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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by grandstar(m): 11:11am On Jan 15, 2022
Barrister026:
My wife left me December 18th during the festive period to her home town, til this moment I haven't had sex. Trust me it hasn't really been easy we can't fight nature.
All the temptations at work and along the roadside when am on wheels my eyes are seeing.

So I decided to visit a popular relaxing spot this evening to while away time, ordered gulder to quench my taste... to my surprise they were girls displaying their markets.

At first I ignored, but body just did me one kind, I signalled one to come sit with me bought her drink and from there ask her how much she charge.

(Which she told me, saying she go do me well)
Then I had a war going on in my mind, hope you know say you be married man?.

Seriously I got married since 2019, I haven't had another lady apart from my wife.


So we went to her room, I gave her money..she was about to pull her top.

I don't know what got into me, I say "hi please don't bother....." She was surprised.

I went outside sweating.... the money I gave her didn't pain me.

What pain me is am so ashamed of myself for even having that thought.

Even though I didn't do the act, I feel like have cheated already for entering her room.

(This feeling didn't come because she's a prostitutes, I know I feel same way if it's a normal lady)

So married men how do you confidently cheat on your wife without remorse?

Your article here reminds me of the incident that happened in the Bible when David had to chance to kill Saul but something happened (Read 1 Samuel 24:1-5)

1 Samuel 24:5 said "his conscience kept striking him". He listened to his conscience and did not go ahead (Read 1 Samuel 24:6-7)

Read entire 1 Samuel 24.

Someone said, "Our conscience is like a mother-in-law's visit that never ends". Another said, "there's no pillow as soft as a clear conscience". Does the Bible praise a dead conscience? Read 1 Timothy 4:1-2 and speaks of those whose conscience has been seared as though by a branding iron". Did Apostle Paul speak glowingly of these people? No, he did not. Verse 1 made that clear!.

We should hate what is bad (Read Psalms 97:10)

Will you listen to your conscience or brand with a hot iron as some would suggest? The choice is left to you (Read Deuteronomy 30:18-20, Hebrews 13:4)

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Nobody: 11:12am On Jan 15, 2022
Barrister026:
My wife left me December 18th during the festive period to her home town, til this moment I haven't had sex. Trust me it hasn't really been easy we can't fight nature.
All the temptations at work and along the roadside when am on wheels my eyes are seeing.

So I decided to visit a popular relaxing spot this evening to while away time, ordered gulder to quench my taste... to my surprise they were girls displaying their markets.

At first I ignored, but body just did me one kind, I signalled one to come sit with me bought her drink and from there ask her how much she charge.

(Which she told me, saying she go do me well)
Then I had a war going on in my mind, hope you know say you be married man?.

Seriously I got married since 2019, I haven't had another lady apart from my wife.


So we went to her room, I gave her money..she was about to pull her top.

I don't know what got into me, I say "hi please don't bother....." She was surprised.

I went outside sweating.... the money I gave her didn't pain me.

What pain me is am so ashamed of myself for even having that thought.

Even though I didn't do the act, I feel like have cheated already for entering her room.

(This feeling didn't come because she's a prostitutes, I know I feel same way if it's a normal lady)

So married men how do you confidently cheat on your wife without remorse?

I celebrate your discipline sir. In this life once you’re disciplined everything is easy

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by cococandy(f): 11:12am On Jan 15, 2022
And it makes them angry that they need it that much. That’s what all the hyperventilating is all about.
They hate what they like
pocohantas:


All that women bring nothing but sex is nothing but emotional blackmail and guilt tripping. Men want to be appreciated for just existing. Even a jobless man would cry out if his wife isn’t respecting him, but everyday they tell women to go work and earn respect.


Yes, the thing in between women’s leg is very important to them. Remove toto and men would be stabbing themselves to death on the streets. They need to fck and suck bobby to maintain 50% sanity. grin grin grin

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by efficiencie(m): 11:13am On Jan 15, 2022
Barrister026:
My wife left me December 18th during the festive period to her home town, til this moment I haven't had sex. Trust me it hasn't really been easy we can't fight nature.
All the temptations at work and along the roadside when am on wheels my eyes are seeing.

So I decided to visit a popular relaxing spot this evening to while away time, ordered gulder to quench my taste... to my surprise they were girls displaying their markets.

At first I ignored, but body just did me one kind, I signalled one to come sit with me bought her drink and from there ask her how much she charge.

