illicit:
Explore

Is ur pussi that deep and wide as the grand canyon

Make explorers help us create thread ontop the kpekus

Candidlady:


Then iwish icould go back to those good old days!!! When men will wait to have sex after marriage

Yea... Same here.

I missed those days... When it was a taboo for women to lose their virginity before marriage.

Zonefree:
But, there's nothing special about your kpekus na

You are vowlent sir lol...

Blunttruth:


Don't change it. That's pretty much how guys are, it's safer to assume the worse then be pleasantly surprised. Just keep it at a friendship level until you are convinced that the guy wants something serious. You should
be able to differentiate a f.u.q. k boy and a serious minded mind.

Have you asked her what she has to offer a guy other than sex that would make the guy want to stay put.

No man would find a good girl and decide to use sex to chase her away, they’d rather keep the good girl that has more than sex to offer, then go off to other stupid girls that think with their pvssy

gentlegenius:

Yea... Same here.

I missed those days... When it was a taboo for women to lose their virginity before marriage.

I also miss the days of virtuous women, not the current materialistic ones that want what their fathers and male siblings can’t afford themselves while also calling other men poor

DAVE5:



Have you asked her what she has to offer a guy other than sex that would make the guy want to stay put.

No man would find a good girl and decide to use sex to chase her away, they’d rather keep the good girl that has more than sex to offer, then go off to other stupid girls that think with their pvssy

You have a point but Depends on the guys ages..most guys are not that smart. All they are after is sex. They are not after good girl ,wife material. I have seen situations of guys that are of age sef, and they still dump the good girl and go for a bimbo for the most stupid reasons.

I will keep in touch
Once again,thank you

wealthtrak:

Aha! @Preshieben
You're welcome dear.

I like your boldness in asking the questions that were bugging your mind in your first or original post.
Some young ones here on the
thread tried to distract you with negative posts, but I saw how
you responded to some of them
without letting them put you
down.

When you "ask," the Universe will send positive answers to you if you are willing to "receive" them!


In addition, if you can't easily buy or lay your hands on the hard copy of the book by Norman Pearle that
I recommended to you in my last post in your city of residence, just
copy the full book title into the
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Keep in touch, let me know how things go with the book and I can share more solid tips with you
later.


Cheers.

I think you should set some rules for yourself it'll go a long way in helping you. Just keep an open mind about guys and probably shun sex for the first 3months.. At least within that interval you should be able to know the mindset and the kind of person you're dealing with and if he's really good to go.

Iyaebe:
Still no shame if otherwise,it’s men that’s supposed to be hustling hard so they can provide and not women.Grab that?

How naive

Preshieben:
This is not true sis
If you doubt,we can video call

I'd like to be your friend anyway

I believe you, I remember when you came on board although I don't know what could have changed while I was away.
Lol... Video call isn't necessary and yes you may be my friend.

Palema007:
I believe you, I remember when you came on board although I don't know what could have changed while I was away.
Lol... Video call isn't necessary and yes you may be my friend.

Nothing changed ma'am

No stress anyway

gentlegenius:

Every responsible man is supposed to wait until after marriage before having sex with the woman he is dating. However, the reason why many guys can't wait is because most of you ladies had already started having sex before meeting the man that will marry you. Most of you, when you were teenagers, (perhaps still in secondary school), you've already lost your virginity by giving free sex to people who didn't deserve to even touch you - a classmate who bought you peanuts, a randy teacher or corper who promised you marks, etc. Though I blame the parents more for this, but when a lady who has already dashed out her virginity to people she knew will never marry her, finally meets the right man that will marry her; how do you expect the man to wait till after marriage before enjoying the same honeypot that other men easily enjoyed?

This is why virginity is more important for women to keep than men. What I'm trying to say is that as a responsible guy, though I'm not a virgin myself, if I happen to date a virgin right now, I will make sure I hold myself till we marry before sleeping with her, but if she's not a virgin, I just can't wait.
If I am going to marry you, then it means your body will soon belong to me. But if you've already given it to others, and after meeting me you suddenly have sense and tell me to wait till marriage, just because other men slept with you without marrying you then you are simply PUNISHING YOUR NEXT FOR THE MISTAKES OF YOUR EX.

Imagine if you are a car dealer, then some people visit your car stand without money, and you allow them to test drive your car even when they don't show any seriousness to buy... After they finished test driving and left, you see someone coming with money and looks serious to buy, but you suddenly have sense and tell him buy first before test driving. How will this potential buyer regard you if he knows that other people had already test driven your car and left without buying it?

This is the mentality that makes a lot of men find it difficult to wait until marriage. Keep your virginity till you meet the right man, and men will learn to wait and marry first before sleeping with you. In the olden days, many men only have sex after marriage because they met many girls as virgins.
Think about this!

Drops mic!

Preshieben:
whether nice or not
I think all of them are the same

I'll just ghost em

You wanna ghost men and still want marriage. If you don't change you need no soothsayer to tell you that you're about chasing the wind.
Anyway I wish you what you wish yourself.

qtguru:


How naive

Preshieben:

Omoh...
I know I'm not supposed to be worried but I have to

Whenever a guy approaches me,no matter how nice and lovely he looks,
All I think is,he just wants to explore my pussie and move on..and gbamm I'll just ghost him and this goes on with every guy I meet.

I've had failed relationships, infact the last one ended when I discovered my ex bf was cheating on me with my cousin that I'm four years older than and I'm sure that I've moved on completely but I don't seem to trust any guy any longer

The way I reject men who approach me cos all I think is "he only wants to fvck you, nothing else" is sooo alarming, and I fear if I continue like this,I may not marry

How do I change this mentality?
How do I change my mindset about men abeg?

Remember u do girls too , so ?
It's normal , that's the mentality u be having about men