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Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by imonisweet(m): 6:00am On Mar 22, 2022 |
How much be my salary |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Johnnyboy6757(m): 6:14am On Mar 22, 2022 |
BluntNigerian:make I advised you, but I know say na wetin de your mind u go still do. I was in your shoes few months back, until I took the bull by the horns. I am a very busy guy due to work n my wife took advantage of that. Spending money anyhow n demanding for more, when I question her she will pick out quarrels telling me to go buy tins next time for the how. Ok I created time for my self wrote out a full list for everything in the house that will last for a month. She was expecting the same money I do give her for shopping, but unfortunately I went to the market bought things enough it even lasted a month plus. With the Same money I do give heroooo, I even had change left. Now she is even looking for a way to convince me again to be giving her the money. Sometimes women think money is being pluck from trees. The don't know the value until you take away that privilege.. So crate time and do the same, don't quarrel or argue with her, just surprise her. 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Shancca: 6:22am On Mar 22, 2022 |
BluntNigerian: As this reach for you to come tell us for Nairaland, e mean say your wife is supporting nor appreciating your hard works |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by MASTERMIND04(m): 6:37am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Some men sef. Na the guy cause everything. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by dnawah(m): 6:40am On Mar 22, 2022 |
BluntNigerian:I had the same case, when I started buying things by myself,she went and told the mum.50% of our food always goes the the dustbin.some women r ungreatful,50k +1k*28 days=78k.call a family meeting,tell ur people and her people. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Malory: 6:45am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Onyeziokwu:Men should open their eyes simple |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Passionate1(m): 6:55am On Mar 22, 2022 |
A good wife and wellbeing is a man's best abundance. . .your wife na trash, selfish, poisonous and foolish. . She has a job . .she should be supportive and very understanding. . |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by NoToPile: 7:08am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Roseey0: The bolded is true, my own solution for all this chop money matters is let him manage the money or buy all the stuufs just for one month simple, the perishable one to be bought in bits he will reserve the money and buy them when it's time to use them, these things are not that hard. Some will want premium meal always on average money it can't work like that. Even people that are not yet married or even go to market to buy things are jumping up and down the thread. Food is a major expense even more than house rent and its cost is highly underared 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Passionate1(m): 7:13am On Mar 22, 2022 |
obyikye: Which stupid oil dey in head? If I may ask, what do u bring to the table in ur marriage? |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Nobody: 7:48am On Mar 22, 2022 |
When you were warned of those kind of your money is our money and my money is my money ladies, you probably did not heed the warnings. From the write up, how can you give a lady that works 1k for tp to work daily, probably 22-25k monthly? Is it that her salary can’t support her tp system or just plain stupidity? If her salary can’t support her tp, she has no business working. Hyper inflation has clearly made times hard, but in a situation where most food items has been bought in bulk, all bills paid at home, gas filled as well, 50k to just make the food and miscellaneous is very okay for an average family of 4. If a man/woman gets it wrong in marriage, he/she is finished. You clearly married a greedy thief and you aided and abetted the rubbish. Can you enumerate how her income comes in as a support system in any way. Her kind will try to broke shame you to go kill yourself before your time whereas what you have given is averagely more than okay given the bulk provisions you have made alongside. NB: A man/woman should by all means pamper and spoil their spouses when there is absolute more than enough. It’s different from turning marriage into a parasitic relationship. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by ocloud(m): 7:56am On Mar 22, 2022 |
This person must be an ibo man. No yoruba man will allow such rubbish. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by jjmk(m): 8:15am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Truth be told, your wife is wicked and a thief. No other way to sugar coat it. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Ijaya123: 8:26am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Cardealer2021: No be until you enter brothel person dey carry ashawo |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by newdawn2017(f): 8:30am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:then to d death it is, so be it because he could still be head of the family which in mutual respect to his wife, clear boundaries in place & receive financial, emotional, mental, spiritual & psychological support from his wife. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by advanceDNA: 8:38am On Mar 22, 2022 |