(Which she told me, saying she go do me well)
Then I had a war going on in my mind, hope you know say you be married man?.

Seriously I got married since 2019, I haven't had another lady apart from my wife.


So we went to her room, I gave her money..she was about to pull her top.

I don't know what got into me, I say "hi please don't bother....." She was surprised.

I went outside sweating.... the money I gave her didn't pain me.

What pain me is am so ashamed of myself for even having that thought.

Even though I didn't do the act, I feel like have cheated already for entering her room.

(This feeling didn't come because she's a prostitutes, I know I feel same way if it's a normal lady)

So married men how do you confidently cheat on your wife without remorse?

Dude you sure say you no lash that olosho. You could be hallucinating all this bs you just typed and it could be that you really lashed that olosho without CD. You no wan cheat but you go wia ppl wey dey cheat dey go. Dey dia dey deceive yaself. You wey no wan cheat why you no buy the drink, carry am go house go drink instead you go olosho base. Just tell us the truth. You decongested the olosho holistically and now your conscience is turninoniown.
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Aringon(m): 11:13am On Jan 15, 2022
Bro, didn't ask for ways to cheat or if there is guilty conscience along with it. Don't do it, run away from it

Barrister026:
My wife left me December 18th during the festive period to her home town, til this moment I haven't had sex. Trust me it hasn't really been easy we can't fight nature.
All the temptations at work and along the roadside when am on wheels my eyes are seeing.

So I decided to visit a popular relaxing spot this evening to while away time, ordered gulder to quench my taste... to my surprise they were girls displaying their markets.

At first I ignored, but body just did me one kind, I signalled one to come sit with me bought her drink and from there ask her how much she charge.

(Which she told me, saying she go do me well)
Then I had a war going on in my mind, hope you know say you be married man?.

Seriously I got married since 2019, I haven't had another lady apart from my wife.


So we went to her room, I gave her money..she was about to pull her top.

I don't know what got into me, I say "hi please don't bother....." She was surprised.

I went outside sweating.... the money I gave her didn't pain me.

What pain me is am so ashamed of myself for even having that thought.

Even though I didn't do the act, I feel like have cheated already for entering her room.

(This feeling didn't come because she's a prostitutes, I know I feel same way if it's a normal lady)

So married men how do you confidently cheat on your wife without remorse?
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by DanielAAA(m): 11:13am On Jan 15, 2022
descarado:
When more than half of your Brian cell thinks about sex always, this should be the situation you find yourself in.

Few weeks without sex and heaven will fall.

Men are busy exploring how to go to Mars and Jupiter, my brothers are only interested in sex and food.
Tomorrow they will look for whose head to cut off for money ritual.

But how does going to Mars and Jupiter help me and you in any sense?

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by cococandy(f): 11:15am On Jan 15, 2022
It’s her body she doesn’t owe it to anyone

I encourage a healthy sexual relationship that’s pleasurable to both partners. Not one where it’s a chore or a duty to be performed for sake of the man.
advanceDNA:


You make it sound like women don’t need men’s body...it’s manipulative and that’s why men complained in that thread because she denied the man for no reason...

Here u are making sex and your body look like a favour you are giving to the man....

What is he bringing to the table ?? A base ball bat??


Sex is nature’s gift for both genders to enjoy their companionship in marriage ...it isn’t something you leverage on like a prost!tute or a gigolo


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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by God1000(m): 11:15am On Jan 15, 2022
pocohantas:


You no know before? tongue
I swear I no know oo, I hope you are not a feminist sha sad I recommend you to read my latest post about feminism, check the thread, maybe you will heal after reading it lipsrsealed
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Nobody: 11:15am On Jan 15, 2022
Unrated900:



Na single ladies Dey run up and down follow us naaaa
Example na jeje I go Dey drive to one location or the other for way forward.

Na so so ladies go come knock door glasses
Hello sir are u heading towards Maryland.

I will reply and says no please.

They will say okay drop me anywhere sir..


So @oke2018

So who come Dey run after me.

So na una Dey cause am
I dey talk my own from experience ,you no fit tell me say apart from your wife you neva toast any girl
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Belafonte(m): 11:15am On Jan 15, 2022
Richy4:

grin grin
Try and learn to provide information that has a backup system while speaking in public buddy... to avoid situation like this...
It is 21st century... Avoid beer parlour gist smiley

Dey dia na. Aren't there numerous threads on this same nairaland decrying masturbátion and its numerous after effects. Wetin [i]consign[/I] me? Na my preeq you dey take self-service? Preeq na per head, take your own do wetin you like with am.

