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Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by kmaster007: 6:55pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Aswear you be man... BluntNigerian: |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Nobody: 6:57pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
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Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Cardealer2021(m): 7:14pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Mercychen:He said the money is for food and her upkeep |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Nobody: 7:26pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Cardealer2021: The money is for condiments to cook food not food because the man said he buys bag of rice and other food stuff. 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by 4everyoungpresh(f): 7:31pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
But the OP said the wife works... Can't she collect from her own salary and add to balance the equation? My Bible tells me, one shall chase a thousand,two sha chase ten thousands. Abeg the man de try. Let her manage or better still add from her salary. Mercychen:[/quote] 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Nobody: 7:34pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
4everyoungpresh: Don't mind her. I just clearly avoided that part ( that she works) because I don't want it to look as if truly 50k is not enough by saying she should add hers. Its enough and if she feels it's not, then hers can be used to augment it. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by 4everyoungpresh(f): 7:37pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
The thing tire me oh I go give you transportation,month end I go give you upkeep join, you no go gimme from your own salary ??te author=degamonn Ppp=111236175]The other parts are not really my concern here neither do have advice in that respect. My concern is somebody who is working and she requires 1k every day as transportation cost of which proceeds are not used to the benefit of your immediate family is what baffles me. You do that for love right? clap for yourself [/quote] 3 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Cardealer2021(m): 7:40pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Mercychen:Okay maybe I didn't read well 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by efficiencie(m): 7:45pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
BluntNigerian: Stop sending her money. Instead of sending her money make all the purchases that is needed for the house and please keep the receipts. Let her use her own money to address her own needs. An ungrateful wife deserves nothing but chastisement. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by kpompey: 7:46pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Cardealer2021: People like you are the irresponsible husband, 75% sure if we investigate this. #1 he will not drop.Full of mouth. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by lalastimlala: 7:46pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
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Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by SocialJustice: 7:47pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Everyday complaints, we no dey there when una marry o. Leave us the fxck alone. 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by jaxxy(m): 7:49pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
A woman that can't manage limited resources in hard times is completely useless to man. She is a disaster waiting to happen. She is an enemy of state/home. A nagging leech. Divorce the irritant already. Me I will tell her to return to her father's house and give me space. Let her go and learn home management skills b4 coming back. U must cut ur coat according to ur material. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Meteng: 7:49pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
You’re a simp. SIMple 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by efficiencie(m): 7:49pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Cardealer2021: Reason wetin. You for sey make d man go kill himself na. Did you read the post? The man foots all other bills and buy food for the home outside the 50k. That woman is an ingrate and if she is not careful a side chick that has not seen 30k per month will snatch her man easily. She had better snap out of that childish mentality and start being a wife. Wives support their husbands and not constitute a threat to his wellbeing. She is lucky! 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Sureplug123(m): 7:49pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
BluntNigerian:most Nigerian women don't like spending their money. 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by joetem(m): 7:50pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
BluntNigerian: Be grateful to God that you discover what will kill you early. Your peace of mind is trampled upon, ur finances is getting crushed. When u go broke finally , she will leave u eventually. Why not save ur self headache. Be intentional about ur health and well being, stop giving her money. Divide the responsibility of the house, let her know her share, stop giving her tfare, let her be responsible too. You wont know how heavy the burden is untill u start paying school fees. If she wont take any responsi ility. Tell her to leave or tell her to go on break at her fathers house so u can gain ur sanity back.... Take heed before you BE-GONE 7 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by MrMcJay(m): 7:50pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
My former boss once told me never to carry a woman who doesn't earn her own money into the house. Even if you give her a billion per month, such lady will never appreciate the value of that amount as she doesn't work for money. Let the man get another job for his wife on the Island, let her be doing 4 hours traffic movement to and from work every day. At the end of the month, she gets paid like 70k. If she does that job for 2 months, when next you give her 30k, she will be looking at you like Obi Cubana. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by lalastimlala: 7:51pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
She married you only because she wants a man she can depend on 100%. She go still dey borrow her ex boyfriend 10k weekly. You better divorce her before she ruins you. Ibo men too dey love I swear. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by na2016: 7:51pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
OP: I have read a few comments on page 1 and I must say some of them are not married. I must commend you that u are really trying. As for your wife, make her know the need to manage and work with the amount you give her. You have to be strict about this. You said she works and that you give her 1k per day for transport, if she is still rigid on her stance, stop giving her the transport fair and add it to the feeding money. 6 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Amalekki: 7:51pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Cardealer2021:What if 50k is all he could afford for now? Yes you could be spending more than 50k a week now, does that mean you start committing crime if you can only afford 15k a week? You live according to what you have, you prioritize what is most important and find cheap alternatives to your needs. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Newton2024: 7:51pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Mercychen:She might be saving. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Elliotwaveforec: 7:51pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
... and she works too with a good salary; and she doesn't contribute kobo to family expenses. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by safarigirl(f): 7:51pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
It is just I and my sister living together, she has to go to market once every month and she spends an average of 40k/month. Along the line foodstuff may finish, she may not buy everything we need, so, I supplement by buying every other food or grocery item. Total, the both of us could spend about 70k in a month on feeding. Your wife has a job and she cannot add to the 50k? Rather she still collects 1k transport. So, what does she use her salary for? To feed the rest of her family that is not living with you guys? Una dey really marry characters sha, I'm always amazed. 14 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by patrickcollins: 7:51pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Goldbw122:Pls read the write up again before proferring solutions 5 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by zedegit: 7:51pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
BluntNigerian: He doesn't need advice. As he made his bed let him sleep on it. It's obvious he spoilt his wife. He saw the entitlement mentality but never delt with it. 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by safarigirl(f): 7:52pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
MrMcJay: You no read the story complete The wife has a job, she's just greedy 4 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Kajaard: 7:52pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
MrMcJay: You nairalanders only read headlines and rush to contribute. The wife works and has a good job. 4 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Camelot65: 7:52pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Goldbw122:You didn't read the write up 5 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by hupo: 7:52pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
You have done your best Man! Well done. For the fact that she work leaves so much to worry about. Call a Family meeting. Invite two persons from your end and two from hers. Case closed- the will see the end of the problem. .. .. Please He Needs Advice.[/quote] |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Harddiskng(m): 7:52pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
I don’t know how people go into relationships with a burden instead of a co-burden bear |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by veron002: 7:53pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Cardealer2021:u ll understand life when u get married. This topic is obviously not meant for u 4 Likes |
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