DKM123: She should add the rest....the write up said she works.. The mad drops 50k and separately pays all their bill, fills the gas, still buys food like bag of rice...and still give the woman 22-26k for transport to work...work that’s she spends the money only.. How much is the man earning.. U want him to die becos he want to give the wife what will be enough without adding anything from her pocket....that’s witchcraft.. She even has nephew chopping extra food... |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Davesaves(m): 8:39am On Mar 22, 2022 |
a typical Nigerian social media user Cardealer2021: |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Davesaves(m): 8:41am On Mar 22, 2022 |
A typical Nigerian social media user.. Goldbw122: |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Sam2310(m): 8:47am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:bros, sha most married folks only show pride to single folks per say their dey carry load for head pass. Make God help us all. 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by obyikye(f): 8:53am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Let the man take the responsibility of shopping for one month and let her only the cooking. The rate at which foodstuffs prices escalates is alarming, trust me, no amount is hardly enough. I am talking to you from experience, this is one of the numerous issues experienced by young couple. For those calling for the head of the woman, should at least give her benefit of doubts. There is always two sides to a story.... [quote author=Uyoukowise post=111248961][/quote] |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by pedrilo: 8:56am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:@op, if you fail to adopt this template in your home effective immediately, you may not live to tell the story. I pray you act fast. I am a family man and dis is he norm in my home and it's absolutely amazing |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by obyikye(f): 8:56am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Exactly, he should go to market at least for one month, if the wife is extravagant or prudent he will find out by so doing. Johnnyboy6757: 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by obyikye(f): 9:06am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Hmmm, this aspect you were saying doesn't work is the main issue and problem, whether the money was given in bulk or not, it will still be 1600 daily... And that's like 1600 for morning, afternoon and night. Op, I advise you calm down, draw food timetable for your home and know exactly what each meal cost then multiple it by the number of days in a month. These are some of the things taught in marriage course. Finance if not treated wisely racks havoc and disharmony like this. [quote author=Uyoukowise post=111248961][/quote] |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Classickj(m): 9:22am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Goldbw122: Baba what part of English "" She also working - a good work for that matter, and I give her 1k everyday for transport "" don't you understand |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by KIDfurniture(m): 9:22am On Mar 22, 2022 |
She willl surely send you to ur early grave.. imagine paying her allowance every month. Your own wife. I tot it was a joint effort. Just go and dig ur grave down. BluntNigerian: |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by mblarry1(m): 9:41am On Mar 22, 2022 |
My own is even worse off, though not married yet but she got a child for me, last Sunday very early around 6am brought the child to my house scatter everywhere in the living, I was like God, while all this ponmo girls full everywh? Tod masef not getting married again will just Tek gud care of ma son. Olivertwist1985: |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by purpleicious(f): 9:49am On Mar 22, 2022 |
It's very okay |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Thinktwicemybro: 10:00am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Didi2d:The OP is a lair. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Amhappy(f): 10:04am On Mar 22, 2022 |
50k is not plenty but that's not the problem. I think you wife thinks you make a lot more than you do. You do not share financial information with her. If she know your plans,she may be more open in supporting you. Also you may not know her contribution. That 50k may not be all is used to provide the food you eat in that house. I remember when my husband use to give me 20-30k for feeding because i do not complain he thought it's more than enough. But i supplement with 50k every month. When he will be chopping the big sized chicken and meat he will think it's only his money. The day he got me annoyed i asked him to go to market himself and he came back just buying a few things. Finally he asked "how do you do it". Sit and discuss with your wife about feeding and financial issues and straighten things out. If you want listen to all the small small kids here telling you to stop feeding your family. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by BluntCrazeMan: 10:31am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Thinktwicemybro:Mista-man, go back and read the original post again |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by BluntCrazeMan: 10:36am On Mar 22, 2022 |
MPESA:He is not married yet. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Evaloyal2J(f): 11:39am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Honestly some women are not reasonable. Imagine taking #50k out of struggling business every month plus other expenses. You even buy the bag of rice and settle other bills. And did you just said that she works and you give her 1k for transport daily? Gush! I give up! |
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