Now, that you mention it, I need to visit a beer parlour this evening. grin
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by cococandy(f): 11:16am On Jan 15, 2022
God1000:
lol, if all men are like me ehh, you ladies will beg for sex.

Please let them be o. Maybe rape will decrease drastically
You need to talk to other men see if you can convince them to be like you

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by jornwhite: 11:16am On Jan 15, 2022
pocohantas:


All that women bring nothing but sex is nothing but emotional blackmail and guilt tripping. Men want to be appreciated for just existing. Even a jobless man would cry out if his wife isn’t respecting him, but everyday they tell women to go work and earn respect.


Yes, the thing in between women’s leg is very important to them. Remove toto and men would be stabbing themselves to death on the streets. They need to fck and suck bobby to maintain 50% sanity. grin grin grin



If sex is only important to men, why are ladies spending much on dildos, aunty why is there alway cucumber in your kitchen undecided

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by God1000(m): 11:18am On Jan 15, 2022
cococandy:

Please let them be o. Maybe rape will decrease drastically
You need to talk to other men see if you can convince them to be like you
so many of them are exactly like me
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by fortunechy(m): 11:18am On Jan 15, 2022
My dear, u did well by doing it.... That shows that u have conscience unlike others that will do it without finking twice. God bless you for that.... Keep it up!!

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Unrated900(m): 11:19am On Jan 15, 2022
oke2018:
I dey talk my own from experience ,you no fit tell me say apart from your wife you neva toast any girl



You be man abiiii
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Jeon(f): 11:20am On Jan 15, 2022
mrksquare:



How can a man be wise and a fool at the same time? The bolded is a grammatical anomaly as the opposite of wise is fool.

Paradox

Think of what Solomon was like in the beginning. God visited him in a dream and told him to ask for anything his heart desired and it would be his. He could have asked for riches or fame, but instead he asked the Lord for wisdom to rule his people. He wanted to be a good king. And because Solomon’s request pleased the Lord, he not only gave him great wisdom, but he gave him riches and fame as well .
Solomon wrote the bulk of the book of Proverbs, the wisdom literature of the Old Testament. He wrote Ecclesiastes, the Song of Solomon and part of the book of Psalms.
SOLOMON had a lot to say about how to live wisely, but he failed to follow his own advise . When he wrote the book of Proverbs, he said: “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and discipline” (Proverbs 1:7). But he stopped fearing the Lord and he despised discipline. HE BECAME THE WISEST FOOL .

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by wildikeman(m): 11:20am On Jan 15, 2022
Hathor5:
4 weeks without sex is that hard? undecided

Don't mind him.. Let him try six months

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Omojolaray(m): 11:20am On Jan 15, 2022
descarado:
When more than half of your Brian cell thinks about sex always, this should be the situation you find yourself in.

Few weeks without sex and heaven will fall.

Men are busy exploring how to go to Mars and Jupiter, my brothers are only interested in sex and food.
Tomorrow they will look for whose head to cut off for money ritual.

na so why u no go jupiter..... Yrash
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Furcko: 11:20am On Jan 15, 2022
IJEYdiamond:


Abi ooo... 4 yrs person still never die. undecided
how do you mange when the urge comes all the yrs
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by cococandy(f): 11:21am On Jan 15, 2022
Omg someone was commenting this the other day online. Like how a man will meet a girl and within 24hours he wants her to come spend the night at his place.

They really do take strange women for granted because they believe women can’t do anything. Any female serial killer will have a field day with them. I was watching one on TV where this lady stood by the roadside and they would just stop and pick her up because they imagined they’ve seen free sex.
And she was killing them one by one until a cop went undercover and they finally caught her. After so many men had already died. Smh
pocohantas:


Oga rest, nobody will beg you for anything. Say you be who? Men are CHEAP! Ashewo gender that can fcked with N4 message. Who go beg una?

Woman wey never fck na say she no wan fck. Message 20 men, including married ones and 25 would reply! You fit still use scope collect money from them join.

Make una thank God say women no get evil mind to do rituals. Una population for done reduce by 99.7%. Make I see mouth una go use dey insult women online.

