid girl she be as she no get yansh. But just give me her number, I wan ask her something.
Na man wey never ready for marriage na dey come out with these yeye/childish excuse. You see babe wey get wetin both married men and barchelors dey pray and fast for, and you come here dey talk trash. You don take your fever medicine this week so? I pity that girl if she ever gets married to a shallow brain man like you. God why you go dey give mumu people good gifts but the sensible no dey ever see such If I mistakenly see babe wey get half of those aforementioned attributes wey your babe get, na alter you go see us in the next 3months. Anyways, I go advise say make you discard her because E clear say you go cheat on her when una don marry. That babe deserve man wey go appreciate her, not a teenage nairalander. I just dey vex for here!!! People dey find babe wey get half of wetin you get but u dey here dey complain. If na yansh be marriage, Uche Jombo, Ini Edo, Toke Makinwa, Mercy Aigbe and co suppose still dey marriage. My guy, use you head and kidney oooo.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "Man wey never ready na dey find unnecessary excuse for woman body"

. God bless you. You just said it all. Many of us are looking for babes with slim ass who you can easily carry but OP is looking for a girl with big ass. As soon as she gives birth, her shape won't be the same again. Anyway, they say one man meat as another man poison. OP, abeg give me her number ooooooo

Sexual attraction is very key but really, whoever you married, sex will soon lose its place as priority as other matters arising will take over your thinking.

phranco:
I am in a relationship with a girl I'm planning to get married to. I love her and we vibe together and play most times. From my own assessment, she is good, down to earth, knows how to cook, humble, respectful, and she is also very beautiful naturally, infact she passed 70% quality of the kind of woman I want in my life.

The problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash or should I say small nyash (sorry for the offensive word). I'm not aroused if I'm with her. I can manage to have sex with her just once, even if she will stay five days with me, and I know this gives her concern.

I like ladies with backside, height and chubby. but the ones I have come across doesn't even measure up to this my girl in character.

Does sex Matter so much in marriage? Cos I'm afraid I may cheat on her or get sexual satisfaction outside our marriage. I'm just confused right now.

Wetin you wan take the yansh do..........

Small yanshhh dey shake ooh


Be greedy,wife her and cheat on her periodt

Sonnobax15:

Op,I pity you in advance...If you like, allow your quest and love for big nyanch to make you loosegaurd who go give you peace of mind..

Abi na banny wey get big nyanch wey go make you get competition with other men you want?


Las las,one day one day small nyanch go vex shake

Correct

SMH. Oga don't buy in to all these modern feminine narratives meant to shame and surpress men's sexuality. You are a man and can have as much women as you want, options, besides Monogamy is unrealistic, only works on men with low sexual market value. Why must she be the only woman in your life?
I'm not saying you should be a womanizer.

Just see how all the nairaland boys are offering advice without insult.
If it were a woman that wrote this, insults will have flooded this thread. Honestly, people in this forum needs to grow up. It has become very toxic.

This is the same way a woman may find a short guy, a broke man or a man with small dick unattractive. Allow people express themselves freely and seek for advice...Stop jumping on every and any thread written by a woman. It is childish and very rude. It's not a wonder that women are hardly contributors to this forum.

Basiljoe:
SMH. Oga don't buy in to all these modern feminine narratives meant to shame and surpress men's sexuality. You are a man and can have as much women as you want, options, besides Monogamy is unrealistic, only works on men with low sexual market value. Why must she be the only woman in your life?
I'm not saying you should be a womanizer.

Story!
Same way a woman can dump you for having small dick, being a brokeass and being short. I hope you would be happy.. Mr Masculine man....

Kennyprince:
So what made u go for her in the first place since u know the kind of woman that u want already

. I tire for the OP ooo. Why did she go for her in the first place? Abi na person arrange her for him? All this small small boys eh….