C’mon leave this place osiso. grin

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by wildikeman(m): 11:21am On Jan 15, 2022
MrBrownJay1:


you are using your female brain to jusge a manly issue....you cant do that!

4 weeks without sex is indeed a lot and this man should have waank himself to sleep every night, to quench the konji demon that was taking possession of his body!

Let him Waaank then. His wife just went on a holiday and not that she actually left him or are they even separated.. 4 weeks... What a joke.

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by cococandy(f): 11:22am On Jan 15, 2022
God1000:
so many of them are exactly like me
the evidence suggests otherwise

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by FuckDModz: 11:22am On Jan 15, 2022
Barrister026:
My wife left me December 18th during the festive period to her home town, til this moment I haven't had sex. Trust me it hasn't really been easy we can't fight nature.
All the temptations at work and along the roadside when am on wheels my eyes are seeing.

So I decided to visit a popular relaxing spot this evening to while away time, ordered gulder to quench my taste... to my surprise they were girls displaying their markets.

At first I ignored, but body just did me one kind, I signalled one to come sit with me bought her drink and from there ask her how much she charge.

(Which she told me, saying she go do me well)
Then I had a war going on in my mind, hope you know say you be married man?.

Seriously I got married since 2019, I haven't had another lady apart from my wife.


So we went to her room, I gave her money..she was about to pull her top.

I don't know what got into me, I say "hi please don't bother....." She was surprised.

I went outside sweating.... the money I gave her didn't pain me.

What pain me is am so ashamed of myself for even having that thought.

Even though I didn't do the act, I feel like have cheated already for entering her room.

(This feeling didn't come because she's a prostitutes, I know I feel same way if it's a normal lady)

So married men how do you confidently cheat on your wife without remorse?

You never meet babes.

Even runs girls get levels.

Meet a top tier babe and you'd bang her on your matrimonial bed.
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by dettolgel: 11:24am On Jan 15, 2022
MrBrownJay1:


you are using your female brain to jusge a manly issue....you cant do that!

4 weeks without sex is indeed a lot and this man should have waank himself to sleep every night, to quench the konji demon that was taking possession of his body!

Now I see why African man is yet to make meaningful impact in this century.

While others are busy conquering space innovating new technologies to improve our lives, our fellow black men are only concerned about curing konji. grin grin

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Original4u1617: 11:25am On Jan 15, 2022
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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by wildikeman(m): 11:26am On Jan 15, 2022
Barrister026:
.

Even though I didn't do the act, I feel like have cheated already for entering her room.

(This feeling didn't come because she's a prostitutes, I know I feel same way if it's a normal lady)

So married men how do you confidently cheat on your wife without remorse?


You went to olosho joint ND didn't do the deed...




Hell fire straight

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Kingspower(m): 11:26am On Jan 15, 2022
I have stayed for 4 months without sex although it wasn't easy but I always keep myself busy to avoid the temptation. Meanwhile am married and my wife travelled since then.

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Nobody: 11:27am On Jan 15, 2022
Unrated900:




You be man abiiii
I be woman any problem
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Nobody: 11:27am On Jan 15, 2022
Hathor5:


Ok, Mr-Know-Them-All. I'm from Samoa though.

I think he took the sample from what is around him (Nigerian women), which is the universal practice in whatever experiment.

It doesn't matter where you are, sample taken, empirically, woman is woman, so the conclusion is for the "kind" for the taken sample regardless of location


Conclusion; he is right
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Misterone: 11:28am On Jan 15, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
lol you made it seem as if the war in your head started when the babe approached you... but you wouldnt be in that place if you were not already in a mood to cheat.... the girl approaching you was just a walk in the park.

at th end of the day, you are the only one who can answer this simple question:" what are you missing in your life that you need to cheat on your wife?!
it is not about missing anything but about the call of nature. you cannot cheat nature. you have to find a way to relieve yourself one way or the other. me and my wife do not work in the same state. sometimes we don't see each other for about 2 months. I use vaseline to help myself. those that say masturbation is a sin and has side effects, this is one of the advantages of masturbation. you either masturbate or sleep with a strange woman. which is better? those that say abstinence are talking rubbish. the emotional and psychological effects is something else. not to talk of the health aspect. relieve yourself and move on. I self-service myself to help myself you say na offence.
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by BigYash: 11:31am On Jan 15, 2022
Stevyne:
Aswear My G!!!

Married men just deh disturb us with sex related matters grin
The matter no tire you grin

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